Your Courageous Life podcast

Kate Swoboda
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Welcome to the Your Courageous Life podcast, where we talk about psychology and actionable tools for creating better habits, cultivating discipline, and practicing courage. Using a biopsychosocial lens, you'll learn the tools for creating a better life and developing more grit and emotional resilience. Want more resources? Head to https://www.yourcourageouslife.com/begin .

  1. 6d ago

    Ep 183: How to face the feeling of 'not good enough' and dismantle it

    It's one of the oldest problems to have, and one of the hardest to untangle: feeling like you're not good enough. Technically, you know that you "should" feel like you're enough, yet there are times when our internal criticisms and feelings of unworthiness can be overwhelming.  This is a core fear that I work on with myself as well as with my coaching clients, and it's an ongoing one. We can feel good enough about ourselves in one domain, and then feel like everything is all wrong in another, or we can feel good enough until life throws us an overwhelming challenge that causes us to question everything. Let's get into the practical, evidence-based strategies for how to face the fear of not being good enough -- and I promise, no "just recite affirmations and hope for the best" with this one. 🚨 This isn’t just a podcast—it’s your wake-up call. If you’ve been smiling through the grind, holding back your truth, or checking every box while something inside you feels like it’s suffocating— it’s time to start a living practice of courage: → Rewire your relationship to fear:  Courageous Living® Program → Join a life-changing program, to become a life-changing coach:  CLCC → Build a business that feels like YOU:  The Coaching Blueprint® → Get the real-real on becoming a life coach:  The Craft of Coaching Podcast Start now:  YourCourageousLife.com  Social: 📸 Instagram | 🎵 TikTok | 📺 YouTube | 📌 Pinterest Please note...while this podcast may discuss protocols to improve mental or physical health, listeners should always consult a qualified provider before following any advice or undertaking any changes to their lifestyle.

  2. Sep 7

    Ep 182 - How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others. Why You're Not Behind — You're Just Comparing Yourself to the Wrong Thing

    It's 9:40 PM and you're four scrolls deep into someone else's highlight reel — the promotion, the marathon, the kitchen you've quietly wanted for years — and that familiar drop hits: I should be further along than this. In this episode, we're breaking down how to stop comparing yourself to others, starting with something that might surprise you: comparison isn't a character flaw. It's one of the oldest, most well-documented things the human mind does. We look at the research behind why humans are wired to measure ourselves against the people around us, why the direction of a comparison matters more than the fact that you're making one, and why this feels so much more relentless now than it did a generation ago — your very old wiring is being run against a very new, curated environment. We'll also walk through a reframe that changes the whole relationship: what if the sting of comparison isn't telling you that you're behind, but telling you what you actually want? You'll leave with two concrete questions to ask the next time that familiar drop shows up so that you can catch the story before you start to live inside it. 🚨 This isn’t just a podcast—it’s your wake-up call. If you’ve been smiling through the grind, holding back your truth, or checking every box while something inside you feels like it’s suffocating— it’s time to start a living practice of courage: → Rewire your relationship to fear:  Courageous Living® Program → Join a life-changing program, to become a life-changing coach:  CLCC → Build a business that feels like YOU:  The Coaching Blueprint® → Get the real-real on becoming a life coach:  The Craft of Coaching Podcast Start now:  YourCourageousLife.com  Social: 📸 Instagram | 🎵 TikTok | 📺 YouTube | 📌 Pinterest Please note...while this podcast may discuss protocols to improve mental or physical health, listeners should always consult a qualified provider before following any advice or undertaking any changes to their lifestyle.

  3. Aug 17

    Ep 181: Why do I overthink everything? You're Not Broken — You're Just Overthinking Everything (Here's Why)

    It's 11:47 PM and you're replaying a text message for the fourth time, drafting responses you'll never send, rehearsing a conversation that hasn't happened yet. Then comes the second thought: what's wrong with me that I can't stop? Why am I overthinking this? Nothing's wrong with you. In this episode, we're unpacking your question--why do I overthink everything--and how the real lens here is how your brain is trying to protect you. "Overthinking" is actually deep, valuable processing that's been mislabeled as a flaw, and we'll identify the specific point where thinking stops being preparation and starts becoming a loop that freezes you instead of moving you forward. This one draws on research into the psychology of worry and rumination to make the case that your overactive mind isn't a personality defect — it's an old strategy that's overdue for an update.  🚨 This isn’t just a podcast—it’s your wake-up call. If you’ve been smiling through the grind, holding back your truth, or checking every box while something inside you feels like it’s suffocating— it’s time to start a living practice of courage: → Rewire your relationship to fear:  Courageous Living® Program → Join a life-changing program, to become a life-changing coach:  CLCC → Build a business that feels like YOU:  The Coaching Blueprint® → Get the real-real on becoming a life coach:  The Craft of Coaching Podcast Start now:  YourCourageousLife.com  Social: 📸 Instagram | 🎵 TikTok | 📺 YouTube | 📌 Pinterest Please note...while this podcast may discuss protocols to improve mental or physical health, listeners should always consult a qualified provider before following any advice or undertaking any changes to their lifestyle.

  4. Aug 3

    Ep 180 - Stuck in Negative Thinking and Self-Doubt? Here's what you do.

    Negative thinking and self-doubt are at their worst when life hands you back-to-back difficult circumstances. So what do you do to manage the negative thinking and self-doubt at a time when things are genuinely difficult? That's exactly what we're exploring in this episode--but from a place of genuine coping, not putting a bow on everything to make it look prettier than it actually is. Let's talk about the balance between not censoring the truth, and recognizing that sometimes negative thinking and self-doubt can obscure what's really going on, looking for patterns that bring self-awareness without the self-blame, and leaning into the things that really help you survive during challenging times. 🚨 This isn’t just a podcast—it’s your wake-up call. If you’ve been smiling through the grind, holding back your truth, or checking every box while something inside you feels like it’s suffocating— it’s time to start a living practice of courage: → Rewire your relationship to fear:  Courageous Living® Program → Join a life-changing program, to become a life-changing coach:  CLCC → Build a business that feels like YOU:  The Coaching Blueprint® → Get the real-real on becoming a life coach:  The Craft of Coaching Podcast Start now:  YourCourageousLife.com  Social: 📸 Instagram | 🎵 TikTok | 📺 YouTube | 📌 Pinterest Please note...while this podcast may discuss protocols to improve mental or physical health, listeners should always consult a qualified provider before following any advice or undertaking any changes to their lifestyle.

  5. Jul 6

    Ep 179 - Picking yourself back up after setbacks

    In life, we're going to have setbacks--job losses, health issues, death, breakups--things that "take us out of the game" of our usual flow of life and sometimes even have us feeling lost, grieving, derailed. So how do you pick yourself up again after a setback? If you're navigating this and definitely do NOT want any of the, "Just give it time" advice, this podcast episode is going in a different direction, talking about what it's like to be in the messy space of trying to literally pick yourself back up, again. We'll get into not just the actions to take but importantly, the ways to allow yourself a full process, with no rush or pressure to hurry up and "get back to normal" at a time when your "new normal" is being defined. 🚨 This isn’t just a podcast—it’s your wake-up call. If you’ve been smiling through the grind, holding back your truth, or checking every box while something inside you feels like it’s suffocating— it’s time to start a living practice of courage: → Rewire your relationship to fear:  Courageous Living® Program → Join a life-changing program, to become a life-changing coach:  CLCC → Build a business that feels like YOU:  The Coaching Blueprint® → Get the real-real on becoming a life coach:  The Craft of Coaching Podcast Start now:  YourCourageousLife.com  Social: 📸 Instagram | 🎵 TikTok | 📺 YouTube | 📌 Pinterest Please note...while this podcast may discuss protocols to improve mental or physical health, listeners should always consult a qualified provider before following any advice or undertaking any changes to their lifestyle.

  6. Jun 23

    Ep 178 - My Dad is Gone: How I'm Navigating Grief + Loss

    Today's episode lands from a personal space--my father recently passed. The entire process of being with him in the hospital in his final days and then letting him go has been some parts profound but with the shock of grief it's often been brutal. So what do you turn to, to navigate grief and loss? I'm sharing how I'm taking tiny baby steps that respect my capacity from one day to the next (spoiler alert: I fail and flail, often feel "irrational") while continuing to press forward. If you've lost a job, a pet, a friend, a beloved family member--you know that grief is no ordinary experience and it differs from person to person. In this episode I hope that you find solace in knowing that you aren't alone. 🚨 This isn’t just a podcast—it’s your wake-up call. If you’ve been smiling through the grind, holding back your truth, or checking every box while something inside you feels like it’s suffocating— it’s time to start a living practice of courage: → Rewire your relationship to fear:  Courageous Living® Program → Join a life-changing program, to become a life-changing coach:  CLCC → Build a business that feels like YOU:  The Coaching Blueprint® → Get the real-real on becoming a life coach:  The Craft of Coaching Podcast Start now:  YourCourageousLife.com  Social: 📸 Instagram | 🎵 TikTok | 📺 YouTube | 📌 Pinterest Please note...while this podcast may discuss protocols to improve mental or physical health, listeners should always consult a qualified provider before following any advice or undertaking any changes to their lifestyle.

  7. Jun 1

    Ep 177 - When Money Fear Takes Over: How to Work Through Financial Anxiety Without Bypassing What's Real

    Financial anxiety is not just a mindset problem. Sometimes it's a reasonable response to real conditions — a volatile economy, rising costs, job insecurity, a savings account that isn't where you wish it were. Telling yourself to "think positive" about money when the fear is grounded in something real doesn't make the fear go away. It just adds a layer of self-gaslighting to an already hard situation. This episode is for anyone whose relationship with money has gotten harder lately — not because of a personal failure, but because the economic climate genuinely warrants some concern. Let’s explore what financial anxiety is actually made of, how to separate the signal from the spiral, and how to take grounded action even when the financial picture isn't as clear or stable as you'd like. This isn't about toxic positivity around money. It's about learning to face your financial reality with courage rather than avoidance — and finding what's actually within your control when a lot feels like it isn't. Money fear doesn't have to run the show. Here's how to work with it instead. 🚨 This isn’t just a podcast—it’s your wake-up call. If you’ve been smiling through the grind, holding back your truth, or checking every box while something inside you feels like it’s suffocating— it’s time to start a living practice of courage: → Rewire your relationship to fear:  Courageous Living® Program → Join a life-changing program, to become a life-changing coach:  CLCC → Build a business that feels like YOU:  The Coaching Blueprint® → Get the real-real on becoming a life coach:  The Craft of Coaching Podcast Start now:  YourCourageousLife.com  Social: 📸 Instagram | 🎵 TikTok | 📺 YouTube | 📌 Pinterest Please note...while this podcast may discuss protocols to improve mental or physical health, listeners should always consult a qualified provider before following any advice or undertaking any changes to their lifestyle.

  8. May 26

    Ep 176 - Hope Without the Gaslighting: The Real Difference Between Toxic Positivity and Genuine Hope

    "Just think positive." "Everything happens for a reason." "Focus on the good." If you've ever received that advice during a genuinely hard time and felt — not comforted, but somehow worse — you were not being ungrateful. You were accurately detecting something that doesn't actually help. This episode draws the line between toxic positivity and genuine hope. Not because positivity is bad, but because the forced, bypassing version of it is a specific kind of harm — one that asks people to perform okayness rather than actually move through difficulty. And in a world that keeps producing genuinely hard things to live through, knowing the difference matters enormously. If you've ever been curious about what the research *actually* says, I'm getting into Barbara Fredrickson's broaden-and-build theory of positive emotions, and drawing on two decades of coaching, and my own frank relationship with what it means to hold hope without lying. You'll leave this episode with a clear framework for telling the difference between positivity that helps and positivity that harms — and a grounded, evidence-based understanding of what genuine hope actually looks like when the thing you're hoping about is genuinely uncertain. This is not an anti-positivity episode. It is a pro-honesty episode. And it might change how you talk to yourself on the hardest days. 🚨 This isn’t just a podcast—it’s your wake-up call. If you’ve been smiling through the grind, holding back your truth, or checking every box while something inside you feels like it’s suffocating— it’s time to start a living practice of courage: → Rewire your relationship to fear:  Courageous Living® Program → Join a life-changing program, to become a life-changing coach:  CLCC → Build a business that feels like YOU:  The Coaching Blueprint® → Get the real-real on becoming a life coach:  The Craft of Coaching Podcast Start now:  YourCourageousLife.com  Social: 📸 Instagram | 🎵 TikTok | 📺 YouTube | 📌 Pinterest Please note...while this podcast may discuss protocols to improve mental or physical health, listeners should always consult a qualified provider before following any advice or undertaking any changes to their lifestyle.

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Welcome to the Your Courageous Life podcast, where we talk about psychology and actionable tools for creating better habits, cultivating discipline, and practicing courage. Using a biopsychosocial lens, you'll learn the tools for creating a better life and developing more grit and emotional resilience. Want more resources? Head to https://www.yourcourageouslife.com/begin .

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  • Creator
    Kate Swoboda
  • Years Active
    2018 - 2026
  • Episodes
    183
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 Your Courageous Life podcast
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