Big Fat Positive: Pregnancy and Parenting (BFP)

Laura Birek, Shanna Micko

Getting a big fat positive pregnancy test (your BFP!) is just the beginning of a wild, emotional and often funny ride into parenthood, and "Big Fat Positive" is here for you through it all. On this weekly podcast, hosts Shanna and Laura share their pregnancies and parenthood in real time, starting at just eight weeks pregnant. They tell hilarious true stories, tackle tough parenting topics, share favorite tips and products, explore the wild and wacky corners of parenthood, and bring in expert guests for trustworthy insight on pregnancy, babies, mental health and more. Whether you’re newly pregnant, navigating life with a newborn or deep into the parenting years, "Big Fat Positive" offers a smart, supportive mix of laughter, honesty and evidence-based information, plus the feeling of having two best mom friends in your corner, reminding you you’re not doing this alone. New episodes are released every Monday.

  1. 3d ago

    Ep. 413: Failing the Sniff Test

    In the special segment “Mom Confessions,” Laura and Shanna share the embarrassing or hilarious parenting experiences they have had recently, including an interaction with an unsuspecting stranger, an incident with a curious cat and more. Also, Laura celebrates her 10th wedding anniversary with an out-of-the-ordinary trip, and Shanna recaps a nail-biting end to her 7-year-old's softball season. Finally, the moms share their BFPs and BFNs for the week, including a piece of office equipment that had to be rationed like screen time. Shanna's kids are 7 and 10 years old, and Laura's kids are 7 years old and 5 years old. Topics discussed in this episode: • Taking your first overnight trip as a couple after having kids • Self-driving cars: would you try a Waymo? • When your child is facing a big moment and you're a nervous wreck • Kids with ADHD and visual tracking challenges in sports • Cats and kids: an unpredictable combination • Regulating your own emotions on a bad parenting day • Sleep disruption from enlarged adenoids in kids • Electric pencil sharpeners: a surprisingly divisive household item • Face painting at kids' sports events Products, links, resources mentioned in this episode: • The Line LA - Hotel that Laura and Corey went to for their anniversary • Waymo - Self-driving cars • Hard Fork - podcast that radicalized Laura on self-driving cars • Gwen - Restaurant that Laura and Corey went to for anniversary dinner • Martin Riese - Water sommelier • "Mom" by Meghan Trainor - Cece's walkup song • Spotify Jam • "Mr. Sun" by Raffi • "Grumpy Monkey" - Kid's book Shanna mentions • Robot Electric Pencil Sharpener • Face Paint Pens (Jim & Gloria) Past BFP episodes mentioned in this episode: • Ep. 407 - Where Shanna first talked about the Savannah Bananas San Diego trip • Ep. 410 - Where Laura first discussed Sebastian's ENT follow-up and upcoming ear tube surgery Connect with Us: • Become a Patreon member to access ad-free episodes, bonus content, live hangouts and more! patreon.com/bfppodcast • Follow us on social: Instagram, TikTok or Facebook at @bfppodcast • Join our Facebook community group for support and camaraderie on your parenting journey. • Visit our website: bigfatpositivepodcast.com • Email us: contact@bigfatpositivepodcast.com • Send us a voice message: speakpipe.com/bfppodcast If you enjoyed this episode, help spread the word by sharing the show or leaving a review. Thank you! Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    55 min
  2. May 25

    Ep. 412: The School Auction

    In the special segment "Out of Context," Laura and Shanna share random text messages they have sent or received that shed light on their parenting lives, including shocking elementary-school auction items, bizarre stovetop contraptions and more. Also, Shanna gives an update on her 7-year-old's daily medication routine, and Laura reports on a last-minute volunteering opportunity that turned into an hours-long commitment. Finally, the moms share their BFPs and BFNs for the week, including an exciting new parenting support program and a long-awaited Disneyland milestone. Shanna's kids are 7 and 10 years old, and Laura's kids are 7 and 5 years old. Topics discussed in this episode: • Helping your child get comfortable with a daily medicine routine • Whether or not to use a reward system to help your child take medicine • When volunteering at school becomes a whole "thing." • What is Parent-Child Interaction Therapy (PCIT)? • Picking your battles with neurodivergent kids • Shockingly inappropriate items in a school auction • Kids playing April Fools' Day pranks on their parents • Disneyland height requirements and the fast pass card hack Products, links, resources mentioned in this episode: • UCLA PCIT Program - Parent-Child Interaction Therapy individual and group sessions • Five Below - Shanna's treasure box supply sources • Wheel of Names - Shanna's homework rotation system • The Comeback - HBO show Laura watched while babysitting at Nora's • The Traitors - Peacock reality show (Nora's murder mystery party theme) • Highlights Magazine - Source of the April Fools' food prank activity Past BFP episodes mentioned in this episode: • Ep. 410 - Where Shanna talks about her struggle to get Cece to take her new daily medication • Ep. 411 - Where Laura's BFP was the Long Beach Grand Prix • Ep. 388 - Where Laura discussed switching the kids' schools Connect with Us: • Become a Patreon member to access ad-free episodes, bonus content, live hangouts and more! patreon.com/bfppodcast • Follow us on social: Instagram, TikTok or Facebook at @bfppodcast • Join our Facebook community group for support and camaraderie on your parenting journey. • Visit our website: bigfatpositivepodcast.com • Email us: contact@bigfatpositivepodcast.com • Send us a voice message: speakpipe.com/bfppodcast If you enjoyed this episode, help spread the word by sharing the show or leaving a review. Thank you! Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    1h 1m
  3. May 18

    Ep. 411: When Is It Time to Quit?

    Laura checks in on her 7-year-old's Little League season, and Shanna reports on a volunteer experience at her daughter's school that is somehow both underwhelming and overstimulating. Also, in the special segment "Loose Ends," Shanna and Laura give updates about topics they've talked about previously, including needy phases, screen time, hair care and more! Finally, the moms share their BFPs and BFNs for the week, including an exciting event in Southern California and an ordinary kitchen tool that can make food exciting for kids. Shanna's kids are 7 and 10 years old, and Laura's kids are 7 years old and 5 years old. Topics discussed in this episode: • Letting your partner take the lead on kids' activities • When your child refuses to go to their sports games and practices • Volunteering at your kids' school • Does Laura feel like switching her kids' school was worth it? • Handling your child's needy/clingy phases • Dealing with screen time setbacks • Tips for managing fine hair • Volunteering as team DJ • Fixing a broken tooth • Taking your kids to an exciting car racing event in Southern California • How an ordinary kitchen tool can make food fun for kids Products, links, and resources mentioned in this episode: • Grand Prix of Long Beach • OXO Peeler Past BFP episodes mentioned in this episode: • Ep. 388 - Laura shares her decision to switch her boys' schools. • Ep. 392 - Laura discusses Sebastian's emotional/needy phase. • Ep. 393 - Shanna talks about the fine hair subreddit. • Ep. 395 - Laura reports on the PlayStation being introduced to her kids. • Ep. 401 - Shanna talks about taking on the role of softball team DJ for the spring season. • Ep. 408 - Shanna reports on losing a tooth crown while flossing. Connect with Us: • Become a Patreon member to access ad-free episodes, bonus content, live hangouts and more! patreon.com/bfppodcast • Follow us on social: Instagram, TikTok or Facebook at @bfppodcast • Join our Facebook community group for support and camaraderie on your parenting journey. • Visit our website: bigfatpositivepodcast.com • Email us: contact@bigfatpositivepodcast.com • Send us a voice message: speakpipe.com/bfppodcast If you enjoyed this episode, help spread the word by sharing the show or leaving a review. Thank you! Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    50 min
  4. May 11

    Ep. 410: Rage Bait

    Shanna and Laura talk bizarre pregnancy infographics and shockingly bad mom "hacks" in the special segment "Internet Insanity." Also, Shanna recounts a tumultuous week of getting her 7-year-old started on a new medication, and Laura reports on some unexpected news from her 5-year-old's ENT appointment. Finally, the moms share their BFPs and BFNs for the week, including a spontaneous neighborhood adventure and a long-overdue outing to a beloved Los Angeles children's museum. Shanna's kids are 7 and 10 years old, and Laura's kids are 7 years old and 5 years old. Topics discussed in this episode: • Strategies for helping your child start a new, daily medication • Navigating ADHD medication side effects and adjustments • Figuring out if your child needs ear tubes put in • What are adenoids, and why do kids get them removed? • Terrible AI-generated health content online • Questionable parenting "hacks" on Facebook • Getting out of a rut: "capital A activities" for kids in Los Angeles Products, links, resources mentioned in this episode: • The ADHD Parenting Podcast • Ruchi Singh - Facebook creator of terrible AI pregnancy posts • Questionable kids' natural makeup hack • Questionable swim diaper hack • Hopia Like It - Filipino bakery Shanna discovered on a neighborhood walk with Cece • KidSpace Children's Museum - Laura's BFP outing in Pasadena Past BFP episodes mentioned in this episode: • Ep. 405 - Where Shanna and Laura talk about ADHD • Ep. 402 - Where Laura talks about taking Sebastian to the ENT to discuss the status of his ear tubes at age 5 • Ep. 266 - Where Laura reports on Sebastian's ear tube surgery at age 2 Connect with Us: • Become a Patreon member to access ad-free episodes, bonus content, live hangouts and more! patreon.com/bfppodcast • Follow us on social: Instagram, TikTok or Facebook at @bfppodcast • Join our Facebook community group for support and camaraderie on your parenting journey. • Visit our website: bigfatpositivepodcast.com • Email us: contact@bigfatpositivepodcast.com • Send us a voice message: speakpipe.com/bfppodcast If you enjoyed this episode, help spread the word by sharing the show or leaving a review. Thank you! Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    57 min
  5. May 4

    Ep. 409: Impulsive Decisions

    Laura reports on her family's rocky journey home from Mexico and the effects it had on her kids, and Shanna talks about how her daughter's adorable Easter egg hunt took an unexpected turn. Also, in the special segment "Throwback," Shanna shares two stories about how her impulsive decisions as a child disrupted her family's vacations. Finally, the moms share their BFPs and BFNs for the week, including a long-overdue errand Laura finally checked off her list and a spontaneous project Cece took on that made Shanna's heart sing. Shanna's kids are 7 and 10 years old, and Laura's kids are 7 years old and 5 years old. Topics discussed in this episode: • How to keep your kids occupied during a long travel day • Handling sibling jealousy during spring break • Taking kids to birthday parties when they're overtired and dysregulated • Sending your kids to day camp during school breaks • Impulsive childhood decisions • When best-laid vacation plans go wrong • Letting your child take ownership of a project Products, links, resources mentioned in this episode: • Johnny Rockets (Restaurant in the Cancun airport) • "Meat tenderizer in the acute treatment of imported fire ant stings" - Article from the Journal of the American Academy of Dermatology, 1987 • Pinetop, Arizona - Where Shanna's family vacationed • Best Jewelry and Watch Repair, Glendale — Laura's ring resizing recommendation Past BFP episodes mentioned in this episode: • Ep. 386 - Where Shanna shares the hack of keeping an Oh Shit kit in your car • Ep. 397 - Where Shanna talks about her girls attending "field trip" camp over winter break • Ep. 408 - Where Laura shares a Throwback story about the time her family went on vacation to an all-inclusive Club Med resort in Mexico Connect with Us: • Become a Patreon member to access ad-free episodes, bonus content, live hangouts and more! patreon.com/bfppodcast • Follow us on social: Instagram, TikTok or Facebook at @bfppodcast • Join our Facebook community group for support and camaraderie on your parenting journey. • Visit our website: bigfatpositivepodcast.com • Email us: contact@bigfatpositivepodcast.com • Send us a voice message: speakpipe.com/bfppodcast If you enjoyed this episode, help spread the word by sharing the show or leaving a review. Thank you! Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    55 min
  6. Apr 27

    Ep. 408: Land Cruise

    In the special segment "Throwback," Laura recounts a family trip to Club Med in Mexico when she was 13 that involved hypnosis, trapeze and forbidden love. Also, Shanna faces the consequences of packing too many family plans into one Saturday, and Laura shares the revelation that allowed her to fully enjoy her family's spring-break trip to Mexico. Finally, the moms share their BFPs and BFNs for the week, including late-night tooth trauma and more. Shanna's kids are 7 and 10 years old, and Laura's kids are 7 years old and 5 years old. Topics discussed in this episode: • Over-planning your weekend (and paying the price) • Travelling with a selective/picky eater • Vacationing at an all-inclusive resort with kids • Growing up at 13: crushes, trapeze, and the last family trip before everything changed • Dog training: getting the whole family on the same page • Dental health hacks for people who hate flossing Products, links, resources mentioned in this episode: • Dreams Aventuras Riviera Maya - The all-inclusive resort Laura and fam stayed at during their vacation in Mexico • Agoutis - the cute critters Laura's family saw during their trip • Waterpik Sonic-Fusion 2.0 toothbrush - The toothbrush Laura uses that gets her a gold star at the dentist Past BFP episodes mentioned in this episode: • Ep. 281 - Where Laura shares a Throwback story about the time her family found what they thought was a baby osprey while vacationing on the Jersey shore. Connect with Us: • Become a Patreon member to access ad-free episodes, bonus content, live hangouts and more! patreon.com/bfppodcast • Follow us on social: Instagram, TikTok or Facebook at @bfppodcast • Join our Facebook community group for support and camaraderie on your parenting journey. • Visit our website: bigfatpositivepodcast.com • Email us: contact@bigfatpositivepodcast.com • Send us a voice message: speakpipe.com/bfppodcast If you enjoyed this episode, help spread the word by sharing the show or leaving a review. Thank you! Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    52 min
  7. Apr 20

    Ep. 407: What's in Your Bag?

    In the brand-new special segment "What's in Your Bag?," Laura and Shanna dig deep to discover the hilarious items that only parents would have lurking at the bottoms of their purses and bags, including a soggy sensation that made Shanna recoil and the sad remains of a once-glorious creation that Laura remembers fondly. Also, Laura reports on her 5-year-old's progress in his new TK classroom, and Shanna checks in on her family's action-packed weekend in San Diego. Finally, the moms share their BFPs and BFNs for the week, including a fancy purchase Laura made just for herself and a dinner experience that Shanna was surprisingly delighted by. Shanna’s kids are 7 and 10 years old, and Laura’s kids are 7 years old and 5 years old. Topics discussed in this episode: • Transitioning your child to a new classroom mid-year • Kids' sports: what to expect from Little League at age 7 • Planning low-key family weekend trips in Southern California • What's really at the bottom of a mom's bag • Setting up a home sewing and craft room • Reclaiming pre-kids hobbies as a parent • Credit card points: a secret weapon for personal splurges • Taking your kids to live music at dinner Products, links, resources mentioned in this episode: • Savannah Bananas • Museum of Illusions • Margaritaville Hotel • Mission Beach • Belmont Park • Giggles candy • Owala water bottle • Deadpool • Brabantia Ironing Board • Teddy Swims • "As It Was" by Harry Styles Past BFP episodes mentioned in this episode: • Ep. 406 - Where Shanna talks about Owala water bottles vs. Stanleys • Ep. 404 - Where Laura talks about Sebastian transitioning into the TK classroom at his school Connect with Us: • Follow us on social: Instagram, TikTok or Facebook at @bfppodcast • Join our Facebook community group for support and camaraderie on your parenting journey. • Visit our website: bigfatpositivepodcast.com • Email us: contact@bigfatpositivepodcast.com • Send us a voice message: speakpipe.com/bfppodcast If you enjoyed this episode, help spread the word by sharing the show or leaving a review. Thank you! Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    50 min
  8. Apr 13

    Ep. 406: Mom Hacks for Homework, Laundry, Lost Keys and More!

    In the special segment "What the Hack?," Shanna and Laura share some of their favorite parenting tips and tricks, including ideas for making household laundry easier, making homework time more engaging and more! Also, Shanna has a surprising reaction to her daughter's softball schedule this season, and Laura's son has his first appointment with an Occupational Therapist. Finally, the moms share their BFPs and BFNs for the week, including a product that has changed Shanna's life for the better and a musical event that delighted Laura's entire family. Shanna’s kids are 7 and 10 years old, and Laura’s kids are 7 years old and 5 years old. Topics discussed in this episode: Handling your kids' extracurricular activity schedulesWhat is occupational therapy?Dealing with sibling jealousyClever parenting tips and tricks for laundry, oil stains, homework, dangerous dress-up clothes and moreBest water bottle everKid-friendly live concerts Products, links, resources mentioned in this episode: Helium balloons at StaplesOil stain hack on RedditCabinet door and drawer bumpersFluffy key fobiPhone Shortcuts appHow to: Automating a file to play on your iPhoneWheel of NamesCollapsible laundry hampersBare-bones stopwatchOwala water bottleRock and Roll Playground Past BFP episodes mentioned in this episode: Ep. 391 - Where Shanna talks about streamlining her kids' extracurricular-activity schedule Connect with Us Follow us on social: Instagram, TikTok or Facebook at @bfppodcastJoin our Facebook community group for support and camaraderie on your parenting journey.Visit our website: bigfatpositivepodcast.comEmail us: contact@bigfatpositivepodcast.comSend us a voice message: speakpipe.com/bfppodcast If you enjoyed this episode, help spread the word by sharing the show or leaving a review. Thank you! Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Getting a big fat positive pregnancy test (your BFP!) is just the beginning of a wild, emotional and often funny ride into parenthood, and "Big Fat Positive" is here for you through it all. On this weekly podcast, hosts Shanna and Laura share their pregnancies and parenthood in real time, starting at just eight weeks pregnant. They tell hilarious true stories, tackle tough parenting topics, share favorite tips and products, explore the wild and wacky corners of parenthood, and bring in expert guests for trustworthy insight on pregnancy, babies, mental health and more. Whether you’re newly pregnant, navigating life with a newborn or deep into the parenting years, "Big Fat Positive" offers a smart, supportive mix of laughter, honesty and evidence-based information, plus the feeling of having two best mom friends in your corner, reminding you you’re not doing this alone. New episodes are released every Monday.

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