MARK 10:32-45 32 They were on their way up to Jerusalem, with Jesus leading the way, and the disciples were astonished, while those who followed were afraid. Again he took the Twelve aside and told them what was going to happen to him. 33 "We are going up to Jerusalem," he said, "and the Son of Man will be betrayed to the chief priests and teachers of the law. They will condemn him to death and will hand him over to the Gentiles, 34 who will mock him and spit on him, flog him and kill him. Three days later he will rise." 35 Then James and John, the sons of Zebedee, came to him. "Teacher," they said, "we want you to do for us whatever we ask." 36 "What do you want me to do for you?" he asked. 37 They replied, "Let one of us sit at your right and the other at your left in your glory." 38 "You don't know what you are asking," Jesus said. "Can you drink the cup I drink or be baptized with the baptism I am baptized with?" 39 "We can," they answered. Jesus said to them, "You will drink the cup I drink and be baptized with the baptism I am baptized with, 40 but to sit at my right or left is not for me to grant. These places belong to those for whom they have been prepared." 41 When the ten heard about this, they became indignant with James and John. 42 Jesus called them together and said, "You know that those who are regarded as rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their high officials exercise authority over them. 43 Not so with you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, 44 and whoever wants to be first must be slave of all. 45 For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many." NIV 84 LESSON NOTES Jesus connects two seemingly opposite Old Testament figures that no one in a million years would have paired together: Daniel’s "Son of Man" (Daniel 7) and Isaiah’s "Suffering Servant" (Isaiah 53). He reveals that God's sovereign kingdom is established not through ruling over, but through serving under. In Mark 8, 9, and 10, we see a repeating pattern: Jesus predicts his suffering, the disciples give a "crazy" self-centered response, and Jesus teaches a lesson on discipleship and self-denial. On the road to Jerusalem, Jesus predicts his own death and resurrection three distinct times. With each prediction, the details become sharper, culminating in nine specific details about his upcoming passion in Mark 10. Jesus was never caught off guard; he resolutely chose the cross. Jesus issues a strict prohibition for his followers regarding leadership. While disciples can and should hold positions of authority, they are strictly forbidden from using that authority to rule "over" others. Kingdom leadership must look completely different from worldly leadership. The ultimate example of service is the Son of Man himself, who did not come to be served, but to serve. In God's kingdom, the King of all is the servant to all. His crown was made of thorns, his throne was a wooden cross, and the positions on his right and left were ultimately occupied by crucified criminals. DISCUSSION QUESTIONS 1. Icebreaker - what is the weirdest, most unusual food combination you love that other people might think is completely crazy? 2. William Barclay distinguished between crisis courage and "seeing it coming and going anyway" courage. Where in your life right now might God be asking you for the second kind? 3. Jesus states that leaders in his kingdom must be "servant of all" and "slave of all". In your workplace, family, or church, what does it practically look like to use a position of authority to serve under people rather than rule over them? 4. "Mark 10:45 is what turns Christianity into the gospel." How should the reality of Jesus giving his life as a ransom change the way we treat people who annoy, hurt, or inconvenience us this week? 5. "Jesus laid down his life for us; and we ought to lay down our lives for one another" (1 John 3:16). What's one concrete way you can lay down your life for someone else this week?