The Unapologetic Man Podcast: How to Meet, Attract, and Date More Women

Mark Sing
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Learn exactly how to talk to girls, how to approach women, how to get a girlfriend, how to get out of the friend zone, how to get a girl's phone number, how to build attraction, how to master the dating apps, and how to have sex with the women you want — all while becoming the most confident, masculine, and powerful version of yourself. Hosted by Mark Sing, an elite NLP dating coach for men, this show breaks down everything you need to master seduction, attraction, masculine frame, confidence, communication, mindset, inner game, charisma, social skills, flirting, body language, and emotional control. Whether you're trying to meet women in real life, improve your online dating game, or finally stop being the "nice guy" and start being the man women chase, you'll discover step-by-step strategies to win with dating, relationships, sex, self-development, success, and confidence — without apology. Each episode delivers powerful insights drawn from NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming), psychology, evolutionary biology, and social dynamics, teaching you how to command respect, ignite desire, and live like a high-value man. If you've ever searched "how to attract women," "how to flirt," "how to be confident," or "how to get girls to like you," you've just found your new favorite podcast.

  1. How to Date Tons of Chicks at Once (And Be a Good Person While Doing it)

    11H AGO

    How to Date Tons of Chicks at Once (And Be a Good Person While Doing it)

    In this candid throwback episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing tackles a question most dating coaches avoid: Is it possible to date multiple women without being immoral, manipulative, or breaking hearts? If you've ever felt guilty building attraction, worried about "leading women on," or struggled to balance abundance with integrity, this episode delivers a grounded, principled framework for doing it the right way. Drawing from real coaching experience and a listener email, Mark explains how to approach dating from a go-giver mindset, set honest expectations, avoid false promises, and understand where heartbreak actually comes from. You'll learn how to practice dating skills, build attraction, and filter for a high-quality partner, without lying, using women, or compromising your moral compass. Key Takeaways: - Why seduction is a skill, and how to build it ethically - The difference between giving value vs. "taking" from women - How to date with abundance while staying grounded and honest - How honesty can prevent heartbreak Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:00:45] – Quantity leads to quality: why abundance matters [00:02:40] – Bret's email [00:03:40] – The go-giver mindset vs. being a taker [00:08:12] – Example value-packed texts and gambits you can use [00:11:00] – How to break it off without hurting her [00:12:44] – Taking numbers and dates without false intent [00:14:12] – When sex creates emotional bonding [00:14:40] – The rule for sleeping with only one woman at a time [00:18:00] – The drop rule [00:21:40] – Episode Outro Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdvice #AbundanceMindset #MensDating #FemalePsychology #Attraction #Masculinity #Confidence #UnapologeticMan #DatingEthics #SelfImprovement

    22 min

  2. FEB 3

    GET THIS GOLD: 3 SUPER POWERFUL TOPICS to Talk About With Girls in The First Conversation

    In this high-impact throwback episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing breaks down three super powerful conversation topics that instantly boost attraction in the first conversation with a woman. If you've ever felt conversations stall, slipped into interview mode, or struggled to keep a woman emotionally engaged early on, this episode gives you practical tools to take control of the interaction. Using real-world experience and proven coaching insights, Mark explains how metaphysical and curiosity-driven topics pull women into their emotions, create intrigue, and position you as a confident, masculine leader. He also shares two bonus conversational gambits that spark fascination, avoid boredom, and ensure you always have compelling things to talk about on first contact. Key Takeaways: - Why interview-style conversations kill attraction instantly. - How to emotionally engage women in the first conversation. - Why teaching and mentoring increases perceived value. - Easy conversational topics women LOVE to talk about. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:00:47] – What MP (metaphysical) gambits are and why they work [00:01:48] – Why boring questions lead to instant rejection [00:04:49] – Gambit #1: The hand growth experiment [00:07:18] – Gambit #2: Plants, thoughts, and connection [00:10:10] – Gambit #3: Gratitude and physical benefits [00:12:49] – Bonus topic: EMF, technology, and awareness [00:15:00] – Bonus topic: The origin of the middle finger [00:16:26] – Recap of the talking points [00:19:19] – Episode Outro Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdvice #FirstConversation #FemalePsychology #Attraction #Masculinity #Confidence #ConversationSkills #UnapologeticMan #MensConfidence #SelfImprovement

    20 min

  3. JAN 27

    5 Truths About Women That Prove They're All Lunatics

    In this unfiltered throwback episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing shares five brutal truths about female attraction that he learned during his five years working as a nightclub bouncer. Through tens of thousands of real-world interactions, Mark explains how women actually respond to value, confidence, and social power, and why most men never see these dynamics clearly. Using wild stories, blunt honesty, and firsthand experience, Mark breaks down concepts like perceived value, preselection, emotional contradiction, and jealousy. He explains why attraction is never logical, why women can love and hate a man at the same time, and how improper behavior around other women can completely destroy your leverage if you don't understand the rules of the game. Key Takeaways: - Why perceived value is critical for attraction. - How preselection dramatically increases female interest. - Why women can emotionally love and hate a man simultaneously. - How to avoid triggering jealousy and chaos when multiple women are interested.. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Injury update and episode context [00:00:48] – Let's get you some girls! [00:03:19] – Mark's time as a bouncer [00:04:15] – Why abundance is so important [00:06:30] – Perceived value and social hierarchy [00:11:40] – Preselection and female attraction dynamics [00:14:01] – Love, hate, and emotional contradiction [00:16:45] – Obsession, jealousy, and extreme behavior [00:18:30] – The mistake of hooking up in front of other women [00:20:24] – Tell them they're different [00:23:03] – You need a stream of continuous hot girls [00:27:24] – Episode Outro Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdvice #FemalePsychology #Masculinity #Attraction #Confidence #DatingTruths #UnapologeticMan #MensConfidence #SelfImprovement

    28 min

  4. JAN 20

    3 Awesome Strategies to Get the First Kiss With a Girl (WITH NO AWKWARDNESS!!!)

    In this hard-hitting throwback episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing breaks down one of his most effective methods for creating a seamless, natural first kiss, the Slide and Kiss Method. This strategy is designed for moments where attraction is clearly present, but the kiss hasn't happened organically yet, and you need to confidently lead things forward without killing the vibe. Mark explains why the first kiss should feel spontaneous and memorable, how to properly read a woman's signals before escalating, and why men must lead while still calibrating to her level of interest. Using real-world experience, humor, and step-by-step instruction, he walks you through exactly how to execute this method in a way that feels confident, masculine, and smooth, while still allowing room to abort if the timing isn't right. Key Takeaways: - How to recognize clear signs that a woman wants to be kissed. - The step-by-step breakdown of Mark's patented Slide and Kiss Method. - How to recover smoothly if your timing is off. - Why women act as the "barometer" for escalation and timing. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Injury update and episode context [00:00:41] – Introduction to the Slide and Kiss technique [00:01:38] – Why natural, spontaneous kisses are superior [00:03:20] – Reading attraction and knowing when to escalate [00:05:49] – The Slide and Kiss Method explained [00:10:45] – How to properly execute the kiss [00:12:00] – The 80/100 rule and technique recap [00:15:41] – Why this method is so effective [00:18:24] – Episode Outro Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdvice #FirstKiss #MasculineConfidence #Attraction #DatingStrategy #Escalation #UnapologeticMan #MensConfidence #SelfImprovement

    19 min

  5. JAN 13

    I Broke My Hip ... Can't Walk ... Had Major Surgery | Here Are The 3 Ways I'll DOMINATE This Situation!

    In this special throwback episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing shares a raw, real-time update after breaking his hip, undergoing major surgery, and temporarily losing the ability to walk. Rather than letting the setback take him out, Mark uses it as a live case study in masculine perspective, resilience, and leadership under pressure. In this episode, Mark breaks down how powerful men dominate adversity by controlling their mindset, reframing calamities as growth catalysts, and refusing to collapse into victimhood when life hits hard. Using personal experience, philosophy, and real-world examples, he explains how challenges forge character, why suffering is unavoidable, and how choosing the right perspective determines whether hardship breaks you—or builds you into a stronger man. Key Takeaways: - Why life's worst moments are often your greatest growth opportunities. - How controlling your perspective determines your strength as a man. - Why suffering is unavoidable—but victimhood is optional. - How adversity builds character, confidence, and masculine presence.   Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Injury update and episode context [00:03:16] – Perspective as a masculine skill [00:05:44] – Calamity, growth, and character building [00:11:02] – How life's struggles can benefit you [00:14:22] – Choosing strength over victimhood [00:20:40] – You attract what you think [00:23:48] – Episode Outro Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula   About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #MasculineMindset #MentalToughness #Resilience #Leadership #FrameControl #SelfDevelopment #UnapologeticMan #Perspective #PersonalGrowth #Men'sMentality

    24 min

  6. JAN 6

    3 Advanced Frame Control Mind Hacks That Separate Beta Men From Real Leaders

    In this hard-hitting episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing breaks down 3 advanced frame control mind hacks that instantly separate beta men from real leaders in dating, attraction, and life. Frame control isn't a trick, it's the backbone of masculine presence, and most men destroy attraction without even realizing it by reacting emotionally, explaining themselves, or engaging with the wrong frames. In this episode, Mark shows you how high-value men maintain control by choosing what they engage with and what they ignore, using refusal to engage, strategic ignoring, and no response to shut down tests, flip power dynamics, and build attraction without chasing or qualifying themselves.   Key Takeaways: - Why frame control is the foundation of attraction. - How refusing to engage instantly raises your perceived value. - Why ignoring attraction-killing tests builds more desire than responding. - How no response over text flips the power dynamic in your favor.   Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:00:34] – 2026 message [00:01:48] – Why frame control is everything [00:06:22] – Refuse to engage (RTE) [00:12:10] – Ignore to control the frame (ITC) [00:19:52] – No response (NR) over text [00:22:32] – Advanced texting mind hack [00:26:12] – Episode Outro Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula   About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #FrameControl #DatingAdviceForMen #MasculineLeadership #AttractionPsychology #ConfidenceWithWomen #UnapologeticMan #SocialDynamics #TextGame #Seduction #DatingMindset

    27 min

  7. 12/30/2025

    How to Kiss 10+ Chicks This New Year's Eve (And Probably Get Laid Too)

    In this epic throwback episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing lays out a proven New Year's Eve game plan for kissing 10+ women in a single night and setting yourself up for far more than just a midnight smooch. New Year's Eve is one of the highest leverage nights of the year for meeting women, and most guys completely waste it by going in cold, staying stuck in their heads, or waiting for "the right moment." In this episode. Mark breaks down exactly how to prepare your mindset, build momentum from the moment you leave your house, and use simple, confident setups that make kissing multiple women feel natural, easy, and drama free. This is not about gimmicks or tricks. It's about state, delivery, and putting yourself in the flow of the night so attraction happens fast. Key Takeaways: - Why New Year's Eve massively amplifies attraction if you approach the night correctly. - How to warm up socially before you ever step into a bar or club. - Why being the social leader instantly separates you from needy, try hard guys. - The exact line Mark uses to secure multiple New Year's kisses after midnight.   Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:02:06] – 3 month coaching program review [00:05:54] – How to prepare your mindset before leaving the house [00:07:09] – Warming up with the open and eject technique [00:11:11] – Being the social hub instead of the guy seeking women [00:13:20] – Lining up the midnight kiss [00:15:34] – The exact phrase to get additional kisses after midnight [00:17:05] – Confidence, delivery, and why this works so consistently [00:22:15] – Episode Outro Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula   About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #NewYearsEve #DatingAdviceForMen #AttractionPsychology #ConfidenceWithWomen #MasculineMindset #UnapologeticMan #SocialDynamics #ColdApproach #DatingConfidence #Seduction

    23 min

  8. 12/23/2025

    7 Conversation Weapons That Flip Her Attraction on REALLY FAST

    In this direct episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing breaks down seven powerful conversational weapons that can rapidly spike a woman's attraction — without relying on canned lines, jokes, or forced humor. If you've ever thought "I don't know what to say to women", this episode is the antidote. Mark goes beyond vague advice like "be funny" or "elicit emotions" and gives you specific, field-tested conversational tools that create emotional engagement, intrigue, and attraction almost immediately.  From confident assumptions and emotional hooks to qualification, standards, and psychological alliance-building, this episode shows you how to move conversations out of boredom and into real momentum — fast. Key Takeaways: - Why asking the right emotionally charged questions beats small talk every time. - How confident assumptions (cold reads) instantly increase attraction. - Why making women qualify themselves flips the attraction dynamic in your favor. - How to create a subtle "us vs. them" alliance that bonds her to you psychologically. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:01:35] – The OQQP Method and reaching the social hook point [00:02:23] – Weapon #1: Spontaneity and reckless storytelling [00:03:02] – Weapon #2: Making assumptions about her (cold reads) [00:04:25] – Weapon #3: What she's secretly proud of [00:06:10] – Weapon #4: State what you don't like [00:07:56] – Weapon #5: Spirituality, meaning, and emotional depth [00:11:54] – Weapon #6: "What would you do without any chance of failure?" [00:12:38] – Weapon #7: Spotting who's authentic (and who isn't) [00:15:04] – Pattern interrupts, alliances, qualification, and attraction [00:19:20] – Bonus opener and final advice [00:20:45] – Episode Outro Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula   About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #ConversationSkills #AttractionPsychology #DatingAdviceForMen #ConfidenceWithWomen #SocialDynamics #MasculineMindset #UnapologeticMan #EmotionalAttraction #ColdReads #Qualification

    21 min
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Learn exactly how to talk to girls, how to approach women, how to get a girlfriend, how to get out of the friend zone, how to get a girl's phone number, how to build attraction, how to master the dating apps, and how to have sex with the women you want — all while becoming the most confident, masculine, and powerful version of yourself. Hosted by Mark Sing, an elite NLP dating coach for men, this show breaks down everything you need to master seduction, attraction, masculine frame, confidence, communication, mindset, inner game, charisma, social skills, flirting, body language, and emotional control. Whether you're trying to meet women in real life, improve your online dating game, or finally stop being the "nice guy" and start being the man women chase, you'll discover step-by-step strategies to win with dating, relationships, sex, self-development, success, and confidence — without apology. Each episode delivers powerful insights drawn from NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming), psychology, evolutionary biology, and social dynamics, teaching you how to command respect, ignite desire, and live like a high-value man. If you've ever searched "how to attract women," "how to flirt," "how to be confident," or "how to get girls to like you," you've just found your new favorite podcast.

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