Hilda's Shoulder

hildas shoulder

Welcome to Hildas Shoulder Pod cast.I am particular about Nigerian (Naija) relationships and marriages. If you are intending to marry a Nigerian or married to one I do hope my podcasts arm with knowledge to enjoy it better!

  1. 10/19/2024

    Marriage / Relationship as a crutch

    A crutch is any device that is used to aid mobility. Women should not use their relationships / marriages as crutches on the journey to self fulfilment. Self- fulfilment, purpose ,happiness emanate from self.

  2. 02/06/2024

    Power play - Mind games

    If you find yourself in a relationship that feels like a game of chess - its a good idea to confirm your feelings. A relationship should not be a power play. Exiting such a relationship may be one of the best ways to save you from emotional turmoil.

  3. 02/06/2024

    Possession in Relationships

    We need to learn that we cannot own people the way we own earthly things. We cannot "train" the way you would a dog. We can only encourage them to be the best version of themselves and embrace their individuality.

  4. 01/15/2024

    When he / she changes

    Sometimes, we look back in time and wonder why our partner or spouse has changed. It may be that they actually changed or we ourselves saw them differently. What is of importance is to manage our expectations of them and deal with who they are, not who we want them to be.

  5. 01/05/2024

    What you really want Part 2

    When you give expression to what you really want from your partner / spouse, your happiness level goes up a notch!

  6. 01/04/2024

    What you really want

    The feeling of being fulfilled in a relationship or marriage only comes when we have our head and heart boxes being ticked. A lot of people are unfulfilled because they may not be giving expression to their real wants. Dig deep to know what it is you really want out of the union!

  7. 12/28/2023

    Your spouse/ partner is not you!

    We are often blindsided into believing that it is only we our spouse /partner is more like us that the relationship will reach meaningful heights. We must do the work and find out how to reach our significant other ,whilst also making ourselves available to be found by them!

  8. 05/31/2023

    Apprasing your relationship

    Doing appraisals doesn't end at work.We must appraise our relationships too,so we dont lose or waste emotional energy, time and probably money. We must endeavour to go for what is best for us and not wallow in forever sad,painful, or messyland!

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Welcome to Hildas Shoulder Pod cast.I am particular about Nigerian (Naija) relationships and marriages. If you are intending to marry a Nigerian or married to one I do hope my podcasts arm with knowledge to enjoy it better!

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  • Creator
    hildas shoulder
  • Years Active
    2018 - 2024
  • Episodes
    65
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © hildas shoulder