PSR Podcast

Jonathan Daugherty
  • 4.4 (12)
  • Sexuality
  • Updated Weekly

Pure Sex Radio (PSR) seeks to help men, women, and families move from sexual brokenness to wholeness in Christ. Host, Jonathan Daugherty, has been working in sexual integrity ministry for over 20 years and brings his expertise and personal experience into each episode. Stephen Cervantes, aka Dr. Marriage, has over 30 years of counseling experience and provides daily thoughts for married men at DoctorMarriage.org. If you have questions, comments, or a suggestion for a topic, email us at psr@bebroken.org. Access video version on Vimeo.

  1. 2d ago

    Intimate Partner Betrayal Awareness Day 2026

    PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support! ---------- In this episode, I welcome back Andrea Rogers, a Board Certified Life Coach specializing in intimate partner betrayal trauma. Andrea shares her powerful personal story of discovering her husband's double life after 14 years of marriage, which eventually led her into coaching work.  We explore what intimate partner betrayal truly means, its devastating emotional and physical impacts—including PTSD-like symptoms—and why it's so isolating. Andrea also shares about the Intimate Partner Betrayal Awareness Day, observed annually on August 4th. This is a growing movement to bring visibility and community to those affected.  To learn more about Andrea and her resources, visit FullyAliveCoachingLLC.com and IPBAwareness.org. Topics Covered in this Episode:Personal experience with intimate partner betrayal and its impact on relationships.Definition and understanding of intimate partner betrayal and betrayal trauma.Emotional and psychological effects of betrayal trauma, including symptoms similar to PTSD.The isolating nature of betrayal and societal misconceptions surrounding it.The establishment and significance of Intimate Partner Betrayal Awareness Day.Misconceptions about preventing betrayal and the need for specialized support.The importance of community and support systems for healing from betrayal trauma.Distinction between betrayal trauma and other forms of relational conflict.Strategies for healing and first steps for those experiencing betrayal.The role of friends and family in supporting individuals dealing with betrayal trauma. More Resources:An Ember of Light by Andrea AminahWives Care Groups (Online)40 Days of Healing for Wives (online course)Related Podcasts: Is There Hope After Divorce Due to Sexual Betrayal? Online Care Groups for Wives Facing Betrayal TraumaHealing from Sexual Trauma and Coercive Control in Relationships ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and Spotify Follow us on our Vimeo Channel.

    Intimate Partner Betrayal Awareness Day 2026

  2. Jul 15

    9 Questions to Encourage Deeper Conversation and Connection

    PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries.  DEEP & WIDE: Please help us reach our mid-year fundraising goal of $77K by July 31st. No gift is too small! Partner with us at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support! ---------- In this episode, I sit down with my longtime friend Dr. Stephen Cervantes to explore a powerful communication tool for couples. Inspired by psychologist Aimee Moran's work with children, Stephen shares nine meaningful questions designed to spark deeper conversations beyond the typical "How was your day?" "Fine." exchange. From reflecting on daily blessings to spotting God at work, these questions build curiosity, emotional connection, and intimacy.  We also discuss how especially in marriages healing from betrayal, meaningful dialogue is a true sign of heart-level growth. These simple questions can genuinely transform how couples connect every day! For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org. Topics Covered in this Episode:Improving communication in marriages, particularly after sexual betrayal.Adapting questions originally designed for children to facilitate deeper conversations between couples.Encouraging emotional expression and moving beyond superficial responses.Discussing daily experiences, challenges, and personal growth within the context of marriage.The importance of creating a safe space for sensitive discussions, especially regarding mistakes and challenges.Fostering curiosity, care, and intimacy through meaningful dialogue.Recognizing and addressing emotional needs in relationships.The role of prayer and spiritual awareness in strengthening marital bonds.Highlighting the significance of noticing and appreciating daily moments and connections.Encouraging ongoing personal and relational growth through intentional questioning and dialogue. More Resources:40 Days of Oneness* by Stephen Cervantes131 Creative Conversations for Couples* by Jed JurchenkoLove Talk* by Les and Leslie ParrottRelated Podcasts:The Goal is ConnectingWorking Through Emotional Disconnection in MarriageAssumptions vs. Communication: The Battle for Relational Harmony *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and Spotify Follow us on our Vimeo Channel.

    9 Questions to Encourage Deeper Conversation and Connection

  3. Jul 10

    Three Moms Share Their Critical Conversations Experiences

    PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries.  DEEP & WIDE: Please help us reach our mid-year fundraising goal of $77K by July 31st. No gift is too small! Partner with us at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support! ---------- In this special edition of Family Time* (which we recorded right before Mother's Day), I sit down with Norma Q-Brown, our Family Care Director, and two incredible moms, Sonia and Carol, to talk about having critical conversations with kids around emotions and sexuality. They share their personal experiences using our ministry resources, including the Honest Talk game and Honest Talk book.  Together, we explore how building emotional awareness creates the trust needed for kids to open up about harder topics, and why grace, humility, and ongoing dialogue matter more than having all the answers. I thoroughly enjoyed this conversation and I think you will too. It is honest, yet hope-filled. If you are a parent in today’s world, you don’t have to be scared. *Family Time episodes are short, practical conversations to help parents feel more confident and competent in raising kids according to God’s design, even in a sex-saturated culture. Topics Covered in this Episode:Importance of emotional awareness in parenting.Tools and resources for facilitating difficult conversations with children.Experiences of mothers in using parenting resources effectively.The foundational role of emotions in discussing topics like sexuality.Building trust and open communication between parents and children.Normalizing ongoing conversations about sexuality rather than a single "talk."The impact of parental reactions on children's emotional development.Encouragement for parents to engage with their children's questions and concerns.The significance of using proper anatomical terms and age-appropriate discussions.The role of grace and community support in parenting challenges. Resources for Next Steps:Critical Conversation Online Course (free)Honest Talk* by John FortHonest Talk: The Game For more parenting podcasts, go to Bebroken.org/tp-pods and scroll to Family Bundles. *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and Spotify Follow us on our Vimeo Channel.

    Three Moms Share Their Critical Conversations Experiences

  4. Jul 8

    How Wives Can Heal by Befriending Their Triggers After Betrayal

    PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries.  DEEP & WIDE: Please help us reach our mid-year fundraising goal of $77K by July 31st. No gift is too small! Partner with us at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support! ---------- In this episode, I sit down with Ashley Jameson from Pure Desire to explore how wives can navigate healing after sexual betrayal, particularly when dealing with emotional triggers. Ashley shares vulnerably from her own recovery journey, explaining what triggers are, how they affect our nervous system, and why "befriending" them is more powerful than suppressing them.  We discuss rebuilding intuition after gaslighting, setting healthy boundaries, and practical grounding tools. Ashley reminds us that healing is possible and that connecting with a supportive community is absolutely essential for the journey forward. To learn more about Ashley, visit PureDesire.org. Topics Covered in this Episode:Healing journey for wives experiencing sexual betrayalUnderstanding and managing emotional triggersThe concept of "befriending your triggers"The impact of betrayal on intuition and gut feelingsImportance of validating feelings and investigating triggersSetting boundaries for personal safety and well-beingCommon triggers that heighten anxiety in betrayed wivesPractical tools for grounding and emotional regulationThe role of community and support in the healing processEmpowerment through understanding triggers and making informed decisions More Resources:Online Wives Care GroupsUnfiltered Podcast with Ashley and HeatherFree Wives Care WebinarRelated Podcasts:Forgiveness and Grief in Betrayal Trauma HealingRelapse Safety Plan for Wives Healing from Betrayal TraumaOnline Care Groups for Wives Facing Betrayal Trauma ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and Spotify Follow us on our Vimeo Channel.

    How Wives Can Heal by Befriending Their Triggers After Betrayal

  5. Jul 1

    A Student's Guide to Sexual Integrity (with Jim Burns)

    PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries.  DEEP & WIDE: Please help us reach our mid-year fundraising goal of $77K by July 31st. No gift is too small! Partner with us at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support! ---------- In this episode of Pure Sex Radio, I sit down with Jim Burns, founder of HomeWord and author of A Student's Guide to Sexual Integrity. Jim shares why open, ongoing conversations with our kids about sexuality are far more effective than one big "talk."  We explore how parents can present sexuality as God's good design, set healthy boundaries, and address tough topics like pornography, gender identity, and shame — all without being preachy. Jim also emphasizes the power of authenticity, encouraging parents to be real with their kids to build trust and keep the dialogue going. To learn more about Jim and get this latest book, visit HomeWord.com. Topics Covered in this Episode:Importance of discussing sexuality with children and teenagersChallenges of addressing sexuality in contemporary cultureThe shift from a single "talk" to ongoing conversations about sexualityRole of parents in providing a positive narrative about sexualityAddressing boundaries, pornography, and gender identity in discussionsThe impact of social media on youth sexuality and educationStrategies for discussing healthy sexuality and pornography with kidsThe significance of authenticity and sharing personal experiencesUnderstanding and addressing shame in conversations about sexualityEncouraging a foundation of sexual integrity based on biblical principles More Resources:A Student's Guide to Sexual Integrity* by Jim BurnsDIGITAL COURSE: A Student’s Guide to Sexual IntegrityFREE Online Course: Critical ConversationsRelated Podcasts:Helping Your Kids Know God's Good DesignCritical Conversations Podcast Bundle (6 episodes)Fighting Fears of Talking to Your Kids About Sex *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and Spotify Follow us on our Vimeo Channel.

    A Student's Guide to Sexual Integrity (with Jim Burns)

  6. Jun 24

    What is the "Wheel of Destruction" and How Does It Impact Porn & Sex Addiction Recovery?

    PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries.  DEEP & WIDE: Please help us reach our mid-year fundraising goal of $77K by July 31st. No gift is too small! Partner with us at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support! ---------- In this episode, I sit down with Matt Wenger to explore his powerful concept, the "Wheel of Destruction." Matt breaks down the five interconnected factors that fuel sex and porn addiction: trauma, maladaptive sexual experiences, attachment wounds, nervous system dysregulation, and brain changes. He explains how these elements feed into each other, creating a destructive cycle that impacts every area of life.  Matt also shares practical pathways to healing through therapy, community, and sobriety. Most importantly, he reminds us that recovery is absolutely possible—your brain, heart, and body are capable of healing, and you don't have to face this journey alone. Get more info on Matt and resources to help your recovery journey at BeginAgainInstitute.com.  Topics Covered in this Episode: Understanding sex and porn addiction recoveryIntroduction of the "Wheel of Destruction" conceptInterconnected factors contributing to addiction: trauma, maladaptive sexual experiences, attachment wounds, autonomic nervous system dysregulation, and brain changesThe impact of trauma on addiction and recoveryThe role of attachment wounds in shaping addictive behaviorsThe relationship between shame and attachment woundsImportance of community and authentic relationships in recoveryThe effects of autonomic nervous system dysregulation on behavior and recoveryBrain plasticity and the potential for healing in recoveryMessages of hope and support for individuals struggling with addiction More Resources:Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for MenBegin Again Institute 14-Day Christian Men's IntensiveHow Sex Addiction Creates False IntimacyRelated Podcast:The Importance of "Whole Man" RecoveryReframing Recovery as Emotional RegulationPorn and Sex Addiction Recovery as Mental Health Issues ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and Spotify Follow us on our Vimeo Channel.

    What is the "Wheel of Destruction" and How Does It Impact Porn & Sex Addiction Recovery?

  7. Jun 17

    Relapse Safety Plan for Wives Healing from Betrayal Trauma

    PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries.  DEEP & WIDE: Please help us reach our mid-year fundraising goal of $77K by July 31st. No gift is too small! Partner with us at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support! ---------- In this episode, I talk with Lyschel Burket about something every betrayed spouse needs to think about: what happens if there’s a relapse? We get honest about how deeply destabilizing that can be, especially for wives who have already been through the pain of betrayal and are trying to rebuild a sense of safety. Lyschel helps us understand why a relapse can feel like another trauma. It can knock a wife’s body and mind right back into survival mode, making it hard to think clearly, make decisions, or even know what to do next. That’s why we spend time talking about the value of a relapse safety plan, which is really a practical way to prepare before a crisis hits. We walk through the important pieces of that plan, including how to define the difference between a slip and a relapse, why it matters to think ahead about your physical, emotional, spiritual, financial, and relational needs, and how a plan can actually reduce panic when life feels chaotic. We also talk about the unfairness many wives feel in having to create this kind of plan, and why it still can be an act of wisdom and self-care. At the heart of it all, Lyschel reminds us that a woman’s safety is not ultimately dependent on her husband’s choices. God is the true source of her provision, protection, and hope. To learn more about Lyschel and the resources she offers to wives, visit HopeRedefined.org. Topics Covered in this Episode: Relapse and betrayal trauma.How relapse destabilizes a spouse.Slip vs. relapse.Why a relapse safety plan matters.Preparing before crisis hits.Fire escape plan analogy.Key safety plan categories.Hope and stability in God. More Resources:Relapse Safety Plan WorkshopRedeemed Hope intensiveOnline Wives Care GroupsRelated Podcasts:Helping Wives Restore Hope After Betrayal Trauma in MarriageIdentifying and Meeting Needs in a Betrayed WifeThe Need for Boundaries After Betrayal ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and Spotify Follow us on our Vimeo Channel.

    Relapse Safety Plan for Wives Healing from Betrayal Trauma

  8. Jun 10

    Intimacy and Sexuality for the Single Christian

    PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. DEEP & WIDE: Please help us reach our mid-year fundraising goal of $77K by July 31st. No gift is too small! Partner with us at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support! ---------- In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Carol Tanksley to explore intimacy and sexuality for single Christians—a topic the church often overlooks. Drawing from her own journey through 40+ years of singleness, marriage, and widowhood, Carol unpacks the difference between sex and intimacy, how Jesus modeled deep connection without sexual activity, and how singles can honor God with their desires.  We also tackle harmful church misconceptions, the importance of healthy touch, and practical wisdom for navigating boundaries. Carol leaves us with three powerful principles: stay clean, stay connected, stay consecrated. To learn more about Carol and her ministry, visit DrCarolMinistries.com. Topics Covered in this Episode: Discussion on intimacy and sexuality for single Christians.Distinction between sex and intimacy.Emotional and physical intimacy needs beyond sexual activity.Challenges faced by single Christians regarding intimacy and sexuality.Misconceptions within church culture about singleness and sexuality.The role of the church in supporting single adults.Practical advice for singles to steward their sexuality and intimacy.Importance of non-sexual physical touch and healthy friendships.Addressing shame and regret over past sexual choices.Encouragement for singles to find purpose and connection beyond sexual relationships. More Resources:Sexpectations online courseSexpectations* (book) by Dr. Carol TanksleySex & Anxiety online courseRelated Podcasts:Being a Single, Sexual ManExploring the Heart of Sexuality with Dr. Carol TanksleyWhat Are Your Sexpectations? *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and Spotify Follow us on our Vimeo Channel.

    Intimacy and Sexuality for the Single Christian
See All (595)

Ratings & Reviews

4.4
out of 5
12 Ratings

About

Pure Sex Radio (PSR) seeks to help men, women, and families move from sexual brokenness to wholeness in Christ. Host, Jonathan Daugherty, has been working in sexual integrity ministry for over 20 years and brings his expertise and personal experience into each episode. Stephen Cervantes, aka Dr. Marriage, has over 30 years of counseling experience and provides daily thoughts for married men at DoctorMarriage.org. If you have questions, comments, or a suggestion for a topic, email us at psr@bebroken.org. Access video version on Vimeo.

Information

  • Creator
    Jonathan Daugherty
  • Years Active
    2018 - 2026
  • Episodes
    595
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © All rights reserved.
  • Show Website
    PSR Podcast

You Might Also Like