Collective Central Podcast

Collective Central

Welcome to the sermon podcast of Collective, led by senior leader Kevin Loo. We are a church propelled and sustained by God-centeredness, community and disciple-making. To support our ministry and help us reach more people around the world, click here https://give.collective.my. For more information and to stay up to date with Collective, visit our website https://collective.my.

  1. APR 30

    When "Saving It For Marriage" Didn't Save Your Sex Life. And What Can. | Ep 10 - Hot Topics

    Why do a lot of career high-achievers struggle in their relationships? Is it ever ok for a Christian couple to indulge in pornography to spice up their sex life? What about masturbation? Hyrox is all the rage now but did it really save a marriage? And speaking of saving, does saving sex for marriage really make sense? The quality of our relationships determine the quality of our lives. Join Kysern, together with Kevin and Esther, as they explore how to better our relationships on this new episode of Hot Topics. 00:00:00 Intro 00:01:25 What is a Relationship Coach? 00:02:40 The "Dinner Time" Fight: Early Marriage Lessons 00:05:50 Transitioning from Long-Distance to Living Together 00:07:46 Common Patterns in Newlyweds: Handling Stress 00:11:08 Emotional Regulation 00:13:15 Personal "Reset" Methods: Running vs. Showers 00:19:50 Why Post-Marital Counseling is More Critical 00:20:40 Understanding & Addressing the "7-Year Itch" 00:23:50 Mismatched Sexual Desire: Managing Different Drives 00:25:35 Sex as a Form of Communication 00:30:00 Masturbation & Pornography in Marriage 00:34:35 Why "Date Night" Might Be a Recipe for Disaster 00:35:48 Hyrox Better Than "Date Nights”? 00:41:00 The Indirect Route: Solving Problems via Teamwork 00:45:30 The High-Achiever’s Struggle with Vulnerability 00:54:10 Playing to Strengths: Role Flexibility in Modern Couples 00:56:00 The Danger of Stagnation: Keeping a Shared Growth Trajectory Watch our first conversation on relationships here: Hot Topics Ep.7 🎧 Ep 10 now streaming on Spotify, YouTube & Apple Podcasts.#Relationships #HotTopics #ChristianPodcast ____ If this episode brought something up for you or you need someone to talk to, you’re not alone.Reach out to us privately — we’re here to listen and help. 💬 Drop us a PM on WhatsApp: ⁠+60108257573⁠ ____ Follow us ⁠https://www.facebook.com/CollectiveCentral⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/collectivecentral⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/kysernlim⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/kevinlooofficial https://www.instagram.com/esthershennyku

    1h 10m
  2. 10/29/2025

    Relationships: For Better Or Worse | Ep 7 - Hot Topics

    What do you do when the sparks in your relationships are stoked not by romance but by the fire in your feuds? Or perhaps you long for whatever kind of heat in your marriage because it’s colder than ice? Is “till death do us part” still real in today’s world? We dive into the topic that probably defines us most as humans - relationships, and in this episode we explore the romantic kind together with Kevin and Esther, who have been married to each other for 20 years. He is the lead pastor of Collective and she is a relationship coach. Some of the things we talked about:  Why date nights at certain points in a marriage may do more harm than good. Do women who grew up in church have unrealistic expectations of men? Can a Christian marry a non-Christian? Why is Kysern single? Note: We apologize for the glitches that appear intermittently throughout the video. Like in any  relationship, sometimes we have to accept the flaws. Thanks for understanding! 🎧 Ep 7 now streaming on Spotify, YouTube & Apple Podcasts. #Relationships #Marriage #HotTopics #ChristianPodcast ____ If this episode brought something up for you or you need someone to talk to, you’re not alone. Reach out to us privately — we’re here to listen and help. 💬 Drop us a PM on WhatsApp: +60108257573  ____ Follow us https://www.facebook.com/CollectiveCentral https://www.instagram.com/collectivecentral https://www.instagram.com/kysernlim https://www.instagram.com/kevinlooofficial https://www.instagram.com/esthershennyku

    1h 10m

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Welcome to the sermon podcast of Collective, led by senior leader Kevin Loo. We are a church propelled and sustained by God-centeredness, community and disciple-making. To support our ministry and help us reach more people around the world, click here https://give.collective.my. For more information and to stay up to date with Collective, visit our website https://collective.my.