44 episodes

Welcome to Swinger University, a direct, concise, no-nonsense, educational approach to getting started and navigating the swing lifestyle. We share lessons we’ve learned, advice from our swinging friends, as well as some sexy experiences.



Our adventures in consensual non-monogamy began when we were still dating and it has strengthened our relationship by opening up conversations and experiences that we could never have imagined. In our episodes we share techniques and examples to get you through some of the struggles and frustrations we experienced. We strive to help the community with tips, and practical advice to getting started in this hobby as well as advice for the experienced swingers to keep your sexy times going and maybe help them get better.



So if you’re curious or eager to spice up your sex life, join us in exploring sexuality in the world of the swinging lifestyle. If you’d like to contact us with questions, comments, or just to say hi...our email is: swingeruniversity@gmail.com



Ed and Phoebe

Swinger University - An Educational Podcast About Swingin‪g‬ Swinger University

    • Sexuality
    • 4.3 • 27 Ratings

Welcome to Swinger University, a direct, concise, no-nonsense, educational approach to getting started and navigating the swing lifestyle. We share lessons we’ve learned, advice from our swinging friends, as well as some sexy experiences.



Our adventures in consensual non-monogamy began when we were still dating and it has strengthened our relationship by opening up conversations and experiences that we could never have imagined. In our episodes we share techniques and examples to get you through some of the struggles and frustrations we experienced. We strive to help the community with tips, and practical advice to getting started in this hobby as well as advice for the experienced swingers to keep your sexy times going and maybe help them get better.



So if you’re curious or eager to spice up your sex life, join us in exploring sexuality in the world of the swinging lifestyle. If you’d like to contact us with questions, comments, or just to say hi...our email is: swingeruniversity@gmail.com



Ed and Phoebe

    The Three 'C's of Swinging

    The Three 'C's of Swinging

    The 3 C's of Swinging: Connecting/Courting, Communicating, and Courtesy. These 3 social elements play a large part in your swinger game whether you are hosting or attending a party. SHOW NOTES: Connecting / Courting - Home - Swinger Party - Hotel - Planned v. Spontaneous Communicating - Rules / Preferences Courtesy

    • 22 min
    Cunnilingus - Now's Your Chance To Be A Smart Mouth

    Cunnilingus - Now's Your Chance To Be A Smart Mouth

    Well ladies, this is your episode. Phoebe challenged me to put my money where my mouth is so here it is… The Swinger University guide to Oral Sex for the ladies. SHOW NOTES: Why Have Oral Sex? Risks of Oral Sex Basics of Cunnilingus Vulva Anatomy Cunnilingus Communication Cunnilingus Positions Cunnilingus Techniques

    • 59 min
    FWB or DTF... WTF (Who to F*ck)?

    FWB or DTF... WTF (Who to F*ck)?

    In this episode we discuss some of the pros and cons to the two approaches of finding play partners: FWB and DTF.  Friends With Benefits (FWB) Down To F**k (DTF) The Nirvana of the Lifestyle Pros and Cons of FWB v. DTF

    • 24 min
    Stamina Expectations and What Can I Do?

    Stamina Expectations and What Can I Do?

    In this episode we discuss a questions sent to us by a listener about stamina expectations in the lifestyle. It can be a tricky situation, but we've got a few tips to keep your "head" in the game. We address stamina expectations in the lifestyle, how to lengthen your stamina and how to take a break without disrupting the mood. - What are the expectations for stamina while playing? - How do you deal with recuperation time? - What if I literally need to take a break? - How can I lengthen my stamina?

    • 21 min
    Crossing The Line

    Crossing The Line

    How do you come back from an experience where one partner feels the other crossed the line in the lifestyle? We share a personal story, why it can occur and how you come back together after. SHOW NOTES: Why Does It Happen? How Do You Come Back?

    • 29 min
    How To Get A Second Swinger Date

    How To Get A Second Swinger Date

    How do you get a second swinger date with a couple? We talk about how to reach out to that other couple without sounding desperate or creepy, yet confident! SHOW NOTES: 1. Post Game Wrap-Up 2. Timing 3. Formula: Texting & IRL 4. Examples: IRL, Cruise, Hotel Takeover 5. Follow Up

    • 28 min

Customer Reviews

4.3 out of 5
27 Ratings

27 Ratings

Oldmanindahouse ,

Great information

These two are really good at podcasting the ins and outs of the lifestyle. I listen every time a new one comes out.

vinceham ,

High Quality Lifestyle Exploration Podcast

This is a great podcast for anyone interested in the lifestyle. The hosts have a fun, relaxed style for giving information while also telling fun stories. Things that could be mundane, like lifestyle terms, websites, apps, are discussed in a way that’s like listening to old friends be candid and real. This podcast is especially a must for anyone curious about the lifestyle or still in the early exploration stages.

citybizz1 ,

Start here!

If there was a map for embarking on and navigating the journey into the swinger lifestyle then swinger university would have a big red arrow that says START HERE! The info is very clarifying and specific and it feels very intimate when listening as though Ed and Phoebe are talking directly to you. The honesty and vulnerability in which they address the reality of all aspects and situations that they have encountered along their journey is very reassuring and makes you feel “normal” and not as alone in the feelings, curiosities, hesitations etc. that we and likely many other couples have when contemplating this dynamic. They make you feel as if you have a couple to partner with and to help guide you along as well. Thanks guys for all the effort and the quality content you are providing to us listeners. Keep up the Great work!

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