Kate Hastings Show

Kate Hastings
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The Kate Hastings Show is a platform of transformation and community. A place of specialized knowledge, communication, unity, open conversations about health, wellness,lifestyle and people of their expertise.

  1. 2d ago

    What It Actually Takes to See a Vision Through

    Most people don't lose their vision because they ran out of motivation. They lose it because the vision eventually starts demanding something they weren't prepared to give: a completely different version of themselves. In this episode, we go beneath the surface of why people really quit, what the "messy middle" is actually costing you, and why discipline rooted in identity will carry you further than motivation ever could. If you have been circling the same vision for years and wondering why it hasn't happened yet, this episode is for you.

    1h 7m

  2. May 28

    The Mindset of Obsession & Why It Builds You or Buries You

    There is a difference between discipline, motivation, and obsession, and almost nobody talks about it, but understanding it changes how you build your entire life. Discipline is acting without negotiating with your mood, and motivation is a feeling that comes and goes, but obsession is the only one of the three with no off switch, which is exactly why it is the most powerful state your mind is capable of producing. The same obsession can build you or quietly destroy you, and the difference is not the intensity itself but whether you are obsessed from a place of wholeness or from a place of lack and wound underneath the surface. When you become obsessed from a place of wholeness, you get a kind of locked in focus that most people will never experience in their lifetime, because your intensity is finally aimed at something worthy of it instead of trying to fill a hole that was never going to get filled by the thing on the surface. This is what it looks like to pursue something worthwhile and meaningful enough to obsess over becoming the version of yourself that is required to be that version, and that pursuit is the thing that quietly reshapes your entire life from the inside out. In this episode I take obsession apart at the level of the brain and the wound that sometimes lives underneath it and the years I spent inside my own version of it, and I want you to walk out of this knowing how to recognize which kind of obsession is running you right now and how to aim the deepest capacity you carry at something large enough to actually hold it.

    1h 12m

  3. May 21

    The Competing Mindset Versus the Dominating Mindset

    There is a difference between competing and dominating, and most people have never had it named for them clearly. Competing is a scarcity wound dressed up as ambition. It keeps you measuring yourself against the people next to you, draining your energy through comparison, and tying your worth to outcomes that were never meant to hold it. Dominating is something else entirely. It is the natural overflow of a person who has built a real internal foundation, who operates from wholeness instead of striving, who leads themselves in the small unseen decisions, and who approaches every circumstance from possibility instead of fear. In this episode, I am breaking down what actually separates these two ways of operating, where each one comes from, what each one produces in your life, and the specific architecture you have to build to live in a dominating mindset across your work, your relationships, your nervous system, and even the seasons when things fall apart. This is not a conversation about hustle or beating anyone. It is a conversation about becoming the kind of person who is no longer playing the game everyone else is still trying to win.

    1h 8m

  4. May 14

    The Connection Between Femininity & Your Nervous System

    You have been told to soften, to slow down, to receive, to surrender, and you have tried every version of it without anything actually changing the way you feel inside your own body. The reason it has not worked is that you do not have a femininity problem, you have a nervous system problem, and until you address what is happening underneath, no aesthetic or practice or feminine energy trend is going to reach the part of you that is still bracing for impact. In this episode, I am walking you through what feminine energy actually is, what your nervous system is doing when you cannot soften or receive, what damaged it in the first place, the patterns and identity it built inside you to keep you safe, and the spiritual foundation underneath all of this that the culture cannot give you. The softness you have been chasing is not missing from you, she is buried underneath years of survival, and this episode is the work of helping you find her again.

    1h 3m

  5. May 7

    How to Have Self-Respect as a Woman

    Episode Bio Most women do not recognize self-disrespect when it is happening because it does not feel like a violation. It feels like being flexible, keeping the peace, and being the bigger person. In this episode, Kate breaks down what self-respect actually is, why women specifically lose it, and the quiet patterns of self-abandonment that keep women disconnected from themselves and their own standards. If you have ever talked yourself out of your own instincts, over-explained a boundary you had every right to hold, or stayed in something longer than you should have because the narrative in your head was louder than your own knowing, this episode was built for you. Self-respect is not a feeling you arrive at after enough healing. It is a standard you build through the daily decision to stop making an exception of yourself.

    52 min

  6. Apr 30

    What Separates A Value From A Preference

    Most people think they are living by their values when they are actually just living by their preferences, and that confusion is the reason their lives feel inconsistent, scattered, and quietly out of alignment. Preferences are what feel good in the moment, what is comfortable, what is convenient, and what protects you from friction, while values are what you have decided matter regardless of how you feel on any given day. The problem is that when preferences run the show, your discipline collapses the moment something becomes hard, your standards bend the moment something becomes inconvenient, and your identity becomes shaped by mood instead of conviction. In this episode, I am breaking down how to identify which one is actually driving your decisions, why most people unknowingly let preferences masquerade as values, and what it takes to build a life that holds steady whether you feel like showing up or not. If you are tired of starting over, breaking your own promises, and wondering why nothing feels like it is sticking, this is the conversation that will show you exactly where the disconnect is and how to close the gap with clarity and ownership.

    1h 6m

  7. Apr 23

    When Discipline Becomes A Cage

    I think discipline is one of the most valuable attributes and characteristics somebody could hold in their life. But for a long time, my discipline was driven by fear and rigidity rather than self-leadership and genuine regulation. And I did not know the difference until the cost of that distinction became impossible to ignore. Most people think discipline is a sign of strength. And sometimes it is. But there is another version of discipline that nobody is talking about, and it does not come from strength. It comes from a nervous system that never got the signal that the threat was over. In this episode I am going deep on the psychology of high achievement that is actually high survival. I am talking about why some people cannot slow down no matter how hard they try, how the brain becomes addicted to stress and starts treating stillness as a threat, and what it costs to build an entire identity around what you can produce and endure. I am also getting into the difference between discipline that gives you structure and discipline that has become a cage you cannot find the door to, and what it actually looks like to rebuild from the inside out. This episode is for the person who has always been the one who keeps going. The one who never stops. The one who looks like they have it together from every external angle and feels like they are outrunning something they cannot name on the inside. If you have ever wondered why achieving everything you set out to achieve still does not feel like enough, this one is for you.

    1h 1m

  8. Apr 16

    Why Most People Are Performing Excellence

    Most people think their relationship with excellence is a discipline problem. It is not. It is a conditioning problem, an identity problem, and a values problem that has quietly shaped what they believe they are allowed to want and capable of becoming long before discipline ever enters the picture. In this episode I am going into why so many people are performing excellence on the outside while remaining completely disconnected from it on the inside, how your earliest environment conditioned you to suppress desire before you ever had the language to name it, and why a standard cannot hold without a clearly defined value system, a boundary structure that protects it, and an identity that actually believes it deserves to live there. Excellence is not something you chase. It is something you become when the inside finally matches the outside.

    1h 15m
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The Kate Hastings Show is a platform of transformation and community. A place of specialized knowledge, communication, unity, open conversations about health, wellness,lifestyle and people of their expertise.

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  • Creator
    Kate Hastings
  • Years Active
    2019 - 2026
  • Episodes
    308
  • Rating
    Clean
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    © The Kate Hastings Podcast
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