Changing the Rules

Wildfire Podcasts, Raymond D. Loewe, "The Luckiest Guy in the World", Ray Loewe
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With Ray Loewe — The Luckiest Guy in the World Every week, Changing the Rules invites you to imagine — and live — a life designed by you. Host Ray Loewe believes every person is a unique original with talents, passions, and quirks that make them one of a kind. When you embrace your uniqueness, you escape the rules others have imposed — and you gain the freedom to flourish. Our guests are living proof. They come from all walks of life and have each designed lives that look completely different — yet they share one thing in common: pure joy. You’ll feel it in their voices, see it in their choices, and sense it in every story they tell. Some overcame loss, illness, or transitions. Others broke free from limbo — that gray space where you’re neither happy nor unhappy. Through courage and self-discovery, they each found their way back to joy. Their stories won’t tell you how to live your life — they’ll inspire you to design your own. Because their joy may be theirs, but the same joy is waiting for you. Join us each week and become one of The Luckiest People in the World.

  1. 1d ago

    E255: A Story - Memory to Paper in Fifteen Minutes

    This week, two of our regular guests, John Gardner and Mary Ann Steinhauer, share how, when a story pops into their brain, they can transform it into a shareable idea in fifteen minutes or less. What tools do they use? How are they building a personal storybook? How do they make stories shareable with family and friends? How do they share a Story Legacy?

  2. Jul 21

    E254: Stories & ChatGPT

    How does ChatGPT help me write stories? Basically, it helps me get started, stop hesitating, and stop procrastinating. Mary Ann Steinhauer and I discuss how I use ChatGPT as a story coach, how I keep ownership of my stories, and how I can pluck a memory that was lost somewhere in my mind and get a story in my storybook in 15-20 minutes...It won't get lost; I can develop it further should I want to, but it's available now for family and friends to enjoy.

  3. Jul 7

    E253: Clear Ice & Bitters, Part 2: The Cocktail Was Never the Point

    Guest: Julia Adams, Clear Ice & Bitters Last week, Julia Adams created a one-of-a-kind cocktail experience for co-host Mary Ann Steinhauer. This week, she turns her attention to Ray Loewe—and the result is entirely different. Rather than asking what someone wants to drink, Julia begins by getting to know who they are. Through thoughtful questions and remarkable listening, she uncovers memories, emotions, and experiences that become the inspiration for a cocktail designed for one person and one moment in time. Ray observes that this isn't an experience you can find just anywhere. Julia's focus on the individual is so complete that he realized he would enjoy the experience—even before he knew whether he'd enjoy the drink. The cocktail became almost secondary to the feeling of being genuinely heard and understood. Julia explains that her goal is simple: "I try to create a space where each person I design for feels special, even if it's only for a short while." This episode goes far beyond mixology. It's a conversation about intentional listening, creating meaningful experiences, and how making one person feel truly seen can become the greatest gift a host has to offer.

  4. Jun 30

    E252: Conducting the Perfect Cocktail, Guest, Julia Adams

    Guest: Julia Adams, Clear Ice & Bitters - What if the most memorable part of a party wasn't the food or the music—but the feeling that someone created just for you? In this episode of Changing the Rules, Ray Loewe and co-host Mary Ann Steinhauer talk with Julia Adams, founder of Clear Ice & Bitters, who is redefining hospitality one guest at a time. Drawing on her background as a classical musician, conductor, and educator, Julia approaches cocktail creation as an art form designed to make every person feel seen, valued, and unforgettable. Rather than asking, "What would you like to drink?" Julia begins by asking questions about your favorite memories, colors, aromas, and flavors. The result isn't simply a custom cocktail—it's a personalized experience that reflects who you are. From crystal-clear ice and handcrafted garnishes to thoughtful conversation and presentation, every detail is orchestrated to create connection. This episode isn't really about cocktails. It's about changing the rules of hospitality, discovering the power of intentional experiences, and learning how small, thoughtful touches can transform an ordinary gathering into an extraordinary memory.

  5. Jun 23

    E251: Taking the Back Seat to History

    What happens when you accept an invitation to experience someone else's passion? In this episode of Changing the Rules, Ray and Sandy Loewe climb into the back seat of a beautifully restored 1911 Stevens-Duryea (a $300,000 antique car) and join a caravan of thirty Brass Era automobiles winding through the Pennsylvania countryside. What began as an invitation from friend Jane Grove quickly became much more than a ride in a rare antique automobile. Along the way, they met fascinating people from ten different states, including travelers from California, Oregon, and even Dubai. They learned the history behind these remarkable machines, discovered the dedication required to keep them running, and experienced the unique camaraderie that develops when people gather around a shared passion. Joining the conversation are Jane Grove, who introduced Ray and Sandy to the tour; Pat Gamble, driver, mechanic, tour leader, and antique automobile enthusiast; and co-host Mary Ann Steinhauer. Together they explore how curiosity, friendship, and a willingness to say "yes" can open doors to unexpected adventures. As Jane likes to describe it, the tour was simply a journey from one food stop to the next—just conducted in magnificent antique style. This episode is a reminder that some of life's best experiences begin when we step into someone else's world and allow ourselves to be surprised. Key Takeaway: You don't have to become an expert in someone else's passion to enjoy it. Sometimes the greatest rewards come from being curious enough to take the ride.

    E251: Taking the Back Seat to History

  6. Jun 16

    E250: How Did We Ever Survive Childhood

    Host: Ray Loewe - A few weeks ago, I had coffee with some friends. We started talking about the incredibly stupid things we did as kids and how we ever survived childhood. Maybe we were just the "Luckiest Kids in the World. "Hopefully, this podcast will take you back a few years to your youth. Enjoy!

  7. Jun 2

    E249: Send in the Clown, Guest, Terry Lieb

    Guest: Terry Lieb - Host: Ray Loewe - Co-Host: May Ann Steinhauer - A journey from coal mine country through trade school, the circus. From college to finding the life he wanted by exploring the counseling world. All told through some of the most fascinating stories you'll ever hear.

  8. May 26

    E248: Interupting Your Life To Do What You Want, Guest, LaKiesha Tomlin

    LaKiesha Tomlin, Engineer, MBA, Company Owner, just returned from a four-week immersion trip to southern France to learn French. LaKiesha credits intentionality and the ability to seize opportunities. If it's important, just do it! Host: Ray Loewe, Co-Host: Mary Ann Steinhauer

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With Ray Loewe — The Luckiest Guy in the World Every week, Changing the Rules invites you to imagine — and live — a life designed by you. Host Ray Loewe believes every person is a unique original with talents, passions, and quirks that make them one of a kind. When you embrace your uniqueness, you escape the rules others have imposed — and you gain the freedom to flourish. Our guests are living proof. They come from all walks of life and have each designed lives that look completely different — yet they share one thing in common: pure joy. You’ll feel it in their voices, see it in their choices, and sense it in every story they tell. Some overcame loss, illness, or transitions. Others broke free from limbo — that gray space where you’re neither happy nor unhappy. Through courage and self-discovery, they each found their way back to joy. Their stories won’t tell you how to live your life — they’ll inspire you to design your own. Because their joy may be theirs, but the same joy is waiting for you. Join us each week and become one of The Luckiest People in the World.

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  • Creator
    Wildfire Podcasts, Raymond D. Loewe, "The Luckiest Guy in the World", Ray Loewe
  • Years Active
    2019 - 2026
  • Episodes
    273
  • Rating
    Clean
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