Leadership Formation For Christian Men

Josh Price & Tim Holloway
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LFCM (Leadership Formation for Christian Men) equips Christian men to grow in faith, character, purpose, and influence. Through biblical discipleship, leadership development, accountability, spiritual formation, and personal growth, LFCM helps men become stronger leaders at home, in the workplace, in the church, and in their communities. Our focus is on authentic masculinity, Christ-centered leadership, biblical manhood, spiritual maturity, family leadership, integrity, discipleship, and kingdom impact. We develop men of faith, character, courage, truth, and influence who are committed to following Jesus and leading others well.

  1. 2d ago

    Why Victimhood Feels True - and Why It Keeps You Stuck

    Most people do not need more motivation - they need to stop explaining their life and start changing it. Tim Holloway and Josh Price unpack victimhood, identity, and the subtle ways pain can harden into a story that keeps you stuck. Tim opens with a blunt challenge: being hurt is real, but staying in a victim mindset is a choice that shapes everything that comes next. Josh brings his own hard-won perspective as he breaks down how trauma, shame, and old programming can quietly trap your identity in blame, resentment, or passivity. You'll discover: why valid suffering can still become a destructive script how to tell the difference between awareness and panic the “middle path” between judgment and helplessness why forgiveness is not denial, but a transfer of judgment how formation actually works through pressure, containment, differentiation, and response what the real escape from victimhood looks like in marriage, parenting, leadership, and faith Josh goes deep on the traps that show up after growth too - especially the pride that can creep in when someone leaves victim mode and starts looking down on others still in it. Tim pushes that even further, connecting the conversation to men’s culture, mental health labels, generational blame, and the subtle ways people use pain as a permission slip to opt out of responsibility. This conversation also gets intensely practical around relationships. Josh shares his own story of blaming his wife, how shame distorted his reading of Scripture, and how everything changed when he stopped treating marriage like a contract and started understanding the biblical picture of Ezer kenegdo - help facing help. That shift reframes masculinity, marriage, and authority in a way that is both confronting and freeing. If you have ever felt trapped by your past, tempted to use your story as a shield, or unsure how to move from pain into leadership, this episode is for you. Perfect for men who want real growth, coaches and leaders who work with people in pain, and anyone who is ready to stop living from a wounded identity and start walking in responsibility, clarity, and freedom. Tim Holloway and Josh Price host this conversation together, with Tim bringing the pastoral challenge and lived experience of leaving victimhood behind, and Josh bringing a coaching framework built around awareness, response, and formation. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  2. 4d ago

    Why Shame Makes You Easier to Control

    Most people think the danger is in their darkness. Josh Price and Tim Holloway argue the real danger is what happens when you defend it, deny it, or turn it into shame. If you’ve ever felt the urge to explain yourself the second someone lovingly points out a flaw, this conversation will hit hard.Tim and Josh unpack what it means to see yourself clearly without self-condemnation, and why awareness is the doorway to real growth. They break down the difference between conviction and condemnation, why hidden distortion compounds over time, and how fear, anger, and victimhood can push people from passive resistance into destructive patterns.You’ll discover: Why “just data” is a powerful way to face your behavior without collapsing into shame How distortion grows in layers, from reaction and cowardice to compulsion, impersonation, and tyranny Why passive aggression is often overlooked as a form of cowardice How false identity gets built around performance, work, charisma, or even religious striving Why mature leaders can face failure without constructing a false self around it Josh shares a sharp framework for recognizing how internal distortion becomes external dysfunction, while Tim brings it back to the heart of Christian maturity - the ability to acknowledge what is true, take it to Jesus, and refuse to let shame define you. They also explore Peter’s restoration, Yom Kippur, the role of grace, and how identity gets rebuilt in layers rather than all at once.This episode matters if you’ve been weaponizing your own awareness, if you struggle with self-condemnation, or if you’re trying to lead, parent, coach, or simply live with more honesty. The longer hidden failure stays buried, the more power it gains. But when it comes into the light, it loses its grip.Essential listening if you want a clearer mind, a steadier conscience, and a more truthful way to grow. Just data. Then choose what to do next. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  3. Sep 4

    The Death of A Pastors Wife: The Cost of Calling Without Character

    A polished Christian image can hide a dangerously broken inner life until everything explodes. Tim Holloway uses Netflix's The Death of a Pastor's Wife to expose how gifting, charisma, and church performance can mask coercive control, secrecy, and spiritual deformity.He breaks down the troubling story of Micah Miller and JP Miller, from her early role as a gifted 16-year-old worship leader to the toxic marriage, alleged abuse, and the public collapse that followed. But this episode is not just a reaction to a true-crime docuseries - it's a warning to Christian men, church leaders, and anyone tempted to confuse platform with formation.You'll discover: Why charisma is one of the most dangerous substitutes for character How institutions reward image management and concealment The difference between outward holiness and actual heart change Why sexual rules alone do not produce sexual formation How shame, secrecy, and yes-men keep broken leaders hidden too long Tim also challenges destructive theology around marriage, control, and sexual entitlement, showing how distorted beliefs can fuel abuse while still sounding "biblical" on the surface. He argues that real maturity is not performance, Bible language, or leadership position - it's honesty, transparency, accountability, and an inner life that can actually withstand pressure.This is essential listening if you're a Christian man trying to lead well, a leader carrying hidden struggles, or someone who wants to understand why broken systems keep producing public failure. The central message is clear: salvation without formation becomes deformation. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  4. Sep 2

    Dark Night of the Soul - What is Spiritual Pride

    Spiritual pride is sneakier than obvious sin - and it can hide inside your prayers, your Bible reading, your theology, and even your humility. Tim Holloway breaks down John of the Cross’s Dark Night of the Soul to show why God’s humbling seasons are not punishment, but formation.If you’ve ever felt spiritually “mature,” looked down on other Christians, or wondered why correction feels so painful, this conversation will challenge you. Tim traces the danger of tribalism, self-righteousness, and false humility, then shows how God uses testing to move you beyond a comfort-first faith into something deeper.You’ll discover: why “nurturing” faith is good, but not meant to be the final stage how spiritual disciplines become dangerous when they turn into badges of honor why comparison, correction, and religious performance reveal hidden pride how false humility can sound holy while actually contradicting what God says about you what true humility looks like when your identity is rooted in God’s view, not public approval Tim also connects the chapter’s themes to practical examples from church culture, morality, and the way believers use scripture, worship, and service either as instruments of love or weapons of superiority. Along the way, he points to the deeper goal of spiritual growth: not looking impressive, but becoming more loving.If you need a reset from religious performance, this episode will expose the subtle ways pride distorts faith and invite you back to a spirituality that is measured by love, not status. Essential listening if you want a more honest, grounded, and transformative walk with God. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  5. Sep 2

    Sleeping From Sorrow - Why Avoidance Feels Like Relief

    The way out of avoidance is not more willpower - it's waking up to what you're really running from. Tim Holloway and Josh Price expose how sleep, sorrow, and spiritual numbness can look like discipline, devotion, or "being busy," while quietly keeping you stuck. Tim opens with the questions most men avoid answering: the hard conversation you're postponing, the work you're hiding in, the promises you've broken to yourself, and the grief you're numbing instead of facing. Josh takes it further with a sharp framework for spotting avoidance in real time, from aloof withdrawal to the interrogator mode that attacks ideas to protect beliefs. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  6. Aug 24

    You Cannot Lead What You Refuse to See

    Awareness is the difference between repeating the same wreck and finally taking the other road. Tim Holloway and Josh Price unpack why you cannot lead what you refuse to see, how hidden wounds keep showing up as addiction, defensiveness, or compulsive habits, and why the first breakthrough is rarely behavior change - it is waking up to the signal underneath the symbol. Josh shares a powerful client story that starts with Christmas shopping and ends with a childhood wound finally coming into view. Tim brings his own hard-earned perspective from addiction, grief, codependency, and the moment other people could see what he could not. Together they expose the unsettling truth that many of our “solutions” are really temporary escapes - and that the thing we keep returning to is often pointing at a deeper unmet need. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  7. Aug 15

    Why Churches Often Fail Men - And How TO Create Change with Mark Lubbock

    The church is missing its best growth engine, and it’s not another program - it’s men. Mark Lubbock breaks down why so many churches are thriving with women but failing to disciple men, and what actually changes when leaders stop managing the organization and start meeting people at their point of need. In this conversation, Mark shares how his own story of divorce, questions, and a search for real answers led him into full-time men’s ministry. Now serving as Executive Director of the United Methodist Men and Wesleyan Foundation for Men, he explains why traditional training often equips pastors to maintain systems, not reach men where they are. You’ll discover: Why men respond to catalytic events, not just Bible studies How the "conveyor belt" model moves men from curiosity to discipleship What Pat Morley’s "No Man Left Behind" framework gets right about meeting men at their felt need Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  8. Aug 7

    The Dark Night of the Soul Is Actually a Gift

    The dark night of the soul is not God abandoning you - it's God growing you up. Tim Holloway unpacks why spiritual dryness, doubt, and deconstruction can actually be the mercy that moves you from emotional faith into mature, steady love.If you have ever wondered why prayer feels flat, worship feels distant, or your once-vibrant faith now feels like it is being stripped down, this episode puts words to the experience. Tim traces the dark night through Scripture and spiritual formation, showing how crisis exposes immaturity, reveals what is really ruling your heart, and forces you to confront the competing voices of fear, pride, lust, anger, and approval-seeking.You'll discover: Why spiritual growth happens in stages, not as an instant leap How Hebrews, Corinthians, and Peter all point to the same maturity pattern Why self-control is really about mastery, temperance, and authority How good spiritual practices can become dangerous when they replace relationship Why God sometimes removes the training wheels so your faith can finally walk Tim also makes a sharp case against the trap of “cultural Christianity” and the modern habit of chasing experiences, fixes, and emotional highs instead of seeking the Lord Himself. He reframes the dark night as a proving ground where God expands your capacity, rebuilds your inner life, and teaches you to carry what He wants to entrust to you.This is a needed listen if you feel stuck in spiritual infancy, are wrestling with doubt, or suspect your faith has become more about the tools than the treasure. Tim closes by pointing to the kind of love that does not depend on a feeling spike - the kind that keeps choosing God when the emotions settle. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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LFCM (Leadership Formation for Christian Men) equips Christian men to grow in faith, character, purpose, and influence. Through biblical discipleship, leadership development, accountability, spiritual formation, and personal growth, LFCM helps men become stronger leaders at home, in the workplace, in the church, and in their communities. Our focus is on authentic masculinity, Christ-centered leadership, biblical manhood, spiritual maturity, family leadership, integrity, discipleship, and kingdom impact. We develop men of faith, character, courage, truth, and influence who are committed to following Jesus and leading others well.

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