The Manners Maketh Man

Ryan Mortimer
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This is a gathering place for men to discuss the topics of the day and help each other become better men. Hosted by Ryan Mortimer. A lover of mens health, fitness, fashion, and all things men. This will be a weekly episode.

  1. 5D AGO

    MMM 45 - The Modern Protector Isn't Loud

    The loudest men usually aren't the strongest — they're the least in control. In this episode, we're redefining what it means to be a protector in modern life. Not the performative version. Not the aggressive version. The real one: calm, aware, prepared, and dependable. We'll break down what protection actually looks like across four lanes: Physical: capability, health, awareness Emotional: stability, presence, restraint Financial: responsibility, planning, reducing risk Moral: integrity, consistency, trust And we'll cover the five marks of a modern protector — including boundaries, quiet risk reduction, and why calm beats chaos every time. Weekly Standard: Do a quick Protector Audit — pick one lane (physical, emotional, financial, or moral) and take one action this week. Keep it simple. Do it on purpose.

    14 min

  2. JAN 7

    MMM 44 - Discipline Without Drama

    Most people don't fail because they're weak — they fail because their life depends on motivation. And motivation disappears the moment things get hard.   In this episode, we're talking about discipline without drama: how to build standards that don't require hype, perfection, or a whole new personality. Just consistency, self-respect, and a system you can return to when life gets loud.   You'll learn a simple framework to stay on track:   The 3-level system: Standard, Minimum, Reset How to create a Minimum Viable Day so you never fall off completely The reset rule that keeps one bad day from turning into a bad month Why calm consistency beats intensity every time     Weekly Standard: Define your Minimum Viable Day in one sentence, and pick your reset rule: never miss twice or reset within 24 hours.

    15 min

  3. JAN 6

    We're Back. Here's the Point.

    It's been about two years since I've published an episode of Manners Maketh Man — and I'm coming back with intention.   This podcast is about becoming a better man with discipline, dignity, and strength that's under control. No gimmicks. No noise. Just real standards and practical takeaways you can use in your life, your work, and your relationships.   In this short re-intro, I'll tell you what this show is going to be moving forward, what you can expect each week, and the standard we're building around here.   First new full episode drops Wednesday, January 7: "Discipline Without Drama." Make sure you're following on Spotify or Apple Podcasts so you don't miss it.

    7 min

  4. 10/02/2024

    MMM 43 - Masculinity and Mental Health: Breaking the Silence

    In this episode of Manners Maketh Man, host Ryan takes on a crucial but often overlooked topic—Masculinity and Mental Health. For far too long, men have been conditioned to stay silent about their emotional struggles, but the truth is, mental health affects us all. Join me as I explore the stigma surrounding men and mental health, the cost of staying silent, and how we can redefine strength by embracing vulnerability and seeking help when we need it. With practical advice on how to take care of your mental well-being and support the men in your life, this episode is a powerful reminder that acknowledging mental health is not a weakness—it's a strength. If you're ready to break the silence and start talking about mental health, this conversation is for you.

    29 min

  5. 09/25/2024

    MMM 42 - The Art of Communication: Mastering the Skill Every Man Needs

    In this episode of Manners Maketh Man, we explore The Art of Communication—a vital skill for every man who wants to lead, connect, and build better relationships. Communication isn't just about the words we say; it's about how we listen, express ourselves, and navigate tough conversations with clarity and empathy.   Join host Ryan Mortimer as he breaks down the fundamentals of effective communication, from active listening to handling difficult conversations with confidence and grace. Whether you're looking to improve your personal relationships or lead more effectively at work, this episode offers practical insights on how to become a more thoughtful, powerful communicator.

    29 min

  6. 09/18/2024

    MMM - 41 Emotional Intelligence for Men: The Strength in Understanding Yourself

    In this episode of Manners Maketh Man, we're exploring one of the most undervalued yet powerful aspects of modern masculinity—emotional intelligence. As men, we're often taught to suppress our feelings, but true strength lies in understanding, managing, and using our emotions wisely. Join me as we dive into the five key components of emotional intelligence—self-awareness, self-regulation, motivation, empathy, and social skills—and why they're essential for men navigating today's world. We'll challenge the outdated stereotypes that emotional intelligence makes you weak and instead reveal how mastering it can make you a stronger partner, leader, and man. Whether you want to build deeper relationships, stay calm under pressure, or lead with empathy, this episode is packed with practical tips and insights that will help you unlock a more thoughtful, emotionally intelligent version of yourself.

    29 min

  7. 09/13/2024

    MMM - 40 The Gentleman's Code

    In this episode of Manners Maketh Man, we take a deep dive into what it truly means to be a gentleman in today's world. We explore "The Gentleman's Code," where honor, integrity, and kindness are not just ideals but guiding principles. We discuss how these values shape modern masculinity and why they're more relevant than ever. But it's not just about how we treat others—it's also about being kind to ourselves. We talk about the importance of self-respect and self-compassion as crucial elements of the code. Join us as we reflect on how these timeless virtues can help us navigate life with dignity and purpose, proving that true masculinity is defined not by strength alone, but by the strength of character.

    22 min

  8. 09/04/2024

    MMM - 39 Traditional vs. Modern Masculinity: Evolving Identities

    In today's episode of Manners Maketh Man, we're having a real conversation about how masculinity has changed over the years. We start by looking at what many of us grew up with—the idea that being a man means being strong, stoic, and the provider. But times are changing, and so is what it means to be masculine. Now, qualities like emotional intelligence, vulnerability, and adaptability are becoming just as important. We're breaking down these shifts and exploring what they mean for all of us today. It's about understanding where we've come from and where we're headed.

    17 min
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This is a gathering place for men to discuss the topics of the day and help each other become better men. Hosted by Ryan Mortimer. A lover of mens health, fitness, fashion, and all things men. This will be a weekly episode.

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  • Creator
    Ryan Mortimer
  • Years Active
    2019 - 2026
  • Episodes
    47
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2019
  • Show Website
    The Manners Maketh Man