Sex Marks the Spot

Catalina Lawsin, PhD
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Sex Marks the Spot

Hi, I’m Dr Catalina Lawsin and I’m a Clinical Psychologist and I love talking about sex. Sex Marks the Spot is a podcast that bridges the gap between what we know and what we actually do when it comes to sex, relationships and health. Let’s talk about what’s not talked about enough - to embrace our sexual relationship with ourselves and those we love to live fully.

Episodes

  1. 08/19/2020

    Wear a Mask! Your Choice Can Save Lives

    Wear a mask - PLEASE!!! The reality of the COVID pandemic continues to get harsher and harsher, revealing more and more disparities. We could do so much better than we are IF WE CHOOSE DIFFERENTLY. So make the choice, wear a mask. Save lives.⠀ ⠀ Death.⠀ Unemployment.⠀ Evictions.⠀ Social isolation.⠀ ⠀ We can get through this #together but only if we all are on the same page. This shouldn't be political, but sadly it seems politics has become the lens through which response to #COVID19 has focused. ⠀ ⠀ I took this video up in Tahoe while walking a gorgeous single-track trail. Looking for a peaceful retreat in nature, I found out quickly my idea was anything but unique. Mask wearing was about 60% on the trails and in the town. I found myself so irritated, that even in when trying to refuel and relax in nature, reminders of the problems of the pandemic followed me north. ⠀ ⠀ I'm privileged and extremely grateful that I could escape up north while still working. Not everyone has this choice. The essential workers who have to report into work physically don't have this choice, making them more susceptible to catching the virus. ⠀ ⠀ The argument that it's a patriotic right to choose NOT to wear a mask in public is BS. If you find this offensive, sit with it. The data is clear- wearing a mask protects those infected with COVID from SPREADING IT TO OTHERS. This is key. Even if you don't think you're at high risk of dying or becoming extremely sick from COVID - not everyone has that choice. ⠀ ⠀ Politicians continue to spin/silence the data, but if you have the time and space to read this post, then hopefully you can use some of that to also remind yourself of the choice you can make to protect others and stand up to division to #copetogether⠀ ⠀ If you're wondering what voting has to do with sex & relationships. Here's the link: watching COVID death rates rise is leading to more and more fear, isolation - suppressing feelings of safety and empowerment, the two key ingredients to healthy relationships and mind blowing sex. This isn't trivial. The systemic socio-cultural factors that maintain oppression, continue to disconnect us from ourselves and divide us from others. ⠀

    9 min

  2. 07/22/2020

    F*cking Angry ATM & Is it ruining your sex life?

    I'm angry, are you as well? COVID, Racism, Trump, Injustice, money, safety...all of these issues and many more are converging at the moment and impacting how we connect with ourselves and others-- ultimately ruining our sex life! Studies are reporting decreased sexual activity and satisfaction during the Pandemic and increased domestic violence, disputes and plans […]

    9 min

  3. 07/15/2020

    Racism & Sex

    Racial biases impact everyone and every aspect of our being - particularly our sexuality. This week’s episode of Sex Marks the Spot, I’m going to delve into how racism shapes the lens in which BIPOC navigate their worlds and how connection to self and other are impacted. Sexual racism, assumptions, rules and norms all play […]

    10 min

  4. 05/20/2020

    Seinfeld & Sex: We can learn a lot from life’s random moments

    Seinfeld inspired this week’s episode of Sex Marks the Spot.  Join me to explore how life’s random moments, many we typically overlook, can teach us a lot about our sexualitySeinfeld inspired this week’s episode of Sex Marks the Spot.  Join me to explore how life’s random moments, many we typically overlook, can teach us alot about our […]

    10 min

  5. 05/13/2020

    Aversive to Sex? Let’s Talk About Why & How to Reconnect

    This week I was influenced by a few clients and participants from a webinar I spoke at where many individuals felt “broke” or “f*cked up” because they didn’t have sexual desire, or not as much as they used to due to an illness, stress, trauma – a multitude of reasons. These individuals feel ashamed, guilty, […]

    10 min

  6. 05/06/2020

    Touch: Our Most Efficient Regulator

    We are facing a collective traumatic chronic stressor that forces upon us much uncertainty and unfortunately, fear and stress. This week’s episode of Sex Marks the Spot I’ll chat about how we can cope with the Uncertainty of COVID by leaning in to relationships with ourselves and others. I’ll chat about concrete strategies to build […]

  7. 04/29/2020

    Leaning in to Relationships: Coping with the uncertainty of the COVID Crisis

    We are facing a collective traumatic chronic stressor that forces upon us much uncertainty and unfortunately, fear and stress. This week’s episode of Sex Marks the Spot I’ll chat about how we can cope with the Uncertainty of COVID by leaning in to relationships with ourselves and others. I’ll chat about concrete strategies to build […]

    10 min

  8. 04/22/2020

    Men in Therapy

    Men get the raw end of the stick when it comes to therapy. Therapy can already be intimidating to start without all the gender and cultural norms adding more pressure. In this week’s episode of Sex Marks the Spot I’m talking to all you men out there!! You get to play by YOUR rules, not […]

    18 min

  9. 04/15/2020

    Questioning Your Choices

    Reflections for Singles, Couples & Friends Are you living with regret? This week’s episode of Sex Marks the Spot, I’m exploring choices that we make in relationships as singles, couples and with friends. I’m feeling a tad tentative to share how I’ve been experiencing this being single at the moment and the surprising lack of […]

  10. 04/08/2020

    Sex Under Lockdown …It’s getting real

    Uncertainty and fear are at the core of the COVID crisis.   It’s during these times we focus on relationships the most. Amidst this chronic stress our bodies are producing more cortisol, which can lead to changes in our testosterone and eosterogen levels — impacting our sexual wellbeing.  Changes to lidio, function -potency and lubrication, orgasm […]

  • 10 Episodes

About

Hi, I’m Dr Catalina Lawsin and I’m a Clinical Psychologist and I love talking about sex. Sex Marks the Spot is a podcast that bridges the gap between what we know and what we actually do when it comes to sex, relationships and health. Let’s talk about what’s not talked about enough - to embrace our sexual relationship with ourselves and those we love to live fully.

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  • Creator
    Catalina Lawsin, PhD
  • Years Active
    2019 - 2020
  • Episodes
    10
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Show Website
    Sex Marks the Spot

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