Stories of Change & Creativity

Judy Oskam

Stories of Change and Creativity is a podcast about personal growth, life transitions, and the experiences that shape who we become.  Hosted by university professor, storyteller, and proud Texan Judy Oskam, each episode features conversations with people whose lives were changed by a defining moment or unexpected opportunity. From Texas to Scotland and beyond, you'll discover stories of resilience and purpose —because every story has something to teach us.

  1. Jul 20

    The Experience That Changed Her Life | Laura Stevenson

    At 20 years old, Queen Margaret University student Laura Stevenson traveled from Scotland to Martha's Vineyard for a six-month study abroad internship. At the time, it felt like nothing more than a graduation requirement.  She had no idea she was living through a defining moment. In this episode of Stories of Change & Creativity, Laura reflects on the experience that changed her life.  And she didn't recognize it until years later. Together, we explore how defining moments sometimes reveal their true value - in the rear view mirror. Laura shares how living and working in the United States helped build her confidence and independence. It wasn't until she began helping students prepare for their own international experiences that she realized the greatest value of study abroad wasn't the work itself—it was the personal growth that came from stepping outside her comfort zone. So far, Laura has traveled to nearly 50 countries and serves as an International Officer at Queen Margaret University.  In this role, she helps students recognize the life-changing value of international education while they're still living it. As I listened to Laura's story, I was reminded that defining moments rarely jump up and grab us. Sometimes we only understand their significance when we look back and connect the dots. I certainly can relate. In This Episode Why Laura almost overlooked one of the most important experiences of her lifeHow a study abroad internship became a defining momentWhy reflection is essential to personal growthHow international experiences prepare us for life—not just careersLaura's passion for travel, including why Paris captured her heart Did you enjoy this episode? send me a text! Stories of Change & Creativity explores the defining moments that shape who we become—and the lessons we learn along the way. Hosted by professor, storyteller, and proud Texan Judy Oskam.  Together, we explore what happened and what we learn from the experiences that define us. Whether you're navigating a career transition, seeking personal growth or looking for inspiration to take your next step, you'll discover practical wisdom you can apply to your own life. Learn, grow, teach.     Do you have an idea for a guest interview?  Please let me know.  Check out my TEDx talk.  Why you should take action - then figure it out.

    The Experience That Changed Her Life | Laura Stevenson
  2. Jun 23

    Can a Restaurant Bring People Together? Bella Italia, Family and Community with Loredana Calabrese

    What happens when a restaurant encourages people to put away their phones and simply talk to each other? At Bella Italia in North Berwick, Scotland, a simple sign on the door reads: "We do not have Wi-Fi. Talk to each other. Pretend it's 1995."  That sign caught my attention while I was teaching at Queen Margaret University in Scotland.  But it was what happened inside the restaurant that stayed with me. In this episode of Stories of Change & Creativity, I talk with Loredana (Lora) Calabrese about family and why creating a place where people truly connect may be more important today than ever.  I noticed something special about the restaurant. Yes, the food was great but so was the atmosphere.   Lora shares the story of her father, Giovanni Mastrocinque, and his journey from Italy to Scotland. Through hard work, he built a successful family business that continues to bring people together more than four decades later. What struck me most about Lora's story is that Bella Italia isn't really a story about a restaurant. It's a story about people. It's about creating a place where families gather and memories are made. When I later told local interior designer Emma Cross that I was planning to interview Lora, she said, "That's where everyone goes for celebrations." This simple comment made me even more curious about the story behind Bella Italia and the family who built it. In this Episode • The story behind Bella Italia and its founding in 1981 • Giovanni Mastrocinque’s journey from Italy to Scotland • The famous "No WiFi" sign and why it resonates with customers • Lessons Lora learned from her father about hard work and perseverance • Building a family business across generations • Creating a place where people feel welcome and valued Connect with Bella Italia Bella Italia Restaurant North Berwick, Scotland Did you enjoy this episode? send me a text! Stories of Change & Creativity explores the defining moments that shape who we become—and the lessons we learn along the way. Hosted by professor, storyteller, and proud Texan Judy Oskam.  Together, we explore what happened and what we learn from the experiences that define us. Whether you're navigating a career transition, seeking personal growth or looking for inspiration to take your next step, you'll discover practical wisdom you can apply to your own life. Learn, grow, teach.     Do you have an idea for a guest interview?  Please let me know.  Check out my TEDx talk.  Why you should take action - then figure it out.

    Can a Restaurant Bring People Together? Bella Italia, Family and Community with Loredana Calabrese
  3. Jun 22

    What Shapes a Creative Career? Emma Cross on Design and Entrepreneurship

    Scottish interior designer and entrepreneur Emma Cross shares how childhood experiences, creativity, travel, and a willingness to say yes shaped her life and career. Emma Cross knew she wanted to be a designer when she was five years old. In this episode of Stories of Change & Creativity, I sit down with Emma Cross, a Scottish interior designer and entrepreneur, to explore the experiences that shaped her life and career. I first discovered Emma's shop while exploring North Berwick, Scotland. It's a 20 minute train ride from Queen Margaret University, home of our Texas State University Hub program.  Drawn in by the color and design, I was curious about the person behind the brand. Two of my Texas State University students selected Emma's business for our class branding project.  This gave me the perfect reason to reach out to Emma and learn more about her story. During our interview, Emma talked about growing up in the servants' quarters of a grand estate and how that experience shaped her dreams.  She told me she finds inspiration from travel, family and classic films. Emma was captivated by Doris Day's role as an interior designer in Pillow Talk, an early influence that helped spark a lifelong passion for design.   She still goes back to Doris Day's iconic style for ideas.   Emma's path to becoming an interior designer and entrepreneur wasn't a straight line.  She didn't get into art school. Instead, she built her career through experience, curiosity and a willingness to say yes when opportunities appeared—even when she didn't have everything figured out. She said yes.   In This Episode • How childhood experiences influence creativity and career choices • Doris Day, Pillow Talk, and early influences on design • The role of color, creativity, and personal style • Building an interior design business through experience and opportunity • Lessons from entrepreneurship and creative business ownership • Learning to say yes before everything is figured out Connect with Emma Cross Interior Designer | Entrepreneur | Creative Business Owner Website: emmacrossonline.com Emma Cross - The Store  Did you enjoy this episode? send me a text! Stories of Change & Creativity explores the defining moments that shape who we become—and the lessons we learn along the way. Hosted by professor, storyteller, and proud Texan Judy Oskam.  Together, we explore what happened and what we learn from the experiences that define us. Whether you're navigating a career transition, seeking personal growth or looking for inspiration to take your next step, you'll discover practical wisdom you can apply to your own life. Learn, grow, teach.     Do you have an idea for a guest interview?  Please let me know.  Check out my TEDx talk.  Why you should take action - then figure it out.

    What Shapes a Creative Career? Emma Cross on Design and Entrepreneurship
  4. Jun 16

    How Do Life's Hardest Moments Lead to Purpose? Kelly Engram's Story

    What experiences shape who we become? In this episode of Stories of Change & Creativity, Judy Oskam talks with Kelly Engram, educator, Texas State University graduate, and founder of Prairie Fire Hair. Kelly's journey has been full of challenges and turning points.  As a young single mother, she was busy working and raising her son.   Kelly started college but life got in the way.   She returned and finished school years later, earning both a Bachelor's and Master's degree.  Along the way she discovered a passion for teaching and helping others succeed. One of the experiences that shaped Kelly most was a personal struggle with hair loss. It challenged her confidence and self-image.   She talks candidly about this during our interview.  And now she helps other women regain their confidence and embrace who they are. Together, Judy and Kelly explore confidence, identity, and what happens when we give ourselves permission to grow. It's a conversation about discovering passion and finding purpose in a way you never thought possible.   The Experience That Shaped Kelly Hair loss challenged Kelly's confidence, self-image, and sense of identity. Through that experience, she learned to give herself grace, embrace change, and stop letting fear define how she saw herself. Her struggle ultimately became the foundation for her purpose and life's work.   Lessons from Kelly's Journey • Confidence grows when we stop focusing on how others see us and start accepting ourselves. • Passion is often discovered through action and experience. • The experiences we would never choose often become the experiences that shape us most. • It's never too late to discover a new direction, a new passion, or a new purpose. Memorable Quote "The world doesn't see my heart. The world doesn't see my mind...." — Kelly Engram About Kelly Engram Kelly Engram is the founder of Prairie Fire Hair, a Texas-based company dedicated to helping women experiencing hair loss regain confidence through education, personalized support, and luxury wigs. A Texas State graduate, educator, and entrepreneur, Kelly combines lived experience with compassion and expertise to help women navigate issues of identity, confidence, and personal transformation. CONNECT WITH KELLY https://prairiefirehair.com/ https://www.instagram.com/prairiefirehair/ https://www.facebook.com/people/Prairie-Fire-Hair/61572911695599/ Did you enjoy this episode? send me a text! Stories of Change & Creativity explores the defining moments that shape who we become—and the lessons we learn along the way. Hosted by professor, storyteller, and proud Texan Judy Oskam.  Together, we explore what happened and what we learn from the experiences that define us. Whether you're navigating a career transition, seeking personal growth or looking for inspiration to take your next step, you'll discover practical wisdom you can apply to your own life. Learn, grow, teach.     Do you have an idea for a guest interview?  Please let me know.  Check out my TEDx talk.  Why you should take action - then figure it out.

    How Do Life's Hardest Moments Lead to Purpose? Kelly Engram's Story
  5. May 23

    Graduation Reflections: Stories About Student Success and Life After College

    Graduation season always makes me reflective. In this first short solo episode from my new Making Life Work series, I share some thoughts from commencement weekend at Texas State University.  The stories unfolding behind every graduate walking across the stage — stories about growth, creativity, and figuring out what comes next. Our students have experience in journalism and storytelling projects, student media, internships, national competitions, and education abroad courses.  I also reflect on my own unexpected journey from journalism and public relations into higher education. This episode also features remarks from Texas State University President Kelly Damphousse recognizing graduates, mentors, faculty, family members, and the support systems that help students move forward. In this Episode Graduation and personal growthStudent success and storytellingInternships, study abroad, and leadership experiencesReinvention, uncertainty, and career journeysThanks for listening to Stories of Change & Creativity — documenting growth and making life work, one story at a time. Did you enjoy this episode? send me a text! Stories of Change & Creativity explores the defining moments that shape who we become—and the lessons we learn along the way. Hosted by professor, storyteller, and proud Texan Judy Oskam.  Together, we explore what happened and what we learn from the experiences that define us. Whether you're navigating a career transition, seeking personal growth or looking for inspiration to take your next step, you'll discover practical wisdom you can apply to your own life. Learn, grow, teach.     Do you have an idea for a guest interview?  Please let me know.  Check out my TEDx talk.  Why you should take action - then figure it out.

    Graduation Reflections: Stories About Student Success and Life After College
  6. May 9

    Adoption, Motherhood & Lessons from My Daughters | I Never Thought I’d Be a Mother

    In this Mother’s Day episode of Stories of Change and Creativity, Judy Oskam talks with her daughters, Danielle and Jessica, about adoption, family, and experiences that shape identity and creativity. Judy reflects on the decision to adopt from China.  She shares how motherhood changed her understanding of creativity and personal growth. Dani and Jess share their perspective on parenting, identity, and what it means to grow together across generations. They also talk about foster families, adoption stories, and the Chinese belief in the “red thread of fate” — the invisible connection between people who are meant to find one another. What You’ll Learn in This Episode How adoption shaped Judy’s journey to motherhoodLessons children teach parents about creativity and perspectiveReflections on infertility, IVF, and adoptionThe meaning behind the “red thread of fate”Memorable Comments “There’s no rulebook when it comes to parenting.”“Maybe we all have red threads in our lives.”"I always like to say that in every lifetime I think that you're my mother." - JessIf you enjoy conversations about adoption, motherhood, famil, and personal growth, this episode is for you. Follow Danielle Oskam on Instagram: @danioskam Follow Jessica Oskam on Instagram: @jessicaoskam Did you enjoy this episode? send me a text! Stories of Change & Creativity explores the defining moments that shape who we become—and the lessons we learn along the way. Hosted by professor, storyteller, and proud Texan Judy Oskam.  Together, we explore what happened and what we learn from the experiences that define us. Whether you're navigating a career transition, seeking personal growth or looking for inspiration to take your next step, you'll discover practical wisdom you can apply to your own life. Learn, grow, teach.     Do you have an idea for a guest interview?  Please let me know.  Check out my TEDx talk.  Why you should take action - then figure it out.

    Adoption, Motherhood & Lessons from My Daughters | I Never Thought I’d Be a Mother
  7. Apr 12

    Innovation in Texas: Entrepreneurship, Workforce Development & Economic Growth with Justin McKenzie

    How innovation is transforming Texas—and where the biggest opportunities are emerging. In this episode of Stories of Change and Creativity, I had the chance to talk with entrepreneur Justin McKenzie, host of The Building Texas Show. We explore innovation across Texas—from small towns to major cities—and discuss workforce development and emerging industries. Justin shares insights from his career journey, along with lessons from interviewing leaders across the state. This episode is perfect for anyone interested in innovation and career opportunities in Texas. You’ll Learn Where innovation is happening across TexasWhy workforce development matters for future jobsHow local leaders shape economic growthAbout Justin's passion for Texas and Texas State University Advice for entrepreneurs and studentsKey Takeaways Opportunity exists across Texas—not just in big citiesStrong communities and leadership drive innovationThe future of work is evolving quicklySuccess starts with taking action and learning as you goAbout Justin Justin McKenzie is an entrepreneur and host of The Building Texas Show, a podcast focused on highlighting innovation and economic development across Texas. He is a two-time Texas State graduate with experience in manufacturing, startups, and workforce strategy. Follow Justin McKenzie on LinkedIn Visit The Building Texas Show website Subscribe on YouTubeThis interview was recorded at Live Oak Studios on the campus of Texas State University.  Did you enjoy this episode? send me a text! Stories of Change & Creativity explores the defining moments that shape who we become—and the lessons we learn along the way. Hosted by professor, storyteller, and proud Texan Judy Oskam.  Together, we explore what happened and what we learn from the experiences that define us. Whether you're navigating a career transition, seeking personal growth or looking for inspiration to take your next step, you'll discover practical wisdom you can apply to your own life. Learn, grow, teach.     Do you have an idea for a guest interview?  Please let me know.  Check out my TEDx talk.  Why you should take action - then figure it out.

    Innovation in Texas: Entrepreneurship, Workforce Development & Economic Growth with Justin McKenzie
  8. Apr 3

    How is AI changing the way we solve problems? Dr. Aniruddha Bora

    What does it really mean to solve a problem in the age of AI? In this episode of Stories of Change and Creativity, I sat down with Dr. Aniruddha Bora, assistant professor of computer science at Texas State University, to explore how artificial intelligence is transforming the way we think about problem solving.  I met Dr. Bora when I moderated a panel at South by Southwest (SXSW) at Texas House as part of the Texas State University Global Innovation Roundup. From his early interest in science in India to his work in applied mathematics, Dr. Bora shares how interdisciplinary thinking can lead to meaningful innovation. I found Bora to be smart, kind and a joy to be around.  His energy is contagious.     Key Takeaways Problem solving starts with the right questions—not just the right toolsAI is most powerful when combined with mathematics and real-world dataInnovation often happens at the intersection of disciplinesUnderstanding what you don’t know is essential to learningThe future of education is about guiding curiosity, not just delivering answersWhy This Episode Matters As AI becomes more integrated into everyday life, the ability to think critically and solve meaningful problems is more important than ever. This episode offers a fresh perspective on how curiosity and creativity can drive real-world impact. Learn more about Dr. Aniruddha Bora, assistant professor of computer science at Texas State University, and his work in artificial intelligence and real-world applications here. This podcast episode was recorded at the Live Oak Podcast Studio at Texas State University.  Photo by Texas House.  🎧 Enjoyed this episode? Please share it with a colleague, student, or friend who’s interested in AI and creative problem solving. Did you enjoy this episode? send me a text! Stories of Change & Creativity explores the defining moments that shape who we become—and the lessons we learn along the way. Hosted by professor, storyteller, and proud Texan Judy Oskam.  Together, we explore what happened and what we learn from the experiences that define us. Whether you're navigating a career transition, seeking personal growth or looking for inspiration to take your next step, you'll discover practical wisdom you can apply to your own life. Learn, grow, teach.     Do you have an idea for a guest interview?  Please let me know.  Check out my TEDx talk.  Why you should take action - then figure it out.

    How is AI changing the way we solve problems? Dr. Aniruddha Bora
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Stories of Change and Creativity is a podcast about personal growth, life transitions, and the experiences that shape who we become.  Hosted by university professor, storyteller, and proud Texan Judy Oskam, each episode features conversations with people whose lives were changed by a defining moment or unexpected opportunity. From Texas to Scotland and beyond, you'll discover stories of resilience and purpose —because every story has something to teach us.

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