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DJ KELLY
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My name is Dustin Kelly, but everybody calls me DJ. I am former Army, serving as both a Forward Observer and a Military Police Officer. I have spent the last 16.5 years as a Police Officer and Detective in a large metropolitan Police Department. Throughout my career I have learned two things. 1. Everybody has a story to tell, and 2. The Best Stories Are True. This is the DTD Podcast.

  1. 1 DAY AGO

    Episode 178: Dave Fielding "Green Beret, Spy, Author"

    -CHAPTERS- 00:00 Introduction to Dave Fielding and His Journey 02:19 The Impact of Family Legacy on Military Aspirations 08:57 Navigating Personal Identity and Military Expectations 14:31 The Struggle Between Personal Happiness and External Expectations 19:10 Marriage and Military Life: Balancing Two Worlds 24:05 The Challenges of Being a Green Beret and a Partner 31:20 The Decision to Become a Spy: A New Chapter 38:40 Reflections on Relationships and Personal Growth 46:26 Navigating Personal Turmoil 52:29 The Complexity of Relationships 01:00:12 Compartmentalization in High-Stakes Environments 01:03:21 The Thrill of the Mission 01:13:05 Struggles with Mental Health 01:21:37 Finding Purpose in the Mission 01:31:49 Christmas Day Raid: A Bold Proposal 01:33:45 The Emotional High of a Successful Mission 01:36:35 The Aftermath of the Soleimani Strike 01:42:39 Betrayal and Its Consequences 01:45:51 Facing Inner Demons: A Journey of Self-Discovery 01:53:30 From Chaos to Self-Love: A Transformative Journey 02:01:58 Building a New Purpose: Helping Others 02:12:27 Finding Connection: Sharing the Journey -SUMMARY- In this conversation, Dave Fielding shares his journey from a young idealist inspired by his family's military legacy to a Green Beret and spy. He discusses the emotional struggles he faced, including the impact of his relationships and the pressures of military life. Throughout the conversation, he reflects on the importance of being true to oneself, the challenges of balancing personal happiness with external expectations, and the thrill of serving in high-stakes environments. In this conversation, Dave Fielding shares his experiences as a special forces operative, detailing the emotional challenges faced during deployment, the impact of relationships on mental health, and the journey towards self-discovery and healing. He discusses the pressures of military life, the toll of betrayal, and the importance of finding purpose in the mission. Ultimately, Dave emphasizes the significance of self-love and ownership in overcoming personal struggles and building a healthier future. -TAKEAWAYS- Being real with oneself is the foundation of masculinity. Family legacy can significantly influence personal choices. The military experience can shape one's identity and values. Fear often drives decisions that may not align with true desires. Relationships can complicate personal and professional lives in the military. The importance of communication in maintaining relationships. Adapting to environments can lead to losing sight of one's true self. The emotional toll of divorce can impact mental health and career. Finding purpose in high-stakes jobs can be exhilarating. Compartmentalization is a key skill in both military and spy work. The mentality of always proving your worth is crucial in special forces. Emotional struggles during deployment can lead to severe mental health issues. A moment of despair can lead to a turning point in life. Finding purpose in the mission can be a lifesaver. Betrayal can come from unexpected places, impacting mental health. Self-discovery is a journey that requires confronting inner demons. Addiction to chaos can stem from a need for control and excitement. Learning to love oneself is essential for healthy relationships. The energy you give out attracts similar energy back to you. Owning your struggles is the first step towards healing.

    2h 15m

  2. NOV 13

    Episode 177: Lt. Colonel David Lucas/CSM Matt Williams

    -CHAPTERS- 00:00 Introduction to Special Forces Training 05:44 The Officer Perspective on Special Forces 12:32 The Enlisted Perspective and NCO Roles 16:34 The Significance of the Green Beret 21:16 Trust and Responsibility in Special Forces 22:45 Training the Next Generation of Warriors 26:19 Instilling Humility in Special Forces 30:04 Pathway to Becoming a Green Beret 31:32 The Pathway to Becoming a Green Beret 36:44 Understanding Officer and Enlisted Roles 42:05 Cross-Training and Team Dynamics 44:56 Real-World Applications of Training 50:47 Adapting Training for Future Threats 55:52 The Call to Serve in Special Forces 59:46 END SCENE -SUMMARY- In this episode of the DTD podcast, the command team from the First Special Warfare Training Group discusses the rigorous selection and training processes for Special Forces soldiers. They delve into the qualities sought in both officers and enlisted personnel, the importance of trust and responsibility in operations, and the evolving landscape of global military engagement. The conversation highlights the unique challenges faced by the next generation of Green Berets and the critical role of training in preparing them for real-world missions. -TAKEAWAYS- Special Forces soldiers are selected for their leadership and adaptability. The officer's role is to plan and lead in dynamic situations. NCOs drive training and operational culture within teams. Trust is paramount in Special Forces operations. The landscape of military engagement is constantly changing. Training focuses on building relationships with partner forces. The pathway to becoming a Green Beret is rigorous and demanding. Cross-training is essential for team effectiveness. Humility and teamwork are core values in Special Forces. The future of training must adapt to new threats and technologies.

    1 hr

  3. NOV 6

    Episode 176:Ayman Kafel "Africa/Lebanon Civil War,US Army,Metro SWAT"

    -Chapters- 00:00 Introduction to Ayman Kafel's Journey 01:45 Childhood Memories of War in Lebanon 04:40 Experiences in Liberia's Civil War 09:18 Cultural Clash and Family Dynamics in America 15:39 The Impact of Parental Relationships on Identity 20:27 Military Aspirations and the Search for Belonging 23:20 The Reality of War and Personal Transformation 33:18 Bridging Cultures: The Power of Language 38:35 The Weight of War: Personal Reflections 43:21 Homecoming: The Reality of Returning 50:09 Coping Mechanisms: Finding Balance 55:18 Stoicism in Action: Lessons from the Past 01:01:10 Family Dynamics: Breaking the Cycle 01:07:59 Navigating Family Dynamics and Involvement 01:08:49 The Evolution of Policing: A Personal Journey 01:11:11 Shifting Perceptions of Law Enforcement 01:12:30 Adapting to New Realities in Policing 01:15:22 The Impact of COVID-19 on Law Enforcement 01:17:48 Reflections on Purpose and Service 01:21:07 Mental Health Challenges in Law Enforcement 01:23:40 The Importance of Mental Health Awareness 01:27:56 Leadership and Culture in Policing 01:32:01 Finding New Passions Beyond the Badge -Summary- This conversation explores the life of an individual who grew up amidst civil wars in Lebanon and Liberia, detailing their traumatic childhood experiences and the impact on their family dynamics. The discussion delves into their decision to join the military, the challenges faced during deployment in Iraq, and the struggle with PTSD and survivor's guilt upon returning home. The narrative highlights the complexities of cultural identity, the quest for parental approval, and the journey towards personal growth and healing. In this conversation, the speaker reflects on their experiences in law enforcement and the military, discussing themes of loss, personal growth, and the importance of mental health. They explore the impact of stoicism on their perspective, the challenges faced in policing, especially during COVID-19, and the need for better mental health support within the profession. The discussion also touches on leadership, ethics, and the significance of writing as a therapeutic outlet. Ultimately, the speaker emphasizes the importance of resilience and community engagement in their ongoing journey. -Takeaways- Childhood memories can be shaped by traumatic experiences. Surviving civil wars can lead to complex family dynamics. Compartmentalizing trauma is a common coping mechanism. Cultural isolation can impact family relationships in a new country. Parental approval can be a significant motivator for personal choices. Military training can foster resilience and personal growth. Returning home from war can be challenging and isolating. Bridging cultural divides can create a sense of purpose in conflict zones. Survivor's guilt can linger long after traumatic experiences. The impact of loss can linger, but control is key. Internal work and therapy are essential for healing. Stoicism provides a framework for coping with challenges. Personal experiences shape our approach to parenting. Law enforcement has evolved significantly over the years. COVID-19 presented unique challenges for policing. Mental health support in law enforcement is lacking. Leadership in policing should prioritize ethics and community. Writing can be a powerful tool for self-reflection. Engagement in community initiatives is vital for growth. Stay connected and never miss an episode by subscribing to our podcast on your favorite platform! Don't forget to hit that notification bell to be the first to know when a new episode drops. For exclusive full interviews and behind-the-scenes content, visit our official website: https://www.dtdpodcast.net/ Follow us on social media for updates, sneak peeks, and more engaging content: 🔗 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/dustin.kelly.79 🔗 LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/DTDPODCAST_DJKELLY 🔗 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/

    1h 43m

  4. OCT 30

    Episode 175: Ben Bringhurst "Green Beret/Director Language Regional Education and Cultural Directorate"

    -CHAPTERS- 00:00 Introduction to the Language School 02:52 The Importance of Language in Special Operations 06:02 Cultural Training and Its Significance 08:52 Challenges and Breakthroughs in Language Learning 12:03 Real-World Applications of Language Skills 14:55 The Role of Non-Commissioned Officers 18:08 Current and Future Language Programs 20:59 Flexibility and Speed in Language Training 23:47 Character and Thirst for Knowledge 27:03 Building Relationships Through Language 29:48 Leadership and Language Skills 33:04 Future of the Language School -SUMMARY- This conversation delves into the critical role of language and cultural training in the U.S. Army Special Operations Forces. The director of the language school discusses the importance of conversational fluency, cultural understanding, and the integration of these skills into military operations. The dialogue highlights the challenges faced by soldiers learning new languages and cultures, the significance of building relationships with partner nations, and the evolving landscape of language training in response to global threats. The conversation also touches on the future of the language school and the emphasis on flexibility and adaptability in training programs. -TAKEAWAYS- Language is essential for building relationships in special operations. Cultural fluency enhances the effectiveness of military missions. Training includes both language and cultural understanding. Humility and curiosity are key traits for successful operators. Language skills can lead to deeper connections with partner forces. The school adapts quickly to emerging language needs. Non-commissioned officers play a crucial role in cultural integration. Language training is a force multiplier in military operations. Building rapport is as important as language proficiency. The future of language training includes AI and standardized cultural programs. Stay connected and never miss an episode by subscribing to our podcast on your favorite platform! Don't forget to hit that notification bell to be the first to know when a new episode drops. For exclusive full interviews and behind-the-scenes content, visit our official website: https://www.dtdpodcast.net/ Follow us on social media for updates, sneak peeks, and more engaging content:

    41 min

  5. OCT 22

    Episode 174: Ryan "Koup" Kuperus "USMC Force Recon"

    -Chapters- 00:00 Introduction and Background 03:48 Military Journey and Family Influence 06:45 Joining the Marine Corps: Motivations and Expectations 10:05 Leadership Development in the Marine Corps 12:57 Basic Training Experience 15:48 Invasion of Iraq: Initial Experiences 18:51 Post-Invasion Reflections and Leadership Challenges 21:50 Transitioning to Okinawa and New Opportunities 40:46 The Decision to Rejoin the Marines 45:23 Reflections on Military Experience and Leadership 52:52 Reenlisting and the Path to Recon 01:02:04 Facing Failure and Overcoming Challenges 01:06:29 Life as a Recon Marine 01:14:00 The Impact of Injury on Identity and Career 01:21:23 Transformative Experiences: Injury and Career Path 01:24:33 Mental Fitness: The Overlooked Aspect of Recovery 01:27:45 Compartmentalization: The Hidden Struggles of Service Members 01:31:04 Finding Hobbies: Rediscovering Life Beyond the Military 01:38:19 Leadership Evolution: Teaching from Experience 01:45:49 Full Circle: Working with the Wounded Warrior Battalion 01:51:35 Eco-Therapy: Healing Through Nature and Community -Summary- In this conversation, the speaker shares his journey from growing up on a dairy farm in upstate New York to serving in the Marine Corps, detailing his motivations for joining, experiences during training and deployment, and reflections on leadership and personal growth. He discusses the challenges of transitioning to civilian life, the impact of 9/11 on his military career, and his eventual return to the Marines to pursue a career in reconnaissance. The conversation highlights the complexities of military life, the importance of mentorship, and the lessons learned throughout his experiences. In this conversation, the speaker reflects on their journey as a Recon Marine, discussing the challenges of facing failure, the impact of injury on their identity, and the importance of mental fitness. They share insights on balancing military life with family responsibilities, the significance of recovery, and the healing power of nature. The discussion also touches on leadership, teaching standards, and the mission of the Wounded Warrior Battalion, culminating in the speaker's current work with The Reason Outdoors, which focuses on ecotherapy for veterans and first responders. -Takeaways- The desire to prove oneself can drive personal growth. Leadership styles evolve with experience and maturity. Military training can be both physically and mentally challenging. Deployment experiences shape perspectives on war and service. Transitioning to civilian life can be a complex journey. Mentorship plays a crucial role in developing future leaders. The impact of significant events, like 9/11, can change career trajectories. Resilience is key in overcoming setbacks and failures. The importance of preparation and practice in achieving goals. Reflecting on past experiences can provide valuable insights for the future. Failure was not an option for me. I never thought I didn't belong. Mental fitness became a priority after my injury. I learned to train smarter, not harder. Nature has a calming and healing effect. I had to prove myself every day as a leader. The Marine Corps needs both leaders and followers. I fell through the cracks in the medical system. Ecotherapy helps veterans and first responders. I want to help others through outdoor activities.

    1h 59m

  6. SEP 25

    Episode 173: Morgan Lerette "Air Force/BlackWater Contractor/US Army

    Welcome to Dynamic Tales Delivered. This week in the studio, the man behind the explosive memoir Guns, Girls, and Greed: I Was a Blackwater Mercenary in Iraq. his journey started in 1999 when he joined the Air Force, but it didn't take long for him to find himself right in the middle of the action. He was part of the Ground Offensive in Iraq in 2003, witnessing history unfold firsthand. But that's not all! From 2004 to 2005, he was a private military contractor for none other than Blackwater the most notorious contractor in Iraq. And if you think his story ends there, think again! He went on to become an Army intelligence officer, serving in Iraq once more from 2009 to 2010. And as if his adventures on the battlefield weren't enough, Morgan sharpened his intellect by attending the prestigious Tufts University Fletcher School of Law and Diplomacy, where he earned a Master of International Business degree in International Banking and Finance. So, buckle up and get ready for a wild ride as we uncover the incredible experiences of a man who has seen it all and lived to tell the tale. Please welcome Morgan Lerette….

    2h 2m

  7. AUG 28

    Episode 172: Chris Frueh, PhD “ Operator Syndrome”

    Welcome to the Dynamic Tales Delivered podcast, where we delve into the intricate web of human experiences. Today, we are honored to have a conversation with a distinguished clinical psychologist and Professor of Psychology at the University of Hawaii-Hilo, as our guest. With over thirty years of professional experience working with military veterans and active-duty personnel, his insights and research have shaped our understanding of the complexities surrounding the "Operator Syndrome."Join us as we explore his groundbreaking work that is revolutionizing the way we approach and treat the multifaceted challenges faced by those in military special operations. From his extensive research to his involvement in various foundations and collaborations dedicated to supporting the military community, Dr. Frueh's impact is truly profound.Through his numerous publications, testimonies before Congress, and contributions to prestigious publications, Dr. Frueh's expertise has reached far and wide, influencing discussions on mental health, military operations, and societal issues. And let's not forget his captivating historical crime novels under the pen name Christopher Bartley, offering a glimpse into America's past through gripping narratives of men with guns searching for meaning and connection. PLEASE WELCOME DR. CHRIS FRUEH INTO THE STUDIOThanks for listening to a podcast where you are not just a listener, but an integral part of the dialogue.

    1h 54m

  8. AUG 14

    Episode 171: Randall Parkes “Husband/Father/U.S. Marine/USC Trojan

    Randall Parkes is a senior leader who has led numerous Marines and Sailors in austere environments around the globe. Randall joined the United States Marine Corps in July 2001. Throughout his career he was deployed on four combat deployments to combat terrorism around the globe in Iraq, Afghanistan and off the coast of Africa. 

From 2006 to 2011 Randall was assigned as a founding member of 1st Marine Raider Battalion, Marine Special Operations Command. In 2011 he was named Marine Special Operations Command Marine of the Year. From 2011 Randall was assigned as a Drill Instructor aboard Parris Island, South Carolina where he instructed and inspired young men on leadership, physical fitness and ethics. 

In 2014 Randall was assigned to 2nd Reconnaissance Battalion. In 2017 he deployed to Central Command in support of operations to combat terrorism. He led a company of 97 Marines and Sailors that were employed in multiple theaters. His last duty assignment was aboard the Recruit Depot in San Diego, California and retired after 20 years of faithful and honourable service on 30 September 2021. 

Upon retiring from the Marine Corps Randall and his wife launched his own Real Estate company, The Parkes Realty Group with Cømpass and has sold over $37 million in residential real estate. In addition to his real estate business, Randall also works as a Mission Operations Deployment Lead for Anduril Industries, a leading defence technology company that is repotting the arsenal of democracy. 

Randall currently holds a Master’s Degree in Business from the University of Southern California, Marshall School of Business, and a bachelor’s degree in Business Management (Magna Cum Laude).

Randall has received a few significant awards as well. The Meritorious Service Medal, The Navy and Marine Corps Commendation Medal, the Army Commendation Medal, the Navy and Marine Corps Achievement Medal with Valour and the Combat Action Ribbon second award. 

First Sergeant Parkes is married to the former Heather Lynn Norton and has two children, Brody and Kinsley Parkes.

    2h 9m
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My name is Dustin Kelly, but everybody calls me DJ. I am former Army, serving as both a Forward Observer and a Military Police Officer. I have spent the last 16.5 years as a Police Officer and Detective in a large metropolitan Police Department. Throughout my career I have learned two things. 1. Everybody has a story to tell, and 2. The Best Stories Are True. This is the DTD Podcast.

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  • Creator
    DJ KELLY
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2024
  • Episodes
    183
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © DJ KELLY
  • Show Website
    DTD PODCAST

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