The NYBB Show'

Katherine Carol

Ever been called a bitch? Don't like it. Can't stop it? Then, own it. Redefine it. Join these "Not so Basic Bitches" and in-laws, Allison Learned and Katherine Carol, over a virtual cup of coffee as they share their salty and sweet, sassy and wise generational perspectives on feminine power, love, family and our changing world.

  1. 4d ago

    Serious Fun: Why Joy Is No Laughing Matter

    Life is serious enough. Between family, work, relationships, responsibilities, and the unexpected curveballs life throws our way, it's easy to put fun at the bottom of the to-do list. But what if having fun is one of the most important things we can do for ourselves? In this episode of Not Your Basic Bitches, Katherine and Allison explore the surprisingly serious business of having fun. From self-care and creativity to laughter, friendship, and finding joy in the ordinary, we're talking about why fun isn't frivolous. It's essential. And then there's creativity! Whether it's painting, playing music, taking an improv class, knitting, dancing, writing, or trying something completely outside our comfort zones, creative activities invite us to use different parts of our brains, discover hidden talents, and see the world through fresh eyes. You don't have to be an artist, musician, or comedian to be creative. Sometimes the magic is simply in the doing, not the finished product. Creativity gives us permission to play, experiment, make mistakes, and laugh at ourselves along the way. We reflect on how our ideas about fun change as we move through different stages of life, why women often feel guilty taking time for themselves, and how making room for creativity and play can renew our energy, strengthen our relationships, and help us navigate life's challenges with a little more imagination. Because self-care isn't always about bubble baths and quiet moments. Sometimes it's about picking up a paintbrush, singing off-key, knitting something wonderfully imperfect, laughing until your sides hurt, or simply giving yourself permission to enjoy life. The bottom line? Life is too important to forget to have fun. And sometimes, a little creativity and laughter are exactly what we need to tackle the serious stuff.

    Serious Fun: Why Joy Is No Laughing Matter
  2. Oct 21

    Grief Is Universal. Comfort Isn't.

    Grief. It's one of the few things every human being will experience, yet somehow, we're still pretty lousy at knowing what to do when it shows up. In this episode of Not Your Basic Bitches, Allison and Katherine sit down for an honest, sometimes uncomfortable, and deeply personal conversation about loss. Both have experienced the death of a parent, but their journeys couldn't have been more different. Allison lost her father to early-onset Alzheimer's, while Katherine said goodbye to her mother after a long life, with the practical details of her passing thoughtfully prepared. But grief isn't reserved for death. It also finds us when close relationships change, friendships fade, or people who once played important roles in our lives are no longer there. We talk about the strange ways grief shows up, the things people say when they don't know what to say, and the even harder question: How do we actually help someone who is grieving? Do we call? Show up? Give them space? Bring food? Say something profound? Or simply sit beside them when there are no words? And why, when loss is such a universal part of being human, are we still so uncertain about how to support one another through it? We don't have all the answers. We're not grief counselors, and we're certainly not offering a five-step plan to make everything better. We're two women from different generations sharing what we've experienced, what we've learned, and what we still haven't figured out. Because maybe helping someone through grief isn't about finding the perfect words. Maybe it's about being willing to stay in the conversation, even when it's uncomfortable. Grab your coffee, pull up a chair, and join us for a conversation about love, loss, and the messy business of being human.

    Grief Is Universal. Comfort Isn't.

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Ever been called a bitch? Don't like it. Can't stop it? Then, own it. Redefine it. Join these "Not so Basic Bitches" and in-laws, Allison Learned and Katherine Carol, over a virtual cup of coffee as they share their salty and sweet, sassy and wise generational perspectives on feminine power, love, family and our changing world.