The Hard Or Soft Show

The Hard Or Soft Show
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Tahoe and Loon speaks to people in the sex community about things men like and don't like about sex in an effort to learn, educate and broaden mens horizons around exploring themselves and their partners desires, wants, and needs.

  1. JAN 21

    317. Just Bring The Nut!

    Nut Navy ROLLLLL CALLLLLLL!!!!! This week the crew is back and the vibes are here as we talk Tahoe cuffing women that arent his, your mutual friends not telling you that they are dating, ppl not realizing the harsh realities of poly relationships until they are in one, what men really mean when they say "lets just see where it goes", Courtneys newest entry into her p*ssy chronicles, where do men learn how to have good male hygiene and MORE! Such a great episode! ENJOY! If you are coming to the Nut Gala, please send your emails to HardOrSoftEvents@gmail.com if you have already been vetted requesting the ticket link or go to TheHardOrSoftShow.com and fill out the vetting form. If You are waiting for the ticket link please search your email for a response from HardorSoftEvents@gmail.com as it may be in your spam or reach out to us on Instagram or by email for help. Socials Courtney @Courtney_Shav on Instagram Loon @KingLoonthe1st on Instagram Tahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram Yessssterday @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor. Ads: SoakingWet Make every encounter slipperier, sexier, and downright sensational. It’s time to get Soaking Wet and keep those good times coming...literally. And the best part? Soaking Wet is formulated by medical doctors at VB Health. Visit soakingwet.com and use code HARDORSOFT for 10% off or click HERE GetTheButters  Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow  Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

    1h 38m

  2. JAN 15

    316. The Year of Yes Feat Kandi Burruss

    Nut NAvy ROLLLLLLL CAALLLLLLLL!!!! In this special crossover episode of Business of Pleasure x The Hard or Soft Show, Tahoe is joined by Kasha Vanessa and the incomparable Kandi Burruss for a real, funny, and affirming conversation about transitioning from marital life into single womanhood, reclaiming self-love, and using pleasure as both confidence and care. We get into setting intentions for the year ahead and saying yes to ourselves, our pleasure, and our evolution. Kandi opens up about the whether she is ready or thinking about dating in today’s wild outside world, we talk people trying to spin the block, and the importance of true alignment in relationships, friendships, and energy as she steps into this next season with intention. We get into all the fun, toys that get you through transitions, riding it right, confidence in your body, and how pleasure plays a role in healing and empowerment. The conversation expands into the Hard or Soft framework, sharing our Hard/Wet, what turns us on, and our Soft/Dry, what turns us off, along with an honest discussion about ethical non-monogamy versus polyamory. This episode is grown, candid, and exactly the reminder you need to step boldly into your Year of YES. ENJOY!!! Also tune into Tahoe and Kashas new show Unconsciously Competent on all streaming episodes NOW!! or just click here  To Go to the Play Party head to HardOrSoftEvents if youve been vetted already or go to TheHardOrSoftShow.com to fill out the vetting form Socials Kandi @Kandi on Instagram Kasha @Au_Natural38 on Instagram and Twitter Shop Bedroom Kandi products at @BedroomKandi on Instagram or click the link in the bio Tune into the @BusinessOfPleasure podcast weekly on Youtube! Tahoe  @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor. Ads: LoadBoost Visit LoadBoost.com or click here and put in code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off all LoadBoost products  GetTheButters  Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow  Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

    2h 8m

  3. JAN 8

    315. D*ck Gumbo feat @ENYScoot

    Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!! Its 2026 and we are BACK with a hilarious episode to start the new year! ENY Scoot sits with us to talk having bad secks with a good partner, is there such a thing as pulling toys out too early in dating, the idea that ppl look for reasons to not cheat more than they look for reasons to cheat, why men dont just tell the truth, a young man writes us a letter asking for help, and whats something you learned about secks the hard way that you wish you wouldve learned sooner? Socials Courtney @Courtney_Shav on Instagram Loon @KingLoonthe1st on Instagram Tahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram Yessssterday @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor. Ads: LoadBoost Visit LoadBoost.com or click here and put in code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off all LoadBoost products  GetTheButters  Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow  Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

    2h 7m

  4. 12/18/2025

    314. Slap My Yssup, Slap My Face

    Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!! This week the crew are back to talk.. not gon lie yall I have to be up for work in 3 hours..I'll fill out the description later ..but this episode was GOOD!! ENJOY!

    1h 57m

  5. 12/12/2025

    313b. The Healing that made the Healer feat. Madame Sé (part two)

    Welcome back to Part Two! Madame Se continues with the mommy wound conversation, being the problem in her previous marraige, having postpartum depression after her pregnancies and feeling like she wouldnt be a good mother for her children, survivng her own depression and attempts to self harm, how to support people who suffer from depression, why Aysha says a woman should leave a guy who is not treating her right two weeks after his mom passes, and if she will ever be 'Ok"...ENJOY! Socials: Madame Sé @MrsBellamy.CallMeCoach on Instagram Book Her at AyshaCoachBellamy.com Tahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor. Ads: GetTheButters  Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow  Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

    1h 26m

  6. 12/10/2025

    313a. The Healing that made the Healer Feat Madame Sé (Part One)

    Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CALLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!! This week Tahoe sits with Coach Bellamy aka Madame Sé aka The Kinky Oracle to talk her new show on the Hard Or Soft network RAW, starting her show Temple of Euphoria after being secksually assaulted at a play party, which of her kinks are attached to her trauma, graduating therapy, Tahoes fear of therapy, how she deals with being diagnosed with epilepsy, what she loves about the Hard Or Soft Show, wanting to be a Dominatrix, why she tends to sympathize with the male experience, Mommy wounds and so much more! Tune into our patreon to hear the full episode ad free or tune in this friday for Part Two! oh and ENJOY!! Socials: Madame Sé @MrsBellamy.CallMeCoach on Instagram Book Her at AyshaCoachBellamy.com Tahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor. Ads: GetTheButters  Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow  Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

    1h 2m

  7. 12/04/2025

    312. The Secks Needs To Be Falling Off The Bone

    Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CALLLLLLLLLL!!!! Welcome back guys! The crew starts the show asking if they think they are "nice" people, sucking d*ck for 100 million, Freddy from the Southern Pleasure Expo calls in to tell us about it, a poly woman talks about the difficulties dating monogamous people, Tahoe calls a friend to confess something about the past, a woman says to keep the big d*cks away from her, 5 issues men with big d*cks have to deal with and MORE! ENJOY!! Come out to Dallas, TX to the Southern Pleasure Expo Dec 12th-14th!  Get Tickets Here! Socials Courtney @Courtney_Shav on Instagram Loon @KingLoonthe1st on Instagram Tahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram Yessssterday @Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor. Ads: LoadBoost Visit LoadBoost.com and put in code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off all LoadBoost products GetTheButters  Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow  Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

    2h 12m

  8. 12/01/2025

    311a. The Hoodoo Baddie Part Two Feat Alexis Jade

    Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CALLLLLLLLL!!!!!!! Alexis Jade (@JupiterGrl_) is back to talk Christmas and liking experiences vs receiving gifts, having a child and dating, being single and ready to mingle (kinda), and she teaches Tahoe about the rest of the chakras and what they mean to the body and mind. We ask what exactly is a hoodoo baddie and then we get secksy as she talks about the things that make her hard and the things that make her soft. ENJOY! Socials: Alexis @OfficialAlexisJade on Instagram @Jupitergrl_ on Twitter @DiaryofAlexisJade222 on Tiktok Tahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor. Ads: GetTheButters  Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off) Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow  Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

    1h 26m
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Tahoe and Loon speaks to people in the sex community about things men like and don't like about sex in an effort to learn, educate and broaden mens horizons around exploring themselves and their partners desires, wants, and needs.

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  • Creator
    The Hard Or Soft Show
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    300
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Copyright 2020 - The Hard Or Soft Show - Brooklyn, NY
  • Show Website
    The Hard Or Soft Show

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