Just So We're Clear

Marissa Trew & Hanli Hoefer
  • 4.8 (5)
  • SOCIETY & CULTURE
Just So We're Clear

Just So We’re Clear is hosted by two mixed-race, passionately curious women in Singapore – Hanli Hoefer and Marissa Trew. They bring on a series of guests – sex-positivity and mental health advocates, comedians, adventurers, entrepreneurs, chefs and more – to get their takes on different topics that affect everyone. Always candid and relentlessly authentic, Just So We're Clear is a representative voice of young, modern Asian women.

  1. 6 DAYS AGO

    Pregnancy tests and plotting revenge

    Welcome back to a mega-personal, extra-long catch up episode, besties! We knoooow it's been a minute, but being able to record in person just hits different. So we saved up all the good stuff for this juicy little number. We talk about babies... like how are we meant to KNOW when we're ready to make one? Will we ever feel sure? Then we figure out where the lines are between our friends and our partners... what happens if they hate each other? What if they like each other too much? Tell us what you think.

    1h 3m

  2. JUL 22

    Birds of a feather cringe together

    For the first time in forever Hanli and Marissa take a break from their BFF LDR and record this whole episode without breaking eye contact... and things got deep. We reflect on a few important life things, like... Have we taken self-hood too far? Is social media only feeding our need for external validation? Who is your safe space? Is there such thing as gossiping for good? Are we suffering from cringe blindness? So many thoughts, so many feelings. You need to tune in.

    40 min

  3. JUL 1

    Are we growing up or growing apart?

    Do you guys ever just save up for a good cry? We're running through some of the weird reasons we've gotten emotional lately. Hanli starts to feel like a local in Mexico but shares what she's found hard about connecting with people and building community away from home. Marissa reflects on how growing up can sometimes feel like growing apart, as we all enter different chapters of our lives.

    46 min

  4. JUN 17

    We did the work, now it's your move

    Ladies, we get it. Online dating can be such a chore. We do the work, we’re ready to put ourselves out there, but how many frogs do we need to kiss before we find our prince? In this episode, we’re talking about all things online dating. The highs, the lows, and the weird and wonderful things we experience on our quest to meet the one. We spill the tea on the few times we tried to make the first move, share our zombie apocalypse plans, and give you our tips on how to build a killer profile. And of course, shoutout to the queen bee, Bumble 🐝, for teaming up with this cute lil podcast! #bumbleasia #openingmoves

    36 min

  5. MAY 16

    Why are you so wet all the time??

    Can you BELIEVE it? Four years on and this cute little podcast is still going strong. We know it's been a while and we have so.. much.. catching up to do. In this episode, we give you the rundown of what we've been up to over the last few months, from moving half way across the world, to the weird and wonderful things we're learning about living with our partners.

    30 min

  6. 12/13/2023

    Rudeness is so 2020

    First of all, an announcement. Hanli is kinda sorta leaving Singapore... and we need to talk about it. We share the full deets, and take a moment to reflect on what it means to make that jump. Plus, lets talk about energy vampires. Chances are you know one, maybe you're close friends with one; they might even be a family member. You love them, but wow is it tiring dealing with them sometimes. We share our own little ways of keeping healthy boundaries, while still giving them the support they need. As our last episode of the year, we want to say a BIG thank you to everyone who's supported us this year. We honestly could not have done it without you. We'll be back in 2024 with more spicy eps... but until then, take care, stay hot, be well.

    51 min

  7. 11/06/2023

    Can guys and girls really be friends?

    See, what did we tell you? Shoutout to all of you that wrote in and held us accountable. We see you, we love you. We're back. This week, we're talking about how to communicate your needs and standards within a relationship... right down to the little things that matter. Plus, can guys and girls really be friends? We give you our take.

    45 min

  8. 10/16/2023

    Here comes the bride!

    Guys. Big news. Like MAJOR. Actually... let us just voice note you. This episode we're serving up our major life updates, and dropping a huge announcement (ahem, hint in the title). We share the full story of kween Hanli's royal engagement; romance, funny mishaps and all. Plus, Marissa pops off about a recent medical diagnosis that's forcing us to question the relationship between bodyweight and health.

    1h 9m
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About

Just So We’re Clear is hosted by two mixed-race, passionately curious women in Singapore – Hanli Hoefer and Marissa Trew. They bring on a series of guests – sex-positivity and mental health advocates, comedians, adventurers, entrepreneurs, chefs and more – to get their takes on different topics that affect everyone. Always candid and relentlessly authentic, Just So We're Clear is a representative voice of young, modern Asian women.

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  • Creator
    Marissa Trew & Hanli Hoefer
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2024
  • Episodes
    102
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Marissa Trew & Hanli Hoefer
  • Show Website
    Just So We're Clear

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