In this conversation on Motivated Masculine Men, Chris sits down with Jesse Boulden, director of the International Alert Academy, a 32-year-old nonprofit gap year program that trains young men aged 17 to 25 in emergency response skills, leadership, and what it truly means to become a man. Jesse has been with the program for 18 years since graduating from it in 2008. He shares how the organization addresses the struggles young men face today, from father wounds and identity crises to the impact of instant gratification, technology overload, and growing up in a culture that has confused masculinity with toxicity. They explore how the loss of traditional father figures has created a vacuum filled by figures like Andrew Tate, why both men and women are struggling with shifting gender roles, and how young men can develop healthy self-identity through delayed gratification, trauma processing, and finding purpose beyond themselves. Jesse also shares practical tools the academy uses, including generational trauma mapping, breathing techniques, and the concept of living amends, to help young men prepare for high-stress careers in firefighting, law enforcement, and the military. This is a conversation about mentorship, resilience, and helping the next generation of men find their identity in something deeper than external success. About Jesse Boulden Jesse Boulden is the director of the International Alert Academy, a Christian-based gap year program that has been training young men for over three decades. The program combines military-style discipline, emergency response training, and deep mentorship to help young men navigate identity, trauma, and purpose. Jesse has dedicated nearly two decades to guiding young men through one of the most critical seasons of their lives, equipping them not just with skills but with the character and resilience to lead well. Connect with Jesse Boulden 🌐 Website: https://alertacademy.com/📸 Instagram: @alertacademy📘 Facebook: @alertacademy📺 YouTube: @ALERTAcademy Connect with Motivated Masculine Men 🌐 Website: www.motivatedmasculinemen.com✉️ Email: brotherhood@motivatedmasculinemen.com📱 Social: @MotivatedMasculineMen Want to be a guest or know someone who would be great for the show? Email us at brotherhood@motivatedmasculinemen.com. We're always looking for men with powerful stories and real conversations to share. ⭐ Leave a rating and review to help more men find these conversations🎧 Subscribe so you never miss an episode What You'll Learn How father wounds and absent fathers shape a young man's identityWhy the push for gender equality has created unintended consequences for both men and womenThe impact of technology, instant gratification, and post-COVID challenges on young men todayHow figures like Andrew Tate fill the vacuum left by confused masculinity messagingThe balance between passive weakness and aggressive control in healthy masculinityWhy strength and capability should be used for protection and provision, not personal gainHow to help young men develop identity beyond their job, status, or achievementsThe importance of delayed gratification in building mental resiliencePractical trauma processing tools including generational trauma mapping and breathing exercisesWhy gratitude rewires the brain and shifts perspective during hard timesHow to prepare young men for high-stress careers in first responder and military rolesWhy finding identity in Christ provides the foundation for real manhood Young men today are growing up in a world that tells them masculinity is toxic while also offering no clear path to what healthy manhood looks like. This conversation offers real answers, practical tools, and a vision for raising men who lead with strength, serve with purpose, and live with integrity.
