LEADERSHIP UNLEARNED ( and Reframed)

Maxine Attong

When we speak about leadership, we are not only speaking about a role in an organization. We invite you to take up your leadership mantle wherever you are - your places of worship, your community, your households, your sports team. Wherever you are, you can display your leadership. If you think that someone like you cannot be a leader, we invite you to unlearn that. Since we are taking away, we're going to give you something in exchange. We are offering a reframe of leadership so that you can walk away from this program with one new thought or willingness to do something differently.

  1. Mar 8

    Quiet Quitting Isn’t the Problem—Low Agency Is: Leaders need to switch Psychological Safety

    In this episode of Leadership Unlearned (and Reframed), Maxine Attong speaks with Karel McIntosh, a communication professional, coach, and corporate trainer, about what it really takes for people to show up with agency—at work, at home, and in every system they belong to. Karel unpacks why the tension between personal power and fitting into a group often comes down to identity, belief, and early conditioning (“your family is your first system”). The conversation reframes “professionalism” as an often undefined standard that can shrink people into the “smallest version” of themselves—reducing honesty, creativity, and connection. Together, we explore what psychological safety looks like in real life: not “touchy-feely,” but the everyday practices that create dignity, courage, and clarity. Carol shares practical ways teams can surface the “elephant in the room,” understand differences in thinking and feeling styles, and stop mislabelling people as “difficult” when they’re often operating from coping strategies shaped by their environment.A key theme: leaders say they want empowered, expressive employees—until that empowerment shows up with feedback, opinions, risks, and voice. The question becomes: Are leaders actually ready for the “superpowers” they’re asking people to unleash? The episode closes with audience reflections on the loneliness of leadership, the lack of support when people move from technical expert to manager, and the need to normalize leadership as a human experience—one that benefits from coaching, mentoring, and spaces for honest reflection.

    Quiet Quitting Isn’t the Problem—Low Agency Is: Leaders need to switch Psychological Safety

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When we speak about leadership, we are not only speaking about a role in an organization. We invite you to take up your leadership mantle wherever you are - your places of worship, your community, your households, your sports team. Wherever you are, you can display your leadership. If you think that someone like you cannot be a leader, we invite you to unlearn that. Since we are taking away, we're going to give you something in exchange. We are offering a reframe of leadership so that you can walk away from this program with one new thought or willingness to do something differently.