Sabina Rademacher - Love & Relating Snippets

Sabina Rademacher

How do we stay in the heart space coming back over and over again: What would love do now? When things go pear shaped. How do we relate? How do we perceive? How do we communicate? How we can stay open and open up again? Heart space is the place where you are empowered to be yourself, where you can trust that whatever decision you make, is the right one. When someone is in that heart space – they can’t hurt, hate or take advantage! I show YOU, how being in the heart space opens you up to love more and be loved more.

  1. 10/16/2021

    Unconscious Definition of Love

    Our unconscious definition of love is the source of all pain, lack of love and of all dramatic experiences we manifest in our life when we actually long for love. When I hit German ground after 40 years being abroad and back to my mother’s home, I heard my inner voice saying: you have still not learnt to be your own number one priority. Unconditionally. It hit me hard inside and it hit home. I had to go deeper and being with my demented mother for almost a year now, gave me a good chance to dig into unhealed wounds. And then one day, I had a realisation: My unconscious definition of love was not the same as my conscious definition of love. What I believed love is. My inner little child had no role model for what unconditional love was. It’s difficult to recognise exactly what our unconscious definition of love is, since even the definition is unconscious – it has accompanied us from our very early days. It arose from the relationship to our caretakers, from the interaction of our parents with each other and towards life, since they were our role models. Our unconscious definition of love is the source of all pain, lack of love and of all dramatic experiences we manifest in our life when we actually long for love. However, I realised, that  In the end,  our unconscious definition of love manifested in our daily life experiences is actually helping us to experience unconditional love. If we would only recognise it! Listen to this podcast to wake up to your unconscious definition of love, which keeps repeating our painful experiences.

    10 min
  2. 08/19/2021

    Sexuality and Love go hand in hand. How do we deal with it in ourselves and in the education of our future generation?

    What is Love and Intimacy? How do young people define it? How open are young people to their parents about love and sex? Love and sexuality is still such a taboo. Love is the physical, emotional, sexual, intellectual, or social affection one person holds for another. Intimacy is achieved when we become close to someone else and are reassured that we are loved and accepted for who we are. Children usually develop intimacy with parents and peers. As adults, we seek intimacy in close relationships with other adults, friends, family, and with a partner. Intimacy is a close relationship where mutual acceptance, nurturance, and trust are shared at some level. Alexandra Kreis invited me to her podcast Outer Travel - Inner Journey to talk about love and intimacy. I love talking to young people and open their feelings about love and intimacy. My heart's calling is to raise awareness on the necessary conversations about sexuality between parents and their children. And to establish deep trust, openness, and vulnerability between parents and their offspring. In this podcast, I also discuss feminism, masculinity, authentic feelings, and parents’ role to their children about what love and sexuality are or can be. When you encourage conversations about feelings, friendships, and family relationships, it can help your child feel confident to talk about teenage relationships in general. If your child knows what respectful relationships look like in general, they can relate this directly to romantic relationships. Conversations like this hope to make your child feel more comfortable sharing feelings with parents even as they start to get romantically interested in others.  And there’s a lot more direction than this can go: treating other people kindly, breaking up kindly, and respecting other people’s boundaries.

    44 min
  3. 03/28/2021

    Making love without PRESENCE is like a RAPE (plus an exercise)

    I am not sorry to make this sharp statement. It’s time we wake up. Over and over I witness women in relationships and marriages where there is hardly any intimacy and if, it is fast. They also know their men watch porn and often they wake up noticing their partner is masturbating. AND they feel bad, guilty: I am not doing it good enough for him,  I am not attractive enough. Do you recognise this? If you do, maybe you have never spoken it out. Most women I speak to, they haven’t ever spoken about this deep pain. It’s breaking my heart over and over again. How can we wake up and get out of this loop of not knowing what real intimacy is? When do we stop making Sexuality a Taboo when it is all over the place, but no-one really dares to speak about it. The most beautiful experience we can have here in 3D form is intimacy in full presence in full body experience and love. The most beautiful journey and yet we have no clue how to get there. Women, we need to wake up to be able to lead men to presence. We owe this to our future generations to come, our children. Wake up to a hidden belief  “to make it best for him”! Men, become conscious of what it does to women, when you enter her being in thoughts, or in fantasies or in any performance issues. AND: Become aware of what porn really does to you. To us! Making love without presence is like a rape. It is so harmful, people can’t even think how harmful it really is. I invite you to wake up to make love with presence, care and deep connection.

    12 min

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How do we stay in the heart space coming back over and over again: What would love do now? When things go pear shaped. How do we relate? How do we perceive? How do we communicate? How we can stay open and open up again? Heart space is the place where you are empowered to be yourself, where you can trust that whatever decision you make, is the right one. When someone is in that heart space – they can’t hurt, hate or take advantage! I show YOU, how being in the heart space opens you up to love more and be loved more.