Be A Better Parent | For Every Child It Takes A Village... The Same Goes For Every Parent!

Celia Kibler
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Being a parent is hard—in fact, it’s quite the adventure! For every child it takes a village, the same goes for every parent! We all need questions answered, and we need to know stuff we don’t even know we need to know. Welcome to the Be A Better Parent Podcast, your essential resource for valuable advice and information that relates to you and your kids. Join Celia Kibler, Family & Relationship Empowerment Coach & Author of RAISING HAPPY TODDLERS, with over 40 years of mom & professional experience. Celia offers the best advice that NO ONE ELSE GIVES YOU about raising kids in today's world.

  1. S9E13 (Mini-Series EP 01): Dispelling the Myths of Breastfeeding and Beyond

    FEB 1

    S9E13 (Mini-Series EP 01): Dispelling the Myths of Breastfeeding and Beyond

    Have you ever felt like you’re drowning in a sea of conflicting parenting advice? One minute you're told you must do things one way, and the next, a "parenting expert" on TikTok tells you the exact opposite. It’s enough to make any parent feel like they’re failing before they’ve even begun. That is exactly why I am so thrilled to introduce our brand-new mini-series, Raising Eyebrows. My "partner in crime" for this journey is the wonderful Dr. Kailey Buller, a double board-certified physician in family and emergency medicine who has delivered hundreds of babies and lived through the newborn chaos herself. We are here to help you question authority, trust your gut, and finally dispel the myths, the meltdowns, and the misinformation that is roaming this world out of control. In this first episode, we’re diving straight into one of the most polarizing topics in the parenting world: breastfeeding. We’ve all heard the "breast is best" mantras, but what happens when it just doesn't work for you? Dr. Kailey and I get real about our own "defective boobies" and why your maternal mental health and stress levels are actually far more important to your baby’s well-being than the nutritional content of a single bottle. We talk about how the real keys to breastfeeding success aren't actually about your body at all — they're about your support system, your resources, and your time. It’s time to stop the shame and recognize that formula is one of the most regulated foods on the planet; whether you breastfeed for a week or a year, your baby is going to be wonderful. We also pull a comb through the confusing world of starting solids, debunking the myth that you need to be a gourmet chef or spend three hours on meal prep. We share the truth about baby-led weaning, why "banana guacamole" might just be your baby's new favorite dish, and why gagging is a totally normal part of the learning process — not a sign that your baby is dying! Raising a child should be fun, and it starts when you stop comparing your "behind-the-scenes" to someone else's curated highlight reel. Remember, you are the answer to your child’s needs, and as long as they are breathing, growing, and loved, you are doing a great job. Raise those eyebrows, question the noise, and join us as we bring some peace and laughter back into your parenting journey. Join me in our free "Be A Better Parent" Skool community at skool.com/beabetterparent. It’s a place to find the truth, share the laughter, and realize that as long as your child is loved, you are doing a great job!Connect with Dr. Kailey: Visit VitalsWithDrBuller.com to find her socials and explore her evidence-based resources for surviving the "tiny human" years. Get the App: Stop the late-night doom-scrolling and ask your questions directly! Download the Be A Better Parent App today for quality, proven solutions.

    42 min
  2. S9E8 (EP 198): Stop the College Funding Chaos: How to Pay for School Without Losing Your Retirement

    JAN 3

    S9E8 (EP 198): Stop the College Funding Chaos: How to Pay for School Without Losing Your Retirement

    We’ve all seen the headlines about the mountain of college debt, and it’s enough to make any parent freeze in their tracks. It’s so easy to feel overwhelmed and just push the conversation into a corner, but avoidance is a giant monster that only grows the longer you wait. My guest, Brian S. Eyster, the visionary behind the G.R.A.D. Process, joined me to pull back the curtain on how you can navigate the path to higher learning without sacrificing your own future or your hard-earned retirement. We talked about how a problem is really just a topic you haven't sliced into small enough pieces yet, and how facing the reality of college costs now, rather than waiting until senior year — is the greatest gift you can give your future self. Brian walked us through his simple, powerful system designed to recapture costs and inefficiencies that most families don't even know they're losing. We dove into the "G.R.A.D." acronym - Gathering insights, Recapturing costs, Achieving results, and Direct monitoring to show that paying for school is not a "set it and forget it" Thanksgiving turkey. It’s about packaging and positioning your child for the best offers while making the IRS a teammate through legal and ethical tax strategies. We even dispelled the myth that you have to write a massive check upfront; just like your house or your car, college can be financed in a way that is congruent with your actual cash flow so you don't end up with a "pile of lost money" in your 60s. The most important takeaway for every parent is that you need to have a system in place to remove the chaos and the 11 p.m. arguments with your spouse. We talked about the power of setting clear expectations for our kids, teaching them that water isn't free and money is a real, finite resource. By creating unity between parents and having an expert like Brian fight for you against universities that might low-ball your offer, you can move from a place of anxiety to one of empowerment. It’s time to stop flying by the seat of your pants and start building a path where your children become the confident, self-reliant adults we need in this world. Start Your Strategy: Visit EssentialStrategies.net to explore the Resource tab and book your 20-minute "Synergy Call" with Brian. Join the Community: Become a member of BeABetterParent.com and get exclusive access to our app and tools for a calm, happy home. Go to Skool.com/BeABetterParent Share the Love: If this episode helped you breathe a little easier, please share it with a friend who is also navigating the college journey!

    48 min
  3. S9E4 (EP 194): Holiday Stress Class Replay: Holiday Boundaries That Stick (and Still Feel Kind)

    12/10/2025

    S9E4 (EP 194): Holiday Stress Class Replay: Holiday Boundaries That Stick (and Still Feel Kind)

    The holidays bring out a lot. Extra noise, extra stuff, extra sugar, and a whole lot of pressure on you to hold it all together. In this class replay from our recent This Holiday Reset Your Stress series, we talk about how to create boundaries that actually stick, feel kind, and protect your peace without drowning in guilt or feeling like the “mean parent.” In this session, I walk you through what healthy boundaries really are and why they are an act of love, not punishment. We talk about how to set clear expectations before the big feelings show up, so your kids know what to expect with gifts, routines, and holiday plans. We look at the problem of “too much stuff” and how clutter in your home creates clutter in your brain, along with simple ways to clear things out together before even more arrives. We also dig into bedtime and the “one more thing” spiral that keeps you trapped in negotiations when everyone is already exhausted. You will hear practical language you can use to stay calm, stay kind, and still stay firm, whether you are talking to your kids, your partner, or extended family who may not understand your limits yet. My goal in this class is to help you feel confident holding boundaries that line up with your values so you can enjoy a calmer, more connected season. If you want to watch the full Holiday Stress series and get access to all the class replays, come join us inside our exclusive Be A Better Parent community on Skool. You can get started at BeABetterParent.com, be a member and we will welcome you in. ******************************************************* Are you ready to STOP YELLING AT YOUR CHILD in just 21 Days? Join my newest program at low introductory pricing... go to ⁠QUITYELLING.COM ⁠1. Need more help? Let's grab some coffee or tea and talk. Go to TalkWithCelia.com and choose the time that works for you. 2. Looking for a manual for parenting your child (now in English & Spanish)? It's finally here and you can grab your copy of my latest parenting & children’s books today! 3. Become a Member of my TRANQUILITY TRIBE and STOP YELLING Once & For All. 4. Read my latest article to find out how to stop yelling... https://celiaArticle.com 5. Looking to be part of a fun free and informative FB community (without all the bitching)?... join us in Pumped Up Parenting 6. Love YouTube? Do you know there are lots of parenting videos, story time videos for you and your kids, as well as some great family workout videos? All on Pumped Up Parenting with Celia Kibler 7. Follow me on Instagram and TikTok 8. Join me on my newest platform PEANUT: Connecting women across fertility & motherhood 9. Get my parenting worksheet and other resources at PumpedUpParenting.Etsy.com 10. Join us on ⁠THE INTERNATIONAL DAY OF CALM⁠, watch the full replay on our YouTube Channel @DayofCalm Take the Pledge, Support our Mission of the Day of Calm Foundation to SOOTHE THE ANGER & RAGE AT THE HUMAN CORE as we work to end senseless violence against our kids. Support our school in Uganda, Share the Day, Attend a Calm Class or Parenting Class and feel great!

    46 min
  4. S9E3 (EP 193): Holiday Stress Class Replay: 90-Second Resets for Calmer Parenting

    12/03/2025

    S9E3 (EP 193): Holiday Stress Class Replay: 90-Second Resets for Calmer Parenting

    Holiday meltdowns, money stress, family drama, and kids who suddenly “need” everything they see? 🎁😵‍💫 This special Holiday Stress Class Replay from our This Holiday Reset Your Stress series on the Be A Better Parent Podcast is your gentle, practical reset button. Recorded live with real parents, this episode walks you through simple tools you can use in the moment — even when emotions are high and time is short. In this replay, you’ll discover: 90-second stress resets you can do anywhere (and how to teach them to your kids) A simple daily gratitude practice that actually sticks How to talk back to the thoughts that say, “I’m failing,” by asking one powerful question: “Is that true?” What you can control (and what you really can’t) so you stop carrying the whole world on your shoulders A quick “What went right today?” routine to end your day calmer, more connected, and a lot kinder to yourself This isn’t about creating a “perfect” holiday. It’s about creating a calmer you — so your kids get a calmer home. 💛 Want to join us live for the remaining Holiday Stress classes (and get access to the replays)? Head over to CalmTheSeason.com and save your spot. ******************************************************* Are you ready to STOP YELLING AT YOUR CHILD in just 21 Days? Join my newest program at low introductory pricing... go to ⁠QUITYELLING.COM ⁠1. Need more help? Let's grab some coffee or tea and talk. Go to TalkWithCelia.com and choose the time that works for you. 2. Looking for a manual for parenting your child (now in English & Spanish)? It's finally here and you can grab your copy of my latest parenting & children’s books today! 3. Become a Member of my TRANQUILITY TRIBE and STOP YELLING Once & For All. 4. Read my latest article to find out how to stop yelling... https://celiaArticle.com 5. Looking to be part of a fun free and informative FB community (without all the bitching)?... join us in Pumped Up Parenting 6. Love YouTube? Do you know there are lots of parenting videos, story time videos for you and your kids, as well as some great family workout videos? All on Pumped Up Parenting with Celia Kibler 7. Follow me on Instagram and TikTok 8. Join me on my newest platform PEANUT: Connecting women across fertility & motherhood 9. Get my parenting worksheet and other resources at PumpedUpParenting.Etsy.com 10. Join us on ⁠THE INTERNATIONAL DAY OF CALM⁠, watch the full replay on our YouTube Channel @DayofCalm Take the Pledge, Support our Mission of the Day of Calm Foundation to SOOTHE THE ANGER & RAGE AT THE HUMAN CORE as we work to end senseless violence against our kids. Support our school in Uganda, Share the Day, Attend a Calm Class or Parenting Class and feel great!

    1 hr
  5. S9E2 (EP 192): Why Do I Feel Overwhelmed by My Finances? (And How to Start Small)

    11/08/2025

    S9E2 (EP 192): Why Do I Feel Overwhelmed by My Finances? (And How to Start Small)

    I’m so excited to share this conversation with you because, let’s be honest, we all hear about the mountain of things we’re "supposed" to be doing with our money, and it’s so easy to just get overwhelmed and do absolutely nothing. My guest, Lori Atwood from Fearless Finance, joined me to pull a comb through all that tangled mess and show us that a problem is really just a topic you haven't sliced into small enough pieces yet. We talked about how avoidance is truly the worst thing for your family's future, and that building confidence doesn't happen overnight — it’s built through the small, brave steps you take to face your reality without an ounce of shame. Lori walked us through her five foundational steps that work whether you're making millions or just starting out, starting with the simple, heavy math of making sure you spend less than you earn each month. We dove into the difference between having a few thousand dollars tucked away for those "oopsie" moments, like a burst pipe in the yard, and building a true emergency runway for the big life shifts like job loss or health issues. It’s all about being realistic and knowing who you are; if you love that cup of coffee, include it in your plan so you don't mess yourself up by pretending you won't buy it. The most powerful part of our chat was realizing that the best things in life aren't things at all, and that your general contentment is actually the biggest driver of your financial health. When we’re unhappy, we often go looking for that quick "pop" of excitement in a new purchase, but that's just self-medicating a gap that needs a real plan instead. Lori reminded us to put our own oxygen masks on first by prioritizing retirement saving, because our kids don't want to have to pay for us down the road — they want us to raise them into self-reliant, financially savvy adults. It’s time to stop flying by the seat of your pants and start using a system that brings peace and laughter back into your home. Ready to detangle? Visit https://fearlessfinance.com/ and use the promo code BETTER PARENT for $50 off your first meeting. Join the Community: Get exclusive access to our incredible app and free parenting tools. Go to Skool/BeABetterParent. Listen & Review: If this helped you find a little more peace today, please share it with a friend and leave us a review!

    40 min

  6. 11/01/2025

    S9E1 (EP 191): Why Do I Feel Like A Bad Parent? 5 Ways to Stop the Struggle and Get Consistent

    We’re beginning a new chapter together. Pumped Up Parenting is now Be A Better Parent, and this first episode under our new name leans right into the question so many parents ask in quiet moments: “Why do I feel like I’m failing, and what can I actually do about it?” I take you through the real-life pressure points — those nights you wish you hadn’t yelled, the sleep and mealtime battles, the comparison that makes everyone else look like they’ve got it all together, and the overwhelm of trying “all the advice” for a day or two and wondering why nothing sticks.From there, we slow everything down and get practical. You’ll hear why consistency — not perfection — turns the tide, how loving limits and clear boundaries make kids feel safe, and how teaching consequences works better than punishments that only add fear and frustration. We’ll also talk about the tantrum – negotiation loop and why giving in “to keep the peace” keeps the cycle going, plus exactly what it looks like to hold a calm, steady no and let the storm pass. Most importantly, we look at the model our kids are learning from every day, us. When we regulate our emotions, they learn how to regulate theirs. Everything we do gives them permission to do the same, so together we practice tools that build calm, respect, and trust — one real moment at a time.As we step into Be A Better Parent, I’m thrilled to share that the Be A Better Parent app is now live on the App Store and Google Play. It’s your in-the-moment guide for today’s fast-paced parenting. Quick steps for tough moments, bite-size lessons you can use on the go, and everyday support to help you stay consistent when life gets loud. For more info, visit BeABetterParent.com.******************************************************* Are you ready to STOP YELLING AT YOUR CHILD in just 21 Days? Join my newest program at low introductory pricing... go to ⁠QUITYELLING.COM ⁠1. Need more help? Let's grab some coffee or tea and talk. Go to TalkWithCelia.com and choose the time that works for you. 2. Looking for a manual for parenting your child (now in English & Spanish)? It's finally here and you can grab your copy of my latest parenting & children’s books today! 3. Become a Member of my TRANQUILITY TRIBE and STOP YELLING Once & For All. 4. Read my latest article to find out how to stop yelling... https://celiaArticle.com 5. Looking to be part of a fun free and informative FB community (without all the bitching)?... join us in Pumped Up Parenting 6. Love YouTube? Do you know there are lots of parenting videos, story time videos for you and your kids, as well as some great family workout videos? All on Pumped Up Parenting with Celia Kibler 7. Follow me on Instagram and TikTok 8. Join me on my newest platform PEANUT: Connecting women across fertility & motherhood 9. Get my parenting worksheet and other resources at PumpedUpParenting.Etsy.com 10. Join us on ⁠THE INTERNATIONAL DAY OF CALM⁠, watch the full replay on our YouTube Channel @DayofCalm Take the Pledge, Support our Mission of the Day of Calm Foundation to SOOTHE THE ANGER & RAGE AT THE HUMAN CORE as we work to end senseless violence against our kids. Support our school in Uganda, Share the Day, Attend a Calm Class or Parenting Class and feel great!

    23 min
  7. EPISODE 190: How Do We Help Our Kids Through Grief?

    09/25/2025

    EPISODE 190: How Do We Help Our Kids Through Grief?

    Parents, grief is one of those tough topics that so many of us struggle with — how do we help our children when they lose a loved one, a pet, or even go through big life changes like divorce? In this episode of the Pumped Up Parenting Podcast, I’m talking with Dr. Jerry L. Woodbridge, an award-winning Christian author, grief advocate, and lifelong educator, about how we can guide our kids through these hard moments with honesty, love, and faith. Dr. Jerry shares her own journey of loss, what she learned as both a mom and a teacher, and how her book Joy Overcame Sorrow gives kids and parents a safe way to explore grief together. You’ll hear about the power of storytelling, journaling, memory boxes, and most of all—being real with our children so they feel safe sharing their feelings. This conversation is full of hope, tools, and encouragement for every parent. Because yes, grief hurts, but it also comes from love. And with the right support, kids can learn to carry both sorrow and joy in their hearts. Get Dr. Jerry’s book Joy Overcame Sorrow (and her other books) on Amazon or through her website: DrJerryLWoodbridge.com ******************************************************* Are you ready to STOP YELLING AT YOUR CHILD in just 21 Days? Join my newest program at low introductory pricing... go to ⁠QUITYELLING.COM ⁠1. Need more help? Let's grab some coffee or tea and talk. Go to TalkWithCelia.com and choose the time that works for you. 2. Looking for a manual for parenting your child (now in English & Spanish)? It's finally here and you can grab your copy of my latest parenting & children’s books today! 3. Become a Member of my TRANQUILITY TRIBE and STOP YELLING Once & For All. 4. Read my latest article to find out how to stop yelling... https://celiaArticle.com 5. Looking to be part of a fun free and informative FB community (without all the bitching)?... join us in Pumped Up Parenting 6. Love YouTube? Do you know there are lots of parenting videos, story time videos for you and your kids, as well as some great family workout videos? All on Pumped Up Parenting with Celia Kibler 7. Follow me on Instagram and TikTok 8. Join me on my newest platform PEANUT: Connecting women across fertility & motherhood 9. Get my parenting worksheet and other resources at PumpedUpParenting.Etsy.com 10. Join us on ⁠THE INTERNATIONAL DAY OF CALM⁠, watch the full replay on our YouTube Channel @DayofCalm Take the Pledge, Support our Mission of the Day of Calm Foundation to SOOTHE THE ANGER & RAGE AT THE HUMAN CORE as we work to end senseless violence against our kids. Support our school in Uganda, Share the Day, Attend a Calm Class or Parenting Class and feel great!

    48 min
  8. EPISODE 189: When One Child Needs 24/7 Care… How Do You Love Them Both?

    08/29/2025

    EPISODE 189: When One Child Needs 24/7 Care… How Do You Love Them Both?

    Parenting is never perfectly balanced, and sometimes it is not even close. In this heart-opening conversation, I sit down with Daryl Potter, a dad and author who raised two kids on very different paths: one with complex medical needs and one who still needed his own place in the spotlight. You will hear how his family navigated daily medical crises and palliative care while keeping his son seen, secure, and deeply loved. We talk about simple habits that change everything. Schedule real one-on-one time. Take your kids on date nights even when life feels chaotic. Keep small promises that matter, like a nightly thirty-minute game session even if video games are not your thing. These tiny rituals add up to a confident, connected child who knows they are special on their own. When family support fell through, Daryl and his wife built a chosen family and created a new kind of vacation rhythm so each parent could rest while their daughter received the care she needed. Their story models kindness, commitment, flexibility, and courage for kids and adults alike. Press play for perspective and practical steps you can use tonight. Connect with Daryl: Visit darylpotter.com for his books and more ways to get in touch. ******************************************************* Are you ready to STOP YELLING AT YOUR CHILD in just 21 Days? Join my newest program at low introductory pricing... go to ⁠QUITYELLING.COM ⁠1. Need more help? Let's grab some coffee or tea and talk. Go to TalkWithCelia.com and choose the time that works for you. 2. Looking for a manual for parenting your child (now in English & Spanish)? It's finally here and you can grab your copy of my latest parenting & children’s books today! 3. Become a Member of my TRANQUILITY TRIBE and STOP YELLING Once & For All. 4. Read my latest article to find out how to stop yelling... https://celiaArticle.com 5. Looking to be part of a fun free and informative FB community (without all the bitching)?... join us in Pumped Up Parenting 6. Love YouTube? Do you know there are lots of parenting videos, story time videos for you and your kids, as well as some great family workout videos? All on Pumped Up Parenting with Celia Kibler 7. Follow me on Instagram and TikTok 8. Join me on my newest platform PEANUT: Connecting women across fertility & motherhood 9. Get my parenting worksheet and other resources at PumpedUpParenting.Etsy.com 10. Join us on ⁠THE INTERNATIONAL DAY OF CALM⁠, watch the full replay on our YouTube Channel @DayofCalm Take the Pledge, Support our Mission of the Day of Calm Foundation to SOOTHE THE ANGER & RAGE AT THE HUMAN CORE as we work to end senseless violence against our kids. Support our school in Uganda, Share the Day, Attend a Calm Class or Parenting Class and feel great!

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Being a parent is hard—in fact, it’s quite the adventure! For every child it takes a village, the same goes for every parent! We all need questions answered, and we need to know stuff we don’t even know we need to know. Welcome to the Be A Better Parent Podcast, your essential resource for valuable advice and information that relates to you and your kids. Join Celia Kibler, Family & Relationship Empowerment Coach & Author of RAISING HAPPY TODDLERS, with over 40 years of mom & professional experience. Celia offers the best advice that NO ONE ELSE GIVES YOU about raising kids in today's world.

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