Be A Better Parent | For Every Child It Takes A Village... The Same Goes For Every Parent!

Celia Kibler

Being a parent is hard—in fact, it’s quite the adventure! For every child it takes a village, the same goes for every parent! We all need questions answered, and we need to know stuff we don’t even know we need to know. Welcome to the Be A Better Parent Podcast, your essential resource for valuable advice and information that relates to you and your kids. Join Celia Kibler, Family & Relationship Empowerment Coach & Author of RAISING HAPPY TODDLERS, with over 40 years of mom & professional experience. Celia offers the best advice that NO ONE ELSE GIVES YOU about raising kids in today's world.

  1. S9E3 (EP 193): Holiday Stress Class Replay: Holiday Boundaries That Stick (and Still Feel Kind)

    DEC 10

    S9E3 (EP 193): Holiday Stress Class Replay: Holiday Boundaries That Stick (and Still Feel Kind)

    The holidays bring out a lot. Extra noise, extra stuff, extra sugar, and a whole lot of pressure on you to hold it all together. In this class replay from our recent This Holiday Reset Your Stress series, we talk about how to create boundaries that actually stick, feel kind, and protect your peace without drowning in guilt or feeling like the “mean parent.” In this session, I walk you through what healthy boundaries really are and why they are an act of love, not punishment. We talk about how to set clear expectations before the big feelings show up, so your kids know what to expect with gifts, routines, and holiday plans. We look at the problem of “too much stuff” and how clutter in your home creates clutter in your brain, along with simple ways to clear things out together before even more arrives. We also dig into bedtime and the “one more thing” spiral that keeps you trapped in negotiations when everyone is already exhausted. You will hear practical language you can use to stay calm, stay kind, and still stay firm, whether you are talking to your kids, your partner, or extended family who may not understand your limits yet. My goal in this class is to help you feel confident holding boundaries that line up with your values so you can enjoy a calmer, more connected season. If you want to watch the full Holiday Stress series and get access to all the class replays, come join us inside our exclusive Be A Better Parent community on Skool. You can get started at BeABetterParent.com, be a member and we will welcome you in. ******************************************************* Are you ready to STOP YELLING AT YOUR CHILD in just 21 Days? Join my newest program at low introductory pricing... go to ⁠QUITYELLING.COM ⁠1. Need more help? Let's grab some coffee or tea and talk. Go to TalkWithCelia.com and choose the time that works for you. 2. Looking for a manual for parenting your child (now in English & Spanish)? It's finally here and you can grab your copy of my latest parenting & children’s books today! 3. Become a Member of my TRANQUILITY TRIBE and STOP YELLING Once & For All. 4. Read my latest article to find out how to stop yelling... https://celiaArticle.com 5. Looking to be part of a fun free and informative FB community (without all the bitching)?... join us in Pumped Up Parenting 6. Love YouTube? Do you know there are lots of parenting videos, story time videos for you and your kids, as well as some great family workout videos? All on Pumped Up Parenting with Celia Kibler 7. Follow me on Instagram and TikTok 8. Join me on my newest platform PEANUT: Connecting women across fertility & motherhood 9. Get my parenting worksheet and other resources at PumpedUpParenting.Etsy.com 10. Join us on ⁠THE INTERNATIONAL DAY OF CALM⁠, watch the full replay on our YouTube Channel @DayofCalm Take the Pledge, Support our Mission of the Day of Calm Foundation to SOOTHE THE ANGER & RAGE AT THE HUMAN CORE as we work to end senseless violence against our kids. Support our school in Uganda, Share the Day, Attend a Calm Class or Parenting Class and feel great!

    46 min
  2. S9E2 (EP 192): Holiday Stress Class Replay: 90-Second Resets for Calmer Parenting

    DEC 3

    S9E2 (EP 192): Holiday Stress Class Replay: 90-Second Resets for Calmer Parenting

    Holiday meltdowns, money stress, family drama, and kids who suddenly “need” everything they see? 🎁😵‍💫 This special Holiday Stress Class Replay from our This Holiday Reset Your Stress series on the Be A Better Parent Podcast is your gentle, practical reset button. Recorded live with real parents, this episode walks you through simple tools you can use in the moment — even when emotions are high and time is short. In this replay, you’ll discover: 90-second stress resets you can do anywhere (and how to teach them to your kids) A simple daily gratitude practice that actually sticks How to talk back to the thoughts that say, “I’m failing,” by asking one powerful question: “Is that true?” What you can control (and what you really can’t) so you stop carrying the whole world on your shoulders A quick “What went right today?” routine to end your day calmer, more connected, and a lot kinder to yourself This isn’t about creating a “perfect” holiday. It’s about creating a calmer you — so your kids get a calmer home. 💛 Want to join us live for the remaining Holiday Stress classes (and get access to the replays)? Head over to CalmTheSeason.com and save your spot. ******************************************************* Are you ready to STOP YELLING AT YOUR CHILD in just 21 Days? Join my newest program at low introductory pricing... go to ⁠QUITYELLING.COM ⁠1. Need more help? Let's grab some coffee or tea and talk. Go to TalkWithCelia.com and choose the time that works for you. 2. Looking for a manual for parenting your child (now in English & Spanish)? It's finally here and you can grab your copy of my latest parenting & children’s books today! 3. Become a Member of my TRANQUILITY TRIBE and STOP YELLING Once & For All. 4. Read my latest article to find out how to stop yelling... https://celiaArticle.com 5. Looking to be part of a fun free and informative FB community (without all the bitching)?... join us in Pumped Up Parenting 6. Love YouTube? Do you know there are lots of parenting videos, story time videos for you and your kids, as well as some great family workout videos? All on Pumped Up Parenting with Celia Kibler 7. Follow me on Instagram and TikTok 8. Join me on my newest platform PEANUT: Connecting women across fertility & motherhood 9. Get my parenting worksheet and other resources at PumpedUpParenting.Etsy.com 10. Join us on ⁠THE INTERNATIONAL DAY OF CALM⁠, watch the full replay on our YouTube Channel @DayofCalm Take the Pledge, Support our Mission of the Day of Calm Foundation to SOOTHE THE ANGER & RAGE AT THE HUMAN CORE as we work to end senseless violence against our kids. Support our school in Uganda, Share the Day, Attend a Calm Class or Parenting Class and feel great!

    1 hr
  3. NOV 1

    S9E1 (EP 191): Why Do I Feel Like A Bad Parent? 5 Ways to Stop the Struggle and Get Consistent

    We’re beginning a new chapter together. Pumped Up Parenting is now Be A Better Parent, and this first episode under our new name leans right into the question so many parents ask in quiet moments: “Why do I feel like I’m failing, and what can I actually do about it?” I take you through the real-life pressure points — those nights you wish you hadn’t yelled, the sleep and mealtime battles, the comparison that makes everyone else look like they’ve got it all together, and the overwhelm of trying “all the advice” for a day or two and wondering why nothing sticks.From there, we slow everything down and get practical. You’ll hear why consistency — not perfection — turns the tide, how loving limits and clear boundaries make kids feel safe, and how teaching consequences works better than punishments that only add fear and frustration. We’ll also talk about the tantrum – negotiation loop and why giving in “to keep the peace” keeps the cycle going, plus exactly what it looks like to hold a calm, steady no and let the storm pass. Most importantly, we look at the model our kids are learning from every day, us. When we regulate our emotions, they learn how to regulate theirs. Everything we do gives them permission to do the same, so together we practice tools that build calm, respect, and trust — one real moment at a time.As we step into Be A Better Parent, I’m thrilled to share that the Be A Better Parent app is now live on the App Store and Google Play. It’s your in-the-moment guide for today’s fast-paced parenting. Quick steps for tough moments, bite-size lessons you can use on the go, and everyday support to help you stay consistent when life gets loud. For more info, visit BeABetterParent.com.******************************************************* Are you ready to STOP YELLING AT YOUR CHILD in just 21 Days? Join my newest program at low introductory pricing... go to ⁠QUITYELLING.COM ⁠1. Need more help? Let's grab some coffee or tea and talk. Go to TalkWithCelia.com and choose the time that works for you. 2. Looking for a manual for parenting your child (now in English & Spanish)? It's finally here and you can grab your copy of my latest parenting & children’s books today! 3. Become a Member of my TRANQUILITY TRIBE and STOP YELLING Once & For All. 4. Read my latest article to find out how to stop yelling... https://celiaArticle.com 5. Looking to be part of a fun free and informative FB community (without all the bitching)?... join us in Pumped Up Parenting 6. Love YouTube? Do you know there are lots of parenting videos, story time videos for you and your kids, as well as some great family workout videos? All on Pumped Up Parenting with Celia Kibler 7. Follow me on Instagram and TikTok 8. Join me on my newest platform PEANUT: Connecting women across fertility & motherhood 9. Get my parenting worksheet and other resources at PumpedUpParenting.Etsy.com 10. Join us on ⁠THE INTERNATIONAL DAY OF CALM⁠, watch the full replay on our YouTube Channel @DayofCalm Take the Pledge, Support our Mission of the Day of Calm Foundation to SOOTHE THE ANGER & RAGE AT THE HUMAN CORE as we work to end senseless violence against our kids. Support our school in Uganda, Share the Day, Attend a Calm Class or Parenting Class and feel great!

    23 min
  4. EPISODE 190: How Do We Help Our Kids Through Grief?

    SEP 25

    EPISODE 190: How Do We Help Our Kids Through Grief?

    Parents, grief is one of those tough topics that so many of us struggle with — how do we help our children when they lose a loved one, a pet, or even go through big life changes like divorce? In this episode of the Pumped Up Parenting Podcast, I’m talking with Dr. Jerry L. Woodbridge, an award-winning Christian author, grief advocate, and lifelong educator, about how we can guide our kids through these hard moments with honesty, love, and faith. Dr. Jerry shares her own journey of loss, what she learned as both a mom and a teacher, and how her book Joy Overcame Sorrow gives kids and parents a safe way to explore grief together. You’ll hear about the power of storytelling, journaling, memory boxes, and most of all—being real with our children so they feel safe sharing their feelings. This conversation is full of hope, tools, and encouragement for every parent. Because yes, grief hurts, but it also comes from love. And with the right support, kids can learn to carry both sorrow and joy in their hearts. Get Dr. Jerry’s book Joy Overcame Sorrow (and her other books) on Amazon or through her website: DrJerryLWoodbridge.com ******************************************************* Are you ready to STOP YELLING AT YOUR CHILD in just 21 Days? Join my newest program at low introductory pricing... go to ⁠QUITYELLING.COM ⁠1. Need more help? Let's grab some coffee or tea and talk. Go to TalkWithCelia.com and choose the time that works for you. 2. Looking for a manual for parenting your child (now in English & Spanish)? It's finally here and you can grab your copy of my latest parenting & children’s books today! 3. Become a Member of my TRANQUILITY TRIBE and STOP YELLING Once & For All. 4. Read my latest article to find out how to stop yelling... https://celiaArticle.com 5. Looking to be part of a fun free and informative FB community (without all the bitching)?... join us in Pumped Up Parenting 6. Love YouTube? Do you know there are lots of parenting videos, story time videos for you and your kids, as well as some great family workout videos? All on Pumped Up Parenting with Celia Kibler 7. Follow me on Instagram and TikTok 8. Join me on my newest platform PEANUT: Connecting women across fertility & motherhood 9. Get my parenting worksheet and other resources at PumpedUpParenting.Etsy.com 10. Join us on ⁠THE INTERNATIONAL DAY OF CALM⁠, watch the full replay on our YouTube Channel @DayofCalm Take the Pledge, Support our Mission of the Day of Calm Foundation to SOOTHE THE ANGER & RAGE AT THE HUMAN CORE as we work to end senseless violence against our kids. Support our school in Uganda, Share the Day, Attend a Calm Class or Parenting Class and feel great!

    48 min
  5. EPISODE 189: When One Child Needs 24/7 Care… How Do You Love Them Both?

    AUG 29

    EPISODE 189: When One Child Needs 24/7 Care… How Do You Love Them Both?

    Parenting is never perfectly balanced, and sometimes it is not even close. In this heart-opening conversation, I sit down with Daryl Potter, a dad and author who raised two kids on very different paths: one with complex medical needs and one who still needed his own place in the spotlight. You will hear how his family navigated daily medical crises and palliative care while keeping his son seen, secure, and deeply loved. We talk about simple habits that change everything. Schedule real one-on-one time. Take your kids on date nights even when life feels chaotic. Keep small promises that matter, like a nightly thirty-minute game session even if video games are not your thing. These tiny rituals add up to a confident, connected child who knows they are special on their own. When family support fell through, Daryl and his wife built a chosen family and created a new kind of vacation rhythm so each parent could rest while their daughter received the care she needed. Their story models kindness, commitment, flexibility, and courage for kids and adults alike. Press play for perspective and practical steps you can use tonight. Connect with Daryl: Visit darylpotter.com for his books and more ways to get in touch. ******************************************************* Are you ready to STOP YELLING AT YOUR CHILD in just 21 Days? Join my newest program at low introductory pricing... go to ⁠QUITYELLING.COM ⁠1. Need more help? Let's grab some coffee or tea and talk. Go to TalkWithCelia.com and choose the time that works for you. 2. Looking for a manual for parenting your child (now in English & Spanish)? It's finally here and you can grab your copy of my latest parenting & children’s books today! 3. Become a Member of my TRANQUILITY TRIBE and STOP YELLING Once & For All. 4. Read my latest article to find out how to stop yelling... https://celiaArticle.com 5. Looking to be part of a fun free and informative FB community (without all the bitching)?... join us in Pumped Up Parenting 6. Love YouTube? Do you know there are lots of parenting videos, story time videos for you and your kids, as well as some great family workout videos? All on Pumped Up Parenting with Celia Kibler 7. Follow me on Instagram and TikTok 8. Join me on my newest platform PEANUT: Connecting women across fertility & motherhood 9. Get my parenting worksheet and other resources at PumpedUpParenting.Etsy.com 10. Join us on ⁠THE INTERNATIONAL DAY OF CALM⁠, watch the full replay on our YouTube Channel @DayofCalm Take the Pledge, Support our Mission of the Day of Calm Foundation to SOOTHE THE ANGER & RAGE AT THE HUMAN CORE as we work to end senseless violence against our kids. Support our school in Uganda, Share the Day, Attend a Calm Class or Parenting Class and feel great!

    48 min
  6. AUG 22

    EPISODE 188: If Spanking Works… Why Are You Still Yelling?

    When we hit, threaten, or shout, we don’t teach respect — we teach fear. In this straight-talking episode, I dismantle the myth that spanking “toughens kids up” and show you what actually builds strong, respectful humans: calm leadership, clear limits, and consistent follow-through. If you’ve ever wondered why the yelling keeps coming back after a spanking, this will connect the dots — and give you a better way. We’ll get practical: how to swap punishment for real-world consequences, how to set age-appropriate expectations, and how to give specific directions kids can actually follow (goodbye, vague “Be good”; hello, “Put the cars in the bucket”). You’ll hear why modeling matters. If we hit, we’re teaching hitting and how kindness plus firm boundaries raises confident, capable kids (not “soft” ones). You are not stuck with the way you were raised. You can be the calm leader your child needs — respected without fear, heard without yelling, and loved without conditions. I believe in you, and your kids will feel the difference. Ready to practice what you’ve learned? Join my 21 Days Stop Yelling Challenge! Simple daily steps to break the cycle and build a peaceful, respectful home. Start today at quityelling.com ******************************************************* Are you ready to STOP YELLING AT YOUR CHILD in just 21 Days? Join my newest program at low introductory pricing... go to ⁠QUITYELLING.COM ⁠1. Need more help? Let's grab some coffee or tea and talk. Go to TalkWithCelia.com and choose the time that works for you. 2. Looking for a manual for parenting your child (now in English & Spanish)? It's finally here and you can grab your copy of my latest parenting & children’s books today! 3. Become a Member of my TRANQUILITY TRIBE and STOP YELLING Once & For All. 4. Read my latest article to find out how to stop yelling... https://celiaArticle.com 5. Looking to be part of a fun free and informative FB community (without all the bitching)?... join us in Pumped Up Parenting 6. Love YouTube? Do you know there are lots of parenting videos, story time videos for you and your kids, as well as some great family workout videos? All on Pumped Up Parenting with Celia Kibler 7. Follow me on Instagram and TikTok 8. Join me on my newest platform PEANUT: Connecting women across fertility & motherhood 9. Get my parenting worksheet and other resources at PumpedUpParenting.Etsy.com 10. Join us on ⁠THE INTERNATIONAL DAY OF CALM⁠, watch the full replay on our YouTube Channel @DayofCalm Take the Pledge, Support our Mission of the Day of Calm Foundation to SOOTHE THE ANGER & RAGE AT THE HUMAN CORE as we work to end senseless violence against our kids. Support our school in Uganda, Share the Day, Attend a Calm Class or Parenting Class and feel great!

    28 min
  7. AUG 15

    EPISODE 187: Be the Influence: Celia Kibler’s TIP Conference Talk Every Parent Needs to Hear

    Parenting is influence — whether it’s you, a friend, a teacher, or the endless scroll of the internet, someone is shaping your child’s beliefs, behaviors, and future. In this special episode of the Pumped Up Parenting Podcast, you’ll hear Celia Kibler’s full, unfiltered talk from The Intentional Parent Annual Conference 2025. With her signature mix of warmth, humor, and practical wisdom, Celia shows you how to become the primary and most positive influence in your child’s life replacing yelling and control with connection, respect, and calm guidance that truly lasts. From the difference between control and influence to the four key pillars that help children thrive — connection, consistency, calm communication, and role modeling, this inspiring talk is packed with real-life examples, actionable steps, and truths every parent needs to hear. You’ll discover why your example speaks louder than any lecture, how to set expectations that lift your child up instead of tearing them down, and the small, consistent actions that turn chaos into cooperation. Whether you’re parenting toddlers or teens, you’ll leave this episode feeling encouraged, equipped, and ready to create a home where respect is mutual, laughter is frequent, and love speaks louder than yelling. This is your invitation to parent with intention and to influence the next generation in the most positive way possible. ******************************************************* Are you ready to STOP YELLING AT YOUR CHILD in just 21 Days? Join my newest program at low introductory pricing... go to ⁠QUITYELLING.COM ⁠1. Need more help? Let's grab some coffee or tea and talk. Go to TalkWithCelia.com and choose the time that works for you. 2. Looking for a manual for parenting your child (now in English & Spanish)? It's finally here and you can grab your copy of my latest parenting & children’s books today! 3. Become a Member of my TRANQUILITY TRIBE and STOP YELLING Once & For All. 4. Read my latest article to find out how to stop yelling... https://celiaArticle.com 5. Looking to be part of a fun free and informative FB community (without all the bitching)?... join us in Pumped Up Parenting 6. Love YouTube? Do you know there are lots of parenting videos, story time videos for you and your kids, as well as some great family workout videos? All on Pumped Up Parenting with Celia Kibler 7. Follow me on Instagram and TikTok 8. Join me on my newest platform PEANUT: Connecting women across fertility & motherhood 9. Get my parenting worksheet and other resources at PumpedUpParenting.Etsy.com 10. Join us on ⁠THE INTERNATIONAL DAY OF CALM⁠, watch the full replay on our YouTube Channel @DayofCalm Take the Pledge, Support our Mission of the Day of Calm Foundation to SOOTHE THE ANGER & RAGE AT THE HUMAN CORE as we work to end senseless violence against our kids. Support our school in Uganda, Share the Day, Attend a Calm Class or Parenting Class and feel great!

    57 min
  8. EPISODE 186: The Secret to Getting Things Done Without Feeling Like a Failure

    AUG 5

    EPISODE 186: The Secret to Getting Things Done Without Feeling Like a Failure

    In this episode of the Pumped Up Parenting Podcast, I’m thrilled to sit down with Jen Anderson aka the Professional Imperfectionist and creator of the Accomplist app for a real and refreshing talk about perfectionism, overwhelm, and how to stop beating yourself up when your to-do list doesn't get done. Jen shares her personal journey of building a productivity app designed for real people with real lives, not robots who never miss a checkbox. Together, we explore why most task systems set us up for failure, how underestimating tasks creates unnecessary stress, and how Accomplist helps you ditch the guilt and finally feel accomplished, even on your most chaotic days. Whether you’re a parent juggling schedules, a multi-tasking entrepreneur, or simply someone who’s tired of unrealistic productivity tools, this conversation is your reminder that progress beats perfection every time. Tune in to learn why you're not a hot mess — you’re an inspiration! Download the Accomplist app today on the App Store or Google Play Store, or head to Accomplist.app to get started. Connect with Jen at jen@accomplist.app and follow along on Facebook and Instagram @TeamAccomplist. And don’t forget to leave a review, share this episode with a friend who needs it, and keep those days filled with peace, love, and tons of laughter because laughter truly is the best medicine. ******************************************************* Are you ready to STOP YELLING AT YOUR CHILD in just 21 Days? Join my newest program at low introductory pricing... go to ⁠QUITYELLING.COM ⁠1. Need more help? Let's grab some coffee or tea and talk. Go to TalkWithCelia.com and choose the time that works for you. 2. Looking for a manual for parenting your child (now in English & Spanish)? It's finally here and you can grab your copy of my latest parenting & children’s books today! 3. Become a Member of my TRANQUILITY TRIBE and STOP YELLING Once & For All. 4. Read my latest article to find out how to stop yelling... https://celiaArticle.com 5. Looking to be part of a fun free and informative FB community (without all the bitching)?... join us in Pumped Up Parenting 6. Love YouTube? Do you know there are lots of parenting videos, story time videos for you and your kids, as well as some great family workout videos? All on Pumped Up Parenting with Celia Kibler 7. Follow me on Instagram and TikTok 8. Join me on my newest platform PEANUT: Connecting women across fertility & motherhood 9. Get my parenting worksheet and other resources at PumpedUpParenting.Etsy.com 10. Join us on ⁠THE INTERNATIONAL DAY OF CALM⁠, watch the full replay on our YouTube Channel @DayofCalm Take the Pledge, Support our Mission of the Day of Calm Foundation to SOOTHE THE ANGER & RAGE AT THE HUMAN CORE as we work to end senseless violence against our kids. Support our school in Uganda, Share the Day, Attend a Calm Class or Parenting Class and feel great!

    46 min
5
out of 5
10 Ratings

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Being a parent is hard—in fact, it’s quite the adventure! For every child it takes a village, the same goes for every parent! We all need questions answered, and we need to know stuff we don’t even know we need to know. Welcome to the Be A Better Parent Podcast, your essential resource for valuable advice and information that relates to you and your kids. Join Celia Kibler, Family & Relationship Empowerment Coach & Author of RAISING HAPPY TODDLERS, with over 40 years of mom & professional experience. Celia offers the best advice that NO ONE ELSE GIVES YOU about raising kids in today's world.