The Not So Bad Bachelor Pad

Joshua Jones
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Welcome to 'The Not So Bad Bachelor Pad,' where we explore the complex, exhilarating, and often misunderstood world of sex and relationships. Join Josh as he delves into candid conversations about love, intimacy, communication, and everything in between. From expert insights to personal stories, we aim to unravel the mysteries, break down myths, and offer practical advice to help manage the beautiful complexities of human relationships. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or simply curious, tune in for thought-provoking discussions that celebrate the diversity that makes a relationship.

  1. 6d ago

    167. How Self-Abandonment Is Ruining Your Relationships (And How to Stop)

    Do you constantly put everyone else first, avoid conflict, and wonder why you feel exhausted or disconnected from yourself? In this episode of The Not So Bad Bachelor Pad, Kori Strobel breaks down one of the most overlooked relationship killers: self-abandonment. What looks like kindness, selflessness, or being "easygoing" is often rooted in anxiety, fear of rejection, and the belief that keeping everyone else happy is the only way to stay connected. Kori shares her own journey from chronic people-pleasing to authentic self-trust and explains why boundaries alone aren't enough if you haven't developed the emotional tools to support them. We also explore how social media has intensified our need for external validation, making it even harder to recognize who we are beneath everyone else's expectations. In this episode, we discuss : The hidden difference between healthy compromise and self-abandonment. Why people-pleasing is often driven by fear—not kindness. The subtle signs you've lost touch with your own needs. Why boundaries can actually increase anxiety if the inner work isn't there. How childhood experiences shape people-pleasing patterns. Practical ways to regulate your emotions instead of shutting down or checking out. How grieving old wounds helps you build healthier relationships today. If you've ever struggled to say no, felt responsible for everyone else's emotions, or found yourself chasing approval instead of peace, this conversation will give you practical tools to reconnect with yourself without sacrificing the relationships that matter. Connect with Kori Strobel Website: koristrobel.com Instagram: @koristrobel Facebook: Kori Strobel Learn more about her coaching and courses on recovering from people-pleasing at her website. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who's ready to stop living for everyone else and start showing up authentically.

  2. Jul 16

    167. The Real Reason Desire Dies in Long-Term Relationships

    Most couples don't lose desire because time passes—they lose it because they stop pursuing it. Sex and relationship expert Caroline Hood joins The Not So Bad Bachelor Pad to challenge one of the biggest myths about long-term love: that passion naturally fades. From the hidden impact of the mental load to why women often disconnect from desire, Caroline explains what's really happening behind closed doors—and what couples can do about it. We dive into:• Why "sex begets sex" may be the key to reigniting attraction• The relationship habits that quietly kill intimacy• Why flirtation, novelty, and curiosity matter more than grand romantic gestures• The surprising connection between fantasy, desire, and emotional safety• Practical ways to build a relationship that feels exciting years down the road Whether you're single, dating, married, or wondering where the spark went, this episode offers an honest, refreshing look at what it actually takes to keep attraction alive. Guest: Caroline Hood, LICSW, certified sex therapist and author of Sex Begets Sex. 🎙️ If you enjoyed this conversation, subscribe to The Not So Bad Bachelor Pad for weekly conversations on dating, relationships, sex, health, and becoming a better partner.

  3. Jul 9

    166. You Can't Skip the Bases in Love

    Most people think they're ready for a relationship because they reached a certain age. Kameran Alareqi disagrees. After experiencing divorce, reconciliation, and rebuilding her own marriage, Kameran believes healthy relationships aren't built on luck—they're built on emotional maturity, self-awareness, and learning the skills most of us were never taught. In this episode, we unpack why emotional safety is the foundation of every great relationship, why vulnerability feels so difficult, and why the strongest couples don't avoid conflict—they learn how to repair it. We also dive into Kameran's practical "Play Baseball" framework for building connection, the five-step apology that actually rebuilds trust, and why growing older doesn't automatically make us better partners. In this episode: Why emotional safety matters more than always being right The apology framework that helps rebuild trust Why vulnerability creates stronger attraction How couples accidentally drift into the "roommate phase" The biggest myth about emotional maturity Why great relationships are built—not found

  4. Jul 2

    165.You're Old Enough for Love. But Are You Ready? w/ Kameran Alareqi

    Most people think relationships end because the love fades. Relationship coach Kameran Alareqi says the real problem starts long before that. After surviving infidelity, divorce, infertility, and rebuilding her own marriage, Kameran joins Joshua on The Not So Bad Bachelor Pad to unpack why good men shut down, why couples drift into the "roommate phase," and how emotional safety—not perfect communication—is the foundation of lasting intimacy. In this episode, we explore:• Why men often express hurt as anger• The "Play Baseball" framework for rebuilding connection• The apology that actually restores trust• Why emotional safety comes before passion• The habits that keep relationships growing instead of surviving Whether you're single, dating, or married, this conversation is packed with practical tools to help you build stronger, healthier relationships—one conversation at a time. 🎙️ Follow for more honest conversations about dating, relationships, and becoming the best version of yourself.

  5. Jun 25

    164. The Relationship Killer Hiding in Plain Sight

    Why do so many people crave deep connection while hiding who they really are? In this episode of The Not So Bad Bachelor Pad, Joanna Shakti joins Josh to explore authentic intimacy, conscious dating, vulnerability, self-love, and the relationship patterns that keep us stuck. We dive into how social conditioning teaches us to wear masks, why unspoken resentment quietly destroys relationships, and how embracing your authentic self can transform the way you love and connect. You'll learn how masculine and feminine energies influence attraction, why vulnerability is a strength—not a weakness—and practical ways to navigate conflict, build confidence, and create deeper emotional intimacy. Whether you're single, dating, or in a long-term relationship, this episode is packed with actionable insights to help you stop performing, start connecting, and build relationships that actually last.

  6. Jun 19

    Kink 202: You're Probably Kinkier Than You Think

    What if kink isn't really about sex? In this episode, Joshua is joined by Amanda Dames—sexologist, relationship coach, and former professional dominatrix—breaks down the psychology behind desire, power, attraction, and human connection. From ghosting and modern dating to dominance, submission, and emotional safety, this is Kink 202 the conversation most people skip and the one everyone needs.

  7. Jun 11

    163. Women Don't Want Less Sex… They Want MORE

    Most people think women want less sex than men. Courtney Fae Long says that's not the problem. Many women don't have low libido—they feel unseen, undesired, and emotionally disconnected in their relationships. It's a concept she calls Erotic Abandonment, and it's affecting more couples than anyone wants to admit. In this episode, we unpack why highly sexual women are often labeled "too much," the hidden cost of unmet desire, and how loving relationships can still leave someone feeling sexually alone. We also dive into sexual compatibility, why some women experience a surge in desire during perimenopause, and what it actually means to feel wanted by your partner. If you've ever wondered whether the issue is low libido—or something deeper—this conversation might change the way you think about intimacy forever. Josh YouTube TikTok

  8. Jun 4 ·  Bonus

    162. The Internet Loves Confidence—Until You're Actually Authentic

    From farm life to Playboy, Michelena Rose has never been afraid to do things her own way. In this episode, we talk dating, sexuality, confidence, motherhood, boundaries, and the surprising freedom that comes from being unapologetically yourself. Plus, Michelena shares some of the wildest stories from her unconventional journey.

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Welcome to 'The Not So Bad Bachelor Pad,' where we explore the complex, exhilarating, and often misunderstood world of sex and relationships. Join Josh as he delves into candid conversations about love, intimacy, communication, and everything in between. From expert insights to personal stories, we aim to unravel the mysteries, break down myths, and offer practical advice to help manage the beautiful complexities of human relationships. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or simply curious, tune in for thought-provoking discussions that celebrate the diversity that makes a relationship.

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