Dirty Bathwater "dating after 50" with Giddy and Lux

Gideon Jaden, Jean-Lux Basquiat
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Welcome to Dirty Bathwater, the number one dark comedy podcast about dating! We're Giddy and Lux, and we're here to share our experiences and lessons in the crazy world of dating. With too many years of bad dating experiences under our belts, we've learned that dating during a pandemic can be particularly insane.  Now on the other side, we realize that dating remains a challenge for everyone! Yes, the dating world can still be just as wild and unpredictable as when we were young.  The only difference is that WE notice that we are not young. Our body parts may be out of alignment and we may need a tune-up.  Don't forget to check the treads on the tires.  But we are still beautiful, right?  Right?  Whether you're looking for advice or just a good laugh, we're here to help. From navigating the challenges of kissing during a plague to figuring out who pays for the meal when one of you is unemployed, we tackle all the tough questions with humor and honesty. We'll even help you decode those confusing dating app acronyms! So join us as we explore the ups and downs of dating after 50. Remember, it's all an adventure, so let's have some fun and try not to hurt anyone along the way. Dive into an episode and share dirty bathwater with a friend. 

  1. 11/27/2025

    Picnics, Ghosts, and Holiday Sparks

    Hi Giddy here, tell us your dating experiences! Would you like to join us on a future show? This week, Giddy and Lux unwrap the messy magic of dating after 50 during the holiday season. Giddy, with her razor-sharp wit and academic edge, pairs perfectly with Lux’s goofy one-liners and heartfelt sincerity as they dive into the highs and lows of festive romance. From meeting someone at a community volunteer event to the sting of being ghosted mid-dinner (yes, Ray,s date was supposed to show up…), the duo keeps it real with stories that are equal parts awkward and hilarious. But it’s not all cringe—Giddy and Lux always circle back to empowering advice: how to adapt, laugh, and keep moving forward no matter what dating curveballs come your way. They’ll also share creative seasonal date ideas, like a cozy post-Thanksgiving picnic or twinkling holiday sightseeing, proving that romance after 50 can be just as adventurous, spontaneous, and joyful as ever. Check out Giddy's blog too for some extra gravy.  Tell us your thoughts or if you want to be on a future show, then drop us an email at giddyandlux@gmail.com.  Support the show "Dirty Bathwater, is dedicated to empowering seniors and promoting a fulfilling lifestyle. Join our hosts each week as they explore the latest trends and products that are transforming senior living. Subscribe to the show today and never miss an episode."

  2. 10/31/2025

    Dirty Bathwater: Dating After 50 – Halloween Edition

    Hi Giddy here, tell us your dating experiences! Would you like to join us on a future show? In this spooky-season special, Giddy and Lux unwrap the tricks and treats of dating after 50—starting with the horror story of showing up to meet someone who looks decades older than their profile pic. Giddy spins a hilarious scenario starring Lux as the unsuspecting dater, and his reaction? Let’s just say it involves a long pause and a flashback to a Halloween S&M party he once considered attending (but swears he’d never go to now). It’s all candy, cackles, and candid confessions as these two friends shoot the breeze, hand out sweets, and dive into the haunted house of midlife dating. No filters, no shame—just dirty bathwater and the real stuff underneath. Want a shorter version for podcast platforms or a teaser line for social? I can whip those up too. Here's Giddy's blog offering a few treats as well.  Support the show "Dirty Bathwater, is dedicated to empowering seniors and promoting a fulfilling lifestyle. Join our hosts each week as they explore the latest trends and products that are transforming senior living. Subscribe to the show today and never miss an episode."

  3. 10/05/2025

    “Ghosted in a Good Way”

    Hi Giddy here, tell us your dating experiences! Would you like to join us on a future show? On this episode of DirtyBathwater: Dating After 50, Giddy and Lux ditch the dinner-and-a-movie snoozefest and dive into dating like rockstars. From tiki lounges to ghost tours, Lux shares his high-octane first date formula—drinks, thrills, and a skyline dinner that screams “I’m not your average senior.” Giddy counters with her own romantic ritual: camping under the stars while being wined, dined, and wooed like a woodland queen. The laughs roll in when Lux asks the ultimate question: “Is it okay to pick up dates at the senior lunch program?” Giddy’s reaction? Classic. Tune in for cheeky banter, unconventional wisdom, and a reminder that dating after 50 is anything but boring.  Giddy adds her reflections in her blog.   Support the show "Dirty Bathwater, is dedicated to empowering seniors and promoting a fulfilling lifestyle. Join our hosts each week as they explore the latest trends and products that are transforming senior living. Subscribe to the show today and never miss an episode."

  4. 08/24/2025

    Get Out There: Finding True Love Offline

    Hi Giddy here, tell us your dating experiences! Would you like to join us on a future show? GIddy and Lux take on the issue of actually finding that special person by going outside into the world, rather than seeking them online through a dating service.  It seems for younger generations, that is becoming a thing again.  Wow.  the idea that I might meet someone in the grocery story might mean I actually have to get outside my house and step away from my computer.  And here, Lux was thinking, he could simply hookup to an AI gal.   This episode we take a critical look at the flaws of online dating.  Yes, there are plenty of problems with regular dating too! Honestly, we don't know the answer to finding that special love (WHO DOES, RIGHT?) , or the right thing for you to do, but we talk about it anyways, all in good humor.  Anyone tells you differently is just blowing smoke up your tail pipe.    Maybe Dr. Ruth (remember her?)  If you don't you are probably too young for this show. Of course, Giddy continues the conversation in her blog (because she always has to have the last word).  Support the show "Dirty Bathwater, is dedicated to empowering seniors and promoting a fulfilling lifestyle. Join our hosts each week as they explore the latest trends and products that are transforming senior living. Subscribe to the show today and never miss an episode."

  5. 07/29/2025

    Long Distance Lying (Who are you really??)

    Hi Giddy here, tell us your dating experiences! Would you like to join us on a future show? Update "we will be at Bubbles & Brew in Morgan Hill CA, from 5 to 7 Saturday Aug. 2, 2025,come and say hi!   In this raw and reflective episode, Giddy opens up about the heartbreak of a four-year relationship built on sweet words and hidden truths. What started as a promising long-distance love unraveled into a shocking revelation—one unearthed not by confrontation, but by quiet investigation and a single Facebook photo. As Lux listens in and offers his grounded insight, Giddy shares the emotional aftermath of discovering her partner had a decade-long live-in girlfriend. From confronting the red flags to regaining her dignity through a sharply worded farewell text, her story is a powerful reminder of how truth eventually finds its way to light.   The conversation doesn’t shy away from the scars—emotional manipulation, the loneliness of midlife dating, and a surprising encounter with a scammer surgeon (or three). But through it all, Giddy stands tall, proving that even battle-worn hearts can still beat with wisdom, humor, and hope. 🔹 If you’ve ever been blindsided by love… this one's for you.  🔹 If you're dating after 50 and wondering who’s real… listen in.  🔹 And if you’ve Googled someone after a weird gut feeling… welcome to the club. Dirty Bathwater dives deep this week—not just into the muck of deception, but the quiet triumph of pulling yourself out.  Giddy's blog can be found here.  Support the show "Dirty Bathwater, is dedicated to empowering seniors and promoting a fulfilling lifestyle. Join our hosts each week as they explore the latest trends and products that are transforming senior living. Subscribe to the show today and never miss an episode."

  6. 06/07/2025

    Cyber Dating, Anyone? What’s Happening to the Dating Paradigm

    Hi Giddy here, tell us your dating experiences! Would you like to join us on a future show? Welcome to Dirty Bathwater: Dating After 50, with your hosts Giddy and Lux—where we dive deep into the realities of finding love in a tech-driven world. Today, we’re exploring the ever-evolving landscape of online connections—from meta-style dating platforms to the rising risks of deepfake scams. As technology advances, so do the ways people seek companionship—but are we heading toward meaningful relationships or a world where digital deception is harder to detect than ever? We’ll break down what’s changing, who’s adapting, and how to stay ahead of the curve as dating moves further into the virtual space. So buckle up, because modern love is no longer just about chemistry—it’s about navigating algorithms, avatars, and AI-driven manipulation.  Giddy shares her thoughts on her blog.  Support the show "Dirty Bathwater, is dedicated to empowering seniors and promoting a fulfilling lifestyle. Join our hosts each week as they explore the latest trends and products that are transforming senior living. Subscribe to the show today and never miss an episode."

  7. 01/29/2025

    "Year of the Wood Snake – Love, Luck, and Lunar New Year"

    Hi Giddy here, tell us your dating experiences! Would you like to join us on a future show? 🎙️ Dirty Bathwater: Dating After 50 Episode Title: "Year of the Wood Snake – Love, Luck, and Lunar New Year" In this special episode, Giddy and Lux bring the spark of the Chinese New Year 2025 to the podcast as they slither into the Year of the Wood Snake! 🐍✨ The gang dives into the 5 luckiest animal signs for the year—Snake, Rooster, Ox, Rat, and Dragon—and explores what this means for love, relationships, and life after 50. But that’s not all! They dish up a buffet of fun topics, including:  🥠 Eating lucky foods to start the year off right, 🧧 The traditions that bring prosperity and joy, 💖 And, as always, a little wisdom on finding love at any age. Grab your chopsticks and join Giddy and Lux for a lively, insightful, and lucky start to the Lunar New Year!   Giddy, of course, has some thoughts in her blog.  Tune in now and let’s make 2025 your most romantic and prosperous year yet! 🐲🎉 Support the show "Dirty Bathwater, is dedicated to empowering seniors and promoting a fulfilling lifestyle. Join our hosts each week as they explore the latest trends and products that are transforming senior living. Subscribe to the show today and never miss an episode."

  8. 01/25/2025

    Life Beyond 50: Plan for Adventure, Not the End

    Hi Giddy here, tell us your dating experiences! Would you like to join us on a future show? In this lively episode of Dirty Bathwater: Dating After 50, hosts Giddy and Lux dive into a thought-provoking conversation about embracing life after 50. Lux passionately argues against the idea of planning for the end, urging listeners to focus instead on living vibrantly. Why should we fixate on wills, retirement homes, and burial plots when there are countless adventures waiting to be explored? With the advancements in technology, many of us are looking at longer, healthier lives—so why not make the most of them? From planning exciting vacations to pursuing that dream vocation or hobby, Lux encourages everyone to step outside their comfort zones and embrace new possibilities. Giddy brings her signature humor and charm to the discussion, adding a light-hearted touch to Lux’s earnest plea. Together, they inspire listeners to rethink their perspective on aging and embrace the adventures that lie ahead.  Here's a bit more from her blog.  Join us for a fun and uplifting conversation that will motivate you to live fully and joyfully—because life after 50 is just the beginning! Support the show "Dirty Bathwater, is dedicated to empowering seniors and promoting a fulfilling lifestyle. Join our hosts each week as they explore the latest trends and products that are transforming senior living. Subscribe to the show today and never miss an episode."

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Welcome to Dirty Bathwater, the number one dark comedy podcast about dating! We're Giddy and Lux, and we're here to share our experiences and lessons in the crazy world of dating. With too many years of bad dating experiences under our belts, we've learned that dating during a pandemic can be particularly insane.  Now on the other side, we realize that dating remains a challenge for everyone! Yes, the dating world can still be just as wild and unpredictable as when we were young.  The only difference is that WE notice that we are not young. Our body parts may be out of alignment and we may need a tune-up.  Don't forget to check the treads on the tires.  But we are still beautiful, right?  Right?  Whether you're looking for advice or just a good laugh, we're here to help. From navigating the challenges of kissing during a plague to figuring out who pays for the meal when one of you is unemployed, we tackle all the tough questions with humor and honesty. We'll even help you decode those confusing dating app acronyms! So join us as we explore the ups and downs of dating after 50. Remember, it's all an adventure, so let's have some fun and try not to hurt anyone along the way. Dive into an episode and share dirty bathwater with a friend. 

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