Unapologetically Weird With Tobare!

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Get ready to celebrate individuality and embrace the beauty of being "weird" with "Unapologetically Weird with Tobare". Join Tobare as she takes you on a journey of self-discovery and self-love, sharing her personal experiences and opinions on societal norms and labels. This podcast is about exploring Tobare's own journey towards authenticity and encouraging listeners to do the same. If you're ready to break free from societal expectations and embrace your unique self without fear of judgment, then this podcast is a must-listen. Let's be unconventional together!

  1. 4d ago

    Unlearning People-Pleasing: Why I Stopped Putting Friendship on a Pedestal

    What happens when you realize the friendships you spent your whole life glorifying were built on people-pleasing? On this episode of Unapologetically Weird With Tobare, Tobare takes a deeply honest look at her lifelong obsession with finding her "chosen family," the painful reality of bullying and feeling like an outcast in school, and the exhausting cycle of trying to be chosen. From childhood TV-fueled fantasies of "girl squads" to recovering from chronic people-pleasing, this episode is a raw, somatic exploration of what it truly means to decenter friendship, drop the performance, and find peace in solitude. 💛 Enjoyed this episode? Here is how you can support the show: 🔔 Follow & Rate: Hit follow on Spotify and leave a 5-star review so more people can find the weirdness! ✍️ Read My Essays: Check out my writing and personal reflections on Medium. ☕ Support Independent Creation: If this story resonated with you, consider throwing a tip into my Selar jar here to help keep the podcast and writing alive.

  2. 6d ago ·  Bonus

    How I Stood Up to My School Bully (Petty Revenge Stories) | Random Unapologetically Weird Moments

    What happens when an awkward, book-loving student reaches her breaking point with a high school bully? On this episode of Random Unapologetically Weird Moments, Tobare dives into her archives to share a hilarious and mischievous true story from her junior secondary school days in Lagos. From dealing with pre-teen body shaming and late-blooming insecurities to exacting the ultimate, petty revenge, this episode is all about embracing the messy, unfiltered reality of growing up. If you've ever felt out of place or wanted sweet, harmless revenge on someone who underestimated you, this episode will make you feel totally seen. 💛 Enjoyed this episode? Here is how you can support the show: 🔔 Follow & Rate: Hit follow on Spotify and leave a 5-star review so more people can find the weirdness! ✍️ Read My Essays: Check out my writing and personal reflections on Medium. ☕ Support Independent Creation: If this story gave you a laugh, consider throwing a tip into my Selar jar here to help keep the podcast and writing alive.

  3. Jul 27

    Why I Walked Away: Burnout and Toxic Nigerian Work Culture

    What happens when your passion slowly turns into survival? After three years away from the microphone, Tobare begins unpacking one of the biggest reasons behind her absence. In this deeply personal episode, she reflects on the burnout that changed her life, the realities of toxic Nigerian work culture, and how constantly proving your worth can leave you questioning it altogether. This isn't just a conversation about long hours or difficult workplaces. It's about gaslighting, emotional exhaustion, the lack of empathy many employees experience, and the moment she realized that choosing herself wasn't giving up, it was necessary. If you've ever tied your value to productivity, struggled with workplace burnout, or wondered why so many people normalize unhealthy work environments, this episode is for you. This is only the beginning. Over the coming weeks, Tobare will continue sharing the stories behind the last three years; one chapter at a time. In this episode: Burnout and emotional exhaustionToxic Nigerian work cultureWorkplace gaslightingMental and physical healthRediscovering purposeChoosing yourselfThe return of UWWT Enjoyed this episode? Here’s how you can stay connected: 🎧 Follow on Spotify: Hit the Follow button and tap the bell icon 🔔 so you never miss a new episode! 📖 Read My Essays: Check out my writing, poetry, and personal essays on Medium. ☕ Support the Show: If this conversation resonated with you, consider throwing a tip into my Selar jar. Your support directly fuels independent podcasting and writing! 💬 Join the Conversation: Share your thoughts on this episode in the Q&A / comments below!

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    I'm Back: Finding My Voice Again

    After three years away, I'm finally back behind the microphone. This isn't the full story, just the beginning. In this short episode, I share why UWWT went quiet, how burnout, life, and unexpected challenges changed me, and why I'm finally ready to find my voice again. Over the coming weeks, I'll be unpacking everything that happened, one story at a time. Welcome to a new chapter of Unapologetically Weird with Tobare. Enjoyed this episode? Here’s how you can stay connected: 🎧 Follow on Spotify: Hit the Follow button and tap the bell icon 🔔 so you never miss a new episode! 📖 Read My Essays: Check out my writing, poetry, and personal essays on ⁠Medium⁠. ☕ Support the Show: If this conversation resonated with you, consider ⁠throwing a tip into my Selar jar⁠. Your support directly fuels independent podcasting and writing! 💬 Join the Conversation: Share your thoughts on this episode in the Q&A / comments below!

  5. 11/14/2023 ·  Bonus

    Random Unapologetically Weird Moments: Personal Space Fails and Accidental Antisocial Vibes

    Get ready for a wild ride on the latest 'Random Unapologetically Weird Moments' segment! 😂 I'm sharing cringe-worthy stories about personal space gone wrong and how it led to some accusations of antisocial behavior. Tune in for a dose of laughter and relatable chaos! 🤷‍♀️ #WeirdMoments #SpaceFails #AntisocialComedy Enjoyed this episode? Here’s how you can stay connected: 🎧 Follow on Spotify: Hit the Follow button and tap the bell icon 🔔 so you never miss a new episode! 📖 Read My Essays: Check out my writing, poetry, and personal essays on ⁠Medium⁠. ☕ Support the Show: If this conversation resonated with you, consider ⁠throwing a tip into my Selar jar⁠. Your support directly fuels independent podcasting and writing! 💬 Join the Conversation: Share your thoughts on this episode in the Q&A / comments below!

  6. 07/10/2023

    Embracing Life: Breaking the Taboo of Death

    In this thought-provoking episode, Tobare bravely opens up about her personal encounters with death and how these experiences have profoundly shaped her perspective on life. Join her as she discusses why it's crucial to break the taboo surrounding death, fostering a healthy conversation around this sensitive topic. Explore the transformative power of embracing the reality of mortality and gaining a deeper appreciation for the preciousness of life.Trigger Warning: Sensitive Topic#EmbracingLife #BreakingTheTaboo #DiscussingDeath Enjoyed this episode? Here’s how you can stay connected: 🎧 Follow on Spotify: Hit the Follow button and tap the bell icon 🔔 so you never miss a new episode! 📖 Read My Essays: Check out my writing, poetry, and personal essays on ⁠Medium⁠. ☕ Support the Show: If this conversation resonated with you, consider ⁠throwing a tip into my Selar jar⁠. Your support directly fuels independent podcasting and writing! 💬 Join the Conversation: Share your thoughts on this episode in the Q&A / comments below!

  7. 04/28/2023 ·  Bonus

    Random Unapologetic Weird Moments - “SAY NO”

    In the second episode of "Random Unapologetically Weird Moments," Tobare recounts a liberating girl power moment where she said "no" to taking on someone else's task. Join Tobare as she explores the power of setting boundaries and how saying "no" can lead to unexpected moments of self-empowerment. What is one task you need to say "no" to in order to prioritize your own well-being? Enjoyed this episode? Here’s how you can stay connected: 🎧 Follow on Spotify: Hit the Follow button and tap the bell icon 🔔 so you never miss a new episode! 📖 Read My Essays: Check out my writing, poetry, and personal essays on ⁠Medium⁠. ☕ Support the Show: If this conversation resonated with you, consider ⁠throwing a tip into my Selar jar⁠. Your support directly fuels independent podcasting and writing! 💬 Join the Conversation: Share your thoughts on this episode in the Q&A / comments below!

  8. 04/11/2023 ·  Bonus

    Random Unapologetic Weird Moments - "Dancing Queen"

    Join Tobare for a new segment of "Random Unapologetic Weird Moments," where she recounts unexpected and liberating experiences. In the first episode, "Dancing Queen," Tobare shares her story of a 10-second dancing encounter with a stranger at the mall that made her feel alive. Celebrate the beauty of unapologetic self-expression and reflect on your own random, weird moments. What is one moment where you let your weirdness shine through? Enjoyed this episode? Here’s how you can stay connected: 🎧 Follow on Spotify: Hit the Follow button and tap the bell icon 🔔 so you never miss a new episode! 📖 Read My Essays: Check out my writing, poetry, and personal essays on ⁠Medium⁠. ☕ Support the Show: If this conversation resonated with you, consider ⁠throwing a tip into my Selar jar⁠. Your support directly fuels independent podcasting and writing! 💬 Join the Conversation: Share your thoughts on this episode in the Q&A / comments below!

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Get ready to celebrate individuality and embrace the beauty of being "weird" with "Unapologetically Weird with Tobare". Join Tobare as she takes you on a journey of self-discovery and self-love, sharing her personal experiences and opinions on societal norms and labels. This podcast is about exploring Tobare's own journey towards authenticity and encouraging listeners to do the same. If you're ready to break free from societal expectations and embrace your unique self without fear of judgment, then this podcast is a must-listen. Let's be unconventional together!

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