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Ask Ashley: The Podcast

DearYoungQueen
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Do you know what unites women everywhere? The unbelievable, hilariously offensive shit we go through – from failed relationships and disaster dates to trying to balance marriage and parenting a terrorist-like three year old. You know what makes all of us okay? Laughing about it with your best friend. Welcome to Ask Ashley – a hilariously refreshing podcast brought to you by @dearyoungqueen. Join our founder, Ashley W., and her bestie, Ashley North, celebrity stylist, for their intimate, unapologetic, unfiltered weekly check-in, as these two friends on opposite coasts coach each other through this thing called life.

  1. 3D AGO

    We Played Life. They Play Roblox.

    Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio this week discussing winter on the West Coast, old pains that probably need some attention, and the chaos that unfolds when convenience goes too far. 01:08 - Wild Replacements & Delivery App Chaos A DoorDash interruption turns into a full breakdown of the audacity of modern delivery apps. From kids and girlfriends riding along to replacements that make absolutely zero sense, Ashley + Ashley spiral over their worst Instacart, Uber Eats, and DoorDash experiences. 18:36 - Things I Saw on the Internet: The Oregon Trail Generation Let’s be real, millennials don’t panic because we’ve already survived everything. Pandemics, epidemics, loss, and pure chaos… all before middle school. The Ashleys unpack how childhood games like The Oregon Trail, The Game of Life, Monopoly, Sorry, and Operation were basically a crash course in adulthood. Millennials played life. Kids nowadays play Roblox. And it shows. 23:49 - Things I Saw on the Internet: Male Perspective Therapy You know how men give relationship advice? Blunt. Harsh. And somehow… exactly Ashley N’s speed. The Ashleys unpack why feedback from platonic male friends can hit differently than hearing the same advice from your girlfriends. Plus, why women often benefit more from male friendships than men do from female ones. Cue the double standards. LOL. 34:58 - It’s Question Time! The Ashleys get into meals that impress, the most attractive trait in a man, breakup cleanup habits, and a very clear stance on threesomes. Support the show 🔥 Don’t miss a moment—subscribe to Ask Ashley: The Podcast on your favorite podcast platform! New episodes drop every week, so hit that subscribe button and stay caught up. You can become one of our besties by subscribing to our BONUS EPISODES where you'll get bonus content, behind-the-scenes, and all the laughs. 📲 Stay connected! Follow us on Instagram @askashleypodcast and subscribe on YouTube: Ask Ashley: The Podcast Let’s keep the conversation going! Comment, share, and tag us in your favorite moments. We love hearing from you!

    51 min

  2. JAN 4

    Honest Mom Internet

    Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio this week with a proper pour of Kim Crawford, struggling through French words nobody actually knows how to pronounce, and realizing confidence really will take you far. 00:00 - Welcome Back to Ask Ashley 05:25 - Overthinking the Positive Ashley W is deep in her choose joy era. It’s all about the power of words, rewiring your brain toward positivity, and why overthinking the positive is just as valid as overthinking the negative. Things take an emotional turn after a moment with Ashley’s mom leaves the girls with unexpected tears, a reminder that a sweet moment mixed with Kim Crawford will do it every time. 15:28 - When the Internet Goes Out and So Does Your Sense of Safety The internet went out for over 24 hours at Ashley N’s house. No Netflix, no Ring cameras, no alarm system, no cell service. It led to the very real realization that modern safety and sanity are dangerously tied to the internet. 20:14 - Things I Saw on the Internet: Honest Mom Internet One time for the unhinged but deeply validating corner of the internet where moms are finally telling the truth. From chaotic mornings and zero patience to breastfeeding pressure, pregnancy grief, and IVF realities. The pretending motherhood is aesthetic has officially expired. Shoutout to honest mom creators. 29:50 - It’s TV Time! From Love Island Australia to Real Housewives Ashley W makes a brief attempt to bring Ashley N back into Love Island, but with an uncommitted bestie, she quickly pivots to the big dogs. Enter Real Housewives of Potomac. Karen in jail, Wendy & Happy Eddie catching fraud charges, mid-season mugshots, insurance scams, aliases, and why Potomac might be the most perfectly timed Housewives season we’ve seen in years. Reality TV is back doing what it does best: documenting the downfall in real time. 41:50 - DYQ Meme of the Week: Let’s Skip the Talking Stage In the era of getting flewed out, women are hopping on planes and trusting internet strangers at alarming rates. But was it really any better back in the day? The Ashleys swap their riskiest “just go” stories: fake IDs, random men, public bus rides to the club, and almost flying into an active war zone. The conclusion? Risky behavior used to feel normal. Now it just feels unnecessary. Make them work for you, ladies. 48:50 - It’s Question Time! Ashley + Ashley discuss morality amongst friends, favorite scents, loyalty, top-notch aura, and celebrity delusion. Support the show 🔥 Don’t miss a moment—subscribe to Ask Ashley: The Podcast on your favorite podcast platform! New episodes drop every week, so hit that subscribe button and stay caught up. You can become one of our besties by subscribing to our BONUS EPISODES where you'll get bonus content, behind-the-scenes, and all the laughs. 📲 Stay connected! Follow us on Instagram @askashleypodcast and subscribe on YouTube: Ask Ashley: The Podcast Let’s keep the conversation going! Comment, share, and tag us in your favorite moments. We love hearing from you!

    1 hr

  3. 12/20/2025

    Let’s Get Ready To Rumble!

    Ashley and Ashley are back in the studio this week, reminiscing on Jock Jams, MTV Spring Break, the D.A.R.E. program, and dads who smoke big ganja. 00:58- Let’s get ready to rumbleeee!! Who remembers Jock Jams?! Arguably the greatest sports mix of all time. Somebody track down the DJ who made that CD because they really laid the blueprint for Kidz Bop. 07:41-  Family Photos & Teen Attitudes Ashley N is a professional when it comes to photoshoots… except when you add a teenager. New clothes, bad moods, untucked shirts, and the very real realization that her daughter might act a lot more like her dad than she thought. 14:30-  Ashley’s French Date Night at Home If there’s one thing Ashley W is gonna do, it’s overachieve. A simple “wine & dinner at the house” turned into a full French experience: a sommelier, a private chef, a wine tour of France, flags, playlists, and more. 23:55-  D.A.R.E. Was… a scheme set up by Todd The ‘90s drug prevention program taught kids way too much about crack pipes, spoons, and “uppers vs downers.” The off-duty cash cow is giving… the only people truly around the drugs were the officers themselves. 34:16- TV Time: All’s Fair, All Her Fault, All Good… Or Maybe Not. The new Kim Kardashian Hulu drama is the hate-watch phenomenon happening in real time. How can a show reviewed so terribly deliver 3.2 million viewers and a Season 2 renewal? Because of people like The Ashleys. 43:30- Dear Young Queen Meme of the Week “I don’t know who needs to hear this, but you’re a great mom. Those kids are just bad. They get it from their dad.” From looking like their dad to acting like their dad, the Ashleys get into projection, co-parenting, and some of the best unfiltered advice on choosing who you sit next to at parent–teacher conferences. 49:31- It’s Question Time! Ashley + Ashley discuss hearing the word “no,” choosing a generous man over a rich man, avoiding Apple shortcuts, and absolutely chaotic app behavior. 🔥 Don’t miss a moment—subscribe to Ask Ashley: The Podcast on your favorite podcast platform! New episodes drop every week, so hit that subscribe button and stay caught up. You can become one of our besties by subscribing to our BONUS EPISODES where you'll get bonus content, behind-the-scenes, and all the laughs. 📲 Stay connected! Follow us on Instagram @askashleypodcast and subscribe on YouTube: Ask Ashley: The Podcast Let’s keep the conversation going! Comment, share, and tag us in your favorite moments. We love hearing from you!

    59 min
  4. That’s MY Delusion Talking

    12/08/2025

    That’s MY Delusion Talking

    Ashley + Ashley are back this week with heavy opinions, light patience, and zero tolerance for systems that don’t make sense.  00:06 - The NFL Mushroom Helmet: A new soft-shell covers helmet designed to reduce concussions but only about 9-13 players are wearing it this season?! Huh? Confusing to anyone else?  The Ashleys get into CTE, short NFL careers, exploited bodies, and why their sons will be struggling through literally anything else. 06:19  - Kids, AAU Sports & The $3,000 Childhood Upcharge:  Auntie Ash is refusing to go spend another $100 to watch her niece play 2 AAU basketball games. Ashley N breaks down what it really costs to raise a kid in sports. Monthly fees, tournaments, travel, wristbands, uniforms, and surprise expenses. 15:52  - Ashley Enters Her Anime-Adjacent Era:  Never thought the day would come when Ashley + Anime went together in the same sentence. But… here we are. Black anime kids, Naruto peer pressure, Adult Swim propaganda, Kid Cudi cartoons, Comic-Con alternate realities, and why Daria is the only gateway animation Ashley respects. 22:46 - It’s TV Time! Rewatching Scandal With Adult Eyes: Toxic love, secret service hoe phases, Vermont houses that never got built, and how Olivia Pope might actually be the villain. Netflix sent out the Scandal alert and Ashley N dove right in.  35:35 - It’s Question Time!  The Ashley’s are discussing Warm brownie politics (edge vs middle), parked car therapy sessions, disappearing for 24 hours, getting arrested, switching lives, and what Ashley would absolutely lose her mind over if she had to parent for a day. Motherhood, Guilt & The Emotional ROI of Parenting: The ladies get honest about what nobody tells you about being a parent. The sacrifices, the love, the imbalance, and the question nobody can answer beforehand: Is it actually worth it? 🔥 Don’t miss a moment—subscribe to Ask Ashley: The Podcast on your favorite podcast platform! New episodes drop every week, so hit that subscribe button and stay caught up. You can become one of our besties by subscribing to our BONUS EPISODES where you'll get bonus content, behind-the-scenes, and all the laughs. 📲 Stay connected! Follow us on Instagram @askashleypodcast and subscribe on YouTube: Ask Ashley: The Podcast Let’s keep the conversation going! Comment, share, and tag us in your favorite moments. We love hearing from you!

    1h 1m
  5. Be A "Regular" Somewhere

    11/29/2025

    Be A "Regular" Somewhere

    Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio this week with a little chaos, a little wisdom, and a whole lot of opinions. From not understanding life on Do Not Disturb to $2 Jäger bombs. From detoxing from tequila to remembering when people could smoke on airplanes… these two have thoughts this week, loud ones. 1:02 – Do Not Disturb Etiquette The Ashleys take a hard stance against people who live their lives on Do Not Disturb. If your phone stays muted from sunup to sundown… grow up. Adults have responsibilities. Take your damn phone off DND.' 5:10 – The TikTok-Famous Chinese Medicine “Doctor” Ashley N heads to downtown LA to see the viral Chinese Medicine doctor who checks your pulse, looks at your tongue, collects cash only, and sends you home with a 10-day tea that ruins your entire week. A nightmare from start to finish. 13:57 – Ashley W Has Entered Her Gin Era Tequila has been dethroned. Ashley W is officially a gin girlie now and accepting cocktail suggestions. French 75s? Gimlets? Meanwhile, Ashley N still has Bombay Sapphire trauma, so she might take a beat before joining the movement. 18:30 – The Importance of Having a Regular Spot Ashley W’s PSA of the week: get yourself a regular establishment. A bar, a restaurant, somewhere people know your name AND your order. A server who flirts a little and brings your dessert without asking? That’s emotional support. That’s community. 27:31 – Dear Young Queen Meme of the Week Changing a man’s name in your phone is an absolute no-no. The Ashleys didn’t write the rule, they just follow it. Because “as soon as you give a dude the benefit… here come the MF’n doubt.” 30:45 – Cheating in the Notes App Cheating used to happen in texts. Then DMs. Now? The Notes app. Private shared notes, locked folders, hidden conversations… The Ashleys uncover the creativity (and stupidity) of modern betrayal. 38:49 – It’s Question Time!The ladies dive into this week’s wild questions: spitting preferences (no thanks), last lies told, matching tattoo ideas, and what their reality TV–watching cult would require daily. 🔥 Don’t miss a moment—subscribe to Ask Ashley: The Podcast on your favorite podcast platform! New episodes drop every week, so hit that subscribe button and stay caught up. You can become one of our besties by subscribing to our BONUS EPISODES where you'll get bonus content, behind-the-scenes, and all the laughs. 📲 Stay connected! Follow us on Instagram @askashleypodcast and subscribe on YouTube: Ask Ashley: The Podcast Let’s keep the conversation going! Comment, share, and tag us in your favorite moments. We love hearing from you! 🔥 Don’t miss a moment—subscribe to Ask Ashley: The Podcast on your favorite podcast platform! New episodes drop every week, so hit that subscribe button and stay caught up. You can become one of our besties by subscribing to our BONUS EPISODES where you'll get bonus content, behind-the-scenes, and all the laughs. 📲 Stay connected! Follow us on Instagram @askashleypodcast and subscribe on YouTube: Ask Ashley: The Podcast Let’s keep the conversation going! Comment, share, and tag us in your favorite moments. We love hearing from you!

    49 min

  6. 11/22/2025

    Please Excuse My Dear Aunt Sally

    Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio and officially kicking off a brand new season of Ask Ashley: The Podcast! This week, the ladies tackle modern dating, relationship soft-launch culture, millennial mom struggles, and internet chaos — from random boyfriends and linen outfits to new math, scammers, AI hallucination, and the dark side of Snapchat DMs. Included in the episode: 00:00 – Welcome to the elite joy of watching a girl hard-launch a random boyfriend on Instagram. Not the ex, not the friend-group rebound — a RANDOM. The mystery, the deep dive, the investigative obsession… this is premium internet girl behavior. 02:53 – Linen Outfits & Summer Style: Linen is gorgeous… until you sit down. The ladies debate the most over-hyped summer fabric, how to wear linen without panic, and why we all keep buying it anyway. 7:14 – Parenting + New Math Struggles: The kids are older, the homework is harder, and “Singapore Math” is breaking spirits across America. Decimal division? New teaching styles? Parent homework Zooms? HELP. 16:42 – Snapchat Scam Storytime: Ashley W receives a shocking message: “You’re beautiful… can I send you money?” Is it sweet? Is it creepy? Is it a scam? Is it fraud? Is it… something worse?  Plus… the arrival of G Baby. 25:08 – It's TV Time! Ashley + Ashley unpack the Hurricane Katrina documentary and the shocking failures that made a natural disaster far worse than anyone realized. Then they break down Unknown Caller, aka the most unhinged high school catfish story of all time. Real chaos. Real tears. Real therapy needed. 37:40 -Things I saw on The Internet 44:48 – It's Question Time! Ashley + Ashley debate: • banning drunk texting • self-regulation • opinions nobody asked for • AND the famous “$1M vs 1 penny doubled” challenge. 🔥 Don’t miss a moment—subscribe to Ask Ashley: The Podcast on your favorite podcast platform! New episodes drop every week, so hit that subscribe button and stay caught up. You can become one of our besties by subscribing to our BONUS EPISODES where you'll get bonus content, behind-the-scenes, and all the laughs. 📲 Stay connected! Follow us on Instagram @askashleypodcast and subscribe on YouTube: Ask Ashley: The Podcast Let’s keep the conversation going! Comment, share, and tag us in your favorite moments. We love hearing from you!

    55 min

  7. 07/26/2025

    Razor Blade Throat

    Ashley + Ashley are back this week, reporting live from the comforts of their own homes.  This week they are catching up on expensive doctor visits, no touch laws, boxtox in the brain stem, the value of little people, and more. 00:52- How many nights a week do you eat out or order in? Cooking isn’t for everyone, and by everyone, we mean, Ashley + Ashley. 05:19 - New Hairdo, Who Dis? Both Ashleys have a new do, but apparently one looks like a “real black girl” and the other looks like a “hot auntie.”  11:05- Things I Saw on the Internet segment is remixed this week. It’s more like Things your mom saw on the internet this week. From advice on how to deal with narrccasists to how to deal with razor blade throat, the Ashleys’ moms are a special duo. 21:11 - It’s time for a Dinner Break! The Ashleys welcome interruptions from their favorite little person, Chayce, and their favorite big person, Ash W’s man. 27:55 -  If you ask a man what color nail color to get, do you go together? The Dear Young Queen Meme of the week took Ashley + Ashley to a place no one was ready for. 34:38  - It’s Question Time!  Ashley + Ashley discuss high school crushes, what has gradually disappeared over the last ten years, prostitution, and biggest regrets. 🔥 Don’t miss a moment—subscribe to Ask Ashley: The Podcast on your favorite podcast platform! New episodes drop every week, so hit that subscribe button and stay caught up. You can become one of our besties by subscribing to our BONUS EPISODES where you'll get bonus content, behind-the-scenes, and all the laughs. 📲 Stay connected! Follow us on Instagram @askashleypodcast and subscribe on YouTube: Ask Ashley: The Podcast Let’s keep the conversation going! Comment, share, and tag us in your favorite moments. We love hearing from you!

    50 min
  8. Not Opposed to Selling Your Cameltoe

    06/20/2025 · BONUS • SUBSCRIBERS ONLY

    Not Opposed to Selling Your Cameltoe

    IT'S INNER CIRCLE TIME! :) This episode is for BESTIES only!! You can become one of our besties by subscribing to our BONUS EPISODES! Ashley & Ashley are back this week with another HighTide-fueled episode—aka brilliant ideas, delayed reactions, and uncontrollable laughter. This subscriber-only bonus ep is a rollercoaster of red-light masks, Gel-X nails, emotional support dogs (the hypoallergenic kind, obviously), and whatever else their brains could hold on to mid-seltzer buzz. 11:23 – Scam calls are out of control, and the Ashleys have had enough. From fake bank calls to “urgent” IRS voicemails, what if scamming the scammer is the new self-care? 00:00 – It’s TV Time! The girls are crawling back to Real Housewives of Atlanta—because Porsha’s back and all is (kind of) right in the Bravo-verse. Kenya and Kandi? Nowhere to be found. And honestly, the silence is refreshing. Stick around, laugh with us, and enjoy the perks of being in the inner circle. Being a subscriber has never sounded so good. 💅🏽🎧 🔥 Don’t miss a moment—subscribe to Ask Ashley: The Podcast on your favorite podcast platform! New episodes drop every week, so hit that subscribe button and stay caught up. You can become one of our besties by subscribing to our BONUS EPISODES, where you'll get bonus content, behind-the-scenes, and all the laughs. 📲 Stay connected! Follow us on Instagram @askashleypodcast and subscribe on YouTube: Ask Ashley: The Podcast Let’s keep the conversation going! Comment, share, and tag us in your favorite moments. We love hearing from you!

    31 min
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Do you know what unites women everywhere? The unbelievable, hilariously offensive shit we go through – from failed relationships and disaster dates to trying to balance marriage and parenting a terrorist-like three year old. You know what makes all of us okay? Laughing about it with your best friend. Welcome to Ask Ashley – a hilariously refreshing podcast brought to you by @dearyoungqueen. Join our founder, Ashley W., and her bestie, Ashley North, celebrity stylist, for their intimate, unapologetic, unfiltered weekly check-in, as these two friends on opposite coasts coach each other through this thing called life.

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  • Creator
    DearYoungQueen
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    179
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Ask Ashley: The Podcast
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    Ask Ashley: The Podcast
  • Provider
    Spoonful of Life, LLC

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