Nate had always thought of himself as a pretty fit guy. He spent years in the CrossFit and functional fitness world, measuring progress by how much he could squat, press, and lift. But looking back, he realized something important: He trained the top. He trained the bottom. But he had largely ignored the middle. After marriage, fatherhood, divorce, changes in activity, and years of less-than-ideal posture and movement habits, Nate decided he was ready to reconnect with fitness. As he lost weight and began seeing more definition in his abdomen, he also noticed something he hadn't expected—coning through the center of his abs. At first, he wondered if something was seriously wrong. Then he discovered diastasis recti. His search for answers eventually brought him to Kelly's videos about diastasis recti in men and then to The Tummy Team. What began as a desire to “fix” his abs has become a much bigger shift in how Nate understands strength, fitness, and his body. In this episode, Kelly and Nate talk about why core rehab is about so much more than a series of exercises. They explore how posture, breathing, parenting, fitness habits, major life changes, and even the way we respond to stress can influence how we use our bodies. Nate also shares what surprised him most: some of the simplest strategies—slowing down, breathing, connecting to his transverse abdominis, improving his posture, and consistently practicing what he's learning—have made a noticeable difference in how his entire body feels during exercise. And because Nate is still in the middle of his rehab, Kelly helps him think through what comes next. They discuss: Why diastasis recti isn't just a postpartum issue—and men can experience it tooHow being fit or muscular doesn't necessarily mean your core is functioning wellThe difference between bracing your core and creating functional core connectionWhy breathing and transverse abdominal activation can feel deceptively simple—but be foundationalHow to incorporate core connection into squats, push-ups, lunges, lifting, chores, and everyday movementWhy “slow is strong” when you're retraining coordinationHow to know when you're ready to progress back toward more challenging exerciseWhy the goal isn't a permanent list of exercises you “can't” doHow awareness can help you recognize compensation patterns and make adjustments soonerWhy your goals for fitness may change as you get older—and why being strong for your actual life may matter more than hitting an impressive number in the gymHow online rehab can give you tools to better understand and take ownership of your own body One of the biggest mindset shifts for Nate has been realizing that he doesn't have to return to the exact version of himself he was before. He's building something different. As Kelly explains, sometimes we set a goal based on where we think we want to end up—and then discover that healing gives us something deeper: confidence, connection, awareness, and a kind of strength we weren't measuring before. Nate is still on that journey. He's still working through Core Foundations, still experimenting, still learning, and still rebuilding. But this time, he's not just asking: “How much can I lift?” He's learning to ask: “How can I build a body that supports the life I want to live?” And that may be a much better definition of strength.