How Soccer Explains Leadership Podcast

Philip Darke & Paul Jobson
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Hosts Paul Jobson and Phil Darke have decades of experience as leaders, husbands, fathers, soccer coaches, players, and referees. In this podcast, Paul and Phil will have conversations with guests from the worlds of leadership and soccer about how we can flourish by examining life and leadership through the lens of the "beautiful game."

  1. The People Advantage: Why Most Team Problems Aren't About Skill or Talent

    10H AGO

    The People Advantage: Why Most Team Problems Aren't About Skill or Talent

    In Episode 196, Phil and Paul kick off a new format for Season 14—short, high-impact leadership episodes centered around one core theme: The People Advantage. Over the next 10 episodes, they will unpack a foundational truth: Most team problems aren't about talent or skill—they're about misunderstanding people. From communication breakdowns to misunderstood roles, this episode explores why teams underperform—and how better understanding each other off the field transforms performance on it. Specifically, they discuss: The People Advantage Teams win when they understand each other better Chemistry isn't accidental—it's built intentionally It's Not a Skill Problem Most breakdowns come from: Miscommunication Misunderstanding Misalignment The Goalkeeper Leadership Model Great leaders eliminate problems before they happen Communication is proactive, not reactive The Conductor Analogy Coaches don't "play"—they align, direct, and unify Every role matters, but coordination is critical Communication Is Everything What you say How you say it When you say it Who you're saying it to If this episode helps you, share it with at least one other person (coach, parent, business leader, player) who you know will benefit from it. You can also reach out to Phil at the Darke Leadership Group link below if you want help implementing these principles in your team Resources and Links from this Episode        ·                 Uncut Video of the Episode ·                 Darke Leadership Group (Team Alignment/DISC Behavioral Training/Coaching) ·                 Warrior Way Soccer ·                 Nations United Website (World Cup Resources)

    14 min
  2. You Might Also Like: The Oprah Podcast

    10H AGO ·  BONUS

    You Might Also Like: The Oprah Podcast

    Introducing Dog Behavior Explained: Scientist Alexandra Horowitz Reveals Your Dog's Mind to Oprah from The Oprah Podcast. Follow the show: The Oprah Podcast One of the great joys of Oprah’s life has been her dogs – she’s loved 21 one of them! For all the dog lovers, have you ever wondered what’s really happening inside the mind of your dog or how they experience the world? Oprah talks with canine cognitive scientist and New York Times bestselling author Alexandra Horowitz, whose groundbreaking book Inside of a Dog has transformed how we understand our dog companions. From the astonishing power of a dog’s nose to how they interpret our words, emotions and intentions Dr. Horowitz reveals what life looks like from a dog’s point of view. She also explores how dogs form memories, how they learn and solve problems and why their low-to-the-ground perspective influences everything, from how they experience sound and scent, to how they navigate the concept of time in a human world. Oprah and Alexandra also take questions from our listeners like: Do dogs feel anxious when we leave them alone? Can they form deep soul bonds with their humans? What do they understand about aging, illness and the end of life? The episode also checks in with a passionate dog lover whose social media mission has helped rescue hundreds of senior dogs, giving senior pups a second chance with a family. This episode is presented by our fantastic partners at The Farmer’s Dog. Their real, human-grade food has been clinically shown to help dogs age well, so you can have more good years together. Visit https://www.thefarmersdog.com/oprahpodcast for more. BUY THE BOOK! https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/Inside-of-a-Dog/Alexandra-Horowitz/9781416583431 00:00:00 - Welcome Alexandra Horowitz, author of “Inside of a Dog” 00:05:22 - Do dogs have intelligence like humans? 00:06:50 - Their most important sense 00:08:40 - Detecting diseases and emotions 00:11:50 - Dogs track our movements 00:13:10 - What your dog remembers 00:17:30 - Do dogs feel a soul connection? 00:21:40 - Having a dog changed her life 00:22:30 - Do dogs have a concept of time? 00:27:00 - Showing your dog you are boss is harmful 00:30:30 - Do dogs get bored? 00:32:40 - Do dogs understand when it's their time? 00:34:40 - How do humans know when it's time? 00:37:28 - Meet Steve who adopts senior dogs 00:39:00 - Do dogs know their name? 00:48:23 - Adopting older dogs 00:49:38 - What Alexandra wishes people knew about dogs Follow Oprah Winfrey on Social: https://www.instagram.com/oprahpodcast/ https://www.facebook.com/oprahwinfrey/ Listen to the full podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/0tEVrfNp92a7lbjDe6GMLI https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-oprah-podcast/id1782960381 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices DISCLAIMER: Please note, this is an independent podcast episode not affiliated with, endorsed by, or produced in conjunction with the host podcast feed or any of its media entities. The views and opinions expressed in this episode are solely those of the creators and guests. For any concerns, please reach out to team@podroll.fm.

  3. Paul Caliguiri -- Faith, Perseverance, and National Team Glory (Re-cast)

    APR 16

    Paul Caliguiri -- Faith, Perseverance, and National Team Glory (Re-cast)

    In Episode 195, we are re-casting our episode with Paul Caligiuri, OCFC Manager, US Nat'l Soccer Hall of Famer, Former USMNT defender/midfielder and pro player in US and Germany, one of the first Americans to play professionally in Europe, and the unlikely scorer of the "shot heard 'round the world." In the episode, Paul talks with Phil and Paul about his remarkable journey from a passionate young soccer enthusiast to a defining figure in U.S. soccer history. He also recounts his serendipitous connection with Phil relating to a World War II era family relic, which you don't want to miss, and some moments from his impressive soccer career, highlighting his passion-filled early years in the game, pivotal moments like his unexpected selection for the Olympic Development Program, which led to his USMNT selection, and an intimate moment he shared with God after scoring the "Shot Heard 'Round the World," which secured the U.S.'s first World Cup qualification in 40 years in 1990. Caligiuri emphasizes the importance of passion, perseverance, and integrity, their influence on his career, and how these values translate into his everyday life and leadership. Paul also touches on key lessons from sports that can be applied in life, the current state of soccer, and the importance of faith in making a meaningful impact. Specifically, Paul C. discusses: ·      His providential connection with Phil relating to a WWII relic and including a lot of investigation and perseverance ·      How he developed his passion for soccer from humble beginnings and how he ultimately made the USMNT through a very unusual path filled with hard work, dedication, creativity, overcoming hurdles, "feeding his passion," and going above and beyond the "normal" (you don't want to miss this story) ·      His life purpose and "Why" and how he is living it out in his life (34:50) ·      An intimate defining moment after the "shot heard 'round the world" that might surprise you ·      A special call with his dad that shows how far the game has come in the US ·      Lessons that he has learned from soccer that he uses in his parenting and other important relationships in his life ·      His recommendations Resources and Links from this Episode ·                Paul Caliguiri's website ·                "The Billion Dollar Goal" (Paramount Plus) ·                "His goal changed soccer in the USA" (YouTube) ·                Uncut Video of the Episode ·                Warrior Way Soccer ·                Phil's email for DISC Training & Team Alignment ·                "Pulisic" (Paramount Plus) ·                "Vini Jr." (Netflix) ·                "Captains" (Netflix)

    53 min
  4. Phil Darke - How to Build Better Teams and Stronger Relationships

    APR 2

    Phil Darke - How to Build Better Teams and Stronger Relationships

    In Episode 194, we're recasting Offseason Talk, Volume 2, where host Phil Darke breaks down why understanding and implementing the DISC Model of Human Behavior can be one of the most practical and powerful steps you take toward building a healthier team and a healthier life. In this episode, you'll learn how DISC can help you: ·       understand yourself more clearly ·       connect better with team members, staff, volunteers, and family ·       communicate more effectively ·       navigate and resolve conflict ·       reduce tension and turnover ·       create stronger relationships ·       and improve results both personally and professionally Here's the challenge: on average, two people only have about a 40% chance of naturally communicating well and connecting with one another. In other words, most people are far more likely to experience miscommunication than meaningful connection. The good news? It doesn't have to stay that way. Listen to hear how DISC can help you better understand people, lead more effectively, and create healthier, more productive relationships in every area of your life. Resources and Links from this Episode ·      Uncut Video of the Episode ·      Phil's Calendly Link (to set up a call to discuss how DISC can help you in your leadership and other areas of your life) ·      Discover your DISC personality style - https://www.personalityservice.com/portal/ZERB/store

    17 min
  5. Cori Close, UCLA Women's BB Head Coach—Leading with a Broom and a Shovel (RECAST)

    MAR 19

    Cori Close, UCLA Women's BB Head Coach—Leading with a Broom and a Shovel (RECAST)

    In Episode 193, we are recasting our incredible interview with Cori Close, Head Coach of UCLA Women's Basketball, who talked with Phil about lessons she learned from her mentor, John Wooden, her personal "Why," what a broom and a shovel have to do with leadership, her Close Conversations, healthy conflict, gratitude, Championship Level Habits, doing the next right thing, and how work done in the dark gets revealed in the light. Specifically, Coach Close discusses: ·      Issues with specialization in one sport too early ·      How she developed her passion for soccer, basketball, and leadership, and how she got to be where she is today ·      Some lessons she learned while being mentored by the incomparable, John Wooden ·      Her personal "Why" and life mission, and how it informs her leadership ·      What are the things from sports that will stay with us for our whole life ·      Why she has a broom and a shovel in her office ·      How we can find and what we can learn from her Close Conversations on social media ·      Why healthy conflict and tension is necessary for any healthy team ·      A "have-to" vs. "get-to" mentality and why it matters ·      Creating and reaching Championship Level Habits ·      Doing the next right thing in the midst of the wrestle and getting back to neutral ·      What she wants her players to know when they leave her program ·      What she has learned directly from basketball (and soccer) that she has used in her life and leadership outside the game(s) ·      How the work done in the dark gets revealed in the light ·      Her book and podcast recommendations Resources and Links from this Episode ·      Coach Close on IG & Twitter (@coachcoriclose), and FB (Cori Close) ·      Uncut Video of the Episode ·      Warrior Way Soccer ·      Paul's email address ·      Nations United Website (World Cup Resources) ·      Phil's email for DISC Training ·      Ted Lasso (Apple TV) ·      Legacy: What the All Blacks Can Teach Us About the Business of Life, by James Kerr ·      The 7 Habits of Highly Successful People, by Stephen R. Covey ·      Chop Wood, Carry Water: How to Fall in Love with the Process of Becoming Great, by Joshua Medcalf ·      Burn Your Goals: The Counter Cultural Approach to Achieving Your Greatest Potential, by Joshua Medcalf ·      The Advantage: Why Organizational Health Trumps Everything Else, by Patrick Lencioni ·      Five Dysfunctions of a Team: A Leadership Fable, by Patrick Lencioni ·      The Third Option: Hope for a Racially Divided Nation, by Miles McPherson ·      "Two Perspectives on Abortion," Think Orphan Podcast, Episode 110 ·      In Pursuit of Orphan Excellence: My Kids, Your Kids, Our Kids, by Philip Darke and Keith McFarland, et. al ·      Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones, by James Clear ·      It's Not Supposed to Be This Way: Finding Unexpected Strength When Disappointments Leave You Shattered, by Lisa Terkeurst ·      It Takes What It Takes: How to Think Neutrally and Gain Control of Your Life, by Trever Moawad ·      Win in the Dark, by Joshua Medcalf and Lucas Jadin ·      The Focus 3 Podcast ·      The Relentless Elimination of Hurry: How to Stay Emotionally Healthy and Spiritually Alive in the Chaos of the Modern World, by John Mark Comer ·      Fight Hustle, End Hurry Podcast with John Mark Comer and Jefferson Bethke

    1h 4m
  6. Phil and Paul – The "Nor-Way" - Season 13 Post-Match Show

    MAR 5

    Phil and Paul – The "Nor-Way" - Season 13 Post-Match Show

    In Episode 192, Phil and Paul recap their highlights from the great interviews we've had in Season 13 and discuss the "Nor-Way. We discuss what it is, why it is relevant to this podcast, and whether we should implement a similar philosophy into youth sports around the world. Some of the topics covered are free play, reduced early specialization, lifelong health, and how we can reduce the dropout rate in youth sports, urging parents and coaches to keep sport player-driven and enjoyable. It's a fun and informative conversation that you don't want to miss. Resources and Links from this Episode ·                 Uncut Video of the Episode ·                 HSEL Facebook Group ·                 Warrior Way Soccer ·                 Paul's email address ·                 Nations United Website (World Cup Resources) ·                 Information about DISC Behavioral Training for your Team (with Phil)

    47 min
  7. Jim Spence – Faithfulness and Leading with Compassion

    FEB 19

    Jim Spence – Faithfulness and Leading with Compassion

    In Episode 191, Phil and Paul sat down with Jim Spence, founder of Sports Quest, to explore a 30-year journey of soccer ministry, leadership development, and faithful obedience. Jim shares how a young Englishman with dreams of professional cricket became a lifelong soccer missionary in Houston, Texas. Through stories of shattered athletic dreams, ministry pivots, and hard-earned leadership wisdom, Jim reveals how sport can be a powerful platform for sharing Christ and shaping lives. From apologizing to players to navigating burnout, this conversation is packed with practical leadership insights for coaches, parents, and ministry leaders alike. Resources and Links from this Episode ·                 Sports Quest Website ·                 Uncut Video of the Episode ·                 HSEL Facebook Group ·                 Warrior Way Soccer ·                 Paul's email address ·                 Nations United Website (World Cup Resources) ·                 Phil's email for DISC Training

    1h 12m
  8. Developing Players for Life - Season 13 Water Break with Paul and Phil

    FEB 5

    Developing Players for Life - Season 13 Water Break with Paul and Phil

    In Episode 190, Phil and Paul dive into the importance of individual and team development in every level of soccer. They discuss the role of effective communication between coaches and players, emphasizing the significance of understanding each player's personality and motivational needs. Paul brings his recent experiences from his new role as a club director to the table, particularly surrounding the recurring theme of balancing tactical instructions with personal development. We also discuss the critical influence parents have on their children's athletic experience and offers advice on how parents and coaches can foster a positive, growth-oriented environment. Listeners will come away with actionable insights on improving team dynamics, supporting individual players' growth, and fostering a healthy sports culture both on and off the field. Resources and Links from this Episode ·                 Uncut Video of the Episode ·                 HSEL Facebook Group ·                 Warrior Way Soccer ·                 Paul's email address ·                 Nations United Website (World Cup Resources) ·                 Phil's email for DISC Training

    51 min
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Hosts Paul Jobson and Phil Darke have decades of experience as leaders, husbands, fathers, soccer coaches, players, and referees. In this podcast, Paul and Phil will have conversations with guests from the worlds of leadership and soccer about how we can flourish by examining life and leadership through the lens of the "beautiful game."

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