Connect Inspire Create

Carol Clegg

Welcome to Connect Inspire Create  a podcast with over 6 years and 230+ episodes exploring meaningful conversations about life, work, creativity, and the ways we grow. I’m Carol Clegg, an accountability and mental fitness coach and a curious conversationalist. In each episode, I share insights and conversations on how we navigate change, take action, and build lives and work that matter. These aren’t just strategy conversations. We talk about mindset, patterns, self-trust, and what it really takes to follow through. Work With Me: If you’d like support bringing your own ideas into action, I offer a 60-day accountability coaching experience with weekly check-in calls to help you create steady, meaningful progress. 🌐 Explore over 230 episodes and learn more about coaching at carolclegg.com Let’s connect. Let’s explore. Let’s create — together. (Don't forget to Subscribe and hit the notification bell so you never miss an episode!)

  1. 3d ago

    Stop Arguing With Your Emotions And Let Them Talk with Sophie Malahieude

    Your emotions are not a problem to solve. They are data, energy, and often the most honest guidance you have, especially when life gets messy. I sit down with Sophie Malahieude, an emotional balance guide, yoga mentor, and author of "Beyond Emotions", to talk about what happens when we stop trying to control feelings in our minds and start listening to them in our bodies. We get into why so many of us were taught to hide anger, fear, and sadness, and how that training can turn into emotional suppression, overthinking, and a loss of self-trust. Sophie shares a simple metaphor that reframes everything: emotions are like fire, not “good” or “bad,” just powerful and purposeful. We also talk about grief in a real, human way, including how unprocessed grief can show up physically, like tight breathing and tension that doesn’t make sense on paper. Sophie explains what she means by an emotion “completing its cycle,” and why big life experiences like loss, betrayal, trauma, or injustice can keep that cycle open until we go to the root. From there, we walk through her body-based emotional process: assess what’s happening, breathe to return to the present moment, practice self-inquiry with curiosity, and let surrender and forgiveness unfold as a process that leads back to connection. If you want practical tools for emotional regulation, mindfulness, breathwork, somatic awareness, and building resilience during change, you’ll leave with a gentle next step you can try today, plus a free guided reset to support you. Subscribe, share this with someone who’s carrying a lot, and leave a review so more listeners can find the show.  https://www.sophiemalahieude.com/emotion You can access a free guided practice, 3-Step Emotion Reset, at sophiemalahieude.com/emotion—a simple way to reconnect with your body and allow emotions to move and resolve naturally. Where to find Sophie Website:  https://www.sophiemalahieude.com  https://www.linkedin.com/in/sophie-malahieude-54118216/ https://www.instagram.com/sophiejimalahieude/ https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61556071830295 Let me know what you’d like to hear more about on the show Support the show I’m Carol Clegg, a life coach offering gentle accountability coaching and I am a curious conversationalist. If you enjoy reflection, fresh perspectives, and honest dialogue, this space is for you. If you’d like to experience this work in community, I host a complimentary monthly Accountability Circle  a supportive space to pause, gain clarity, and choose a gentle next step forward. More info at https://carolclegg.com/accountabilitycircle For those ready for deeper, more consistent support, I also offer a 60-day Accountability Package, designed to help you move from scattered ideas to steady, sustainable momentum. You can learn more at carolclegg.com Let’s connect on LinkedIn and Instagram, or join my LinkedIn Group Flourish: A Community for Women Business Owners

  2. Nov 3

    Bad Poetry For Better Mental Health with Margaret Bryden

    You can be incredibly self-aware and still feel stuck, and that gap can be exhausting. We sit with the part of growth that does not respond to better explanations, tighter logic, or another attempt to “fix” yourself. Instead, we lean into curiosity and a surprisingly effective tool for emotional clarity: writing bad poetry on purpose. I’m joined by Margaret Bryden, a licensed clinical mental health counselor, author, and the founder of Sage Insight Therapy in Salt Lake City. Margaret shares why “bad poetry” is not a joke, it’s permission. When you stop trying to write something impressive and focus on what is honest, creativity becomes a doorway into self-understanding, resilience, and self-compassion. We talk about why emotions have their own logic, how shame isolates us, and how a blank page can help quiet the inner critic long enough for the truth to show up. We also get practical. Margaret explains why poetry can be “journaling on steroids,” how metaphor and imagery can reach the heart faster than linear storytelling, and how poems can become a vehicle for connection with other people and with yourself. She offers a simple five-minute poetry prompt, points to research on expressive writing (including James Pennebaker’s work on stress and health outcomes), and reads a short poem that shifts perspective in a powerful way. If you’ve ever said “I’m not creative” or “I’m not a writer,” this conversation is for you. Subscribe for more conversations on creativity and mental health, share this with a friend who needs a gentler way in, and leave a review with your biggest takeaway or the first line of your bad poem. What are you carrying today? Where to find Margaret https://www.sageinsighttherapy.com/ https://www.sageinsighttherapy.com/thebook https://www.instagram.com/sage_insight_therapy/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/margaretbryden Let me know what you’d like to hear more about on the show Support the show I’m Carol Clegg, a life coach offering gentle accountability coaching and I am a curious conversationalist. If you enjoy reflection, fresh perspectives, and honest dialogue, this space is for you. If you’d like to experience this work in community, I host a complimentary monthly Accountability Circle  a supportive space to pause, gain clarity, and choose a gentle next step forward. More info at https://carolclegg.com/accountabilitycircle For those ready for deeper, more consistent support, I also offer a 60-day Accountability Package, designed to help you move from scattered ideas to steady, sustainable momentum. You can learn more at carolclegg.com Let’s connect on LinkedIn and Instagram, or join my LinkedIn Group Flourish: A Community for Women Business Owners

  3. Oct 27

    Confidence Grows After You Take The Step with Carol Clegg

    Kindness lands in ordinary moments and still changes our state of mind when we feel depleted. I connect self-compassion to confidence and show how gentle accountability helps us take small steps, learn, and choose again without self-criticism. • noticing how small gestures restore calm and courage • allowing ourselves to receive support instead of always being the strong one • challenging the belief that we must feel confident before acting • practicing gentle accountability by choosing a meaningful next step • building self-trust by keeping small promises and celebrating follow-through • replacing the inner critic with curiosity through kinder questions • using positive intelligence and the sage perspective when we feel stuck • walking through empathize, explore, innovate, navigate, and activate • trying Pause Notice Choose to create breathing room and momentum • reflecting on where kindness could make a difference this week Let me know what you’d like to hear more about on the show Support the show I’m Carol Clegg, a life coach offering gentle accountability coaching and I am a curious conversationalist. If you enjoy reflection, fresh perspectives, and honest dialogue, this space is for you. If you’d like to experience this work in community, I host a complimentary monthly Accountability Circle  a supportive space to pause, gain clarity, and choose a gentle next step forward. More info at https://carolclegg.com/accountabilitycircle For those ready for deeper, more consistent support, I also offer a 60-day Accountability Package, designed to help you move from scattered ideas to steady, sustainable momentum. You can learn more at carolclegg.com Let’s connect on LinkedIn and Instagram, or join my LinkedIn Group Flourish: A Community for Women Business Owners

  4. Oct 20

    When Relationships Feel Hard: Turning Conflict Into Connection with Valerie Green

    A fight can look like it’s about chores, texts, or tone, but underneath it’s usually about safety, belonging, and the fear of not mattering. I chat with relationship mentor Valerie Green to get honest about what’s really happening beneath relationship conflict and why the same argument keeps coming back even when you swear you’ve already “talked it out.” If you’ve ever felt stuck between chasing connection and shutting down to protect yourself, you’ll recognize the cycle immediately. We dig into anxious and avoidant attachment patterns without blame, and we name the real enemy: survival mode. Valerie shares how emotionally focused therapy, internal family systems ideas, and decades of couples coaching point to the same truth: you can’t solve the surface issue until both people feel seen. We talk about “feeling first, fact second,” the power of swapping accusations for curiosity (“I have a story that…”), and what it looks like to validate a partner’s experience even when you disagree. We also unpack vulnerability in a way that’s actually usable. There’s victim vulnerability that keeps you stuck, and there’s empowered vulnerability that starts with self-compassion and turns into a clear request for support. You’ll leave with practical strategies for self-regulation, co-regulation, and creating a safer container for hard conversations, so conflict becomes information instead of a threat. If you want better communication, deeper intimacy, and a more secure relationship, listen now, then subscribe, share with someone who needs it, and leave a review so more people can find these tools. What’s the one repeat conflict you’re ready to change? Where to find Valerie Facebook https://www.facebook.com/coachvaleriegreene Website: https://coachvaleriegreene.com/ Instagram  https://www.instagram.com/val_greene/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCV5fnakewbzMZ2yGU-eChqQ LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/valerie-greene Let me know what you’d like to hear more about on the show Support the show I’m Carol Clegg, a life coach offering gentle accountability coaching and I am a curious conversationalist. If you enjoy reflection, fresh perspectives, and honest dialogue, this space is for you. If you’d like to experience this work in community, I host a complimentary monthly Accountability Circle  a supportive space to pause, gain clarity, and choose a gentle next step forward. More info at https://carolclegg.com/accountabilitycircle For those ready for deeper, more consistent support, I also offer a 60-day Accountability Package, designed to help you move from scattered ideas to steady, sustainable momentum. You can learn more at carolclegg.com Let’s connect on LinkedIn and Instagram, or join my LinkedIn Group Flourish: A Community for Women Business Owners

  5. Oct 13

    Pause Notice Choose with Carol Clegg

    Your brain might be begging for a bigger plan, but what if the real breakthrough starts with a smaller moment?  Let's walk through three words that create space for clarity and better decision making: pause, notice, choose. Pausing isn’t shutting down your life. It’s creating a tiny gap between a trigger and your response, especially before you reply to a hard message, pile another task onto your to-do list, or spiral on the same thought. Then we practice noticing with compassion: what feels most present right now, what you’re carrying that doesn’t need solving today, what patterns keep repeating, what drains your energy, and where stress is showing up in your body. Choosing is where insight becomes action without the pressure of a dramatic makeover. Sometimes the next right move is sending the email, making the appointment, letting something wait, asking for help, or stopping the habit of checking something that won’t change. I also share a simple daily ritual to make this mindfulness practice stick, plus a free reflection guide with prompts you can use when you want things to feel even 10% lighter. Grab your guide here Let me know what you’d like to hear more about on the show Support the show I’m Carol Clegg, a life coach offering gentle accountability coaching and I am a curious conversationalist. If you enjoy reflection, fresh perspectives, and honest dialogue, this space is for you. If you’d like to experience this work in community, I host a complimentary monthly Accountability Circle  a supportive space to pause, gain clarity, and choose a gentle next step forward. More info at https://carolclegg.com/accountabilitycircle For those ready for deeper, more consistent support, I also offer a 60-day Accountability Package, designed to help you move from scattered ideas to steady, sustainable momentum. You can learn more at carolclegg.com Let’s connect on LinkedIn and Instagram, or join my LinkedIn Group Flourish: A Community for Women Business Owners

  6. Oct 6

    You Are Not The Problem In Emotional Abuse with Carine Van Hee

    Confusion can be one of the loudest warning signs, especially when a relationship leaves you doubting your memory, your emotions, and your sense of self. I’m joined by Carine Van Hee, an artist, author, and speaker whose work shines a clear light on emotional manipulation, toxic relationship patterns, and the subtle ways control can masquerade as love. If you’ve ever thought, “Is it me?”, this conversation gives you language for what felt impossible to explain. We talk about why many unhealthy relationships don’t start with obvious red flags. Carine breaks down the early “lovely” stage, how love bombing can push intimacy at high speed, and why that rush can set up isolation and control. We also draw a sharp line between ordinary conflict and abuse: conflict still has respect and repair, while abuse runs on a power imbalance where one person keeps the upper hand and makes the other carry the blame. Along the way, we name common tactics like gaslighting and silent treatment, and why rumination can be a clue that something deeper is wrong. Healing is not instant, and we don’t pretend it is. Carine shares what it takes to rebuild self-trust, including noticing the abuser’s voice that lingers in everyday decisions and learning to interrupt mental loops. We also explore creativity as a practical path back to the body and back to intuition, whether that’s painting, knitting, cooking, sketching, or any form of making that helps you feel safe again. Carine also explains what readers will find in her book, “Is It Me: The Hidden System Behind Toxic Relationships,” designed to help people recognize the pattern and choose their next step with clarity. If this resonates, subscribe for more conversations on change, self-trust, and creating what comes next, then share this episode with someone who might need it and leave a review so more listeners can find support. Connect with Carine Website Instagram   Facebook and LinkedIn Let me know what you’d like to hear more about on the show Support the show I’m Carol Clegg, a life coach offering gentle accountability coaching and I am a curious conversationalist. If you enjoy reflection, fresh perspectives, and honest dialogue, this space is for you. If you’d like to experience this work in community, I host a complimentary monthly Accountability Circle  a supportive space to pause, gain clarity, and choose a gentle next step forward. More info at https://carolclegg.com/accountabilitycircle For those ready for deeper, more consistent support, I also offer a 60-day Accountability Package, designed to help you move from scattered ideas to steady, sustainable momentum. You can learn more at carolclegg.com Let’s connect on LinkedIn and Instagram, or join my LinkedIn Group Flourish: A Community for Women Business Owners

  7. Sep 29

    Anxiety As A Signal with Elke Scholz

    Anxiety can feel like a glitch in your brain, but what if it’s actually a signal from your whole system? We sit down with Elke Scholz, a registered psychotherapist, certified EMDR therapist, and expressive arts therapist, to explore anxiety from both clinical experience and lived reality. The big shift is simple but powerful: instead of only trying to shut anxiety down, we learn how to listen to it, translate it, and respond with more self-trust. We dig into why anxiety sometimes has no obvious trigger and how “out of the blue” episodes can be rooted in physiology. We talk food sensitivities (not allergies), low iron, hormones, and thyroid issues that can mimic anxiety and depression, plus why it matters to “cover the bases” when life looks fine on paper but your body says otherwise. Elke also shares her layered way of thinking about anxiety, from social and cultural beliefs to perfectionism, negative thinking, high sensitivity, and the deeper layer of trauma that often needs extra care. Then we go practical. We explore a gentle body-awareness practice to rebuild trust in your own signals without becoming hyper-focused, and we make a strong case for creativity as nervous system regulation. Sketching, journaling, movement, and other expressive arts can interrupt rumination, process emotion you can’t yet name, and bring you back to presence. If you want more calm, clearer choices, and confidence you can actually feel, hit play, then subscribe, share this with a friend, and leave a review so more people can find it. Where to find Elke Website: http://www.lovingyourlifebook.com/ LinkedIn - https://linkedin.com/in/elkescholztherapist  http://www.lovingyourlifebook.com Grab your copy of Proven Calming Techniques that work in a few minutes. -  pdf Let me know what you’d like to hear more about on the show Support the show I’m Carol Clegg, a life coach offering gentle accountability coaching and I am a curious conversationalist. If you enjoy reflection, fresh perspectives, and honest dialogue, this space is for you. If you’d like to experience this work in community, I host a complimentary monthly Accountability Circle  a supportive space to pause, gain clarity, and choose a gentle next step forward. More info at https://carolclegg.com/accountabilitycircle For those ready for deeper, more consistent support, I also offer a 60-day Accountability Package, designed to help you move from scattered ideas to steady, sustainable momentum. You can learn more at carolclegg.com Let’s connect on LinkedIn and Instagram, or join my LinkedIn Group Flourish: A Community for Women Business Owners

  8. Sep 22

    What If Self Trust Is Your Real Success Metric with Jenna Smith

    When you’re smart, capable, and driven, it’s easy to believe the answer to discomfort is more effort: more thinking, more optimizing, more self-improvement. But what happens when that approach stops working and you’re left with emotional pain you can’t logic your way through? That’s where this conversation gets real. I’m joined by Jenna Smith, creator of the Resourcing Method, to talk about what it looks like to reconnect with the intelligence of your mind, body, heart, and spirit. We dig into why left brain dominance can keep high achievers stuck, why emotions are meant to be metabolized in the body (not suppressed or “solved” in your head), and how nervous system support can change everything. Jenna shares a memorable client story that captures the shift from control and perfectionism into presence and a calmer, more flexible way of responding to life. We also get practical about self-trust and intuition. We explore self-trust as an actual relationship with yourself, how to tell intuition from anxious “ping pong” thinking, and what unconditional confidence looks like when it’s not tied to achievement, approval, or having a perfect day. If you’re tired of treating yourself like a problem to fix, you’ll leave with a gentle next step you can try right away, including a simple hand-on-heart practice and journaling as a tool to meet yourself honestly. If this resonates, subscribe so you don’t miss what’s next, share the episode with a friend who overthinks, and leave a review to help more people find the show. Where to find Jenna Website:  Instagram   LinkedIn Let me know what you’d like to hear more about on the show Support the show I’m Carol Clegg, a life coach offering gentle accountability coaching and I am a curious conversationalist. If you enjoy reflection, fresh perspectives, and honest dialogue, this space is for you. If you’d like to experience this work in community, I host a complimentary monthly Accountability Circle  a supportive space to pause, gain clarity, and choose a gentle next step forward. More info at https://carolclegg.com/accountabilitycircle For those ready for deeper, more consistent support, I also offer a 60-day Accountability Package, designed to help you move from scattered ideas to steady, sustainable momentum. You can learn more at carolclegg.com Let’s connect on LinkedIn and Instagram, or join my LinkedIn Group Flourish: A Community for Women Business Owners

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Welcome to Connect Inspire Create  a podcast with over 6 years and 230+ episodes exploring meaningful conversations about life, work, creativity, and the ways we grow. I’m Carol Clegg, an accountability and mental fitness coach and a curious conversationalist. In each episode, I share insights and conversations on how we navigate change, take action, and build lives and work that matter. These aren’t just strategy conversations. We talk about mindset, patterns, self-trust, and what it really takes to follow through. Work With Me: If you’d like support bringing your own ideas into action, I offer a 60-day accountability coaching experience with weekly check-in calls to help you create steady, meaningful progress. 🌐 Explore over 230 episodes and learn more about coaching at carolclegg.com Let’s connect. Let’s explore. Let’s create — together. (Don't forget to Subscribe and hit the notification bell so you never miss an episode!)