Agape SLO Podcast

Dr. James Johnson-Hill

Weekly messages from Agape Church | SLO

  1. May 31 ·  Video

    Campfire with Joseph: From Pit to Purpose | 11 AM Service

    Follow us on: Facebook: agapechurchslo Instagram: @agapechurchslo Website: agape.church CAMPFIRE: LIFE LESSONS FROM THE LEGENDS OF THE BIBLE Week 2 | Campfire with Joseph: From Pit to Purpose Hebrews 12:1 (ESV) Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us. CAMPFIRE MOMENT Joseph would say “DO NOT JUDGE GOD’S PURPOSE BY ONE PAINFUL CHAPTER.” What people mean for harm, God can use for preparation, positioning, and purpose. POINT 1: THE PIT IS NOT THE END OF YOUR STORY Genesis 37:23–24 “So when Joseph came to his brothers, they stripped him of his robe, the robe of many colors that he wore. And they took him and threw him into a pit. The pit was empty; there was no water in it.” BIG TRUTH: A painful chapter is not a final conclusion. POINT 2: GOD’S PRESENCE IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN YOUR POSITION Genesis 39:2–3 “The Lord was with Joseph, and he became a successful man… His master saw that the Lord was with him…” Genesis 39:20–21 “And Joseph’s master took him and put him into the prison… But the Lord was with Joseph and showed him steadfast love…” BIG TRUTH: Your location may change, but God’s presence remains constant. POINT 3: CHARACTER DEVELOPED IN HARDSHIP PREPARES YOU FOR INFLUENCE BIG TRUTH: Let hardship develop your character, not destroy it. POINT 4: PURPOSE IS OFTEN REVEALED AFTER PERSEVERANCE Genesis 50:20 “As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good…” BIG TRUTH: God’s plan is often clearer in hindsight than in the middle. FOUR WAYS TO LIVE JOSEPH’S LESSON 1. DO NOT LET PAINFUL SEASONS MAKE YOU BITTER 2. STAY FAITHFUL IN PLACES THAT FEEL UNFAIR 3. LET HARDSHIP DEVELOP YOUR CHARACTER, NOT DESTROY IT 4. TRUST THAT GOD IS STILL WORKING EVEN WHEN LIFE FEELS DELAYED

    1h 14m
  2. May 24 ·  Video

    Campfire with Noah: Obeying God When You Stand Alone

    Follow us on: Facebook: agapechurchslo Instagram: @agapechurchslo Website: agape.church Primary Text Genesis 6:9, 13–14, 22; Hebrews 11:7 Foundational Scripture Hebrews 12:1 (ESV) Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us. Have you ever done something that made perfect sense to you because you knew why you were doing it, but it looked absolutely ridiculous to everybody else? Imagine Noah for a moment. Day after day, week after week, year after year, building something nobody around him had ever seen before, for a storm nobody around him believed was coming. Can you imagine the conversations? “Noah, what are you doing?” “I’m building an ark.” “What’s an ark?” “It’s a really big boat.” “What’s the really big boat for?” “For the flood.” “What flood, we’re in the desert?”…And in that moment, Noah had to decide whether he was going to live by what people thought or by what God said. That is not just Noah’s struggle. That is ours. Because there are moments in every believer’s life when obedience to God will put you out of step with the culture around you.  There will be seasons when doing the right thing will not be applauded. There will be times when honoring God will make you look strange, extreme, or out of touch with current times. And in those moments, you need more than inspiration. In those moments, you need conviction. That is why this summer we are in this series, CAMPFIRE. We are sitting down with men and women from Scripture who still speak to us through what Hebrews 12:1 calls a great cloud of witnesses. They do not just inspire us from a distance… Their lives testify to us… Their stories call to us… Their faith still has something to say to our modern struggles, our leadership decisions, our family battles, and our everyday obedience.  And today, if Noah sat down across from you at the campfire, with a cup of coffee in his hand, I think he would say something like this: “If you are going to walk with God, THERE WILL BE TIMES YOU HAVE TO STAND ALONE.” [OUR BIG IDEA TODAY IS THIS…] Obedience to God will sometimes set you apart from the crowd, but WHAT SETS YOU APART FROM THE CROWD IS OFTEN WHAT GOD USES TO PRESERVE YOUR FUTURE.  Let’s look at the life of Noah. Point 1: NOAH WALKED WITH GOD IN A CORRUPT GENERATION Genesis 6:9 These are the generations of Noah. Noah was a righteous man, blameless in his generation. Noah walked with God. I love that the Bible does not first describe Noah by what he built. It describes him by how he walked. Before Noah ever built an ark, he built a life with God. The text says he was righteous, blameless in his generation, and that he walked with God.  That doesn’t mean Noah was sinless. It means he was set apart.  It means there was something distinct about him.  It means when everybody else was going one direction away from God, Noah was going in the other toward God. And that matters because Genesis 6 makes it clear that Noah was not living in an easy environment. He was living in a corrupt generation. Wickedness had spread. Violence had increased. Human hearts had drifted far from God. So notice this… Noah’s righteousness is made even more visible because of the darkness around him. Faithfulness is often most visible when compromise is most common. It does not take much courage to blend in. It does not take much conviction to go with the flow.  But it takes real faith to walk with God when the people around you are not. Some of us keep waiting for culture to get easier before we obey more deeply. But that is not how this works.  Noah shows us that the darker the culture gets, the more distinct the people of God should become. We are not called to be strange for the sake of being strange… We are called to be holy. We are not called to be difficult for the sake of being difficult… We are called to be faithful.  We are not called to chase cultural approval… We are called to walk with God. There is a difference… And I want to pause here and make this very practical. Some of you are trying to follow Christ in spaces where very few people share your convictions.  You are the only believer in your friend group. The only one in your department trying to live with integrity. The only one in your family who is taking God seriously right now. The only one trying to honor God in your dating life. The only one trying to lead your home biblically. And the temptation in those moments is to think, “Maybe I’m doing too much.” But Noah would tell you, “No. Maybe you’re just walking with God.” Because faithfulness does not always feel popular. SOMETIMES FAITHFULNESS FEELS LONELY. But let me say this clearly: Just because you are OUTNUMBERED DOES NOT MEAN YOU ARE OUT OF GOD’S WILL. Noah walked with God while living in a corrupt generation. And Agape, that is still the call. Not to mirror the culture… Not to blend into the crowd… Not to adjust truth to fit the moment… BUT TO WALK WITH GOD. Psalm 1:1–3 tells us blessed is the person who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked but delights in the law of the Lord. Psalm 1:1–3 Blessed is the one who does not walk in step with the wicked or stand in the way that sinners take or sit in the company of mockers, but whose delight is in the law of the Lord, and who meditates on his law day and night. That person is like a tree planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in season and whose leaf does not wither - whatever they do prospers. Romans 12:2 tells us not to be conformed to this world, but to be transformed by the renewing of our mind. Romans 12:2 Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will. That is Noah… And that must be us. BIG TRUTH YOUR ENVIRONMENT MAY BE DARK, BUT YOUR LIFE CAN STILL BE DISTINCT. Point 2: GOD OFTEN ASKS FOR OBEDIENCE BEFORE HE EXPLAINS EVERYTHING Genesis 6:13–14 And God said to Noah, “I have determined to make an end of all flesh, for the earth is filled with violence through them. Behold, I will destroy them with the earth. Make yourself an ark of gopher wood. Make rooms in the ark, and cover it inside and out with pitch. This is one of the most remarkable moments in Scripture. God gives Noah an assignment that has no cultural precedent, no public support, and no visible confirmation. God tells Noah to build before he ever sees rain. Now for us, rain is ordinary. Flood language is familiar. Boats make sense. But this was not the case for Noah. Noah is obeying God in a category he has never personally experienced… And that is what makes obedience so powerful. Because obedience is not based on full understanding. Obedience IS BASED ON FULL TRUST.  A lot of us want step #10 before we ever take step #1. We want God to explain everything, map it all out, solve every question, remove every uncertainty, and guarantee every outcome before we move. But if God always explained everything, IT WOULD NOT REQUIRE FAITH. Hebrews 11:7 says, By faith Noah, being warned by God concerning events as yet unseen, in reverent fear constructed an ark for the saving of his household. By this he condemned the world and became an heir of the righteousness that comes by faith. Did you catch that phrase? As yet unseen. Noah built in response to something he had not yet seen. And there are seasons when that is exactly what obedience looks like for you and me. You forgive before you feel closure. You tithe before you see abundance. You serve before you feel recognized. You say yes before all the details are clear. You build because God said build… There are marriages that need to hear this. There are leaders who need to hear this. There are parents who need to hear this. There are believers sitting in this room right now who have been delaying obedience because you keep ASKING FOR CLARITY GOD NEVER PROMISED TO GIVE IN ADVANCE. Let me help you… Sometimes God gives enough light for the next step, but not the whole staircase. That is not God being cruel. That is God developing trust. Because if you only obey when it makes sense, then your obedience is still rooted in your own understanding. But Proverbs 3:5–6 says, Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths. Noah teaches us that sometimes the most spiritual thing you can do is move at the level of what God said, even when you cannot fully explain why. And this particularly difficult for modern people because we are trained to trust what is measurable, trust what is visible, and trust what is immediate… But faith has always required a different posture. Faith says, “If God said it, that is enough for me to start building.” BIG TRUTH YOU DO NOT NEED FULL EXPLANATION TO GIVE FULL OBEDIENCE. Point 3: STANDING ALONE WITH GOD IS BETTER THAN FITTING IN WITHOUT HIM If Noah’s neighbors saw him working on that ark, I promise you he looked foolish. Because obedience often looks foolish before it looks wise. And, if we’re honest with the dialogue of our hearts, that is one of the hardest parts of following God. Not just doing what is right… but doing what is right while being misunderstood, criticized, and even mocked. Noah’s obedience likely looked ridiculous to people around him. But what the world mocks today may be what God honors tomorrow.  There are people who will laugh at your boundaries. Laugh at your convictions. Laugh at your commitment to purity. Laugh at your decision to honor God with your money. Laugh at your refusal to compromise. Laugh at your decision to forgive. Laugh at your i

    1h 2m
  3. May 17 ·  Video

    Rebuilt by Grace: When Relationships Are Broken | 11 AM Service

    Follow us on: Facebook: agapechurchslo Instagram: @agapechurchslo Website: agape.church BUILT TO LAST – God’s Plan for Love, Marriage & Family Week 6 | Rebuilt by Grace: When Relationships Are Broken There was a house that had been abandoned for years. The foundation was cracked… The windows were shattered… The inside was worn down by time and neglect… Most people walked by and said, “It’s too far gone.” But then a builder came along and said, “I don’t see what it is… I see what it can become.” Months later, that same house— that people had written off— was restored, renewed, and beautiful again. And here’s the truth: Some of you feel like that house. Something broke; Something didn’t last; Something didn’t go the way you planned  And deep down, you’re wondering… “Is it too far gone?” If you’ve ever felt like your relationships, your past, or even your family story is broken… This message is for you. Because the God we serve is not just a builder… He is also a rebuilder. FOUNDATIONAL SCRIPTURE Joel 2:25 (ESV) I will restore to you the years that the swarming locust has eaten, the hopper, the destroyer, and the cutter, my great army, which I sent among you. Not just forgive… Not just cover… BUT Restore. POINT 1: BROKENNESS IS REAL — BUT IT’S NOT FINAL Let’s be honest: Divorce is real; Loss is real; Betrayal is real; Regret is real  Psalm 34:18 The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit. God doesn’t ignore brokenness… He moves toward it BIG IDEA… Brokenness may be part of your story, but BROKENNESS DOES NOT HAVE TO BE THE END OF YOUR STORY. POINT 2: GRACE IS GREATER THAN YOUR PAST Some people live trapped in: guilt; shame; regret  Romans 8:1 There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. The enemy says: “You blew it.” BUT God says: “I can rebuild it.” Isaiah 43:18–19 Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland. BIG IDEA… Grace doesn’t just forgive your past — GRACE FREES YOUR FUTURE. POINT 3: GOD SPECIALIZES IN RESTORATION 2 Corinthians 5:17 Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here! New doesn’t mean patched up… It means transformed John 21:15–17 (Peter restored) Peter denied Jesus… publicly… And Jesus didn’t disqualify him… He restored him. BIG IDEA… God doesn’t just use perfect people — GOD RESTORES BROKEN PEOPLE. POINT 4: HEALING REQUIRES HONESTY AND SURRENDER Healing doesn’t happen through avoidance… Healing happens through surrender. James 5:16 Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working. What you hide… God cannot heal. Proverbs 28:13 Whoever conceals their sins does not prosper, but the one who confesses and renounces them finds mercy. BIG IDEA… HEALING BEGINS WHERE HONESTY MEETS SURRENDER. POINT 5: YOUR STORY CAN STILL BE REDEEMED Some of you believe: “I missed it.” “It’s too late.” “This wasn’t God’s plan…” But hear me clearly: God is not limited to your mistakes. Romans 8:28 And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose. Not that everything was good… But God can work it for good BIG IDEA… God can TAKE WHAT WAS BROKEN and BUILD SOMETHING BEAUTIFUL. PRACTICAL TOOLS FOR HEALING & RESTORATION 1. BRING YOUR PAIN TO GOD HONESTLY Don’t filter it; Don’t hide it  God heals what you surrender. 2. RELEASE SHAME and RECEIVE GRACE Stop rehearsing your failures… Start receiving God’s truth  Shame keeps you stuck—grace moves you forward. 3. PURSUE HEALTHY COMMUNITY Don’t isolate… Invite support Healing happens in community. 4. FORGIVE — even when it’s hard Others… Yourself Forgiveness frees you, not just them. 5. TAKE THE NEXT RIGHT STEP Not perfection… Progress You don’t rebuild everything at once—just the next step. CLOSING MOMENT Some of you walked into this series feeling like: “This doesn’t apply to me…” “My story is too messy…” “I’ve already messed it up…” But today… God is reminding you: I’m not finished with you. Your marriage may be struggling… Your past may be painful… Your family story may be complicated… But none of that disqualifies you from: God’s grace; God’s healing; God’s restoration ALTAR / RESPONSE “God, heal what’s broken in me.”  “Restore what I thought was lost.”  “Help me release shame and receive Your grace.”  DECLARATION I am not disqualified. I am not beyond repair. I am not too far gone. I am being restored by God. And what God rebuilds… will last!

    1h 47m
  4. May 17 ·  Video

    Rebuilt by Grace: When Relationships Are Broken | 9 AM Service

    Follow us on: Facebook: agapechurchslo Instagram: @agapechurchslo Website: agape.church BUILT TO LAST – God’s Plan for Love, Marriage & Family Week 6 | Rebuilt by Grace: When Relationships Are Broken There was a house that had been abandoned for years. The foundation was cracked… The windows were shattered… The inside was worn down by time and neglect… Most people walked by and said, “It’s too far gone.” But then a builder came along and said, “I don’t see what it is… I see what it can become.” Months later, that same house— that people had written off— was restored, renewed, and beautiful again. And here’s the truth: Some of you feel like that house. Something broke; Something didn’t last; Something didn’t go the way you planned  And deep down, you’re wondering… “Is it too far gone?” If you’ve ever felt like your relationships, your past, or even your family story is broken… This message is for you. Because the God we serve is not just a builder… He is also a rebuilder. FOUNDATIONAL SCRIPTURE Joel 2:25 (ESV) I will restore to you the years that the swarming locust has eaten, the hopper, the destroyer, and the cutter, my great army, which I sent among you. Not just forgive… Not just cover… BUT Restore. POINT 1: BROKENNESS IS REAL — BUT IT’S NOT FINAL Let’s be honest: Divorce is real; Loss is real; Betrayal is real; Regret is real  Psalm 34:18 The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit. God doesn’t ignore brokenness… He moves toward it BIG IDEA… Brokenness may be part of your story, but BROKENNESS DOES NOT HAVE TO BE THE END OF YOUR STORY. POINT 2: GRACE IS GREATER THAN YOUR PAST Some people live trapped in: guilt; shame; regret  Romans 8:1 There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. The enemy says: “You blew it.” BUT God says: “I can rebuild it.” Isaiah 43:18–19 Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland. BIG IDEA… Grace doesn’t just forgive your past — GRACE FREES YOUR FUTURE. POINT 3: GOD SPECIALIZES IN RESTORATION 2 Corinthians 5:17 Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here! New doesn’t mean patched up… It means transformed John 21:15–17 (Peter restored) Peter denied Jesus… publicly… And Jesus didn’t disqualify him… He restored him. BIG IDEA… God doesn’t just use perfect people — GOD RESTORES BROKEN PEOPLE. POINT 4: HEALING REQUIRES HONESTY AND SURRENDER Healing doesn’t happen through avoidance… Healing happens through surrender. James 5:16 Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working. What you hide… God cannot heal. Proverbs 28:13 Whoever conceals their sins does not prosper, but the one who confesses and renounces them finds mercy. BIG IDEA… HEALING BEGINS WHERE HONESTY MEETS SURRENDER. POINT 5: YOUR STORY CAN STILL BE REDEEMED Some of you believe: “I missed it.” “It’s too late.” “This wasn’t God’s plan…” But hear me clearly: God is not limited to your mistakes. Romans 8:28 And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose. Not that everything was good… But God can work it for good BIG IDEA… God can TAKE WHAT WAS BROKEN and BUILD SOMETHING BEAUTIFUL. PRACTICAL TOOLS FOR HEALING & RESTORATION 1. BRING YOUR PAIN TO GOD HONESTLY Don’t filter it; Don’t hide it  God heals what you surrender. 2. RELEASE SHAME and RECEIVE GRACE Stop rehearsing your failures… Start receiving God’s truth  Shame keeps you stuck—grace moves you forward. 3. PURSUE HEALTHY COMMUNITY Don’t isolate… Invite support Healing happens in community. 4. FORGIVE — even when it’s hard Others… Yourself Forgiveness frees you, not just them. 5. TAKE THE NEXT RIGHT STEP Not perfection… Progress You don’t rebuild everything at once—just the next step. CLOSING MOMENT Some of you walked into this series feeling like: “This doesn’t apply to me…” “My story is too messy…” “I’ve already messed it up…” But today… God is reminding you: I’m not finished with you. Your marriage may be struggling… Your past may be painful… Your family story may be complicated… But none of that disqualifies you from: God’s grace; God’s healing; God’s restoration ALTAR / RESPONSE “God, heal what’s broken in me.”  “Restore what I thought was lost.”  “Help me release shame and receive Your grace.”  DECLARATION I am not disqualified. I am not beyond repair. I am not too far gone. I am being restored by God. And what God rebuilds… will last!

    1h 40m
  5. May 10 ·  Video

    Built at Home: Raising the Next Generation God’s Way | Mother's Day | 11 AM Service

    Follow us on: Facebook: agapechurchslo Instagram: @agapechurchslo Website: agape.church BUILT TO LAST – God’s Plan for Love, Marriage & Family Week 5 | Built at Home: Raising the Next Generation God’s Way A parent once said, “I just want my kids to turn out right.” And every parent in the room felt that. But here’s the tension… We want: respectful kids || responsible kids || faith-filled kids  …but we’re raising them in a world that is constantly discipling them in the opposite direction. And if we’re honest… Most parents feel overwhelmed; Some feel underqualified; And many are just trying to survive the day. But here’s the truth: Parenting is not just about raising good kids… it’s about building God-centered lives. If your family is going to be Built to Last, you cannot outsource what God has assigned to you. OUR FOUNDATIONAL SCRIPTURE IS FOUND IN… Deuteronomy 6:6–7 (ESV) And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. Not occasionally; Not accidentally… but Diligently! POINT 1: PARENTS ARE THE PRIMARY DISCIPLERS Culture says: “Let the school teach them” and “Let the church raise them spiritually”  But God says: “You teach them.” Psalm 78:5–7 He decreed statutes for Jacob and established the law in Israel, which he commanded our ancestors to teach their children, so the next generation would know them, even the children yet to be born, and they in turn would tell their children. Then they would put their trust in God and would not forget his deeds but would keep his commands. The church supports… Schools assist.. But Parents disciple BIG IDEA… If you don’t lead your children spiritually, culture will step in and lead them for you. If you don’t lead your children in truth, don’t be surprised when culture leads them into confusion. POINT 2: WHAT YOU MODEL MATTERS MORE THAN WHAT YOU SAY Kids listen in a different way that you expect… KIDS LISTEN BY WATCHING. Proverbs 20:7 The righteous who walks in his integrity—blessed are his children after him! Your children will learn more from how you respond; how you treat people; how you handle pressure… than from what you say in when you’re lecturing them. BIG IDEA… The life you live teaches your children more than the words you speak. What your children see in you will speak louder than what they hear from you. POINT 3: DISCIPLINE IS TRAINING, NOT PUNISHMENT Many people confuse discipline with punishment. Punishment reacts; Discipline trains Proverbs 22:6 Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it. Hebrews 12:11 For the moment all discipline seems painful rather than pleasant, but later it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it. Discipline is not about control; DISCIPLINE IS ABOUT FORMATION BIG IDEA… If all you do is stop bad behavior without forming godly character, you you miss the point and haven’t reached the real goal. The goal parenting God’s way is not just about correcting wrong behavior, but helping shape godly character. POINT 4: BUILD FAITH INTO EVERYDAY LIFE Many parents think: “If we go to church… we’re good.” But faith is not meant to “live in” or “live at” a building. Deuteronomy 6:7 (continued) You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. Faith is in conversations; in car rides; in daily life  BIG IDEA… Faith is not just for Sunday—it belongs in everyday life. Faith is not just something we practice once a week—it should shape how we live every day. POINT 5: YOUR GOAL IS NOT CONTROL—IT’S PREPARATION You don’t raise children to control their lives forever… You raise them to release them into life, equipped with the tools, wisdom, and faith God has entrusted you to impart to them. Psalm 127:4 Like arrows in the hand of a warrior are the children of one's youth. Arrows are not meant to stay in your hand… Arrows are meant to be launched! BIG IDEA… Parenting is preparation for purpose—not permanent control. The goal of parenting is not lifelong control, but raising children who are ready to walk in God’s purpose for their lives. PRACTICAL TOOLS FOR BIBLICAL PARENTING 1. CREATE CONSISTENT SPIRITUAL RHYTHMS Pray together; Read Scripture together  Consistency builds your family culture. 2. HAVE INTENTIONAL CONVERSATIONS Ask about their day; Speak truth into their lives  Don’t just manage behavior—shape hearts. 3. BE AN EXAMPLE OF WHAT YOU WANT TO SEE IN THEIR CHARACTER Integrity; Faith; Kindness  Children will mirror what they see. 4. DISCIPLINE WITH PURPOSE, NOT EMOTION Stay calm and Be consistent  Correction should build your child, not break their spirit. 5. REGULARLY REMIND YOUR CHILDREN WHO THEY ARE Speak life; Consistently affirm your children’s value, character, and God-given identity! Their Christ Identity anchors their future. Some of you feel like you’re not doing enough… But hear me: God didn’t call you to be a perfect parent BUT He did call you to be a present and intentional parent. And what you build in your home today… will echo into generations to come! CONSISTENT PRAYER MOVING FORWARD… “God, help me lead my home spiritually.”  “Give me wisdom and patience as a parent.”  “God, heal where I’ve fallen short and strengthen where I feel weak.”  DECLARATION My home will not be shaped by culture. My children will not be raised by accident. My family will be built on God’s truth. And what is built in my home… will last for generations. In Jesus’ Name!

    2h 1m
  6. May 10 ·  Video

    Raising the Next Generation God’s Way | Mother's Day

    BUILT TO LAST – God’s Plan for Love, Marriage & Family Week 5 | Built at Home: Raising the Next Generation God’s Way A parent once said, “I just want my kids to turn out right.” And every parent in the room felt that. But here’s the tension… We want: respectful kids || responsible kids || faith-filled kids  …but we’re raising them in a world that is constantly discipling them in the opposite direction. And if we’re honest… Most parents feel overwhelmed; Some feel underqualified; And many are just trying to survive the day. But here’s the truth: Parenting is not just about raising good kids… it’s about building God-centered lives. If your family is going to be Built to Last, you cannot outsource what God has assigned to you. OUR FOUNDATIONAL SCRIPTURE IS FOUND IN… Deuteronomy 6:6–7 (ESV) And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. Not occasionally; Not accidentally… but Diligently! POINT 1: PARENTS ARE THE PRIMARY DISCIPLERS Culture says: “Let the school teach them” and “Let the church raise them spiritually”  But God says: “You teach them.” Psalm 78:5–7 He decreed statutes for Jacob and established the law in Israel, which he commanded our ancestors to teach their children, so the next generation would know them, even the children yet to be born, and they in turn would tell their children. Then they would put their trust in God and would not forget his deeds but would keep his commands. The church supports… Schools assist.. But Parents disciple BIG IDEA… If you don’t lead your children spiritually, culture will step in and lead them for you. If you don’t lead your children in truth, don’t be surprised when culture leads them into confusion. POINT 2: WHAT YOU MODEL MATTERS MORE THAN WHAT YOU SAY Kids listen in a different way that you expect… KIDS LISTEN BY WATCHING. Proverbs 20:7 The righteous who walks in his integrity—blessed are his children after him! Your children will learn more from how you respond; how you treat people; how you handle pressure… than from what you say in when you’re lecturing them. BIG IDEA… The life you live teaches your children more than the words you speak. What your children see in you will speak louder than what they hear from you. POINT 3: DISCIPLINE IS TRAINING, NOT PUNISHMENT Many people confuse discipline with punishment. Punishment reacts; Discipline trains Proverbs 22:6 Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it. Hebrews 12:11 For the moment all discipline seems painful rather than pleasant, but later it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it. Discipline is not about control; DISCIPLINE IS ABOUT FORMATION BIG IDEA… If all you do is stop bad behavior without forming godly character, you you miss the point and haven’t reached the real goal. The goal parenting God’s way is not just about correcting wrong behavior, but helping shape godly character. POINT 4: BUILD FAITH INTO EVERYDAY LIFE Many parents think: “If we go to church… we’re good.” But faith is not meant to “live in” or “live at” a building. Deuteronomy 6:7 (continued) You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. Faith is in conversations; in car rides; in daily life  BIG IDEA… Faith is not just for Sunday—it belongs in everyday life. Faith is not just something we practice once a week—it should shape how we live every day. POINT 5: YOUR GOAL IS NOT CONTROL—IT’S PREPARATION You don’t raise children to control their lives forever… You raise them to release them into life, equipped with the tools, wisdom, and faith God has entrusted you to impart to them. Psalm 127:4 Like arrows in the hand of a warrior are the children of one's youth. Arrows are not meant to stay in your hand… Arrows are meant to be launched! BIG IDEA… Parenting is preparation for purpose—not permanent control. The goal of parenting is not lifelong control, but raising children who are ready to walk in God’s purpose for their lives. PRACTICAL TOOLS FOR BIBLICAL PARENTING 1. CREATE CONSISTENT SPIRITUAL RHYTHMS Pray together; Read Scripture together  Consistency builds your family culture. 2. HAVE INTENTIONAL CONVERSATIONS Ask about their day; Speak truth into their lives  Don’t just manage behavior—shape hearts. 3. BE AN EXAMPLE OF WHAT YOU WANT TO SEE IN THEIR CHARACTER Integrity; Faith; Kindness  Children will mirror what they see. 4. DISCIPLINE WITH PURPOSE, NOT EMOTION Stay calm and Be consistent  Correction should build your child, not break their spirit. 5. REGULARLY REMIND YOUR CHILDREN WHO THEY ARE Speak life; Consistently affirm your children’s value, character, and God-given identity! Their Christ Identity anchors their future. Some of you feel like you’re not doing enough… But hear me: God didn’t call you to be a perfect parent BUT He did call you to be a present and intentional parent. And what you build in your home today… will echo into generations to come! CONSISTENT PRAYER MOVING FORWARD… “God, help me lead my home spiritually.”  “Give me wisdom and patience as a parent.”  “God, heal where I’ve fallen short and strengthen where I feel weak.”  DECLARATION My home will not be shaped by culture. My children will not be raised by accident. My family will be built on God’s truth. And what is built in my home… will last for generations. In Jesus’ Name!

    54 min

Ratings & Reviews

5
out of 5
2 Ratings

About

Weekly messages from Agape Church | SLO