Win @ Work and Life podcast with Nikki Bush

Nikki Bush

Win @ Work & Life with Nikki Bush is the podcast where you and I explore what it means to win at both work and life.Today, you get to choose how to create a life of meaning and self-expression that includes both your work and life outside the office with your family. This is very important. NB!

  1. 10/27/2022

    Ep 50. Does becoming a parent impact on your career prospects?

    When you become a parent in the workplace there's a lot of fear and stigma around what will this mean for your career and for your progress, especially for women. "Will I be able to continue to do my job? Will I be overlooked for promotions? What will happen to my career aspirations? Will I be a good enough parent? How can I do it all and still stay sane?" These are just some of the questions that come to mind. Parental transition coaching provides business continuity and talent retention long into the future, and is a must for organisations that invest in their people. Maternity and paternity coaching are the new kids on the block in the diversity and inclusion space. They are a real thing that is having really positive impact, according to my podcast guest, Gillian Cederwall. Gillian is an executive coach and director of Great Expectations, a transitions coaching company with blue chip clients who swear by the impact that these programmes have had on their talent retention pipeline. This conversation covers: Why becoming a parent shouldn't mean the end of your career advancement Why maternity and paternity coaching is so important Why such coaching is important each time you have a baby and as your children change ages and stages Helping moms and dads maintain their career aspirations How employers can invest in their talent pipeline with transition coaching Creating harmony between balance, challenge and authenticity and how this changes over time Relational, practical and emotional shifts that come with parenting Quotes from Gillian Cederwall "The shift to motherhood is the biggest pinch point in a female's career, and this is a very transformational phase for her.... she's gone from focused career woman to working mom with expanded responsibilities. And you've got to get your head around that." "Research shows that the line manager influences whether she stays or goes 50:50, which is huge in terms of her successful return." "By owning the conversation a woman has with her line manager, owning her exit and owning her reentry, it really is subtly influencing the culture for working parents for the better. " Mums and dads, I would love to hear what has worked for you in terms of transitioning into parenthood and back to work again. Some of my clients had babies during lockdown and felt very fortunate that both parents were working from home at the time and could both participate in raising their children day and night, not missing out on any milestones.  Drop me an email to info@nikkibush.com

    35 min
  2. 10/20/2022

    Ep 49. Another Set Of Lenses

    "Why is anyone the richer for even 30 seconds spent with me?" This simple and thought-provoking question will help you define the value you add to other people's lives and comes from my podcast guest and leadership expert, Steve Hall, who is often described as a deep thinker and inspirational storyteller. Steve believes in the extraordinary potential of human energy and how it is the key to high performance at all levels.  It is this work which gives him his reason for being. He is committed to helping people shift their perceptions and paradigms about the world and each other by using another set of lenses.  Steve has a passion for immersive leadership work, which started with education and training company I Will Not Complain, in China and The Covey Leadership Centre in the US. He was part of bringing the Covey franchise to Africa. Has run hundreds of workshops all over the world, helping individuals, teams and organisations to become more effective in the lives they lead and in their dynamics towards one another. He as been a partner in Lead with Humanity for the last 10 years and has designed and delivered more than 50 leadership weeks across the African continent. This podcast covers: How our conditional thinking limits us Thinking paradigms and how they influence our behaviour How our thinking polarities are neither right nor wrong - they co-exist like breathing in and out, but they are the root cause of our responses and behaviour. The six blue pictures of an expansive and friendly world filled with possibility and opportunity and a disconnected world.The six red pictures of a small, finite, unfriendly How to take responsibility for your own human energy battery The importance of leading yourself and others A few quotes from Steve Hall: "I don't remember who said it, but I'm sure it's been said by many people that the shortest distance between two people is a story. The minute I get to know your story, and you get to know my story, we reduce complexities. We reduce the picture that some of us are better than others. We learn about the challenges that other people have been through and continue to go through. And the minute I've got that and I've got that curiosity, surely then we become closer together. Surely it means that we can in fact, work more cooperatively together and celebrate the fact that each of us comes from a very different place." "If I've constantly got to play power over people using manipulation and coercion, it's an expensive process. It really is draining on our batteries." "I think it is our responsibility to act in the moment, to act for what's good, to see life through that other set of lenses and say, I wonder if my action now might have recurring or repercussion events down the line."

    34 min
  3. 09/29/2022

    Ep 47. A Small Tree Can’t Grow In The Shadow Of A Big Tree.

    She’s warm. She’s funny. She’s genuine. And she loves sloths for some reason known only to her. Join me for this podcast episode as I chat with Yael Geffen about the link between embracing and managing mental health issues and authentic leadership. She has dealt with suicide and loss as well as bipolar disorder. This small, dynamic, charismatic business leader starts off the conversation by saying that a small tree can't grow under a big tree. It’s a really empowering statement for any leader or parent, acknowledging that we have to make space for the people around us to grow. Yael is the CEO and a shareholder of Lew Geffen Sotheby’s International Realty, as well as a member of the Europe, Middle East, India and Africa region task force for Sotheby’s International Realty. She was the winner of the 2020 Standard Bank’s prestigious Top Woman in Property Award and was chosen to represent South Africa as a speaker for the World Leaders Summit in November 2021. Before stepping into the property world, Yael discovered herself in the US, where she was a shoe packer in a factory, a receptionist, a producer in an animation studio and more. It’s these experiences that shaped her. As I always say, no experience is ever wasted or forgotten. This conversation covers:   Being born into a real estate dynasty and finding her own voice The importance of doing ‘little jobs’ and how they prepare you for the ‘big jobs.’ Living and leading with bipolar disorder How you can make ‘your mess your message  Turning ‘your burden into your brilliance.’ Managing and leading human beings with a human touch Motherhood and authenticity Motherhood and boundaries Winning awards and using the experience to promote diversity and inclusion Her experience with Auschwitz’s survivor, psychologist and author, Dr Edith Eger A few quotes from Yael: On the matter of family businesses:  ”A small tree can’t grow in the shadow of a big tree.”  So did I want to be in real estate? ”Hell, no. In fact, I escaped to the States to avoid this very fact and I just wanted to find out who I was. I wanted to find out what it's like to be anonymous and not Lew and Sandy Geffen's daughter. And it was the most beautiful experience. I spent four years in New York City doing many different things, even packing shoes in a shoe factory in Queens, which I absolutely loved. “When you're the chairman's daughter and you are a female in a male dominated industry and you're very young (I was 38 when I took over as CEO), you have some challenges. And for me, I knew I had it in myself to do the job. I just needed the credibility among not only the industry, but my own network. Winning the top woman in property award was just that. It was a wonderful opportunity to garner more support and promote women in leadership. For my network, there were incredible women alongside me.”   “Everyone has a story, everyone has baggage. And sometimes it's a beautiful thing to make your mess your message (I stole that line from Lori Milner), obviously without devaluing your brand and your company. So there is a fine line. But, you know, the people that I love the most are the messiest.”   “My mission is to reduce the stigma and to inspire others to come forward….And if you look at the most historical figures of our society, whether it's Churchill, whether it's comedians like Robin Williams, they were touched with fire and they made such an impact in the world.” “Accountability is such an important part of leadership. It's such an important part of being a good parent. Such an important part of being in a relationship, in a family. So be accountable.”

    40 min

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Win @ Work & Life with Nikki Bush is the podcast where you and I explore what it means to win at both work and life.Today, you get to choose how to create a life of meaning and self-expression that includes both your work and life outside the office with your family. This is very important. NB!