Black Parents Aging Podcast

Nicola Robinson and Olivia Smith

Black Parents Aging is a podcast for busy black women who are navigating the changing parent/child dynamic with their aging parents or grandparents. Now you are the one worrying about your parents. This show will provide weekly tips and advice about how to have hard conversations with your parents, what you need to know about their finances, health and overall wellbeing. All coupled with a healthy dose of comical relief and coco butter (no one will be ill prepared and ashy on our watch!)

  1. Inheritance Beyond Money: The Legacy We Leave Behind

    Apr 22

    Inheritance Beyond Money: The Legacy We Leave Behind

    In this heartfelt and deeply personal episode of Black Parents Aging, Olivia Smith explores the kind of inheritance that often goes unspoken — the legacy that goes far beyond money, property, or financial assets. From family names and oral history to treasured heirlooms, recipes, values, and traditions, this conversation highlights how the true essence of a family is often passed down through stories, memories, and culture. Olivia reflects on growing up close to her grandparents, the lasting memories of her grandmother's cooking, and the realization that some of the most meaningful parts of family history can be lost when they are not intentionally preserved. Listeners are encouraged to think about what makes their family unique and how they can begin protecting not only their financial future, but also the history, wisdom, and identity that deserve to live on for generations to come. This episode is a powerful reminder that wealth is not only what we leave behind — it is also who we are, where we come from, and what we choose to carry forward. Key Takeaways: • Inheritance includes more than money — names, stories, recipes, traditions, and values are also forms of legacy. • Family elders hold priceless wisdom and history that should be recorded and preserved while they are still here. • Heirlooms become even more meaningful when their stories and significance are passed down with them. • Recipes and cultural traditions are powerful connections to identity, family, and home. • Intentional planning should include both protecting financial assets and preserving family history for future generations. • Small steps such as recorded interviews, family cookbooks, legacy letters, and storytelling gatherings can make a lasting impact.

    40 min
  2. SN 5 EP:5 How To Support Immigrant Parents As They Age

    Mar 25

    SN 5 EP:5 How To Support Immigrant Parents As They Age

    In this episode of Black Parents Aging, the conversation focuses on the unique challenges immigrant families face as their parents grow older while navigating complex American healthcare, legal, and social systems. The discussion explores how cultural values, language barriers, and unfamiliar processes can impact decision-making around medical care, estate planning, and long-term support. Listeners will gain insight into balancing respect for a parent's independence with the need to advocate for their safety and well-being, while also learning practical ways to prepare for the future with intention and compassion. Key Takeaways • Aging immigrant parents may face additional barriers such as language differences, cultural expectations, and lack of familiarity with U.S. systems. • Advocacy often becomes a shared family responsibility, especially when navigating healthcare, legal, and financial decisions. • Respecting independence while offering support is essential for maintaining dignity and trust. • Early conversations about estate planning, medical wishes, and long-term care can prevent confusion and family conflict later. • Understanding available community resources and legal planning tools can help families create more stability and peace of mind.

    22 min
  3. SN 5 EP 4: The New Face of Senior Love: Dating, Safety, and Social Connection

    Mar 18

    SN 5 EP 4: The New Face of Senior Love: Dating, Safety, and Social Connection

    In this episode of Black Parents Aging, Olivia Smith explores the importance of love, companionship, and meaningful connection for seniors over 70. Drawing from real conversations with clients and current research on aging, she discusses how social isolation can impact emotional well-being, cognitive health, and overall quality of life. Olivia examines what modern romance looks like later in life, including the growing use of dating apps among older adults and the unique emotional and cultural dynamics many Black seniors face when pursuing companionship. She also provides practical guidance for families on how to support aging parents who are dating, while balancing concerns about safety and vulnerability. The episode highlights the real risks of romance scams targeting older adults and offers important tips to help seniors and their loved ones recognize warning signs and protect themselves. Ultimately, the conversation encourages listeners to approach aging with empathy and intention — recognizing that the desire for connection, love, and joy does not disappear with age. Listeners are invited to reflect on how families can create space for aging loved ones to live fully, pursue meaningful relationships, and maintain both independence and dignity. Key Topics: The health benefits of companionship for seniors  Popular dating apps for seniors and how they work Safety tips to avoid romance scams Family dynamics and supporting aging parents in dating The emotional and social importance of love after 70

    38 min
  4. SN 5 EP 3: Protecting Aging Parents from Scams (Part II)

    Mar 10

    SN 5 EP 3: Protecting Aging Parents from Scams (Part II)

    In this episode of Black Parents Aging, Olivia Smith and Nicola Robinson continue their conversation on elder fraud by focusing on investment scams, cryptocurrency fraud, and sweepstakes scams that disproportionately target older adults. They discuss how scammers pose as investment professionals promising to double or triple retirement savings, why cryptocurrency scams are especially dangerous because the money is nearly impossible to recover, and how classic sweepstakes scams still trap many seniors today. The conversation also shifts to practical steps families can take to protect aging parents and grandparents, including having open conversations about scams, freezing credit, blocking suspicious calls, monitoring financial accounts, and using tools like powers of attorney to help oversee finances. The episode closes with warning signs families should look for and resources available to report elder fraud and scams. Key Takeaways • Cryptocurrency and investment scams caused over $1.6 billion in losses for victims over 60 in 2024. • Any investment promising to double or triple your money quickly is likely a scam. • Cryptocurrency scams are especially dangerous because once the money is sent, it is extremely difficult to recover. • Sweepstakes scams often ask victims to pay a fee or taxes upfront to claim a fake prize. • Simply talking with aging parents or grandparents about scams can significantly reduce their risk of falling victim. • Tools like the Do Not Call Registry, call blocking, and credit freezes can help protect against fraud. • Services such as EverSafe or Carefull can monitor accounts for unusual transactions or hidden subscription charges. • A Power of Attorney can allow trusted family members to monitor financial accounts and protect loved ones. • Sudden financial trouble, excessive packages, or unusual spending may be red flags of a scam. • Elder fraud can be reported to the FBI's Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3) or the National Elder Fraud Hotline.

    21 min
  5. SN 5 EP 3: Protecting Aging Parents from Scams (Part I)

    Mar 4

    SN 5 EP 3: Protecting Aging Parents from Scams (Part I)

    In this episode of the Black Parents Aging Podcast, Olivia Smith and Nicola Robinson dive into a growing issue impacting families across the country—elder fraud and scams. With billions of dollars lost each year, scammers are increasingly targeting older adults through sophisticated tactics that can be difficult to recognize. Olivia and Nicola break down some of the most common scams affecting seniors, including government impersonation scams involving Social Security and Medicare, IRS threats, tech support fraud, and devastating online romance scamsthat prey on loneliness and trust. They also discuss why many seniors hesitate to report scams and how embarrassment, fear, and concerns about losing independence can keep families in the dark. Throughout the conversation, they share real-life examples, warning signs, and practical tips to help families recognize red flags and protect their loved ones. This episode is a must-listen for anyone with aging parents or grandparents who want to stay informed and proactive about preventing fraud.   Key Takeaways • Fraud targeting seniors is rising rapidly, with reported losses increasing from $600 million in 2020 to $2.4 billion in 2024. • Many scams go unreported because victims feel embarrassed or ashamed, meaning the real financial impact is likely much higher. • Government impersonation scams involving Social Security, Medicare, and the IRS are among the most common ways scammers target older adults. • Legitimate government agencies will never call unexpectedly to request personal information or payment over the phone. • Scammers often create a sense of urgency, pressuring victims to act quickly before they have time to verify the request. • Romance scams are one of the most emotionally and financially devastating, often targeting widowed or lonely seniors through online relationships. • Fraudsters frequently invent emergencies or sudden financial problems to convince victims to send money repeatedly. • Tech support scams exploit seniors who may be less familiar with computers, tricking them into granting remote access to their devices.

    22 min
  6. SN 5 EP 2: Navigating Long-Term Care Insurance

    Feb 25

    SN 5 EP 2: Navigating Long-Term Care Insurance

    In this episode of Black Parents Aging, Olivia Smith interviews financial planner Jeff Morris, who specializes in long-term care insurance. They discuss the importance of planning for long-term care, the misconceptions surrounding it, and the different types of policies available. Jeff shares insights on when to start considering long-term care insurance, the costs involved, and the health assessments required for eligibility. The conversation emphasizes the need for proactive planning, especially for aging parents, and highlights the benefits of hybrid policies that combine life insurance with long-term care coverage. takeaways Long-term care insurance covers activities of daily living. Many people confuse long-term care with Medicare. Planning for long-term care should start in your 50s. Costs for long-term care can be significant, averaging $65,000 to $112,000 annually. Hybrid policies offer a death benefit if not used for care. Health assessments are crucial for obtaining long-term care insurance. Many believe their children will care for them, which is a misconception. The government does not cover long-term care costs adequately. Choosing a reputable insurance company is essential. Proactive planning can prevent financial strain later in life.

    39 min
  7. SN 5 EP 1: The Graying of Prisons

    Feb 19

    SN 5 EP 1: The Graying of Prisons

    In this episode, Olivia Smith discusses the often-overlooked issue of aging behind bars, highlighting the significant increase in older inmates and the unique challenges they face. She shares personal experiences related to her uncle's incarceration and compassionate release, emphasizing the emotional and health-related struggles both inmates and their families endure. The conversation also touches on the need for systemic changes in how the justice system handles aging individuals and offers practical advice for families navigating these difficult circumstances. takeaways Growing old behind bars is an increasing reality in America. The number of inmates over 50 has significantly increased. Incarceration accelerates the aging process for inmates. Health care for aging inmates is often inadequate. Families of aging inmates face emotional and financial burdens. Compassionate release is a complex and difficult process. Support networks are crucial for families of incarcerated individuals. Legal assistance can improve chances of compassionate release. Self-care is essential for families advocating for loved ones. The issue of aging in prison is a broader societal concern.

    23 min
  8. Welcome Season 5!

    Season 5 Trailer

    Welcome Season 5!

    🎙️ Welcome to Season 5. Welcome back to the conversation. After a pause, we're back—and this season, we're going deeper into the conversations that matter most to our families, our communities, and our future. Season 5 of the Black Parents Aging Podcast returns with powerful stories, honest dialogue, and real resources around aging, caregiving, justice, and advocacy. This season is about visibility. It's about the issues too often overlooked, the voices too often unheard, and the families carrying the weight quietly. Whether you've been with us since Season 1 or you're just joining us, you're in the right place. Thank you for being here. Thank you for growing with us. Season 5 starts now. 🎧✨

    2 min
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Black Parents Aging is a podcast for busy black women who are navigating the changing parent/child dynamic with their aging parents or grandparents. Now you are the one worrying about your parents. This show will provide weekly tips and advice about how to have hard conversations with your parents, what you need to know about their finances, health and overall wellbeing. All coupled with a healthy dose of comical relief and coco butter (no one will be ill prepared and ashy on our watch!)

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