Meeting of Minds

Philippa Robinson

Bringing you conversations from ordinary people about subjects I find interesting and inspiring. I hope you do too. Talking about my story from breakdown to finding myself in my 50s, fabulous guests who talk about their lives and mainly about how to find joy in life. It's never too late and you're never too old to heal and find joy. I love to hear from you. To get in touch: Email: meetingofmindspodcast@gmail.com Website: safeandsupported.co.uk Instagram: @safeandsupportedcoaching Production - Jay Herbert Original music - Jay Herbert and Alex Ware

  1. 03/31/2023

    Episode 100 - milestone celebration

    Get ready to celebrate, because it's the 100th episode of this fantastic podcast! To mark the occasion, we've invited a few HSP friends to join us on Zoom for a virtual party. We're sharing the joy of being an HSP and having a blast while doing it. Robbie's putting me in the hot seat with some questions about the journey of the last 100 episodes. We'll be talking about everything from the ups and downs of putting together the podcast, to what inspired me to start it in the first place. It's been quite a ride, but I've loved every moment of it, especially the chance to connect with so many amazing people. Of course, it hasn't all been easy. I've had my fair share of challenges along the way, but I've persevered, and the result is a podcast that I'm incredibly proud of. As I look back on the last two years, I'm filled with gratitude for all of my amazing subscribers and listeners. Your comments and support have been invaluable, and I couldn't have done it without you. As we move forward, I'd love to hear from you about which episodes you've enjoyed and what you'd like to hear more of. I'm always looking for new ideas, so don't be shy! You can find contact details below. But that's not all - Robbie and I are excited to announce that we're creating a brand new podcast called HSP Connection. We'll be exploring all things HSP in even more depth, and we can't wait to share it with you. Don't worry, though - Meeting of Minds will be back after a well-deserved break. So watch this space - there's plenty more to come! Useful links: Robbie:⁠ https://www.robbieleigh.com/⁠ Willow McIntosh:⁠ https://inluminance.com/⁠ Julie Bjelland:⁠ https://www.juliebjelland.com/⁠ Highly Sensitive Refuge blog:⁠ https://highlysensitiverefuge.com⁠ LINKS FOR PHILIPPA Here is the link to sign up for my newsletter and in return you will receive a copy of my new ebook book, I see You:⁠ newsletter sign up⁠ To buy my book:⁠ I See, Me on Amazon⁠ To get in touch: Email:⁠ meetingofmindspodcast@gmail.com⁠ Instagram⁠ @safeandsupportedcoaching⁠ Website:⁠ safeandsupported.co.uk⁠ Production: Jay Herbert Original music: Jay Herbert and Alex Ware

    Episode 100 - milestone celebration
  2. 03/24/2023

    Episode 99 - using our intuition

    I chose the subject of this week’s podcast after I saw this equation written down: Intuition = instinct + spirit It spoke to me and I became really curious about the role spirit plays in us using our intuition. This conversation takes us to what is spirit and how does it help us connect to our intuition? It’s like a translator helping to interpret the signals. We talk about: The core spirit part we all have and how it is important for us to thrive, especially as HSPs as we feel so much so deeply. How to connect How to listen How to work out what we’re feeling How to build a relationship with our intuition - be curious and approach it with playfulness and joy Self-care - so important to calm our nervous system so we can hear the messages. Let us know what resonates for you in this episode. How do you connect? There are links below to useful resources and how to get in touch. Also, let us have your questions and we'll answer them on future episodes. Useful links: Robbie: https://www.robbieleigh.com/ Willow McIntosh: https://inluminance.com/ Julie Bjelland: https://www.juliebjelland.com/ Highly Sensitive Refuge blog: https://highlysensitiverefuge.com LINKS FOR PHILIPPA Here is the link to sign up for my newsletter and in return you will receive a copy of my new ebook book, I see You: newsletter sign up To buy my book: I See, Me on Amazon To get in touch: Email: meetingofmindspodcast@gmail.com Instagram @safeandsupportedcoaching Website: safeandsupported.co.uk Production: Jay Herbert Original music: Jay Herbert and Alex Ware

  3. 03/17/2023

    Episode 98 - people-pleasing and perfectionism

    People-pleasing and perfectionism are really interesting for us as they are the main protective mechanisms developed by me and Robbie, respectively, to navigate our childhoods. We had others but these are the main ones. They were the ways we tried to get our needs met  - like love, affection and recognition - and whilst they may have served us in childhood when it wasn’t safe to be our true selves, as adults they no longer served us as they drove us to behaviours that were not healthy. The masks that any of us wear when we are using people-pleasing or perfectionism isolate us from our true self and from others. Trying so hard all the time is exhausting too and we miss opportunities to try new and fun things. Trying to be perfect and please people gets into our bones and drives all our behaviour until we decide we don’t want to, or can’t, do it anymore. We share our personal experiences and, whilst we still have lots to learn, how we have dropped our masks and are thriving as a result. We want you to know that there are no laundry police, or dishwasher police, so do it how you want to and find joy in it. You can be imperfect and make an impact. I would say, make an even bigger impact by doing it imperfectly. Please let us know what resonates for you and what you find useful. Let us have your questions and we'll answer them on future episodes. Useful links: Robbie: https://www.robbieleigh.com/ Willow McIntosh: https://inluminance.com/ Julie Bjelland: https://www.juliebjelland.com/ Highly Sensitive Refuge blog: https://highlysensitiverefuge.com LINKS FOR PHILIPPA Here is the link to sign up for my newsletter and in return you will receive a copy of my new ebook book, I see You: newsletter sign up To buy my book: I See, Me on Amazon To get in touch: Email: meetingofmindspodcast@gmail.com Instagram @safeandsupportedcoaching Website: safeandsupported.co.uk Production: Jay Herbert Original music: Jay Herbert and Alex Ware

  4. 03/03/2023

    Episode 96 - finding our rhythm as HSPs

    This episode ties in with episodes 92 (self-care) and 95 (relationships) and you might find it useful to go back and listen to those. Robbie worked out what she needs and found her rhythm largely by experiencing what didn't work for her. For me, it was more  a case of having nothing to lose and wanting to try something different. Learning about vulnerability from Brené Brown's Ted Talk helped me take off my mask and be more real. Both of us experienced profound shifts as a result of what we learned. Admitting to myself that, having achieved what society tells me "should" make me happy, I was miserable gave me the space to start figuring out what I needed. Spending the rest of my life figuring out my rhythm is exciting and brings me joy. Robbie talks about learning to love herself and treating herself with love. Making sure she got what she needed has been a big piece of her journey, as has learning to put herself first and that she matters. Your voice is more important than anyone else's when it comes to what you need. When you do this and find your rhythm, what happens is a big increase in positive outcomes as well as a decline in the negative outcomes.  We both would love everyone to live a life of true self-love so in turn we can all give love to others. We don't have it all figured out and we continue to learn but here we're sharing what we have learned so far.  Please let us know what resonates for you and what you find useful. Let us have your questions and we'll answer them on future episodes.   Useful links: Robbie: https://www.robbieleigh.com/ Willow McIntosh: https://inluminance.com/ Julie Bjelland: https://www.juliebjelland.com/ Highly Sensitive Refuge blog: https://highlysensitiverefuge.com LINKS Here is the link to sign up for my newsletter and in return you will receive a copy of my new ebook book, I see You: newsletter sign up To buy my book: I See, Me on Amazon To get in touch: Email: meetingofmindspodcast@gmail.com Instagram @safeandsupportedcoaching Website: safeandsupported.co.uk Production: Jay Herbert Original music: Jay Herbert and Alex Ware

    Episode 96 - finding our rhythm as HSPs
  5. 02/24/2023

    Episode 95 - navigating relationships with non-HSPs

    This episode is a stroll through our experience of relationships as HSPs with both HSPs and non-HSPs. Most of what we say really applies to all relationships - romantic or not. We explore the different ways we do this and our intention is to give you some food for thought. We talk about: The importance of believing that high sensitivity is a real thing - the belief allows us to understand the trait, explain it to others and thrive How hard it can be to express ourselves particularly when we are focussed on others so much of the time - as HSPs we feel so much and process so deeply it can be a challenge to express it all Knowing what you need and how to advocate for yourself - this gives you the space to be a better partner, friend etc and by attending to our needs we release the other from the responsibility People pleasing - we touch on this and will do a whole podcast on it later in the series Slowing down Self-compassion Our tendency towards caretaking and over-giving - the natural by-product of having so much empathy Boundaries - again we touch on this and will do a whole podcast on this later in the series Seeking out other HSPs Choosing who gets our energy Being careful about using our HSP powers without realising it - many of us are natural coaches and can step into the coach role when others may not want it. Useful links: Robbie: https://www.robbieleigh.com/ Willow McIntosh: https://inluminance.com/ Julie Bjelland: https://www.juliebjelland.com/ Highly Sensitive Refuge blog: https://highlysensitiverefuge.com LINKS Here is the link to sign up for my newsletter and in return you will receive a copy of my new ebook book, I see You: newsletter sign up To buy my book: I See, Me on Amazon To get in touch: Email: meetingofmindspodcast@gmail.com Instagram @safeandsupportedcoaching Website: safeandsupported.co.uk Production: Jay Herbert Original music: Jay Herbert and Alex Ware

  6. 02/17/2023

    Episode 94 - the role of HSPs in systems and structures

    In this episode Robbie and I stray into murky waters and talk about their experiences of systems as HSPs. Beware of a rant or two along the way. The intention was to talk about a number of systems and structures but we ended up talking mainly about the workplace as we have both had corporate positions in the past. We will do another episode later on about other systems. For Robbie, the workplace felt like yet another place where she didn't belong. She could see how the systems were harmful to people but wasn't in a position to bring about real change. Over the last 20 years Robbie has seen a shift to those systems being even more harmful. Some people obviously benefit from the it for the systems to continue but it isn't the majority. As an HSP, Robbie can't just sit with that. It isn't okay. Robbie thinks we should have systems that work for the majority. I agree.  For me (Philippa), my experience of a corporate career was the pervasive feeling of no what I did, it wasn't enough. I did a really good job but usually felt broken by it. Now I realise it wasn't me that was broken, it was the system.  Fixing little things, whilst well intentioned, doesn't address the big picture. A major overhaul is needed. Some businesses are interesting in doing things differently. Some are even doing it. Change is happening. If you ever feel like we do about the workplaces we have experienced, know you are not alone. If enough of us talk about maybe, just maybe, we might see change.  Useful links: Robbie: https://www.robbieleigh.com/ Willow McIntosh: https://inluminance.com/ Julie Bjelland: https://www.juliebjelland.com/ Highly Sensitive Refuge blog: https://highlysensitiverefuge.com LINKS Here is the link to sign up for my newsletter and in return you will receive a copy of my new ebook book, I see You: newsletter sign up To buy my book: I See, Me on Amazon To get in touch: Email: meetingofmindspodcast@gmail.com Instagram @safeandsupportedcoaching Website: safeandsupported.co.uk Production: Jay Herbert Original music: Jay Herbert and Alex Ware

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Bringing you conversations from ordinary people about subjects I find interesting and inspiring. I hope you do too. Talking about my story from breakdown to finding myself in my 50s, fabulous guests who talk about their lives and mainly about how to find joy in life. It's never too late and you're never too old to heal and find joy. I love to hear from you. To get in touch: Email: meetingofmindspodcast@gmail.com Website: safeandsupported.co.uk Instagram: @safeandsupportedcoaching Production - Jay Herbert Original music - Jay Herbert and Alex Ware