Becoming Her: Thriving in School, Life, and Career

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Becoming Her with Essie Childers is a podcast dedicated to empowering the next generation of young women to thrive in school, life, and career. Hosted by Essie Childers — Student Success Coach, College Instructor, Speaker, and Author of Becoming Her — this podcast shares inspiring stories, practical strategies, and heartfelt conversations designed to build confidence, strengthen mindset, and create habits of excellence. Each episode explores the challenges and opportunities girls face today and equips parents, educators, and mentors with tools to guide them. From classroom motivation to life

  1. Feb 23

    Episode 15 - Confidence Reset

    Today’s young ladies are carrying heavier emotional weights than ever before. Recent national surveys show that girls’ confidence has dropped significantly over the past few years, and more than half of teen girls report feeling persistent sadness or hopelessness. Many are also struggling with anxiety, body image pressures, and the constant comparison that comes with social media. These aren’t just numbers — they’re signals. Signals that our girls need guidance, encouragement, and spaces where their voices matter.In today’s episode, I am visiting with Lynette Williams on building confidence and self-esteem.

    20 min

  2. Feb 23

    Episode 14 - Raising Girls with Purpose

    Today’s conversation is all about raising well-rounded young ladies. Research shows that while academics matter, success in life is also deeply influenced by what happens beyond the classroom. Activities like spiritual development, service, and hands-on life skills play a powerful role in shaping confident, grounded young women.Megan, we’re excited to learn more about your family and how you’ve intentionally created opportunities for your daughters to grow spiritually, serve others, and develop life skills that will carry them into adulthood.

    22 min

  3. Feb 20

    Episode 13 - Balancing Baby, Books, and Becoming Her

    Today’s episode follows the inspiring journey of Savanhah — a 24-year-old married student, a devoted mom to a one-year-old son, and a proud first-generation college student. Her path wasn’t straightforward. After graduating high school unsure of what she really wanted to do, she stepped into the workforce for six to seven months. But it didn’t take long for her to recognize something important: to create the future she envisioned for herself and her family, she needed stronger skills and more opportunities.So Savanhah made a brave decision. She returned to college.

    15 min

  4. Feb 20

    Episode 12 - From Mexico to Momentum: Loretta’s Story

    Today, we’re sharing the journey of Loretta — a brave, first-year internationalstudent from Mexico who began college during the height of the COVID-19pandemic. With Spanish as her first language, she stepped into an English-speaking classroom ready to learn, even when subjects like history felt overwhelming.Unable to work in her first year because of her student status, Loretta leaned into what she could control: setting clear goals, staying focused, and finding creative ways to stay emotionally connected to friends and family back home.

    13 min

  5. Feb 20

    Episode 11 - Determined to Rise: Miranda’s First Year in College

    Tune in to meet Miranda. Miranda — a first-generation college student who stepped into her very first year of college during one of the most uncertain times in history: the COVID-19 pandemic. Despite the world shifting around her, Miranda pressed forward. Balancing a part- time job, navigating online learning, and figuring out whether 8-week or 16-week courses best fit her life, she learned to study smarter, manage her time with intention, and advocate for her own success.

    19 min

  6. Feb 20

    Episode 10 - Returning to College

    Tune in to meet Erica. Erica is a wife, a mother, and someone who refused to let her past define her future. After earning her GED, she made a bold decision—one that many dream of but few are brave enough to follow: she’s returning to college to build a better life for herself and her family. Her journey reminds us that it’s never too late to dream again… never too late to start over… and never too late to step into the woman God created you to be. Listen to Erica’s comeback story—and a reminder that yours can start today.

    16 min

  7. Feb 20

    Episode 9 - Caring for Your Mental and Physical Wellness

    Taking care of yourself isn’t selfish. It’s necessary. Your mind and your body need care, attention, and rest—just like your goals and relationships do. When you’re constantly pushing, pleasing, or pretending to be okay when you’re not, you eventually run out of energy. Let’s look at three concepts to protect your mind and body: Awareness, Setting boundaries and letting go of things you cannot control.

    7 min

  8. 11/14/2025

    Episode 8 - Create Systems, Not Stress

    Today, we’re talking about something that could completely change your life having a system. Did you know that creating a system can help you avoid stress?Let’s be real — life can get overwhelming.School deadlines, family responsibilities, social media, friendships, and figuring out your next step — it’s a lot.But here’s the secret: successful girls don’t do everything — they plan whatmatters. Success isn’t built on chaos. It’s built on structure.When you create systems, you don’t just react to life — you lead it.Let’s unpack 4 points today: 1) Systems bring clarity, not confusion; 2) Build a system that works for you; 3) Remember to Rest; and 4) See how systems build confidence.#educationalconsultants #ReachforExcellence

    9 min
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Becoming Her with Essie Childers is a podcast dedicated to empowering the next generation of young women to thrive in school, life, and career. Hosted by Essie Childers — Student Success Coach, College Instructor, Speaker, and Author of Becoming Her — this podcast shares inspiring stories, practical strategies, and heartfelt conversations designed to build confidence, strengthen mindset, and create habits of excellence. Each episode explores the challenges and opportunities girls face today and equips parents, educators, and mentors with tools to guide them. From classroom motivation to life

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