MY CHIC INTUITION

Carmen Alicia Ramos
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My Chic IntuitionThis is not a podcast. It’s a frequency.A cinematic decoding of the feminine experience through poetic storytelling, symbolic monologues, and soul-level transmissions. Hosted by Carmen Ramos, My Chic Intuition is episodes archive disguised as content, but built as a cipher. Each title, a clue. Each episode, a mirror.We talk presence, performance, power, and the process of unbecoming what the world projected onto us.It’s for the women who move differently. The ones who’ve been labeled too much, too quiet, too soft, too sharp and chose to be all of it, anyway. Listen closely.You’re not just tuning in.You’re decoding yourself.

  1. 2D AGO

    Date Smart, Not Hard

    Send a text Tired of treating dates like job interviews where you’re the one on trial? We flip the script and share a clear, psychology-informed screening process that helps you evaluate fit with calm and confidence. From the first text to the final goodbye, we break down the signals that matter—so you can stop overperforming and start observing. We start before the date even begins, looking at communication and effort as early clues to mindset and reliability. Then we explore how first impressions and thin slicing work in your favor, and why the opening minutes can reveal more than hours of chatting. You’ll learn the curiosity test to gauge depth and openness, plus the ego test that shows emotional intelligence under gentle disagreement. We also unpack why it’s crucial to watch how someone treats staff, how conversation balance signals real connection, and how consistency across stories and actions proves character over time. Throughout the conversation, we return to intuition—not as mysticism, but as rapid pattern recognition. When something feels off, it’s your brain flagging cues ahead of language. Instead of ignoring that signal, we show you how to slow down, observe, and gather better data without turning a date into an interrogation. The goal isn’t control; it’s clarity and alignment. By focusing on curiosity, respect, and consistent behavior, you’ll create a calmer dating experience and choose people who genuinely fit the life you’re building. If this perspective helps you date with more intention, subscribe, share this with a friend who needs the reframe, and leave a quick review to tell us which test you’ll try first. Support the show

    15 min

  2. MAR 1

    Choosing A Father, Not A Fantasy

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    7 min

  3. FEB 23

    Closing The Chapter On Mr. 2025

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    7 min

  4. FEB 15

    He Became a PALENTINE

    Send a text A Valentine’s dinner became a live case study the moment the conversation turned into a monologue and the questions never came. We walked in soft and hopeful, walked out with notes on power, presence, and why clarity will always beat performed depth. From the first five minutes—where business, routines, and leadership philosophies took the spotlight—to the therapist voice cameo and the “Do you see a therapist?” probe, we unpack how subtle postures create big imbalances and how to reset the dynamic without losing your center. We explore a core mindset shift: life feels “confusing and complicated” when we dodge honesty and act out of alignment, but it becomes clear when we know who we are and what we’re working toward. Not easy, but clear. That lens reframes dating decisions into simple gates: does this bring me peace, is this aligned, is this for me. Along the way, we examine the signals that matter—curiosity over competition, warmth over labels, coherence over performance—and how they show up in small moments, like a gentrified spin on a beloved dish or a gift that prioritizes optics over intimacy. The contradictions hit hardest when activism talk met an appetizer that erased its roots. We connect those dots to a bigger truth: values are verified by choices, not speeches. And yes, we tell the story of luxury and re-gifting meeting in one Montclair dust bag and what that reveals about impressiveness versus intimacy. The night wasn’t a failure; it was data. We close with a clear set of takeaways: if someone debates your field, they’re reaching for power; if they analyze instead of ask, they’re not present; if they perform depth, insecurity is steering. This year, we’re not dating potential or performances—we’re dating peace. If this resonates, share it with a friend who’s raising their standard, subscribe for more sharp, heart-forward stories, and leave a review with your top non-negotiable for dating with clarity. Support the show

    9 min

  5. 07/06/2025

    Woman

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    6 min

  6. 06/26/2025

    Herself

    Send a text EPISODE 3 – HERSELF She used to shape-shift for safety. Now she remembers who she was before the world convinced her to be small. In this transmission, Carmen peels back the performance, the pleasing, the perfection, the pretending and asks what it means to truly return to herself. This is not a rebrand. This is a reclamation. We explore the subtle war waged on self-trust, the generational echoes that taught us to doubt our voice, and the quiet power of coming home to the woman within. For the ones who’ve outgrown the mask, the mold, the mirror, this one is for you. 🎙️ “I wasn’t becoming someone new. I was remembering someone ancient.” This was for My Frequencies, the ones decoding the signal, not just consuming the sound. I’ll see you in the next transmission. Support the show

    8 min

  7. 06/19/2025

    Embrace

    Send a text Carmen explores the powerful journey of embracing authenticity over performance and confronts the psychological concept of self-abandonment. She shares personal stories about moments when she realized she was performing a palatable version of herself rather than showing up authentically. • Reflecting on moments of performance versus authenticity in social situations • Examining a date where Carmen realized she was presenting a digestible version of herself • Understanding self-abandonment as disconnecting from your truth to maintain connections with others • Recognizing how women, especially women of color, are taught that being agreeable is survival • Exploring the emotional costs of self-abandonment: resentment, burnout, and identity confusion • Learning to stay present with yourself by asking if what you're saying is true or just safe • Journal prompt: When was the last time you betrayed yourself to be chosen, approved, or understood? • Reminder that your wholeness is not too much and your depth isn't a problem to solve Support the show

    9 min

  8. 06/12/2025

    Reclaiming

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    13 min
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My Chic IntuitionThis is not a podcast. It’s a frequency.A cinematic decoding of the feminine experience through poetic storytelling, symbolic monologues, and soul-level transmissions. Hosted by Carmen Ramos, My Chic Intuition is episodes archive disguised as content, but built as a cipher. Each title, a clue. Each episode, a mirror.We talk presence, performance, power, and the process of unbecoming what the world projected onto us.It’s for the women who move differently. The ones who’ve been labeled too much, too quiet, too soft, too sharp and chose to be all of it, anyway. Listen closely.You’re not just tuning in.You’re decoding yourself.

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  • Creator
    Carmen Alicia Ramos
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    25
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 MY CHIC INTUITION
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