Send us Fan Mail Work addiction, burnout, anxiety, and the inability to switch off are challenges many high-performing professionals quietly struggle with. But what if the problem is not simply working too much, but using work as a way to avoid what is happening beneath the surface? In this episode of Living A Life In Balance, Obi Unaka, Addiction Therapist and Relapse Prevention Specialist, joins Abdullah Boulad, Founder and CEO of THE BALANCE Rehab Clinic, for an insightful conversation about work addiction, executive burnout, emotional regulation, recovery, and the hidden costs of high achievement. Drawing from his own personal experience, Obi shares how a successful career in finance eventually led him to recognize that work had become more than a profession; it had become an addiction. After losing important relationships, experiencing severe stress-related symptoms, and struggling to disconnect from work, he began a journey of recovery that ultimately led him into the field of psychotherapy and addiction treatment. Together, they discuss: • How work can become a behavioural addiction similar to gambling or substance use • The warning signs of executive stress, burnout, and emotional exhaustion • Why many high performers struggle to switch off and find balance outside of work • The connection between purpose, identity, achievement, and self-worth • Cultural perspectives on mental health, addiction, and emotional well-being across different societies • The importance of family, community, and support systems in long-term recovery This is a thoughtful and honest conversation about success, resilience, mental health, and the often-overlooked challenges faced by ambitious individuals. It explores what happens when achievement comes at the expense of wellbeing, and why finding balance requires more than simply working less. About Obi Unaka: Obi is an Addiction Therapist, Psychotherapist, and Relapse Prevention Specialist with decades of experience working in the field of mental health and addiction treatment. After leaving a successful career in finance due to his own struggles with work addiction, he retrained as a therapist and has since dedicated his career to helping individuals overcome addiction, burnout, and behavioural health challenges. 00:00:00 - From Work Addiction to Addiction Therapist: Obi Wan's Journey from Finance Burnout to Recovery 00:03:29 - What Is Work Addiction? Signs, Symptoms, and When Hard Work Becomes Unhealthy 00:05:32 - The Psychology of Work Addiction: Why High Achievers Struggle to Switch Off 00:06:58 - Burnout Warning Signs: How Therapy Helped Identify a Destructive Work Pattern 00:08:59 - Finding Purpose After Burnout: Transitioning from Finance to Mental Health 00:10:38 - High-Pressure Careers, Executive Stress, and the Risk of Work Addiction 00:12:02 - Executive Burnout, Substance Use, and Unhealthy Coping Mechanisms in High Performers 00:14:22 - What Causes Burnout? Perfectionism, Internal Pressure, and Emotional Exhaustion 00:16:21 - The Biopsychosocial Model: Balancing Mental Health, Relationships, Purpose, and Wellbeing 00:18:47 - Burnout Red Flags: Overworking, Digital Addiction, Control, and Inability to Delegate 00:22:04 - Technology Addiction, Constant Connectivity, and the Loss of Human Connection 00:23:43 - Mental Health Across Cultures: Comparing Nigeria, the UK, and India 00:26:01 - Mental Health Stigma in India: Family Expectations, Psychiatry, and Cultural Beliefs 00:34:55 - Family Support, Addiction Recovery, and Preventing Relapse Through Community 00:37:52 - What the Western World Can Learn About Community, Connection, and Mental Wellbeing 00:44:01 - Cultural Differences in Therapy: Why Mental Health Treatment Is Not One-Size-Fits-All 00:47:17 - How Therapists Avoid Burnout: Self-Care, Boundaries, Delegation, and Work-Life Balance Follow Abdullah Boulad: https://www.linkedin.com/in/abdullahboulad/ https://www.instagram.com/abdullahboulad/ Follow Obi: https://www.linkedin.com/in/obi-unaka-4715141b/ You can order Abdullah’s books here: https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B0BC9S5TCF?ccs_id=c64f2588-7eb1-4592-b4d1-647a0f379b51 Follow THE BALANCE Rehab Clinic: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thebalancerehabclinic/ https://www.instagram.com/thebalancerehabclinic/ #LivingALifeInBalance #WorkAddiction #Burnout #Stress #Sleep #Support #Wellbeing #IntegrativeMedicine #MentalHealth #Podcast