Social Yet Distanced: A View with an Emotionalorphan and Friends

Jack Varnell

A cross blend of neuroses combining poetry, art, politics, and real-life tales of an emotionalorphan, and oh-so-controversial topics. Sharing news and discussions on Lit, Poetry, the world around us, and the efficacy of manners. Our primary purpose is to bring the world of poetry and literature with other forms of art to share the work, the history and to inspire those in the audience to investigate the power of survival and healing through the arts.

  1. Apr 4

    Phil Lynott: The Warrior Poet*

    Phil Lynott: The Warrior Poet*Most people know Phil Lynott as the charismatic frontman of Thin Lizzy — the bass player, the songwriter, the voice behind “The Boys Are Back in Town, and Jailbreak.” Join us as we explore the creative layers behind Phil Lynott, the iconic singer and frontman of Thin Lizzy, known for his charismatic stage presence and profound songwriting. This music documentary shines a light on his lesser-known talent as a published poet, connecting his lyrical depth to the roots of irish rock. Discover the poetic side of this 70s rock legend.. Published WorksLynott released two poetry books:*“Songs for While I’m Away”* in 1974 and *“Philip”* in 1977. Communityhttps://bit.ly/SyDCafePodcasthttps://bit.ly/SocialYetDistancedYouTubehttps://bit.ly/SociaYetDistancedlVidsALL CONTACT POINTS:https://bit.ly/AllSyDALL Social Yet Distanced MEMBER PERKS:(We prefer but never require you to Sub Here On YT, and get a Free (or better -paid) Account at buymeacoffee.com/socialyetdistanced)That is how we support the project.Discounts and specials found here and in many video descriptions.https://bit.ly/MEMBER-PERKSSupported By:https://bloomhemp.com/ref/jackhttps://holisticcaring.com/ref/jackAsk The Green Nurse:on SUBSTACK….LIKE-SUB-COMMENT-SHARE-DUHSome content made with:https://bit.ly/HYPER-SyDCurrent Supporters-Subscriber Perks:T-Shirts Say So :https://bit.ly/TShirtsSaySoCaliSober Recovery Program Stepwork and Literature - Edition 2 https://bit.ly/CALISOBERBOOK 1 Like

    5 min
  2. Mar 29

    Unpacking the Emotional Orphan Experience

    Unpacking the Emotional Orphan Experience An “emotional orphan” is a person whose parents are alive (or were physically present) but who did not receive the basic emotional care, attunement, and protection children normally get from caregivers. They grow up feeling as if they have “no real parents,” even if there is ongoing contact, because their emotional needs for safety, soothing, empathy, and support were consistently unmet. Core meaning - The person has or had parents who were emotionally unavailable, self-absorbed, abusive, or too wounded to show up as nurturing caregivers. Join us as we explore the often-overlooked concept of the "emotional orphan experience," a profound loneliness and quiet grief that can persist even when basic needs are met. This video offers insights into understanding this unique form of sorrow in adult life and guides you on an "emotional healing" "healing journey" through the process of reparenting. Discover how to embark on "inner child healing" and foster "self healing" to navigate this complex aspect of "mental health" with grace and understanding. Community https://bit.ly/SyDCafe Podcast https://bit.ly/SocialYetDistanced YouTube https://bit.ly/SociaYetDistancedlVids ALL CONTACT POINTS: https://bit.ly/AllSyD ALL Social Yet Distanced MEMBER PERKS: (We prefer but never require you to Sub Here On YT, and get a Free (or better -paid) Account at buymeacoffee.com/socialyetdistanced) That is how we support the project. Discounts and specials found here and in many video descriptions. https://bit.ly/MEMBER-PERKS Supported By: https://bloomhemp.com/ref/jack https://holisticcaring.com/ref/jack Ask The Green Nurse: https://thegreennurse.substack.com/ LIKE-SUB-COMMENT-SHARE-DUH

    13 min
  3. Mar 1

    Experimental Prose That Defies Everything | Tony Nesca

    Italian‑born, Canadian‑based writer known for experimental, “free‑flow” prose and poetry. Tony Nesca, https://screamingskullpress.net/ https://youtu.be/O2ETEeOijmw TONY NESCA - Blends streetwise grit with musical rhythm and raw emotion. - Rejects mainstream literary polish in favor of instinct and spontaneity—what he calls *“word music.”* Background and Life - Born in Torino, Italy (1965); moved to Canada around age three. - Grew up in Winnipeg, with frequent returns to Italy—developed a bicultural identity that shaped his artistic voice. - Former musician in an original rock band before shifting to writing for a more personal outlet. - Musicianship still informs his writing’s rhythm, flow, and improvisational energy. Founding of Screamin’ Skull Press - Created in 1994 out of frustration with mainstream publishing rejections. - Run with his wife, writer **Nicole I. Nesca**, as a completely DIY literary team. - Functions like an “indie band” for literature—writing, editing, designing, and distributing everything themselves. - Early days included selling chapbooks from a backpack at local venues. - Has published over a dozen books: novels, short stories, prose‑poetry hybrids. Writing Style and Themes - “Free‑flow” composition—minimally planned, lightly edited, emotionally charged. - Long, musical sentences; spontaneous energy reminiscent of jazz improvisation. - Mixes street‑level realism with dreamlike or surreal elements. - Known for gut emotion, rhythm, and the *sound* of language itself. - Moves between Italian and Canadian settings, working‑class characters, and inner life. - “Junkyard Lucy” exemplifies shifts between gritty realism and lyrical experiment. Influences - Draws inspiration from the **Lost Generation, Beat poets, and rebel songwriters** of the ’60s–’70s. - Aligns himself with anti‑formula, emotionally authentic, and risk‑taking artists. - Sees artistic rebellion as central to genuine expression. ### Philosophy and Advice to Writers - Rejects trends and market‑chasing; believes art should come from instinct and lived experience. - Encourages writers to “look out your window” instead of chasing genres or approval. - Views editing as potentially destructive to the life within raw, emotional writing. - Writes for truth and rhythm, not for saleability.

    46 min
  4. Joe Evans, Senate Candidate, Idaho: A Plant Medicine Educational Event

    Feb 17

    Joe Evans, Senate Candidate, Idaho: A Plant Medicine Educational Event

    Support Joe Evans for Senate in Idaho and learn more about his platform at https://joeevansforidaho.com Today, we’re highlighting an important event making waves in Idaho — one that’s drawing national attention. Former congressional candidate and current Idaho Senate candidate Joe Evans — a veteran and advocate for responsible policy reform — joined me. We speak about The Entheo Society of Idaho for a transformative evening exploring the future of plant medicine. Sunday, February 22nd, 6 to 8:30 p.m., the Entheo Society is hosting a Plant Medicine Educational Event in 2603 West Eastover Terrace in Boise, Idaho This gathering brings together doctors, lawyers, veterans, Indigenous leaders, and advocates — all sharing knowledge about the medical, legal, and spiritual dimensions of psychedelics and plant medicine. It’s an opportunity to learn from leading voices who are helping reshape healthcare, consciousness, and policy in one of the country’s most unexpected places: Idaho. The evening also features live blues and reggae music, hors d’oeuvres, and a cash bar — a perfect setting to connect, learn, and grow with Idaho’s expanding plant-medicine community. To learn more, visit **entheosociety.net**. You’ll also find links in the video description — including details from our supporters at #Bloom_Hemp and #HolisticCaring — with product information and programs designed to make plant-based wellness more accessible and beneficial. https://bit.ly/SyDCafe Community https://bit.ly/SocialYetDistanced Podcast https://bit.ly/SociaYetDistancedlVids YouTube ALL CONTACT POINTS: https://bit.ly/AllSyD Supported By: https://bloomhemp.com/ref/jack https://holisticcaring.com/ref/jack Ask The Green Nurse: https://thegreennurse.substack.com/ LIKE-SUB-COMMENT-SHARE psilocybin, ibogaine, cannabis, ketamine, medical, legal, veteran, Indigenous, and spiritual perspectives, plantmedicine, Joe Evans, Idaho Senate Candidate,

    46 min
  5. Feb 9

    Poetry Isn't About Pretty Words

    Poetry is the oldest of the arts. Long before there were written words, there were poems—spoken, sung, and remembered. It may even be one of the things that made us human according to historians way smarter than myself. The human brain just seems wired for rhythm, pattern, and story. Those ancient receptors feed the imagination and stir the emotions. In that way, poetry didn’t just reflect culture—it helped *create* it. So, what exactly *is* poetry? Im not sure I want to open that debate here, but wonder how can something so ancient still feel so immediate? Let me offer ten observations that might help us see what makes poetry different from any other form of language. First, poetry is universal. You can go anywhere on the planet, in any century, and find it id speculate it may be—because there is no society without poetry. It is a language of the human soul, expressed in infinite tongues. Second, it’s our oldest art form. Before brushes, before clay, poetry used the body itself —the voice, the ear, the heartbeat. Movement, and community. Ancient peoples shaped their words to be remembered, because they had no other way to keep their stories alive. Third, poetry was born an oral art. It was speech made musical—organized through rhythm and repetition so that memory could hold it. You could say poetry was the very first memory technology. Fourth, poetry is performative. In pre-literate cultures, it lived in rhythm and motion—sung, chanted, and danced. It wasn’t meant to sit on a page; it was meant to live in the air. Fifth, poetry is mnemonic. Rhyme and meter weren’t just about beauty—they were survival tools. When people recited their myths, their laws, their wisdom, they did it in verse because verse could be remembered word-for-word, generation after generation. Sixth, poetry is evocative. It doesn’t instruct by argument but by enchantment. The music of its words lowers our defenses, stirs the imagination, and opens doors in the memory we didn’t know were there. Seventh, poetry is formal. The very shape and rhythm of a poem signal that this is *special* speech—set apart from everyday talk. Even when we read free verse, its visual and rhythmic choices still announce: this language asks for your attention. Eighth, poetry is sacred. In its earliest forms, it was used to speak to the divine—to praise, to mourn, to invoke, to remember. Poets were priests and priestesses, shamans and prophets. Even now, poets like Whitman or Blake seek vision and revelation through the line and the breath. Ninth, poetry is magical. Long before science, people believed words could change the world, and in a way, they still can. A love poem is a spell to move the beloved’s heart. An elegy calls the dead back into memory. Even a satire can shrink its target down to human size. Poetry transforms perception—that’s its power and its charm. And lastly—tenth—poetry civilizes. From Orpheus in Greek myth to the epics of Homer, to the Psalms, the Quran, the Vedas, the book of Kings—civilizations have risen around poetic memory. Nations find themselves through their poets. A tribe becomes a people when it begins to sing its story. So what, then, is poetry? Simply put, poetry is a special way of speaking that invites a special way of listening. It is an art of language that carries meaning not only in what is said but in *how* it sounds, how it moves, and how it makes us feel. ... In the end, poetry exists to delight, to instruct, to console, and to commemorate. It wakes us up—to life, to loss, to wonder, to each other. That, I believe, is the enduring purpose of poetry: to change, in small but meaningful ways, the way we live. https://bit.ly/CafeSyD Community https://bit.ly/SyD-POD Podcast https://bit.ly/SyD-TV YouTube

    7 min

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A cross blend of neuroses combining poetry, art, politics, and real-life tales of an emotionalorphan, and oh-so-controversial topics. Sharing news and discussions on Lit, Poetry, the world around us, and the efficacy of manners. Our primary purpose is to bring the world of poetry and literature with other forms of art to share the work, the history and to inspire those in the audience to investigate the power of survival and healing through the arts.