The Deirdre O'Shaughnessy Podcast

Irish Examiner

Looking for a deeper understanding of the stories that matter? The Deirdre O’Shaughnessy Podcast takes you inside the best Irish Examiner reporting — from Cork courts to global affairs and powerful personal stories.  With award‑winning journalists and exclusive voices you won’t hear anywhere else. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  1. 7h ago

    Killeagh's Finbarr Fogarty on his teenage drug addiction, the guilt of surviving a fatal car crash and finding peace

    Killeagh man Finbarr Fogarty hit the headlines in 2001 when he was involved in a horrific car crash in which two of his friends, Cian O'Mahony from Killeagh and Wayne Martin from Hollyhill, died. He survived serious injuries, including a broken neck and had to learn to walk again. Like a lot of young men, he had gone off the rails in his teens, using drugs and alcohol to find confidence and fit in. Adults in the community and in his school were aware of his drug usage, he says, but never intervened beyond a threat to expel him from school, something he now finds hard to understand. Like many teenage boys who become involved in risky behaviour, he believed he was invincible. "...I was invincible as a teenager... there was a few times where we were doing 100 miles an hour and we just, you know, thought, there's nothing going to happen. It's grand. "But when it happens, that switch has not gone off in our head just yet. This idea, you know, we could die. It's just, you know, we're not going to die." Even the crash did not break the power of his addiction – he was arrested a few months later after a local guard found him on the street in a drunken state. "I was arrested, and I remember the bangarda who picked me up, she looked at me and said – are you the guy who was in the accident? The guards have a very tough job." Now, 25 years later, Finbarr lives in Australia where he runs a successful business and volunteers to help other people in recovery. He spoke to Deirdre for today's episode about breaking the cycle of addiction in his family; how recovery works; and how he and his friends were let down by adults who knew they were in freefall. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  2. Aug 28

    Is Cork University Hospital unsafe for patients?

    Management, clinicians and staff at Cork University Hospital are in a mounting disagreement with the HSE and Minister for Health Jennifer Carroll MacNeill over staff and resources at the South-West region’s biggest hospital. Trolleys are mounting up at the hospital’s Emergency Department and as the health service faces into the winter season, staff and management fear a tragic incident if resourcing is not urgently addressed. Last week CUH boss Jennifer Kearney wrote to Health Minister Jennifer Carroll MacNeill to say the hospital was unsafe for patients and staff. “My responsibility as chief executive is not simply to comply with a process," she wrote. "It is to speak clearly when I believe that process is creating a foreseeable risk to patients and staff. "I would rather raise that concern now, when there is still an opportunity to act, than remain silent and explain afterwards why we did not.” The Minister hit back in an interview on RTE radio, saying there was “no evidence” the hospital was unsafe - but medical staff at the hospital have since rowed in on the CEO’s side. So, is the hospital safe or not? Irish Examiner Health Correspondent Niamh Griffin gets into the detail of the dispute at CUH on today’s episode. Health minister says no evidence of increased patient safety concerns at CUH Hiqa seeks clarity over Cork University Hospital safety fears   CUH boss says hospital 'unsafe' for patients amid shortfall of over 1,000 staff Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  3. Aug 21

    Putting parenting advice under the spotlight with Colman Noctor

    The world is awash with parenting advice – every newspaper and TV show has a parenting slot, and once the algorithm notices something up with your menstrual cycle you will be bombarded with it, from pregnancy right through to parenting young adults, with strong opinions on attachment styles, feeding advice, gentle parenting and more. But Irish Examiner columnist Dr Colman Noctor, who is a child and adult psychotherapist and a mental health lecturer, argues in a new series, every child needs to be parented differently – but crucially, this isn’t just up to their own parents. In his new series he looks at important parts of childhood – school, sports and friendships – through a lens of parenting different children according to their needs. And his recommendations might surprise. “If your child is thriving and they're popular and they're bright and they're clever, there's an onus of responsibility on them to be nice about that, to be a little bit gracious about it, because you have that power to include,” he says. He believes that a lot of modern parenting advice is treating challenges as an isolated challenge for one family –when, in fact, community is often what’s missing from modern parenting. The reliance on AI and online advice, meanwhile, means many parents are missing out on real connection. “Parenting is a very lonely journey for many people. And if you don't have the village of people saying, you're doing a good job and you're doing great and this is working and all that sort of stuff, you're going to turn to the advice,” he adds. Supporting children with friendships, promoting inclusion so that parents aren’t fighting problems in isolation, and making sure more capable children include others across school, sports and friendship is key to the advice in his new series. In this episode Colman and Deirdre discuss the importance of community and connection in parenting, inclusion, and how to be consistent when every child needs you to show up as a different parent. You can read Colman’s column in ieParenting every Tuesday. Read Colman’s weekly columns in ieParenting here: Columns - Irish Examiner The Deirdre O'Shaughnessy Podcast: School holidays and the motherhood penalty The Deirdre O’Shaughnessy Podcast: The year of care campaign, with Aolish Gormley     Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Looking for a deeper understanding of the stories that matter? The Deirdre O’Shaughnessy Podcast takes you inside the best Irish Examiner reporting — from Cork courts to global affairs and powerful personal stories.  With award‑winning journalists and exclusive voices you won’t hear anywhere else. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.