Words With Myself

Luke Rixson
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Words With Myself is a solo podcast of quiet confrontation and honest exploration. Each episode is a spoken journal, unscripted, unfiltered, and unafraid to sit in the silence between thoughts. Host Luke Rixson doesn’t offer advice. He reflects aloud. Through themes like identity, ego, fear, stillness, and purpose, he invites listeners to eavesdrop on the kind of conversations most people only have with themselves. This is not self-help. It’s self-inquiry. A space to slow down, question deeply, and feel fully. Not to fix yourself, but to meet yourself.

  1. 19h ago

    How to Get Your Confidence Back: Understanding the Masks You Wear

    What does it really mean to be confident? Is confidence something we have, something we develop, or simply another character we learn to play? We often think of confidence as being strong, capable, attractive or comfortable in our own skin. But what happens when the person we present to the world is very different from the person we believe ourselves to be? In this episode, I explore the relationship between confidence, authenticity, self-image and the masks we wear to navigate the world. How we create identities around our strengths and weaknesses, how our relationships expose the parts of ourselves we try to hide, and why our attempts to become the best version of ourselves can sometimes take us further away from who we really are. We look at the dangers of self-criticism, the limitations of the 'fake it till you make it' mentality, and how our beliefs about ourselves are often shaped by experiences, other people's opinions and perspectives we've accepted as truth. Because real confidence isn't about believing you're perfect, eliminating your weaknesses or convincing the world that you're somebody extraordinary. It's about being able to see yourself clearly, acknowledging both the good and the bad, and understanding that neither tells the whole story. And towards the end, I leave you with a practical exercise to challenge your self-image, question the identity you've created and perhaps discover parts of yourself you've overlooked. After all, how can you truly be yourself if you don't really know who you are?

  2. Nov 1

    Becoming Your Own Best Friend

    The stories we tell ourselves shape how we experience the world, yet so often we're completely unaware of the conversations happening within our own minds. In this episode, I explore how our beliefs shape our perception of reality, how negative self-talk and self-sabotage keep us stuck in patterns of anger, guilt and shame, and why sometimes we can become our own worst enemy. Drawing on my own experiences with depression and learning to change the way I spoke to myself, I look at the importance of self-forgiveness, understanding our emotions and developing a healthier relationship with ourselves. Self-love isn't simply telling yourself that you love yourself. It's fundamentally changing how you treat yourself, how you respond to your mistakes and whether you offer yourself the same compassion and understanding that you would give to somebody you truly care about.

  3. Oct 25

    Embracing the Mundane: The Grass Isn’t Greener

    Comparison is the thief of joy, yet so many people spend their lives wishing they had somebody else's. In this episode, I explore why we tend to idolise other people's lives, how films and entertainment distort our perception of success, and why the mundane, repetitive parts of life are often what it takes to achieve anything meaningful. We look at the relationship between discipline, boredom and success, why constantly chasing excitement and material things rarely leads to lasting fulfilment, and how gratitude can fundamentally change our experience of life without anything around us needing to change. The grass isn't always greener on the other side. Learning to appreciate what you have, rather than focusing on what you don't, might be the most important change you can make.

  4. Oct 18

    Getting Comfortable With Discomfort

    We often talk about being present when life is good, but what about when things are difficult? In this episode, I explore why our most challenging experiences, from grief and loss to fear, discomfort and uncertainty, can be our greatest teachers. Why avoiding suffering limits personal growth, how the ego keeps us attached to comfort and control, and why true confidence comes from exposing ourselves to difficult things. Learning to be present with pain rather than constantly trying to escape it can fundamentally change how we understand ourselves and the world around us. Sometimes the most valuable lessons in life come from the moments we most want to avoid. We must get comfortable with being uncomfortable.

  5. Oct 11

    The Dangers of Detachment

    Change rarely happens all at once. More often, it's the small, almost invisible decisions we make every day that shape who we become and the life we live. In this episode, I explore the power of incremental change, how our habits and patterns influence our lives, and why understanding our true motivations is essential for personal growth. We look at the dangers of chasing success and external validation, but also the opposite extreme: convincing ourselves we want nothing when, in reality, we're simply afraid to pursue what we desire. Are you genuinely at peace with your life, or have you mistaken fear, stagnation and resignation for acceptance? An exploration of self-awareness, discipline, motivation and the importance of being honest with yourself about what you truly want.

  6. Sep 27

    The Paradox of Excess

    How much is actually enough to make you happy? In this episode, we explore the hidden cost of excess, the importance of defining what you truly want, and why more money, freedom, possessions, or success doesn’t always mean a better life. From manifestation and goal setting to ambition, minimalism, happiness, and personal growth, this episode looks at how being specific about your desires can help you avoid excess and create a life that genuinely fulfils you.

  7. Sep 20

    Perception of Self: The Walking Contradition

    You think you’re a good person. You probably also think your mistakes are understandable and other people’s mistakes reveal who they really are. This episode explores the hypocrisy, self-righteousness and double standards we hide behind, and why we’re all far less consistent than we like to believe.

  8. Sep 13

    How can you be new when you are still living old?

    What if becoming a new version of yourself meant questioning everything you think you know about who you are? In this episode, we start with something as simple as a tomato and use it to explore identity, reinvention, and the habits we keep carrying forward without thinking. From trying things you once avoided to noticing where fear still makes your decisions, this is about getting curious about who you might be now, not who you used to be. We also get into the less glamorous side of transformation: old patterns, ego, grief, resistance, and the tiny everyday choices that actually shape your life. A conversation about letting go, experimenting more, and giving yourself permission to meet a version of you that might surprise you.

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Words With Myself is a solo podcast of quiet confrontation and honest exploration. Each episode is a spoken journal, unscripted, unfiltered, and unafraid to sit in the silence between thoughts. Host Luke Rixson doesn’t offer advice. He reflects aloud. Through themes like identity, ego, fear, stillness, and purpose, he invites listeners to eavesdrop on the kind of conversations most people only have with themselves. This is not self-help. It’s self-inquiry. A space to slow down, question deeply, and feel fully. Not to fix yourself, but to meet yourself.

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  • Creator
    Luke Rixson
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    100
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © Copyright 2021 All rights reserved.
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