What happens when you stop seeing your differences as flaws and start seeing them as part of your purpose? What if the very things you once felt ashamed of could become the foundation of your healing—and the testimony that helps someone else survive? Sensitive Content Notice: This episode includes candid discussion of childhood sexual abuse, bullying, colorism, emotional and physical abuse, addiction, depression, mental health challenges, suicide attempts, and suicide prevention. Some portions of this conversation may be difficult or triggering for some listeners. Please take care of yourself while listening and pause or step away if needed. If you or someone you know is struggling with thoughts of suicide or self-harm, please seek immediate support from a qualified mental health professional or crisis service in your area or call 988. In this powerful guest episode of Journey Free Podcast, Uneak Tershai sits down with author, mental health advocate, content creator, and mother of three, Iesha “Gap Tooth Diva,” for an honest conversation about resilience, self-love, mental health, motherhood, authenticity, and turning pain into purpose. Iesha opens up about her journey through childhood trauma, bullying, colorism, self-esteem struggles, mental health challenges, and learning how to embrace the parts of herself she once wanted to hide. Together, Uneak and Iesha discuss what it means to stop outsourcing your confidence, find your own voice, balance motherhood and entrepreneurship, and show up authentically—even when the world has something to say. From connecting as Black women and content creators in Richmond, Virginia, to discussing faith, healing, suicide prevention, advocacy, and the importance of telling yourself “I love you” when you didn’t always hear it growing up, this conversation is raw, reflective, and full of reminders that perfection was never the goal. In this episode, we discuss: Turning childhood pain and adversity into purposeBlack women, self-love, confidence, colorism, and embracing your uniquenessMental health advocacy and navigating life through lived experienceMotherhood, healing, and giving your children what you may not have receivedStaying authentic as a content creator and advocate in the age of social mediaWhy you don't have to be perfect to be worthy, impactful, or lovedIf you've ever struggled with self-esteem, felt misunderstood, questioned your worth, or wondered how to turn your pain into something meaningful, this episode is for you. Because sometimes the very thing you thought was your flaw is the thing that makes you unforgettable. Connect with Iesha “Gap Tooth Diva” and learn more about her work, advocacy, book Flawesome Because God Don't Make No Junk, and mental health journey through the links in the show notes. Flawesome Lifestyle and Mental Health Website If this conversation resonates with you, follow Journey Free Podcast, leave a rating and review, and share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they are worthy—flaws and all. Come catch this vibe, because it's a blessing. Find a Mental Health ProfessionalFind a Therapist Today — Schedule appointments directly with therapists on Psychology Today.RBHA Mental Health Recovery/Addiction and Substance Abuse Help Find a Warmline Connect with peer-support warmlines for compassionate, non-judgmental listening.The Mental Health Virginia Warm Line is available M-F from 9AM-9PM; weekends & holidays from 5PM-9 PM. Addiction Recovery Support (Alive RVA Warm Line): Uneak Tershai, a multi-dimensional one, who loves to talk openly about life experiences, inspires others to embrace their differences and encourages them to love themselves for the uniqueness that they are. Listen to more episodes on Spotify By Podcasters. Connect with us on Instagram. Watch my YouTube channels Uneak Tershai and The Uneak Journey.