ManReimagined

Malcolm Nicholls and Richard Ayling

The expectations of what it means to be a man are changing. Men are struggling to find their place and voice in the world. Join Malcolm Nicholls and Richard Ayling on their journey as two middle-aged men trying to make sense of this modern world, as they take a deeper look at the questions and challenges men are facing, and wonder what a reimagined man might look like in the 21st century.

  1. 03/20/2023

    Episode 36: How Men's Work Changed Chris Barth

    So many men have an interest in the world of men's work and the personal development journey, but stay on the fringes and prefer to listen or read rather than invest their time and hard-earned money in showing up at a circle, yet alone a retreat. While this is understandable, I thought I'd share one man's inspiring journey who took the leap and jumped in. In the space of 18 months, Chris Barth went from having no association to men's work or masculinity, to now hosting his own men's circle and empowering other men! Over the 32 minutes of this short-but-powerful interview, he tells his story of trying to pick up the pieces from a broken relationship, discovering men's work through my circle, coaching and the retreat we held last September, working with Nice Guy Syndrome...to then being inspired enough to create his own men's group with his friend Rik. The main reason I wanted to share his story is because in many ways it is similar to my own, and so many other men out there, and I hope this resonates with anyone listening who's on the fence about trying out this kind of work. Also, with my next men's retreat in Denmark just a couple of weeks away, it gives anyone feeling inspired by what Chris says about it to grab one of the last spots and dive in.... Chris's humility, honesty and candour about his struggles, reservations and learnings are one of the many reasons I believe his own circle will grow and have a real impact on the men who show up in Karlsruhe, Germany. To find out more about his and Rik's offering, see the links below. Finally, a huge thank you to Chris for jumping onto his first podcast and being so open about himself, which I've no doubt will land with and serve the men it's meant to. Links: To find out more about my upcoming Men's Retreat in Denmark on April 3rd-8th and seal one of the few spots remaining, head over this way. To check out Chris and Rik's in-person men's circle in Karlsruhe, Germany, follow this link. To check out my German-speaking online men's circle, tap or click this bit of the screen. Plus, you can reach me directly via my website, or Instagram page, I'm most active there.

  2. 10/21/2022

    Episode 35: A Good Faith Conversation on Religion with Paul Robson

    How can a lifelong Atheist suddenly find God and become an Orthodox Christian?!? Is there still a space for religion today? Why the trend for men (in the U.S. in particular) to look to religion more and more right now? How is it even relevant, given what science and New Atheism has shown us in the last couple of hundred years? In this episode, I welcome Paul Robson to help me make sense of this. I called it a 'good faith conversation' not just because I like puns, but because I wanted to sit down and really listen and understand how he thinks, with an open mind. And whilst his men's work is totally separate from his faith, here's a bit about him: "Paul is on a mission to restore manhood. He calls men to adventure and support them in finding a deeper sense of direction and purpose. Together with an amazing team, he started European Men’s Gathering in 2017, which has grown to be the European hub for men’s leadership training. He runs Maniphesto Core, a platform for online men’s mastermind groups and he engages other thought leaders in discussions in order to bring together the men and the ideas which will enable us to create a new story about men". This is an engaging conversation that I really enjoyed having and learning from, I hope you feel the same way. To find out more about Paul: Website: https://maniphesto.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maniphestomen/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXPMCOblA-vdnIpE-4BR8PA  Podcast on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/43N2FuoVayEWg9YwwPmhud To contact Rich: Website: www.re-align.co Instagram: www.instagram.com/richrealign

  3. 10/14/2022

    Episode 34: Mark Walsh on Embodiment, Trauma, Gender and Ukraine

    In this very special addition of the Man Reimagined podcast, we welcome internationally renowned embodiment teacher, Mark Walsh. I wanted to interview Mark in particular because he is not a man that minces words. He talks straight and is refreshingly candid in his views, whilst at the same time coming across as balanced and grounded in his thinking - a welcome thing. Mark Walsh is the founder of the Embodied Facilitator Course, Embodied Yoga Principles, The Embodiment Podcast and the Embodiment Conference. With an honours degree in psychology, 20+ years of yoga experience and an aikido black belt, he has dedicated his life to embodied learning. He has taught everyone from street kids to the rich and famous, in over 50 countries. His hobbies include offending pirates with his swearing, impressing cats with his stroking, and embarrassing drunks with his dancing. In the podcast we cover: - What embodiment is - How embodied men lead better lives as fathers, at work and in relationships - How men and women relate to embodiment - Mark's experience teaching at Google and the police force - His thoughts on the oppressive patriarchy narrative - Masculinity today and where men find themselves - Male and female relationships - His recent work in Ukraine teaching embodiment and trauma - Trauma: what it is and how it is being taught today - Why there are less men in embodiment spaces than before - Male-friendly and female-friendly spaces   Mark's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/warkmalsh The Embodiment Conference: https://portal.theembodimentconference.org And to listen to more of Mark, dive into his Embodiment Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-embodiment-podcast/id1284562064 To get in touch with Rich, you can reach him and find all of his links here: https://onmurmur.com/richardayling

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The expectations of what it means to be a man are changing. Men are struggling to find their place and voice in the world. Join Malcolm Nicholls and Richard Ayling on their journey as two middle-aged men trying to make sense of this modern world, as they take a deeper look at the questions and challenges men are facing, and wonder what a reimagined man might look like in the 21st century.