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  1. 2d ago ·  Video

    How To Set Boundaries Without Shutting People Out

    We dig into how “setting boundaries” can either strengthen a relationship or quietly turn into a wall that shuts a partner out. We connect the Gottmans’ idea of stonewalling to real-life conflict, attachment styles, privacy, and a simple script you can use to hold your line without escalating the fight.  • boundaries as something for you rather than against someone else  • stonewalling as a relationship killer and why it predicts breakup  • walls as protection from discomfort, vulnerability, and conflict  • avoidant versus anxious attachment and how each can build walls  • common flashpoints like phones, privacy, and personal time  • compromise without resentment and honoring what you said you would do  • a practical boundary structure: when X happens, I feel Y, I need Z, if it continues I will do A  • forgiveness as something you do for yourself while still keeping limits  We need you guys to share all that good stuff. Um, YouTube live, Facebook live. Just come on in and join the conversation. Send us Fan Mail Support the show www.youtube.com/firedupbroadcasting

  2. Sep 15 ·  Video

    Healthy Relationships Do Not Avoid Conflict

    We pick up “How to fight well” with a hard truth: never arguing can mean you’re healthy, or it can mean you’re avoiding, people-pleasing, and building resentment. We break down what toxic conflict looks like, what healthy conflict sounds like, and how to build the kind of safety that makes honesty possible.  • why “we never fight” can be healthy, avoidant, or people-pleasing  • what the Gottman research says about lasting relationships  • how unspoken expectations create bait-and-switch dynamics  • the unhealthy patterns that wreck arguments: attacks, contempt, sarcasm, stonewalling, no repair  • the shift from fighting to problem-solving as a team  • how to call a timeout when your body signals escalation  • when silence crosses into punishment and what it can mean  • practical steps to build safety: start small, name needs early, listen without defending  Would you guys let us know what you guys think about that takeaway of what we just uh expressed just now. Uh hit us in the comments, subscribe. We need y'all to subscribe, you know, comment, like, all that stuff when you see us on social media, Facebook, and follow us.  Send us Fan Mail Support the show www.youtube.com/firedupbroadcasting

  3. Sep 4 ·  Video

    Not Fighting Is Not The Goal

    “We never fight” sounds like relationship goals, but we’ve learned it can be a warning sign. When a couple claims total peace, we want to know what’s underneath it: real emotional safety and honest communication, or conflict avoidance where one person keeps quiet because the price of speaking up feels too high. Fuel and Host G dig into why “not fighting” is not automatically a flex, and how silence can turn into resentment, distance, and an emotionally flat relationship that’s technically together but already checked out. We break down three common reasons couples avoid conflict: genuine harmony, avoidance and people pleasing, and the scary version where nobody cares enough to engage. Along the way we talk direct communication styles, the danger of staying with “hope” instead of reality, and why big topics like kids, commitment, and life plans need clear words, not hints. We also get into the mess that happens when you outsource your relationship to friends and family who only hear one side, and why a neutral therapist or coach can be a healthier place to process. Then we get practical: is going to bed angry really bad, how time-outs can help regulate your nervous system, and what healthy arguing looks like when the goal is understanding instead of winning. We cover boundaries around tone and respect, how to stop attacking the person and focus on the issue, and why real intimacy requires honesty. If you want better relationship communication skills and healthier conflict resolution, this one gives you a roadmap. Subscribe, share this with someone who needs it, and leave a review with your answer: what would change if your next argument was about feeling safe enough to tell the truth again tomorrow? Send us Fan Mail Support the show www.youtube.com/firedupbroadcasting

  4. Aug 31 ·  Video

    A Relationship Lasts Longer When You Own Your Part

    The butterflies are easy. The long haul is where most relationships either deepen or quietly fall apart. We go point by point through what we believe actually keeps a long-term relationship healthy when looks change, stress piles up, and the “new” wears off. Coach G brings a psychology and attachment-style lens to the conversation, starting with emotional self-awareness: can you own your part when you fight, stay curious, and repair instead of blaming. From there we get into integrity and consistency, the day-to-day follow-through that builds trust and calms the nervous system. Yes, we even get into the texting debate and why what seems “small” to one person can hit a deep fear of rejection for someone else. We also talk about the traits people underestimate: a sense of humor that connects instead of offends, genuine kindness that shows up everywhere (the waiter test matters), and trust that protects vulnerability rather than using it as ammo later. Then we zoom out to shared life vision: values, money, kids, religion, where you want to live, and how to spot misalignment early. We close with the real test of partnership: when hardship hits, do you feel like a team or like you are alone. Subscribe, share this with someone who needs it, and leave a review. What is your number one nonnegotiable for a lasting relationship? Send us Fan Mail Support the show www.youtube.com/firedupbroadcasting

  5. Aug 26 ·  Video

    The Ick

    We break down what “the ick” really is, why it hits so fast, and how it differs from a red flag that you can think through. We share real examples and a simple “ick audit” so you can decide whether to trust your gut or question your pattern. • defining the ick as instant repulsion after genuine interest • separating values incompatibility from surface-level turnoffs • sharing real-life icks like witchcraft, a trash-filled car, and bad hygiene • explaining three mechanisms: disgust response, pedestal collapse, attachment-style triggers • exploring how emotional availability can feel like “too much” depending on your attachment style • looking at how TikTok, dating apps, and outside opinions can create or amplify an ick • using four audit questions to pinpoint the trigger and spot repeating patterns • deciding when to trust the ick and when to question it, especially as relationships get real • comparing what you tolerate in friends versus what you need in a partner Share, share, like, alrighty. Send us Fan Mail Support the show www.youtube.com/firedupbroadcasting

  6. Aug 17 ·  Video

    Most Relationship Arguments Are Really About Needs

    We pick up part two of “It’s Never About The Dishes” and get honest about why small arguments keep coming back. We share simple tools that help us name the real need underneath the trigger so conflict turns into connection instead of another blowup.  • Recap of the hidden needs under “small” fights: respect, value, fairness, emotional safety, being seen and known  • Tool one: naming the real issue in the moment, especially when it feels risky  • How anxious attachment and nervous system fear can block honesty  • Why partners are not mind readers and why needs still must be said out loud  • Tool two: nonviolent communication with observation, feeling, need, and specific request  • The difference between feelings and thoughts that sound like feelings  • Why repeated arguments can mean unmet needs, unclear asks, or poor landing  • Chores, emotional labor, and the mental load as sources of resentment  • When “refusing to argue” is maturity versus emotional avoidance  • Conflict versus shouting, flooding, and taking space to regulate  Hit that subscribe button. Come in and join the conversation, y'all. Send us Fan Mail Support the show www.youtube.com/firedupbroadcasting

  7. Aug 10 ·  Video

    From Homeless In A Car To 942 Days Sober

    We sit down with Brian Blackman, who goes from chasing a California dream to homelessness, addiction, and a breaking point that forces an honest look in the mirror. We talk through the exact moment he chooses sobriety, how Elaine becomes part of his recovery story, and how he turns online attention into a real community built on resilience and worthiness.  • Brian’s path from early drinking to heavy drug use and repeated relapses  • Moving to Los Angeles during COVID and slipping into homelessness  • The Lamborghini conversation and the mirror moment that sparks change  • Why staying sober requires new environments and a smaller circle  • Attachment theory and nervous system survival as a lens on addiction  • Elaine’s panic attacks, distraction techniques, and co-regulation  • Handling social media backlash while protecting peace  • Triggers after long-term sobriety and accepting you cannot “just have one”  • Crab Crew Life origin story and the CRAB pillars: Clean, Resilient, Adaptive, Believe  • Building a six-week transformation experience focused on daily disciplines  go to Crabscrew Life.com and support.  Send us Fan Mail Support the show www.youtube.com/firedupbroadcasting

  8. Aug 3 ·  Video

    Why Small Annoyances Turn Into Big Fights

    A cup left on the counter should not turn into a full-blown fight, yet somehow it does. We start with that exact scenario and pull the thread until the real issues show up: respect, effort, fairness, feeling valued, emotional safety, and the deep need to feel truly known by the person we love. If you have ever thought, “Why am I so mad about something so small?” this conversation helps you name what is actually happening under the surface.  We lean on Gottman research to explain “bids for connection,” the tiny moments where we ask for attention, care, or simple engagement. We talk about what it means to turn toward a partner even when you are busy, how “you always” and “you never” can be a clue that someone has been holding things in, and why criticism is very different from contempt. Along the way, our live chat brings real-life examples about chores, appreciation, parenting in mixed families, and the ways people avoid hard conversations because they fear the reaction.  Then we shift to Celebrity Corner and a mental health headline: Reese Weaver stepping away from being a beloved Dallas Cowboys cheerleader after three years, and what it looks like to leave a dream when your “cup is full” and social media is taking a toll. We close with a bonus relationship story that raises big questions about intimacy, boundaries, stress, and whether the fight is ever really about what just happened in the moment.  If this hits home, subscribe, share the episode with a friend, and leave a review. What is the “cup” that sets you off, and what do you think it is really about? Send us Fan Mail Support the show www.youtube.com/firedupbroadcasting

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 Bringing you that old school new school duo. Fired Up broadcasting - podcasting shows. Real talk and discussions about relationship, mental health, entertainment Informative news. While also giving you informative news in entertainment, relationships, and the human behavior not the left or right of politics, and the current events around the world. We also bring you fun, games, and special guest to lift your spirits. Check them out Live Reasons! on firedupthursdays @ 6pm pst. every Thursday. 

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  • Creator
    Fuel
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    15
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