The Family Business with The Alessis: A Christian Parenting and Marriage Podcast

Steve and Mary Alessi | Pastors | Christian Parenting and Marriage Mentors

Find out why family is EVERYBODY'S business! The Alessis are a rapidly growing family of pastors who all work on the same church staff - and they face the same problems found in any family business.   You’ll hear powerful conversations showing you how to build a happy marriage, a healthy family and a multi-generational legacy founded on Biblical principles. Now with over 200 episodes, we invite you to join our Podience and learn why family is everybody’s business. For more information on our Christian family and marriage podcast, our ministry and how we help build strong Christian families, check out https://alessifamilybusiness.com.

  1. How to Stop Losing Yourself in Parenting (But Still Prioritize Your Family)

    15H AGO

    How to Stop Losing Yourself in Parenting (But Still Prioritize Your Family)

    Is it possible that your greatest blessings - your spouse and your children - could also drain your spirit and prevent you from pursuing the hobbies and interests that give you joy?  Parents often find themselves struggling to grow as individuals when their family responsibilities take over their lives - but finding the balance between personal growth and focusing on your marriage and parenting can be really difficult.  In this episode, Stephanie Alessi Muina and her husband Chris take a honest look at how they are maintaining a sense of self-worth and identity while also giving their children - and their marriage - the best chance at success. You'll find a ton of effective and practical strategies that you can apply to your own life as you grow as a person, a parent and a spouse. IF YOU LIKED THIS:  Remember to subscribe to hear from ALL of the Alessi family members - we have different hosts from the family every week who give you multiple perspectives on parenting, marriage, family dynamics, and building a legacy that lasts!  Support the show JOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTER Sign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family!  Get free access to the newsletter TEXT THE FAMILY BUSINESS DIRECTLY You can connect with us via text to ask family questions and get updates on The Family Business!  Text FAMILY to 302-524-0800 CONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESS Follow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOY Listen to the Alessi sisters' daily devotional podcast My Morning Devotional Follow Our New Podcast with Mary Alessi and her twin sister Martha Munizzi Watch The Mary and Martha Show

    47 min
  2. How to Handle Seasons When It Feels Like God is Delaying Your Dreams

    MAR 25

    How to Handle Seasons When It Feels Like God is Delaying Your Dreams

    Ever wonder if God’s still in your corner when your dreams seem stalled? In this transparent episode, Stephanie Alessi Muiña and her husband Christopher Muiña dig into what it really means to trust God during slow seasons of growth—whether you’re wrestling with closed doors, struggling with burnout, or navigating tricky family relationships. You'll hear firsthand experiences from marriage, parenting, business, and ministry, revealing how the timing of God isn’t always what you expect, but His process shapes your perspective and aligns your heart. Through these stories of perseverance and decisions between pushing doors open versus simply waiting, you’ll find encouragement to embrace your season of “development.” You'll get clarity and understanding on how adjusting your viewpoint can turn frustration into gratitude, and how joy often grows through the discomfort. Get ready for honest conversation and real talk on letting God guide your growth—at His pace, not yours. Support the show JOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTER Sign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family!  Get free access to the newsletter TEXT THE FAMILY BUSINESS DIRECTLY You can connect with us via text to ask family questions and get updates on The Family Business!  Text FAMILY to 302-524-0800 CONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESS Follow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOY Listen to the Alessi sisters' daily devotional podcast My Morning Devotional Follow Our New Podcast with Mary Alessi and her twin sister Martha Munizzi Watch The Mary and Martha Show

    56 min
  3. MAR 18

    Newlywed Shock! Our Journey from Engagement to Our First Months of Marriage

    Marriage is definitely worth the wait - but do you know what to focus on while you're preparing to marry the love of your life?  In this episode, hosts Gaby Alessi Calatayud and her husband Christian make their debut as a couple on The Family Business and give you an honest, behind-the-scenes view on the first few weeks of newlywed life.  Sharing their journey from childhood friends to marriage, you'll hear them reveal  the challenges of waiting for the right timing through dating and engagement, honoring family, and genuinely submitting to God's plan as they try to set the foundation for a blessed marriage.  Whether you're dating, engaged, or just starting out in marriage, Gaby and Christian offer encouragement and practical wisdom for every stage. With candid stories, laughter, and lessons learned, this episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking real insights into how to nurture your potential or current marriage partnership.  Support the show JOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTER Sign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family!  Get free access to the newsletter TEXT THE FAMILY BUSINESS DIRECTLY You can connect with us via text to ask family questions and get updates on The Family Business!  Text FAMILY to 302-524-0800 CONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESS Follow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOY Listen to the Alessi sisters' daily devotional podcast My Morning Devotional Follow Our New Podcast with Mary Alessi and her twin sister Martha Munizzi Watch The Mary and Martha Show

    56 min
  4. MAR 11

    How to Welcome Your Future Son- or Daughter-in Law into the Family (and truly mean it)

    In this episode, you'll discover why your child’s future spouse is more than just a relationship choice—they’re an investment in your family’s future... and how wisdom, clear expectations, and intentional love can help you build strong relationships with your in-laws from the very beginning. Parenting adult children through dating, engagement, and marriage can be both beautiful and complicated. To help you navigate this important season, Steve and Mary Alessi share practical insight on how to recognize healthy relationships, guide your children with wisdom instead of control, and welcome in-laws as true family. Whether you're preparing your children for dating and marriage, or learning how to love your in-laws well, you'll walk away with actionable encouragement that will help you create a beautiful family legacy.  Support the show JOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTER Sign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family!  Get free access to the newsletter TEXT THE FAMILY BUSINESS DIRECTLY You can connect with us via text to ask family questions and get updates on The Family Business!  Text FAMILY to 302-524-0800 CONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESS Follow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOY Listen to the Alessi sisters' daily devotional podcast My Morning Devotional Follow Our New Podcast with Mary Alessi and her twin sister Martha Munizzi Watch The Mary and Martha Show

    50 min
  5. MAR 4

    God, Please Change My Spouse! What to Do When Your Marriage Expectations Don’t Match Reality

    Are you praying that the person you married becomes more like the person you THOUGHT you married?  In this episode, you'll discover why praying "God, please change my wife / husband" may not be the right kind of prayer... and how you can build a thriving marriage by focusing on personal growth, realistic expectations, and true understanding. Marriage can be beautiful, but it comes with some real challenges—especially when the quirks and habits that once seemed cute become real irritants. To help you navigate this common struggle in marriage, Steve and Mary Alessi explore how to identify when a quirk is just that—and when a situation may warrant setting up healthy boundaries.  If you're looking for practical, faith-based advice to strengthen your relationship, avoid common pitfalls, and find humor in the journey, this episode is for you. Whether you're newly married or decades in, you'll walk away with actionable insights for building a marriage that lasts. Key topics in this episode: Why praying for your spouse to change may be the wrong approachThe "couch dance": How dating evolves into marriageHandling personality differences and minor irritantsWhen to set boundaries for serious issues Don't forget to subscribe, leave a comment, and share with friends who need encouragement for their marriage journey. Family is everybody's business! Support the show JOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTER Sign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family!  Get free access to the newsletter TEXT THE FAMILY BUSINESS DIRECTLY You can connect with us via text to ask family questions and get updates on The Family Business!  Text FAMILY to 302-524-0800 CONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESS Follow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOY Listen to the Alessi sisters' daily devotional podcast My Morning Devotional Follow Our New Podcast with Mary Alessi and her twin sister Martha Munizzi Watch The Mary and Martha Show

    48 min
  6. FEB 25

    Do Opposites Still Attract? How Celebrating Your Differences Makes Your Marriage Stronger

    Can the things that attracted you to your spouse when you were dating become annoyances when you're married?  Perhaps, but if you make the effort, your differences can become the glue that keeps your marriage strong - even when those differences are like night and day.  In this episode, recorded just before their 5th wedding anniversary, Chris and Richelle Alessi dive deep into the myth and reality of “opposites attract” in marriage, sharing candid stories from their own journey.  From awkward first encounters and hilarious miscommunications to learning how to process conflicts and celebrate opposing personality traits, they reveal how their differences have shaped their relationship—and sometimes challenged it. You'll learn practical tips on effective marriage communication, building trust as a couple, and using personality differences as strengths rather than sources of division.  Chris and Richelle open up about: Navigating literal vs. general communication stylesDealing with conflict when one spouse needs time to processHow family and sibling dynamics affect early dating and marriage decisionsLearning to trust and support each other’s strengthsUsing differences to enrich the family, especially when raising kidsWhy personality and communication habits change across seasons of marriageIf you want to strengthen your marriage, build mutual respect, and find fun in the unique ways you and your spouse are wired, this episode is for you! Support the show JOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTER Sign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family!  Get free access to the newsletter TEXT THE FAMILY BUSINESS DIRECTLY You can connect with us via text to ask family questions and get updates on The Family Business!  Text FAMILY to 302-524-0800 CONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESS Follow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOY Listen to the Alessi sisters' daily devotional podcast My Morning Devotional Follow Our New Podcast with Mary Alessi and her twin sister Martha Munizzi Watch The Mary and Martha Show

    49 min
  7. FEB 18

    SHE Said: What Wives Wish Their Husbands Understood About Them

    The men had their turn - now the ladies respond.  Mary Alessi and her daughters Stephanie Alessi Muiña, Gaby Alessi Calatayud, and daughter-in-law Richelle Alessi dive into the heart of what women really want men to know. Hint: it’s not about solving every problem, but being heard, valued, and understood.  You'll hear candid laughs about double standards, quiet moments that actually mean something, and learn why one small effort (think surprise ice cream or a morning coffee) can transform a wife's day. With real-life stories on teamwork, compromise, respect, and the power of feeling safe, these wives break down how deep connection often comes from small, intentional acts—not perfection. Tune in as they spill behind-the-scenes secrets that could help both husbands and wives crack the code on communication, affection, and building a home where everyone feels truly seen. REMINDER: Make sure you hear the men's "What He Said" episode so you get both sides of this conversation!  Tap HERE to hear the men's episode Support the show JOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTER Sign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family!  Get free access to the newsletter TEXT THE FAMILY BUSINESS DIRECTLY You can connect with us via text to ask family questions and get updates on The Family Business!  Text FAMILY to 302-524-0800 CONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESS Follow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOY Listen to the Alessi sisters' daily devotional podcast My Morning Devotional Follow Our New Podcast with Mary Alessi and her twin sister Martha Munizzi Watch The Mary and Martha Show

    57 min
  8. FEB 11

    HE Said: 10 Things Men Wish Their Wives Understood

    Ever wondered what husbands REALLY think about their wives?  Get inside the minds of the men of the Family Business as they candidly unpack what’s going on beneath the surface in their relationships, from why men sometimes go quiet, to what makes them feel truly respected and appreciated. You'll discover how encouragement, shared decision-making, and even small acts of physical affection can have a huge impact on marriage. Steve Alessi, along with his son Chris and sons-in-law Chris Muina and Christian Calatayud, share relatable stories about the pressure to provide and protect, the importance of harmony at home, and how each guy navigates conflict and communicates pride in their spouse. With moments of humor and honest vulnerability, the conversation offers practical wisdom for anyone looking to build stronger relationships. Plus, there’s a twist—the wives will get their chance to respond, promising even more insight to come. Support the show JOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTER Sign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family!  Get free access to the newsletter TEXT THE FAMILY BUSINESS DIRECTLY You can connect with us via text to ask family questions and get updates on The Family Business!  Text FAMILY to 302-524-0800 CONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESS Follow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOY Listen to the Alessi sisters' daily devotional podcast My Morning Devotional Follow Our New Podcast with Mary Alessi and her twin sister Martha Munizzi Watch The Mary and Martha Show

    52 min

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Find out why family is EVERYBODY'S business! The Alessis are a rapidly growing family of pastors who all work on the same church staff - and they face the same problems found in any family business.   You’ll hear powerful conversations showing you how to build a happy marriage, a healthy family and a multi-generational legacy founded on Biblical principles. Now with over 200 episodes, we invite you to join our Podience and learn why family is everybody’s business. For more information on our Christian family and marriage podcast, our ministry and how we help build strong Christian families, check out https://alessifamilybusiness.com.

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