The Family Business with The Alessis: A Christian Parenting and Marriage Podcast

Steve and Mary Alessi | Pastors | Christian Parenting and Marriage Mentors
  • 4.8 (143)
  • Christianity
  • Updated Weekly

Find out why family is EVERYBODY'S business! The Alessis are a rapidly growing family of pastors who all work on the same church staff - and they face the same problems found in any family business.   You’ll hear powerful conversations showing you how to build a happy marriage, a healthy family and a multi-generational legacy founded on Biblical principles. Now with over 200 episodes, thousands of downloads and over a million YouTube views, we invite you to join our Podience and learn why family is everybody’s business. For more information on our Christian family and marriage podcast, our ministry and how we help build strong Christian families, check out https://alessifamilybusiness.com.

  1. What No One Tells Newlyweds About Managing Their Money

    2d ago

    What No One Tells Newlyweds About Managing Their Money

    What happens when a young couple has to shift from talking about dream dates, honeymoons and wedding bells, to discussing bills and bank accounts?  In this transparent and real-life talk, Gaby Alessi Calatayud and her husband Christian share their experience of learning to manage their finances together—without losing their unity or peace of mind. They share why they are doing their best to learn wise strategies from the beginning - from balancing individual spending habits and setting up budgets to tackling debt and resisting the pressure to “look rich” on social media. You’ll hear honest reflections on learning to merge money personalities, create open communication about spending, and keep generosity and teamwork at the core - no matter how long (or shortly) you've been married.  With actionable advice and plenty of relatable moments, discover how putting trust, grace, and shared goals above the numbers on your bank account can transform how you handle money—and your marriage. If you enjoyed this episode, here's another great TFB episode on managing money and family!  Money Matters S4 E10 Support the show JOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTER Sign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family!  Get free access to the newsletter TEXT THE FAMILY BUSINESS DIRECTLY You can connect with us via text to ask family questions and get updates on The Family Business!  Text FAMILY to 302-524-0800 CONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESS Follow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOY Listen to the Alessi sisters' daily devotional podcast My Morning Devotional Follow Our New Podcast with Mary Alessi and her twin sister Martha Munizzi Watch The Mary and Martha Show

    45 min
  2. Is Your Child Rebelling? How to Recognize It and Respond The Right Way

    Jun 3

    Is Your Child Rebelling? How to Recognize It and Respond The Right Way

    Are your kids talking back to you? Ignoring your directions? Giving you attitude?  Every child has a way of making their parents feel rejected and disrespected. But how do you know when it's getting out of hand? What are the signs that a child's behavior is crossing the line from misbehavior to a total rejection of your parental authority? In this episode, Steve and Mary Alessi unpack what rebellion really looks like in kids and teens. You'll hear candid stories from their own parenting journey, as they share why every child has a seed of rebellion that must be handled early, with wisdom and love—not fear or anger.  You’ll see how bad behavior often hides deeper issues, from sibling jealousy to struggles with identity, and hear practical strategies for setting loving boundaries that restore, not just punish. Steve and Mary get honest about tattoos, piercings, and cultural pressures, challenging you to look past appearances and connect with what’s happening in your child’s heart. Get ready to rethink discipline, communication, and why being proactive today sets your family up for a healthier tomorrow. Support the show JOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTER Sign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family!  Get free access to the newsletter TEXT THE FAMILY BUSINESS DIRECTLY You can connect with us via text to ask family questions and get updates on The Family Business!  Text FAMILY to 302-524-0800 CONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESS Follow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOY Listen to the Alessi sisters' daily devotional podcast My Morning Devotional Follow Our New Podcast with Mary Alessi and her twin sister Martha Munizzi Watch The Mary and Martha Show

    49 min
  3. Mothers and Sons: How To Keep Your Relationship Healthy Even as Roles Change (Top Episode)

    May 27

    Mothers and Sons: How To Keep Your Relationship Healthy Even as Roles Change (Top Episode)

    Can moms love their sons too much?  No mother wants to hinder their son from becoming a man, but the mother-son dynamic can create major headaches for the entire family if not handled properly.  In this flashback episode from Season 6, we delve into the intricate dynamics of the mother-son relationship and the valuable roles both parents fill in their young man's life.  From discussing the differences in parental roles to highlighting the importance of respect and clear communication, Steve and Mary Alessi sit down with their son Chris to offer insightful perspectives on family relationships and the impactful roles of mothers and fathers in shaping a son's development.  Support the show JOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTER Sign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family!  Get free access to the newsletter TEXT THE FAMILY BUSINESS DIRECTLY You can connect with us via text to ask family questions and get updates on The Family Business!  Text FAMILY to 302-524-0800 CONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESS Follow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOY Listen to the Alessi sisters' daily devotional podcast My Morning Devotional Follow Our New Podcast with Mary Alessi and her twin sister Martha Munizzi Watch The Mary and Martha Show

    36 min
  4. HELP, My Kid Won't Behave! How to Discipline Your Children With Less Stress

    May 20

    HELP, My Kid Won't Behave! How to Discipline Your Children With Less Stress

    Are you at your wit's end with a child who just won't listen? Does it mean that you're a bad parent - or are disobedience and emotional meltdowns just a natural part of a child's development?  In this episode, Stephanie Alessi Muina and her husband Chris sit down with their mom, Mary Alessi,  to get some advice and help on the chaotic journey of raising young kids—giving you valuable strategies to use when when your child is pushing the limits and rejecting your authority.  We'll discuss why age-appropriate behavior isn’t the same as permissive parenting, and how proactive, loving discipline builds character (for both kids and parents). You’ll hear practical wisdom on balancing different parenting styles, avoiding the trap of passive parenting, and the importance of showing kids grace—while never shying away from holding the line.  This episode will encourage you to stay committed to your family's values, and raise kids that will thank you for giving them healthy and strong boundaries!  Support the show JOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTER Sign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family!  Get free access to the newsletter TEXT THE FAMILY BUSINESS DIRECTLY You can connect with us via text to ask family questions and get updates on The Family Business!  Text FAMILY to 302-524-0800 CONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESS Follow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOY Listen to the Alessi sisters' daily devotional podcast My Morning Devotional Follow Our New Podcast with Mary Alessi and her twin sister Martha Munizzi Watch The Mary and Martha Show

    51 min
  5. Wife vs. Mother vs. Daughter: The Difficult Balancing Act Every Man Must Manage

    May 13

    Wife vs. Mother vs. Daughter: The Difficult Balancing Act Every Man Must Manage

    Who really comes first in a man’s life—his wife, his mother, or his daughter? Step into the heart of family life with Steve and Mary Alessi as they pull back the curtain on the “priority puzzle” every husband and father faces. They share honest, sometimes emotional reflections on balancing love and loyalty between these key women, drawing from personal stories of raising daughters, caring for aging parents, and watching children marry. You’ll hear why putting your spouse first isn’t just biblical or psychological wisdom—it’s the glue that holds everything together, setting the tone for peace and security at home. The Alessis discuss common pitfalls, like letting guilt or ego steer your decisions, and offer practical tips for resetting family order in a way that honors everyone. Find out how clarity in family roles can bring freedom, unity, and lasting joy to everyone under your roof. Support the show JOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTER Sign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family!  Get free access to the newsletter TEXT THE FAMILY BUSINESS DIRECTLY You can connect with us via text to ask family questions and get updates on The Family Business!  Text FAMILY to 302-524-0800 CONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESS Follow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOY Listen to the Alessi sisters' daily devotional podcast My Morning Devotional Follow Our New Podcast with Mary Alessi and her twin sister Martha Munizzi Watch The Mary and Martha Show

    45 min
  6. Pressure Or Purity? How to Help Girls Develop a Healthy Self-Image

    May 6

    Pressure Or Purity? How to Help Girls Develop a Healthy Self-Image

    How can today's young women handle the pressure to conform to the world's standards of beauty and self-worth? In this episode, sisters Gaby and Stephanie dive deep into how Instagram, TikTok, and influencer culture impact confidence, modesty, and purity—especially for girls and young women. You'll discover why the pursuit of "being pretty” can lead to insecurity, how social media poses and trends influence even the youngest girls, and why real-life character, kindness, and confidence matter more than online perfection.  These two sisters get real about their personal battles with body image, comparison, and the lure of online validation, offering actionable advice for building self-esteem and authentic relationships. Whether you're a mom, daughter, or mentor, this conversation arms you with tools to set boundaries, foster confidence, and help the next generation find their value in their character and personality —not in their online image. If you want practical guidance on parenting through the pressures of social media, or encouragement for your own journey to true confidence, this episode is for you. Support the show JOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTER Sign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family!  Get free access to the newsletter TEXT THE FAMILY BUSINESS DIRECTLY You can connect with us via text to ask family questions and get updates on The Family Business!  Text FAMILY to 302-524-0800 CONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESS Follow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOY Listen to the Alessi sisters' daily devotional podcast My Morning Devotional Follow Our New Podcast with Mary Alessi and her twin sister Martha Munizzi Watch The Mary and Martha Show

    45 min
  7. How to Handle a Waiting Season (Flashback Episode)

    Apr 29

    How to Handle a Waiting Season (Flashback Episode)

    Ever feel stuck in life’s waiting room, wondering when your "next" will finally arrive? In this flashback to Season 3, Lauren Alessi and Mary Alessi dive into real talk about the messy, in-between seasons—whether you’re waiting for a new relationship, career move, or just something to change. Drawing from their own journeys, they break down why it’s normal to feel agitated in these pauses—and how it can actually mean you’re gearing up for growth. The fun fact behind this flashback?  Lauren is now officially done with her single season! Lauren married the love of her life, Daniel Burgos, in April 2026, and soon she'll tell you what it's like on the OTHER side of this waiting season.  With laughter, transparency, and some tear-jerking moments, this conversation challenges you to embrace the season you’re in—and take real ownership of your attitude along the way. Support the show JOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTER Sign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family!  Get free access to the newsletter TEXT THE FAMILY BUSINESS DIRECTLY You can connect with us via text to ask family questions and get updates on The Family Business!  Text FAMILY to 302-524-0800 CONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESS Follow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOY Listen to the Alessi sisters' daily devotional podcast My Morning Devotional Follow Our New Podcast with Mary Alessi and her twin sister Martha Munizzi Watch The Mary and Martha Show

    29 min
  8. Twins, Pastors, Partners in Crime? Mary & Martha Share Unforgettable Stories (Mary & Martha Show)

    Apr 22

    Twins, Pastors, Partners in Crime? Mary & Martha Share Unforgettable Stories (Mary & Martha Show)

    What's it REALLY like to grow up with an identical twin?  In today’s special cross-over episode, we have some exciting news: our podcast family is growing, and you are getting a first look!  Not only has the Alessi family now branched into three different podcasts — including the lively “The Mary and Martha Show” with Mary Alessi and her twin sister, Martha Munizzi—but this episode features a sneak peek at one of their favorite twin-themed conversations. You'll hear Mary and Martha as they hilariously recount childhood adventures, the reality of growing up as identical twins, and how their unique bond shaped their lives. From switching places at school and testing the limits of high school mischief, to reflecting on their journey in ministry and friendship, this episode is packed with nostalgic stories, laughter, and a fresh perspective on faith, family, and finding your own path. Want to hear more from The Mary and Martha Show?  Pick your favorite app and subscribe here!  YouTube Apple Podcasts Spotify  Other Apps Support the show JOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTER Sign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family!  Get free access to the newsletter TEXT THE FAMILY BUSINESS DIRECTLY You can connect with us via text to ask family questions and get updates on The Family Business!  Text FAMILY to 302-524-0800 CONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESS Follow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOY Listen to the Alessi sisters' daily devotional podcast My Morning Devotional Follow Our New Podcast with Mary Alessi and her twin sister Martha Munizzi Watch The Mary and Martha Show

    35 min
See All (246)

Trailer

4.8
out of 5
143 Ratings

About

Find out why family is EVERYBODY'S business! The Alessis are a rapidly growing family of pastors who all work on the same church staff - and they face the same problems found in any family business.   You’ll hear powerful conversations showing you how to build a happy marriage, a healthy family and a multi-generational legacy founded on Biblical principles. Now with over 200 episodes, thousands of downloads and over a million YouTube views, we invite you to join our Podience and learn why family is everybody’s business. For more information on our Christian family and marriage podcast, our ministry and how we help build strong Christian families, check out https://alessifamilybusiness.com.

Information

You Might Also Like