These Things Happen

Alexis Proctor

Alexis Proctor was a sheltered church kid growing up. Like most teenagers, she wanted to explore and date but didn't get to do so until her early 20's. Because Alexis grew up so naive to the world, she had to learn the way men operate on her own as well as typical adulting. From her first time being ghosted, to having sugar daddies, and even losing her mother, listen in as this 27 year old shares groundbreaking insight on her sexual experiences on life and learns a thing or two; or not.

  1. 07/28/2025

    ADRIAN VS. EVERYBODY

    In this episode we welcome back Adrian, who returns from his brief hiatus with a fresh perspective and ready to stir the pot! This week, we dive deep into thought-provoking topics that are sure to raise some eyebrows and get your blood pumping.  We tackle the intriguing question of why men often aim higher than women in various aspects of life. Should the man always be the provider, or is that an outdated notion? Plus, we explore the complexities of female friendships, discussing why sometimes they can be more hurtful than helpful.  With Adrian's bold opinions and our lively discussions, you won't want to miss this episode packed with insights and honest conversations. Tune in and let's get into it!

    39 min

  2. 07/09/2025

    Lex, Interrupted

    In this insightful episode, we dive into the complexities of growing up without romantic attention and the transformative journey into adulthood, where such attention becomes a reality. Join us as I share my personal experiences of feeling invisible in the realm of romance and how that shaped my views on relationships. I'm joined by Nile, who offers valuable insights on how to navigate the often uncomfortable conversations that arise in partnerships. Together, we explore practical strategies for broaching sensitive topics with your partner, fostering open communication, and building a deeper connection. Whether you're someone who has struggled with romantic attention or simply looking to improve your relationship communication, this episode is packed with relatable stories and actionable advice. Tune in for a heartfelt discussion that encourages vulnerability and growth in love!

    30 min

  3. 06/17/2025

    IT'S AN EXCITING TIME TO BE A HAUX

    Welcome back to a brand new season of These Things Happen! In this exciting premiere episode, we dive deep into the transformative journey since I lost my virginity and explore why I believe it's an exhilarating time to embrace our inner "hoe." Join me and my co-host Nile as we share candid stories about the guys I've dated and hooked up with during our break. From hilarious mishaps to empowering moments, we discuss the lessons learned and the liberating experiences that come with owning our sexuality. Whether you're here for the laughs or the real talk, this episode is packed with insights, fun anecdotes, and plenty of sass! Tune in and let's celebrate the freedom of being true to ourselves.

    32 min

  4. 03/25/2024

    WHY MEN LACK EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

    In this episode I sit down with my friend Seve and he does a deep dive on how men think and why most of them lack originality and emotional intelligence when pursuing women. These Things Happen @alexisnicholeproctor @thesethingshappen

    48 min

  5. 03/11/2024

    DO IT FOR THE PLOT

    We're back baby! In this episode I explore my sexuality with two of my gay best friends. They share some of their sexual experiences and shed some light on the LGBTQ community. From shooting your shot to getting bent over at a frat house, this is an episode you don't want to miss out on. Welcome Back. @thesethingshappenpodcast @alexisnicholeproctor

    56 min

  6. 01/23/2024

    WHAT I DID AFTER A BREAKUP w Tye

    This week I interviewed my friend Tye, we talked about how he learned how to be himself again after being in a relationship for almost a decade. These Things Happen @alexisnicholeproctor @tyecurlytopfade

    55 min

  7. 01/17/2024

    THE STALLION COMPLEX & PENIS PREFERENCES [VIDEO]

    In this week's episode I sit and talk with my two friends Paige and Biby and discus what it's like dating and hooking up as a taller women. These Things Happen @alexisnicholeproctor

    34 min

  8. 01/09/2024

    NEW YEAR, NEW THINGS

    In this week's episode Nile and I talk about some resolutions and reflect on how much I've grown since last year. These Things Happen. @alexisnicholeproctor @nilestyle

    26 min
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Alexis Proctor was a sheltered church kid growing up. Like most teenagers, she wanted to explore and date but didn't get to do so until her early 20's. Because Alexis grew up so naive to the world, she had to learn the way men operate on her own as well as typical adulting. From her first time being ghosted, to having sugar daddies, and even losing her mother, listen in as this 27 year old shares groundbreaking insight on her sexual experiences on life and learns a thing or two; or not.

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  • Creator
    Alexis Proctor
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2025
  • Episodes
    57
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Alexis Proctor
  • Show Website
    These Things Happen