Adia’s way

Diamond Deshazer

You live and you learn, you feel, you react, and your spirit guides you through. Life is about mistakes, loving, and giving someone their flowers while they’re here. I speak what I feel, see, or may have been through. So hopefully my experiences, and my voice could help and encourage others to be great even when you feel useless. We as individuals tend to allow things we can’t control, to control us. But once our minds and bodies are on the same accord the world is no longer powerful over us, it’s powerless.

Episodes

  1. 01/06/2023

    Do you Have control? Or does control have control over You?

    Ask yourself how Long have control, controlled you? Twisted you, turned you, making you fit into areas, environments, places, or things that served you no purpose. Now as you’re sitting there you’re doing things because that’s what you’re “used to”. You’re saying things because that’s what you’re “used to”. You’re being a certain way, because that’s what you’re “used to”. But have you ever tried to go outside of your box? Beat that inner child out of you, look at you, face you, control you, and figure out your trauma to not have it control the you now. Allow yourself to not always be negative or think negative, and try to think positive, it feels weird doesn’t it? When you’re not used to walking into certain shoes, the shoe is tight in the beginning, so you try them on again the next day, so that you can warm up, and get comfortable, vs constantly put wear and tear on your old shoes, try putting on new ones. Try having control, vs going in the motions of what’s popular, normal, cute, trending, or what we call what runs in the family, or through generations. Don’t let old habits take control, break it! Break cycles, and fill you up! take your car back, or your feet back! Walk! And press go on that gas because you have full control now, and if you don’t have control, hopefully after this episode it will have you not only asking yourself questions, but if you have any questions for me on how I “learned, and practice having control, then feel free”!

  2. 01/29/2022

    What are you addicted to that’s addicted to you that’s beneficial? Or harmful ?

    If you never get lost, you’ll never find a new route. There are different forms of addiction. Whether you’re addicted to Crack, cocaine, heroin, meth, alcohol, marijuana, sex, pills, depression, happiness, stress, pain, neglect, success, positivity, negativity. Whatever you are addicted to, do you understand why or how you’re addicted? Too often we judge those that’s addicted to drugs, or an drug addict. But just because you’re not on that particular hard core drug doesn’t mean you’re getting high an less than the addict, you’re an addict also, you’re drug is just different. Stop chasing the addiction, thinking that it will not get you high. Anything you chase will either make you lower to hinder you, or make you higher to uplift you. But the highs and lows have their differences, and similarities. Lower yourself low enough to understand the lows, but appreciate the lows to gravitate your appreciation of the highs that will get higher to allow you to float properly. You are human, not a robot. Everything in life doesn’t always go as planned, but if you plan enough to know how you will imagine your life, you will not chase the addiction of the old, you will chase the addiction of the new, that will better you. But learn how you can get out of the habits that created the demon you, that allowed you to be the angel you, with the working progress of you understanding the factors of not being perfect, but appreciating the perfect moments that could be worse. Good! Better! Best! Never let it rest! Turn the good to the better! And your better into the best! I am good! I walk with good! And I talk with good! And I am good! Understand that the addictions will and cannot win. But if you are addicted to the winning mindset, and the positive side of addiction. Then now you have mastered the other side of you that is using the addiction to its maximum potential. Your past life doesn’t determine your future. Appreciating the now, understanding the now, and understanding your trials to the periods of your life now was already in court waiting for you to sentence your abilities to the cell that you will lock up and release when you’re ready for the world to see the sunlight in you.

About

You live and you learn, you feel, you react, and your spirit guides you through. Life is about mistakes, loving, and giving someone their flowers while they’re here. I speak what I feel, see, or may have been through. So hopefully my experiences, and my voice could help and encourage others to be great even when you feel useless. We as individuals tend to allow things we can’t control, to control us. But once our minds and bodies are on the same accord the world is no longer powerful over us, it’s powerless.