UN•THERAPY

UN•THERAPY Podcast

Life by itself is difficult enough. Imagine having to go through it without someone to talk to & share your most inner thoughts with. Here at UN•THERAPY, we understand that although we aren't professional therapists, sometimes just talking it out with friends makes life a lot easier. Join us in our weekly UN•THERAPY THURSDAY sessions as we analyze + discuss life, love, happiness & how we can help each other mature into the best versions of ourselves. Connect with UN•THERAPY Podcast Instagram: @UntherapyPodcast Facebook: UN•THERAPY Podcast ✨ UN•THERAPY PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY ✨

  1. May 27

    EVERY MOMENT TEACHES (Feat. Eu'nice McCoy)

    Hey UN•THERAPIST, We need your help UN•THERAPIZING something…Have we started attaching ourselves to second-hand trauma? Not trauma we've personally lived through, but trauma we’ve inherited through stories, social media, conversations, and experiences shared by others.And when people share traumatic experiences, are we extracting the trauma from it or the principles that came from surviving it?Because there’s a difference between learning from pain, and building your identity around pain you never actually experienced.Then we revisited another conversation we’ve had before about Black businesses and discounts. 👇🏾📌 Why does asking for a discount at BJ’s, Costco, or major retailers feel normal, but somehow becomes offensive when it’s a Black business?📌 Is it because it’s a small business?📌 Is it because it’s Black-owned?📌 Or are we applying different principles depending on who’s selling?📌 And if support is important, where does fairness fit into the conversation?On one side, people are saying, “support Black businesses.”On the other side, customers are saying, “If there’s a deal, why can’t I ask?” Join us for another session of UN•THERAPY as we UN•THERAPIZE secondhand trauma, extracting principles vs pain, support within Black business culture, and the unspoken rules surrounding discounts and community economics.  🔗 Connect with UN•THERAPY PodcastInstagram: ⁠⁠@UntherapyPodcast⁠⁠Facebook: ⁠⁠UN•THERAPY Podcast ⁠YouTube: UN•THERAPY  PodcastUN•THERAPY Facebook Group: 🎉 UN•THERA•PARTY (Official UN•THERAPY Podcast Group) 🔗 Connect with Eu'nice McCoySubstack: Every Moment Teaches

    1h 14m
  2. May 14

    ARE YOU REPPING BLACK CULTURE OR EXPLOITING IT? (Feat. Uncle Smiley The DJ)

    Hey UN•THERAPIST, We need your help UN•THERAPIZING something, in your opinion, where’s the line between representation and exploitation? We had a conversation surrounding the cartoon "Hey AJ" and one of the characters, Captain Durag, a superhero who wears a durag and flies around helping people. Now, for some people, it was funny. Nostalgic even. But for others, it was offensive. And what made the conversation even more interesting was that some of the same people who are upset about the character actively wear durags and bonnets themselves. Once people found out the show's creator was Black, some of the outrage softened. So now we had even more questions 👇🏾 📌 Was the issue really the representation itself? 📌 Was the discomfort connected to who was representing it? 📌 When does showing culture become exploiting culture? Because sometimes we say we want representation, until the mirror reflects something we don’t want amplified. So now we’re asking 👇🏾 📌 Are we upset because it’s inaccurate? 📌 Because it feels stereotypical? 📌 Or because it feels too familiar? 📌 And does intent matter depending on who created it? 📌 At what point does cultural expression become cultural exploitation, and who gets to decide where that line is? Join us for another session of UN•THERAPY as we UN•THERAPIZE representation vs exploitation, cultural sensitivity, identity in media, and why some reflections make us proud… while others make us uncomfortable.  🔗 Connect with UN•THERAPY PodcastInstagram: ⁠⁠@UntherapyPodcast⁠⁠Facebook: ⁠⁠UN•THERAPY Podcast ⁠YouTube: UN•THERAPY  PodcastUN•THERAPY Facebook Group: 🎉 UN•THERA•PARTY (Official UN•THERAPY Podcast Group) 🔗 Connect with Uncle Smiley the DJInstagram: ⁠ @UncleSmileyTheDJTikTok: @UncleSmileyTheDJFacebook: @UncleSmileyTheDJYouTube: @UncleSmileyTheDJYouTube Music: @UncleSmileyTheDJApple Music: @UncleSmileyTheDJSoundCloud: @UncleSmileyTheDJSpotify: @UncleSmileyTheDJWedding Wire: @UncleSmileyTheDJThe Knot: @UncleSmileyTheDJPersonal Website: UncleSmileyTheDJ.com

    59 min
  3. May 7

    SAFE SPACE OR JUST A "SPACE" WITHOUT ACCOUNTABILITY? (Feat. Uncle Smiley The DJ)

    Hey UN•THERAPIST, We need your help UN•THERAPIZING something… Quick question: How many sneezes does somebody get before you stop saying “bless you” and start looking at them differently? Like, after a certain number, are you checking on them or slowly creating distance? That conversation somehow led us into something deeper… 📌 What does the term “safe space” actually mean to you? 📌 Is a safe space a place where you can fully be yourself? 📌 Is it a person you trust? 📌 Is it a mindset? 📌 Or is it simply somewhere you can speak without fear of being judged? And here’s where the conversation got interesting 👇🏾 Does a safe space remove accountability? Or should accountability still exist inside of it? Because some people want honesty, others want people to listen to them, others want correction, and others want comfort. So now the question becomes… 📌 If someone challenges you in your safe space, is it still safe? 📌 Can accountability and safety coexist? 📌 Or do we only call it “safe” when nobody pushes back? And maybe the bigger question is… Are you looking for healing or agreement? Join us for another session of UN•THERAPY as we UN•THERAPIZE the meaning of safe spaces, accountability vs comfort, trust in communication, and how many sneezes it takes before concern turns into evacuation.  🔗 Connect with UN•THERAPY Podcast Instagram: ⁠⁠@UntherapyPodcast⁠⁠ Facebook: ⁠⁠UN•THERAPY Podcast ⁠ YouTube: UN•THERAPY  Podcast UN•THERAPY Facebook Group: 🎉 UN•THERA•PARTY (Official UN•THERAPY Podcast Group) 🔗 Connect with Uncle Smiley the DJ Instagram: ⁠ @UncleSmileyTheDJ TikTok: @UncleSmileyTheDJ Facebook: @UncleSmileyTheDJ YouTube: @UncleSmileyTheDJ YouTube Music: @UncleSmileyTheDJ Apple Music: @UncleSmileyTheDJ SoundCloud: @UncleSmileyTheDJ Spotify: @UncleSmileyTheDJ Wedding Wire: @UncleSmileyTheDJ The Knot: @UncleSmileyTheDJ Personal Website: UncleSmileyTheDJ.com

    1h 13m
  4. Apr 23

    HOW FAR WILL YOUR CIRCLE CARRY YOU!?

    Hey UN•THERAPIST,We need your help UN•THERAPIZING something…How important is your circle really?There’s a story in the Bible about a man who needed healing, but the room was too crowded to get him to Jesus. So his friends did something different. They climbed to the roof, opened it up, and lowered their friend down until he reached the place where healing could happen.Now pause there. Those friends took it upon themselves to help someone else achieve a transformation.So the question became:📌 How far are you willing to go for the people you love?📌 Do you help until it gets inconvenient?📌 Do you support until you stop seeing progress?📌 Do you stay committed when they lose motivation?📌 Or is there a point where you say, “I’ve done enough?"Then we talked about hope.At a conference, a speaker said many people don’t have hope. And if faith is the substance of things hoped for,  then without hope, one of the key ingredients of faith is already missing.So now another question rises: 📌 If one of your people seems hopeless, can you help reignite that spark?📌 Can your belief carry them until they can believe again?Because sometimes healing doesn’t start with a miracle, it starts with the right people carrying you until you’re strong enough to walk yourself.Join us for another session of UN•THERAPY as we UN•THERAPIZE the power of your circle, the limits of support, restoring hope in hopeless places, and how far real friends are willing to go for your transformation.  Connect with UN•THERAPY PodcastInstagram: ⁠⁠@UntherapyPodcast⁠⁠Facebook: ⁠⁠UN•THERAPY Podcast ⁠YouTube: UN•THERAPY  PodcastUN•THERAPY Facebook Group: 🎉 UN•THERA•PARTY (Official UN•THERAPY Podcast Group)

    1h 8m
  5. Apr 16

    IS YOUR CUP EMPTY, OR ARE YOU JUST TIRED OF POURING?

    Hey UN•THERAPIST, We need your help UN•THERAPIZING something… What does it really mean to pour from an empty cup? We hear it all the time, “I’m drained.” But if you’re empty in some areas and still full in others, is your cup really empty? Or are you just tired of pouring into the same people, the same conversations, the same situations? So now we have to ask: 📌 Is your cup empty, or is your patience? 📌 Are there people you avoid because they drain more than they deposit? 📌 Are there conversations you no longer want to have because they exhaust you instead of energize you? And here’s another layer: 📌 Who determines the cup is empty? 📌 The person pouring, or the person being poured into? Because sometimes the person receiving still expects more, while the person giving feels like they’ve already given everything. And we can’t skip this part: 📌 Have you said anything? 📌 Have you communicated that it’s draining you, or just created distance without explanation? 📌 Because if they don’t know, can they adjust? So maybe it’s not always an empty cup, maybe it’s unspoken boundaries, and selective pouring. Join us for another session of UN•THERAPY as we UN•THERAPIZE empty cups vs selective pouring, emotional boundaries, draining relationships, and who really decides when you have nothing left to give.  Connect with UN•THERAPY PodcastInstagram: ⁠⁠@UntherapyPodcast⁠⁠Facebook: ⁠⁠UN•THERAPY Podcast ⁠YouTube: UN•THERAPY  PodcastUN•THERAPY Facebook Group: 🎉 UN•THERA•PARTY (Official UN•THERAPY Podcast Group)

    1h 3m
  6. Apr 9

    FRUGAL? IS IT CHEAP? OR IS IT DISCIPLINE?

    Hey UN•THERAPIST, We need your help UN•THERAPIZING something… Is being cheap the same as being frugal? We sparked this from a conversation where it was said, "If a man is using coupons, looking for deals, or trying to save money, that’s not attractive." But let’s pause. 📌 If you can save money, why wouldn’t you? 📌 Are we ignoring discounts to look like we got it? Coach said it plain: "When his wife saves him money, that’s a turn on." So now the real question is… 📌 Are we mislabeling discipline as cheap? Because there’s a difference between not having and knowing how to manage what you do have. Then we shifted gears: BABY SHOWERS.  📌 At what point did they turn into full-on adult game nights? Musical chairs, winner takes all, some of these games feel less like a celebration and more like a competition. So, who are baby showers really for? The baby OR the adults? And one more thing... 📌 How is it that someone can call you “the problem” but years later, they’re still in the same place? 📌 Was it really you or a mindset that never changed? Join us for another session of UN•THERAPY as we UN•THERAPIZE cheap vs. frugal, discipline vs. perception, baby shower culture, and accountability vs. repeated patterns.  Connect with UN•THERAPY Podcast Instagram: ⁠⁠@UntherapyPodcast⁠⁠ Facebook: ⁠⁠UN•THERAPY Podcast ⁠ YouTube: UN•THERAPY  Podcast UN•THERAPY Facebook Group: 🎉 UN•THERA•PARTY (Official UN•THERAPY Podcast Group)

    1h 2m

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Life by itself is difficult enough. Imagine having to go through it without someone to talk to & share your most inner thoughts with. Here at UN•THERAPY, we understand that although we aren't professional therapists, sometimes just talking it out with friends makes life a lot easier. Join us in our weekly UN•THERAPY THURSDAY sessions as we analyze + discuss life, love, happiness & how we can help each other mature into the best versions of ourselves. Connect with UN•THERAPY Podcast Instagram: @UntherapyPodcast Facebook: UN•THERAPY Podcast ✨ UN•THERAPY PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY ✨