Limitless Leadership Lounge

StoryTrust Media

A tri-generational conversation for emerging leaders.

  1. Sep 2

    What Gossip, Parenthood, and Interpersonal Science Teach Us About Leading Better

    What if the leadership skills you use every day at work are the exact same skills you need at home, and vice versa? This week, Jon Goehring and Coach Jim Johnson welcome Dr. Amanda Allard, PhD in Interpersonal Communication and founder of Allard Advising, for one of the most refreshingly original and practically useful conversations the Lounge has ever had on communication, leadership, and what it actually takes to thrive in both worlds at once. Dr. Amanda opens with a story that reframes everything that follows. Her mother's incarceration when she was nine years old. A college scholarship that disappeared a month before graduation. A university that shut down. And a journey that took her from wondering if she could ever afford college to earning a doctorate from Michigan State. She shares that path not for sympathy but because it is the foundation of everything she now teaches about resilience, adaptability, and finding your voice when life does not go as planned. The conversation digs into Dr. Amanda's Voice to Power framework, a four part model built around the insight that a great leader is 80 percent a great communicator, and that communication does not stop at the office door. She explains how the same skills that help you navigate a difficult team policy change, including the bandwagon effect and leading people to the solution rather than telling them the answer, are the exact same skills that help you influence your mother in law, negotiate with your toddler, and maintain your marriage through the turbulence of new parenthood. Jon and Coach draw out some of the sharpest moments of the episode when Dr. Amanda unpacks her dissertation research on gossip, which she argues is not just a negative behavior but a fundamental communication tool that humans have used to build relationships and civilizations. She explains the difference between positive and negative gossip, why men and women gossip equally but about different things, and why the real leadership mistake is not that your team gossips but that you are probably gossiping positively about your best people to everyone except the people themselves. The episode also covers active listening as a trained skill rather than a passive one, how to build genuine relationships in fully remote teams, the three parenting styles every leader should understand and why authoritative beats authoritarian every time, and why becoming a parent actually makes most leaders significantly better at time management and intentionality. Whether you are a working mom trying to find your voice in both worlds, a leader who wants to communicate with more influence and less friction, or simply someone who has never thought about what your communication style is actually doing to the culture around you, this episode will give you new language and new tools for every conversation you have. Connect with Dr. Amanda: allardadvising.com Find her on all major social media platforms

    What Gossip, Parenthood, and Interpersonal Science Teach Us About Leading Better
  2. Aug 20

    The Most Successful Leaders Are Also the Most Vulnerable. Here's Why.

    What if everything holding you back as a leader is actually preparing you to lead at a level you cannot yet imagine? This week, Jon Goehring and Coach Jim Johnson welcome Andre Thornton, CEO of Whitman Consulting, keynote speaker, former Lockheed Martin engineer who helped capture over a billion dollars in new business, Division One athlete at VMI in both football and track, and author of Disrupted, for one of the most thought provoking and counterintuitive leadership conversations the Lounge has ever had. Andre opens with a disarming admission: everything he is about to share, he personally wished were not true. As an engineer, he wanted leadership to be logical, diagrams and processes and measurable outcomes. What the research kept telling him instead is that the most important leadership moves are almost always the ones that feel the most unnatural in the moment. That tension between what feels right and what the science says is right is the thread that runs through this entire conversation. The conversation goes deep on vulnerability as a trust building tool, including a powerful contrast between a leader who opened up with something small and a pastor who shared something deeply personal, and what each moment did to the culture of the room. Andre explains the right kind of vulnerability, why it must come from the leader first, and why a Fortune 100 CEO who cried on company all-hands calls created more cultural cohesion than almost any initiative his company could have launched. Andre also introduces the concept at the heart of his book: fall down, grow up. Not bounce back, not get back up, but actually grow from the fall in a way that makes you better than you were before. He shares the story of a $250 million contract negotiation that hit an impasse on day eight and the counterintuitive decision his team made that got it signed on day nine, and explains why loosening control at the hardest possible moment is what great leaders actually do. Jon and Coach also draw out Andre's 1440 method, built on the reality that every person gets 1,440 minutes every day and how we spend our days is how we spend our lives, and his practical framework for moving from spending 20 percent of your time intentionally to 90 percent or more. The episode closes with Andre sharing the personal faith story behind the most important decision of his professional life, leaving an 18 year career at Lockheed Martin on the same month his son was born, and the clarity that made it possible. Whether you are navigating a fall down moment right now, trying to build more trust on your team, or simply looking for a framework to spend your 1,440 minutes with more intention, this episode will challenge you in the best possible way. Connect with Andre: https://www.andrewhitmanthornton.com/ Find him on LinkedIn, Instagram, and Facebook Grab Disrupted wherever books are sold or here: a.co/d/0hKC2lvM

    The Most Successful Leaders Are Also the Most Vulnerable. Here's Why.
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A tri-generational conversation for emerging leaders.