The Dojo SA Podcast

The DojoSA Podcast

Welcome to The Dojo, home to unfiltered conversations, raw opinions and hysterical banter. Join The Sensei and The Archbishop as they unpack Trending Topics, Hip Hop and Life in their quest for true enlightenment.

  1. MAR 1

    The Dojo S19E03 – Are Divorcees Red Flags? Corporate Landlords & Relationship Insecurity Debate

    Would you date a divorcee? The episode kicks off with a wild dating take from the train — two kids is fine, but being divorced is where the line gets drawn. Is divorce actually a red flag, or are we just projecting our own fears about commitment? Recorded on location at an Apricrest property in Bryanston, the guys also unpack the difference between sectional title ownership and corporate landlord models — from slower decision-making and levy risks, to whether single-owner rental estates actually make for better tenant experiences. Then the conversation pivots into relationships: Are women intentionally testing boundaries? Is insecurity something we bring into relationships — or something that gets unlocked once we’re in them? And why do honest conversations between men and women break down the moment insecurity enters the chat? Expect debates on dating, emotional honesty, power dynamics and the uncomfortable truths nobody wants to own. 00:00 Would you date a divorcee? 03:00 Episode intro + Uzuri Online & Standby Auto Repairs 04:00 Corporate landlords vs sectional title ownership 08:30 Non-paying tenants & levy risk explained 11:00 Body corporate rules vs single landlord control 16:40 The headache of serious relationships 17:20 Do partners create chaos when things are “too peaceful”? 19:10 Boundary-testing in relationships 20:00 Can men criticise women objectively? 22:40 Nature vs intention in conflict 24:00 Emotional honesty vs “pop psychology” excuses 25:40 Insecurity in dating dynamics 26:00 Platonic friendships & trust issues 27:30 Owning your insecurity (or refusing to)

    1h 26m
  2. FEB 17

    The Dojo S19E02 – SONA | Water Crisis | Army for crime | Breadwinner double standards & gender roles

    No Tabang this week, but the energy is still up.The guys kick off with everyday economics — refill stores, cheaper essentials, and how branding plays us. From there it turns into real adult talk: parenting struggles, phonics vs memorisation, and the frustration of helping your kid with maths homework when the methods don’t even make sense anymore.Then it gets political. SONA promises, water task teams, billion-rand budgets, and leaders saying they had to shower at hotels — while communities still go dry. The conversation moves into crime, Zama Zamas, whether deploying soldiers is extreme or necessary, and whether communities are slowly losing control.The second half gets spicy: gender roles, “house husband” perceptions, interracial dating dynamics, unemployment stigma, and what really defines a “bum” in a relationship.They close it off with a listener dilemma about a biological father wanting back into his child’s life — and the tension that creates in a new household.00:00 Refill stores & cheaper essentials02:36 Episode intro – Season 19 Episode 203:35 Uzuri Online & Standby Auto Repairs plug10:31 Parenting & why phonics matters19:33 Maths homework struggles39:16 SONA recap & water crisis frustration44:54 “Hotel shower” comments & public outrage54:24 Gangs, PAGAD & community safety01:04:23 Zama Zamas & “send the soldiers?” debate01:15:45 Travel stories & airline frustrations01:49:00 Gender roles & interracial dating dynamics01:58:24 What makes someone a “bum”?02:04:06 Attraction, standards & relationship equity02:08:45 Listener dilemma – stepfather vs biological father02:15:53 Boundaries, courts & household alignment02:29:24 How not to approach co-parenting conflict

    45 min
  3. FEB 10

    The Dojo S19E01 – Marrying the Elite | Madlanga Commission ‘Kat’ Cash Saga & Masculinity Debate

    In Season 19, Episode 1, we get into how power really moves: marriage, family ties, and elite networks that keep the same people connected—often from the same schools and circles. Then we shift to the Madlanga Commission / “Kat” money storyline (allegations, receipts, and how influence protects people), before closing with a straight-up conversation about what makes a man, modern gender expectations, and a side-quest into “African Casting” / porn culture and what it says about society.In this episode:00:00:00 – Intro & opening reflections00:01:03 – Marrying into power: why elite relationships compound access00:06:01 – Same schools, same circles: how networks reproduce themselves00:35:24 – The “Kat” money saga & Madlanga Commission thread kicks off00:46:33 – Politics, power, and why institutions struggle to hold elites accountable00:56:06 – “Billionaire mindset”, status, and the way money changes behaviour01:26:40 – “Softest land”: comfort, entitlement, and modern expectations02:02:32 – Masculinity vs feminism: “what makes a man?”02:27:07 – African Casting discussion & porn culture realities02:38:20 – Wrap-up & outroMembers link: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=UUMOuh1jlaqsPnQUCYZ0zGW_rAPatreon link: patreon.com/TheDojoPodcastMonthly donation link: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCuh1jlaqsPnQUCYZ0zGW_rA/join Once off donation link: https://pay.yoco.com/the-dojo-podcast-pty-ltd Merch: https://thedojoapparel.com/collections/allhttps://uzurionline.co.za/pages/seller-profile/the-dojo-apparel

    2h 38m
  4. 12/05/2025

    The Dojo S18E13 – Our Maluti Weekend Unpacked | Camping, Culture & Connectivity

    Season 18, Ep. 13—our year-ender. We unpack a muddy but memorable Lesotho festival weekend: sound issues, rain, vendor wins, cash/airtime drama, and why Bushfire sets a high bar. Then we zoom out—on BE & fronting, corruption incentives, community vs. individual duty, “black tax,” child work vs. responsibility, and what a rite of passage really means today. 00:00 – Cold open & season wrap (“The Dojo”) 00:21 – Why this is the last drop of the year 01:01 – Missed last week & early drop talk 02:05 – Lesotho trip: the good, the rain, the reset 02:56 – Sound engineering & “be ready on Day 1” 03:49 – Stage setup, luggage chaos & planning gaps 04:57 – Rain plans, shelters & the beer garden problem 05:32 – Vendors were the MVPs 06:20 – Headline sponsors, screens & first impressions 06:52 – Pricing vs. Bushfire experience 08:56 – Performing in the rain; unfair to artists 10:25 – Party stage & creating your own vibe 12:20 – Cashless vs. cash-only: airtime, ATMs, and sponsors 15:45 – Why we’ll still go back (and how to fix it) 17:00 – Camping gear, showers & what actually worked 20:30 – Safety, screens outside camps, & network as “core product” 24:50 – Local participation: singers, crews, and fairness 28:55 – Packages & scams—what to verify 33:05 – Politics pivot: testimony, tenders & “nature of the game” 41:00 – BE vs. fronting: the messy middle 49:40 – Who really benefits? Supply chains & ownership 56:00 – “Black tax” reframed: conveyor belt of service 1:04:30 – Child work vs. responsibility: context matters 1:12:40 – Retirement, dignity, and consumerism creep 1:21:50 – Personhood: West vs. African communal lens 1:34:00 – Dual lives, values bleed, and community norms 1:45:30 – Ancestral home and why “opting out” isn’t simple 1:53:00 – Rites, leadership, and accepting the cookies 1:54:10 – Outro

    2h 8m

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Welcome to The Dojo, home to unfiltered conversations, raw opinions and hysterical banter. Join The Sensei and The Archbishop as they unpack Trending Topics, Hip Hop and Life in their quest for true enlightenment.

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