The Sovereign Man Podcast

Nicky Billou
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"A real man is sovereign over his own life. He takes full responsibility for becoming a better man, and owns his own successes and failures. But he also understands the value of being a part of a band of brothers, the kind that have his back, and he can call at 3 AM if he's stuck in a jail cell, because they'll come and get him. He understands that just like a wolf pack, the strength of the pack is the wolf, and the strength of the wolf is the pack." — Nicky Billou Welcome to the Sovereign Man Podcast where we have the conversations that matter to you as a man, and inspire you to become the best version of yourself. You'll learn from the best business, career, financial, relationship, and mans skills experts from around the world. The Sovereign Man Podcast is for motivated men like you who want to win in today's world. We equip you to become better in every area of your life from establishing mastery over yourself, to defining your purpose, strengthening your family and your relationships, becoming a better leader, and learning man skills. Each week I have real, unscripted conversations with real men, successful men, and men who give a darn.

  1. EP251: Jesan Sorrells - 10 Books Every Man Should Read

    6d ago

    EP251: Jesan Sorrells - 10 Books Every Man Should Read

    "Once I could read a book, the whole plethora, the whole vista of things began to open to me." Strong men are not built by information alone. They are shaped by stories, examples, principles, and ideas that challenge them to think and act differently. Reading exposes a man to courage, sacrifice, loyalty, honor, leadership, and responsibility through the experiences of others. The books a man chooses become part of the framework he uses to understand himself, his family, his purpose, and the world around him. When combined with action and meaningful relationships with other men, great books can become powerful tools for personal growth. Many modern books fail to speak to the needs of men. Jesan Sorrells encourages readers to revisit the classics. He explains how works such as the Bible, the Iliad, the Odyssey, Shakespeare, Hemingway, and other foundational texts helped shape his understanding of masculinity, leadership, and human nature. Jesan also discusses the importance of reducing distractions, creating space for reading, and participating in male-only environments where ideas can be tested through conversation and real-world experience. Jesan is a conflict engagement consultant, author, speaker, and host of Leadership Lessons From The Great Books. With a Master's degree in Conflict Resolution and Reconciliation from Abilene Christian University, he works at the intersection of communication, leadership, problem-solving, and real-world conflict. Jesan writes and speaks about social media communication, peacebuilding, entrepreneurship, and preparing for the future while helping leaders navigate increasingly complex relationships. A former rugby player and lifelong reader, he combines lessons from classic literature with practical experience to help men develop stronger character, clearer thinking, and more effective leadership. Learn more & connect: https://about.me/Jesan_Sorrells YouTube @JesanSorrells LinkedIn @jesansorrells Also in this episode: Jesan's Recommended Books * The Bible * The Iliad * The Odyssey * Greek Plays by Sophocles * Oresteia * Julius Caesar * Candide * Ben-Hur: A Tale of the Christ * The Sun Also Rises * True Grit Nicky's Recommended Books * The Eagle Has Landed * The Fountainhead * Anthem * Atlas Shrugged * The Cardinal of the Kremlin * The Hunt for Red October * The White House Years * An American Life * The Twelfth Angel * The Christ Commission You're invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you're there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.

    54 min
  2. EP250: What Is A Men's Overnight, And Why Should You Attend One

    May 27

    EP250: What Is A Men's Overnight, And Why Should You Attend One

    "That's where the growth happens. That's where the barriers get dissolved. And that's where the positive change takes place." Strength is not built only in gyms, business meetings, or during hard seasons of life. Men need spaces where they can step out of routine, remove distractions, and reconnect with deeper masculine principles. Brotherhood creates an environment where honesty becomes easier, masks start coming down, and discomfort becomes something useful instead of something to avoid. Growth often begins where comfort ends. Igor Perett, Larry Cooper, and Jefferson Banks describe overnights as something much more meaningful than a simple getaway with friends. They talk about stepping away from daily battles, dropping the armor, sitting around fires, learning from other men, and confronting blind spots that often stay hidden in everyday life. The focus isn't escape; it's connection, accountability, and facing difficult truths that create lasting change. Perett, Cooper and Banks are active members of the Sovereign Man community who bring practical experience and firsthand insight into masculine brotherhood. Their perspectives reflect the value of creating environments where men challenge one another, support one another, and return to life stronger and more grounded. You're invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you're there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.

    13 min
  3. EP249: Solo - Keep Your Word!

    May 20

    EP249: Solo - Keep Your Word!

    "When I don't keep my word, and I go for the easy way, God notices." Keeping your word is less about reputation and more about identity. Discipline is built in the quiet moments where a man chooses discomfort over convenience and integrity over excuses. The episode explores how every broken promise weakens personal momentum, while every kept promise strengthens confidence, direction, and self-respect. The principle is simple: a strong life is built by becoming someone whose word means something, especially when keeping it costs you.  Sovereign Circle member, Jeff Banks, said something recently that framed integrity in a powerful way. Instead of avoiding short-term pain or inconvenience, he said men should willingly endure pain than condition themselves to be unreliable. Keeping your word is a matter of spiritual alignment, momentum, business success, health, and meaningful relationships. Also in this episode: Banks has more to say on Episode 239 and Episode 244 of SMP. You're invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you're there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.

    7 min
  4. EP248: Tom Pfanner - How Fathers Can Fix Their Broken Relationships With Their Teenage Kids

    May 13

    EP248: Tom Pfanner - How Fathers Can Fix Their Broken Relationships With Their Teenage Kids

    "A young man needs his father as an example of how to be a man. Learning it from social media ain't on. And a young woman needs her father as an example of the type of man she ought to pair bond with and marry." Fatherhood is leadership, not control. Teenagers eventually stop following instructions simply because they're told to. What they continue to follow is strength, consistency, presence, and genuine connection. Sons look closely at whether a father is a man worth respecting and becoming like. Daughters pay attention to whether they are truly heard, understood, and emotionally safe around him. When fathers stop listening, stop leading themselves, or become distracted by work, stress, or technology, the relationship slowly weakens. Repair starts when a man takes ownership of his role and becomes willing to evolve instead of simply demanding obedience. Tom Pfanner shares the deeply personal story of losing connection with his teenage son and realizing that "the only person left to change was me." He explains how rebuilding the relationship required faith, self-reflection, consistency, and a completely different approach to leadership. Tom breaks down the difference between "action respect" and "connection respect," why young men need fathers they admire, and why daughters need fathers who genuinely know their story. The conversation also explores masculinity, social media influence, and the growing absence of intentional fatherhood in modern culture. Tom is the founder of Dads Who Lead and author of Dads Who Lead: The Ultimate Guide to Stop Parenting and Start Leading. A former middle and high school PE teacher, strength coach, martial artist, and mentor, Tom now helps fathers strengthen broken relationships with their children through leadership, faith, and intentional presence.  Learn more & connect: Take Tom's free leadership quiz at https://dadswholead.com/. YouTube: @TheLeadershipDad You're invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you're there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.

    34 min
  5. EP247: Joseph Riggio - Can You Take A Punch

    May 6

    EP247: Joseph Riggio - Can You Take A Punch

    "The first time, it's shocking. By the third time, it's interesting. By the 10th time, they're looking forward to it because they feel like they're now engaging, and they're ready to hit back." Strength isn't about avoiding pressure—it's about meeting it head-on and staying intact. A man's ability to take a punch, whether physical, emotional, or psychological, becomes the proving ground for his integrity. When identity is clear and internally aligned, decisions become decisive and grounded. When it's not, hesitation and confusion take over. Masculine strength, in this sense, is less about dominance and more about stability—the capacity to hold your ground without losing yourself. Joseph Riggio expands this through lived experience. From combat training to high-stakes decision-making, he shows how men rediscover their edge by stepping into discomfort. Taking a hit becomes a catalyst. What once felt threatening becomes engaging, even energizing. He challenges men to confront what irritates or unsettles them—not as a weakness, but as a doorway to unrealized strength. Through this process, men sharpen their instincts, rebuild confidence, and begin to operate with clarity again. Joseph is a neuroscientist, decision-making expert, and martial artist who works with high-level performers navigating internal instability. His work focuses on "unmasking"—helping individuals break free from societal constraints, reconnect with their true nature, and fully express their highest potential in life, leadership, and relationships. Learn more & connect: https://josephriggio.com/ IG: @jsriggio YT: @JosephRiggioLive FB: @joseph.riggio Also in this episode: Book: Willing Accomplices by Kent Clizbe You're invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you're there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.

    48 min
  6. EP246: Abteen Vaziri - Why Iranian Men Are Masculine

    Apr 29

    EP246: Abteen Vaziri - Why Iranian Men Are Masculine

    "We don't need a future generation of weak men in this world. We need monsters who are gentlemen who know how to control that monster inside of them and be a good person." Strength is not just about muscles or loud words. It starts with courage, loyalty, and the willingness to stand for what is right when it costs something. Men protect others, carry responsibility, and stay steady under pressure. They control aggression rather than being controlled by it. A strong man is dangerous when necessary, but disciplined by choice. Abteen Vaziri connects masculinity to history, hardship, and cultural memory. He speaks about men who protect family, defend community, and refuse cowardice when challenged. He argues that modern society often rewards softness while real leadership still requires toughness, sacrifice, and moral clarity. He also stresses that strength without character is useless, and that men should be both capable and principled. Abteen is an Iranian-American investor, attorney, and commentator. He is Managing Director at Brevet Capital Management, overseeing real estate and immigration investment funds, and serves on the board of Braemar Hotels & Resorts. Educated in computer science, finance, and law, he often speaks on freedom, leadership, and cultural strength, shaped by his family's escape from post-revolution Iran. Learn more & connect: https://www.linkedin.com/in/abteenvaziri/ https://www.abteenvaziri.com/meet-abteen Also in this episode: Jordan Peterson Ernest Hemingway Donald Trump Reza Pahlavi You're invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you're there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.

    35 min
  7. EP245: David Savage - The Savage Path

    Apr 22

    EP245: David Savage - The Savage Path

    "A lot of young men today have never been taken fishing." Masculinity isn't something you're handed—it's something you build through responsibility, discipline, and lived experience. When men lack guidance, structure, or challenge, they don't become free—they become uncertain. Strength comes from learning real-world skills, facing adversity, and developing the ability to think clearly and act decisively. Without this foundation, men drift—disconnected from purpose, truth, and identity. David Savage brings a grounded, experience-driven perspective shaped by competition, mentorship, and real-life responsibility. He highlights how many men today were never taught how to lose, adapt, or lead—and how that gap shows up in confidence and resilience. From survival skills to public speaking to embracing failure, his message is simple: capability builds confidence. He also emphasizes brotherhood—spaces where men can challenge, support, and sharpen each other, creating the kind of accountability that drives real growth. David is a writer, podcaster, and speaker focused on guiding men toward authentic leadership and meaningful living. Raised in an Air Force family in West Texas, he became an Eagle Scout with bronze, silver, and gold palms and later led high-adventure programs and backpacking expeditions. His career in engineering and global business built a foundation in leadership and relationships, while his background in speaking and even comedy sharpened his ability to connect. Today, he continues this work through men's ministries, retreats, and his book The Savage Path, helping men rebuild strength, purpose, and direction. Learn more & connect: Book: The Savage Path: A Memoir of Modern Masculinity https://a.co/d/078Xavmh David's website: https://thesavagepath.com/ Also in this episode: Book: The Puzzle Palace https://a.co/d/0j7cwE0n Book: The Ultra Secret Book: Witness You're invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you're there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.

    41 min
  8. EP244: ABC Home Team Podcast Panel with Arpa, Banks, and Cooper

    Apr 15

    EP244: ABC Home Team Podcast Panel with Arpa, Banks, and Cooper

    "The men are going to tell you the ugly truth… so he can see what the truth is and then make an educated decision and be put into action rather than just shit talk." A lot of men go through life trying to figure things out on their own—and it usually doesn't work that well. A men's group gives you something most men don't have: other men who will actually tell you the truth. Not to tear you down, but to help you see where you're off and what needs to change. It's not about sitting around venting or getting comfort. It's about being challenged, getting clear on your standards, and actually following through. When you've got other men in your corner who won't let you slide, things start to shift fast. Rob Arpa, Larry Cooper, and Jeff Banks all hit this from different angles, but they land in the same place. You need other men. Larry talks about how much you can learn just by being around men with more experience. Jeff brings up that feeling of having an "invisible army" behind you—knowing you're not doing life solo anymore. And Arpa keeps it grounded in standards and behavior. It's not about what you say you want—it's about what you actually do. That's where the group comes in. They close the gap. All three are members of the Sovereign Circle, bringing years of experience in business, leadership, and personal development. Their work is focused on helping men raise their standards, take ownership of their lives, and show up better—in their work, their relationships, and for themselves. You're invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you're there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.

    44 min
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"A real man is sovereign over his own life. He takes full responsibility for becoming a better man, and owns his own successes and failures. But he also understands the value of being a part of a band of brothers, the kind that have his back, and he can call at 3 AM if he's stuck in a jail cell, because they'll come and get him. He understands that just like a wolf pack, the strength of the pack is the wolf, and the strength of the wolf is the pack." — Nicky Billou Welcome to the Sovereign Man Podcast where we have the conversations that matter to you as a man, and inspire you to become the best version of yourself. You'll learn from the best business, career, financial, relationship, and mans skills experts from around the world. The Sovereign Man Podcast is for motivated men like you who want to win in today's world. We equip you to become better in every area of your life from establishing mastery over yourself, to defining your purpose, strengthening your family and your relationships, becoming a better leader, and learning man skills. Each week I have real, unscripted conversations with real men, successful men, and men who give a darn.

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