The Manspace

Dr. Matt Brown

A podcast for men who want to understand and improve themselves and their relationships, hosted by Dr. Matt Brown and Dr. Rob Porter and clinical therapist Mike Porter.

  1. MAY 13

    Why Don't I Enjoy the Things I Used To?

    Send us Fan Mail Spacemen, have you ever lost interest in some of your favorite things? Ever wonder why? Is it boredom? Maybe you've become boring? Maybe it's the meds you're taking? I don't know. Geez. We barely even know each other. But we'll still try to help you figure it out.  Keywords mindfulness, medication, hobbies, humor, relationships, self-awareness, mental health, emotional regulation, personal growth Key Topics The effect of mindfulness and medication on hobbies and interestsHow humor and social interactions are influenced by mental statesThe role of mindfulness in relationships and emotional expression Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview 02:41 Reflections on Relationships and Past Experiences 05:44 The Impact of Fame and Wealth on Actors 08:38 Selling Out: The Ethics of Compromise 11:39 Mindfulness and Changing Interests 16:04 Mindfulness vs. Medication: A Deep Dive 18:41 The Role of Humor in Coping Strategies 21:30 Exploring the Impact of Mindfulness on Desires 24:29 Letting Go: The Transformative Power of Meditation 27:47 Reevaluating Relationships: Purpose and Values 30:45 Building Meaningful Connections: Humor, Sex, and Soda 41:59 IntroSHORT.mp4 Resources The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle - https://www.amazon.com/dp/1577314808 Mindfulness Meditation Resources - https://www.mindful.org/ Understanding Medication and Mental Health - https://www.psychiatry.org/patients-families/medication Spread the word! The Manspace is Rad!!

    42 min
  2. APR 22

    Is It Okay To Correct My Friend's Parenting?

    Send us Fan Mail Spacemen, this is sort of a will-they / won't they episode. Except, should I / shouldn't I. Should you correct your friend's parenting? No. Don't be rude. Maybe see how hard they want to be good parents. And stop thinking you're so good at it. Keywords parenting, Star Wars, empathy, judgment, storytelling, therapy, parenting advice, pop culture, discussion, mental models Key Topics Parenting styles and their outcomesThe influence of childhood experiences on adult opinionsWhen and how to give helpful advice without judgment Sound Bites "Reframing creates space for helpfulness.""Judgment rarely leads to helpfulness.""Keep your advice brief and context-aware." Chapters 00:00 Star Wars: A Generational Perspective 04:49 The Canon Debate: Understanding Star Wars Lore 05:50 Critiquing Star Wars: Bad Writing or Nostalgic Enjoyment? 07:31 The Influence of Joseph Campbell on Star Wars 09:31 Directing Styles: One Take vs. Multiple Takes 13:36 Star Wars: A Love-Hate Relationship 13:45 Listener Engagement and Podcast Dynamics 20:18 The Right Way to Parent? 24:21 Judgment in Parenting 27:56 Context Matters in Parenting 33:27 Understanding Parental Stress 37:50 Empathy in Parenting Discussions Resources Star Wars Movies - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Star_Wars_series Joseph Campbell's Hero with a Thousand Faces - https://www.amazon.com/Hero-Thousand-Faces-Joseph-Campbell/dp/1577315936 The Mandalorian (Disney+) - https://www.disneyplus.com/series/the-mandalorian/3jLIGMDYINqD Andor (Disney+) - https://www.disneyplus.com/series/andor/3jLIGMDYINqD The Day of Disclosure Documentary - https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1234567/ Spread the word! The Manspace is Rad!!

    47 min
  3. APR 16

    How Can I Be More Mindful?

    Send us Fan Mail Namaste again, spacemen. Come center yourself in the lotus position and mindfully take in all that The ManSpace has to offer. Actually, don't do that. Mindfulness isn't only about sitting lotus and chanting. It's about learning to be present and being intentional about what you're doing. Maybe intentionally listen to this episode and then intentionally share it with your friends.  Keywords mindfulness, meditation, presence, daily life, Thich Nhat Hanh, mental health, simplicity, awareness, stress reduction, living in the moment Key Topics The essence of mindfulness and its impact on lifePractical tips for practicing mindfulness dailyThe role of awareness and non-judgment in mindfulness Takeaways Mindfulness is surprisingly simple but powerful.Slowing down enhances appreciation and reduces stress.Being present in mundane tasks increases life satisfaction. Sound Bites "When you burn them, they scream.""You're my time.""Pick a task and do it half speed." Chapters 00:00 Mindfulness and Awareness in Podcasting 01:18 Nature Observations: Spiders and Love Bugs 04:04 Cockroach Chronicles: A Personal Experience 06:18 TV Show Recommendations: Humor in Norseman 07:43 Exploring Book Choices: Shifting from Formality 09:58 Self-Help Books: A Critical Perspective 13:35 The Miracle of Mindfulness: An Introduction 13:42 The Simplicity of Mindfulness 15:08 Experiencing Life Fully 18:15 The Philosophy of Mindfulness 20:14 Finding Value in the Present Moment 22:36 The Miracle of Being Present 24:16 Mindfulness in Everyday Tasks 27:03 Slowing Down to Experience Life 31:18 Engaging Fully in Conversations 34:11 Making Every Moment Meaningful 40:32 Recognizing Choices in Time Management 41:48 Slowing Down for Clarity 45:08 Awareness Without Judgment Resources The Miracle of Mindfulness by Thich Nhat Hanh - https://www.amazon.com/dp/0807012394 10% Happier App - https://www.tenpercent.com/ Spread the word! The Manspace is Rad!!

    47 min
  4. APR 8

    How Do I Communicate Directly?

    Send us Fan Mail Spacemen, we need to be better communicators. So, on today's episode, we tell you have to be more direct in your communication. Listen in and learn. How's that for direct?  Keywords direct communication, conflict resolution, emotional intelligence, interpersonal skills, assertiveness, vulnerability, effective requests, communication tips Key  Topics Barriers to direct communicationThe difference between blunt and directVulnerabilities and emotional signalsMaking clear requests and setting boundariesHandling rejection and disagreement Sound Bites "Make clear requests, not vague hints" "Break the cycle of defensiveness" "Ask yourself, what am I afraid of?" Chapters 00:00 The Importance of Clarity in Communication 00:30 Navigating Door-to-Door Sales Experiences 03:19 The Challenges of Direct Communication 07:25 Understanding Vulnerability in Communication 11:03 Confrontation vs. Directness 15:20 The Importance of Acknowledging Vulnerabilities 24:46 The Process of Direct Communication 26:31 Making Clear Requests 30:53 Tips for Effective Direct Communication Resources Nonviolent Communication by Marshall B. Rosenberg - https://www.amazon.com/Nonviolent-Communication-Language-Connect-Heart/dp/1892005034 Crucial Conversations by Al Switzler, Joseph Grenny, Ron McMillan - https://www.amazon.com/Crucial-Conversations-Talking-Stakes-Second/dp/0071771328 The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz - https://www.amazon.com/Four-Agreements-Practical-Personal-Freedom/dp/1878424319 Vulnerability Cycle Concept - https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-moment-youth/201911/the-vulnerability-cycle Effective Requests Tips - https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/communication-success/201911/how-make-effective-requests Spread the word! The Manspace is Rad!!

    42 min
  5. APR 1

    Ten Controversial Opinions about Relationships

    Send us Fan Mail Spacemen, prepare to get controverted. Well, not really. In fact, I'm not even sure that's a word--or at least a word that can be used in this context. It didn't show up as misspelled, which seems to imply it's a word. Anyway, on today's show, we talk about 10 opinions from Mark Manson. To be honest, I don't find them that controversial, but I can see how they might be to some. I guess you'll have to listen in and see if you agree. And make sure you listen for our Tri-Tip at the end. It was almost a fork.  Keywords relationships, love, marriage, relationship advice, controversial truths, long-term love, relationship myths, communication, personal growth Key  topics Controversial relationship truths Misconceptions about love and marriage Managing unresolved issues in long-term relationships Sound bites "Healthy love feels boring, but that's okay." "Look for principles, not exact words." "Focus on understanding, not just fixing." Chapters 00:00 Nostalgia for Comedy 01:14 Cinematic Discussions 03:43 Humor in Therapy 05:23 The Reality of Relationships 07:36 Controversial Truths in Love 15:28 Attraction and Relationship Dynamics 17:03 The Nature of Healthy Love 21:52 Judging Partner Behavior 24:24 The Common Denominator in Relationships 28:43 Self-Reflection in Relationships 32:02 Challenging Cultural Norms 38:37 Engaging in Relationship Conversations   Resources Mark Manson - The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01N7Q0K7Q Spread the word! The Manspace is Rad!!

    43 min
5
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39 Ratings

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A podcast for men who want to understand and improve themselves and their relationships, hosted by Dr. Matt Brown and Dr. Rob Porter and clinical therapist Mike Porter.

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